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Chapter 93 Humor
It's just that sometimes people's minds can't be controlled by themselves, but there are people on the other side, so they don't want to neglect others, and the pictures in people's minds are always fleeting.

I can't stand such a big storm, unless I love someone deeply, even if I love someone deeply, time will dilute a little, and what is left may be true mutual gratitude, thank the other party for teaching me to grow.

There is no such saying that people always grow from their predecessors and always learn.

She is really satisfied with Yang Jinhua. The two of them chatted until now, and there are really many topics to talk about. She likes literature and history, which is very rich, and Yang Jinhua seems to love literature and history too.

From time to time, he chatted about some anecdotes about literature and history, which was humorous. The most satisfying point was that he never looked at his mobile phone. When the two of them met for the first time, Yang Jinhua kept looking at her, and she didn't even notice that Yang Jinhua was carrying a mobile phone. Yet?I only saw him take it out when paying the bill, and it was the same this time, always taking it out when paying the bill.

Sometimes blind dates can really make people feel awkward. Two people don't have so much to say, or don't have the desire to talk, but they have to sit at the same dinner table, which is a kind of torture for anyone.

It's not that you can really meet a man who is as beautiful as a flower. Sometimes if you don't have a common topic, you don't have a common topic. Even if you are a social expert, it may be difficult to do it.

Besides, is it really that important whether two people have a common topic sometimes?Compared with common topics, it is more about whether two people love each other more?

She also understands some things. Basically, it can be done. Either men love women more, or women love men more. Maybe there are two people who love each other, but she feels very little, anyway, she is like this Felt.

The chat was carried out in a pleasant atmosphere, and she couldn't believe that she and Yang Jinhua could chat for so long, as if neither of them had any embarrassing or cold moments.

Yang Jinhua must be a good talker, but in fact Liu Shanshan is not confident, like everyone says she is a big beauty, but she doesn't seem to feel it.

After dinner, Yang Jinhua drove her to the Big Wild Goose Pagoda again. The Big Wild Goose Pagoda was really bustling at night, but Yang Jinhua had entertainment at night, so the two of them could only date during the day.

During the conversation, she knew that Yang Jinhua didn't smoke or drink, which made her very happy. She had always wanted to find someone who didn't smoke or drink, and her affection for Yang Jinhua was constantly deepening, but at the same time, she felt that how should she dress up? Dress up, the handsome man in front of him naturally likes people with exquisite makeup.

If one day Yang Jinhua opened his mouth to say that he liked her, she would even be a little at a loss. People who are too good always make people feel dazzling. She is so ordinary, why does this handsome man like her?
But in fact, in the eyes of many people, she is not ordinary at all, she belongs to the kind of Bai Fumei who came out of a scholarly family in the true sense, the real thing at a fair price.Out of the mud but not stained, clean ripples but not demon.

But she doesn't care about Bai Fumei. She thinks that the most important thing for two people is to communicate. Marriage requires courage, and even more detailed pictures, that is, when to meet the parents of both parties, get engaged, and whether to live together before marriage. These must take a process. How can it be settled after meeting once or twice?
But she sometimes wonders, how does a man express his love?money?energy?Maybe it’s still the famous saying that companionship is the longest confession of love, maybe it has to be added that the companionship of meeting in reality is the longest confession of love, but it’s not reliable, if you like it, you should say it out loud, otherwise it’s very easy to miss.

But what about a woman?Where is the woman's contribution?It’s actually a process of getting to know each other when a guy invites you to dinner and play on a date, and it seems like he doesn’t know much about it, and he doesn’t get involved in particularly deep topics. He talks about romantic things, but life is not romantic after all, how can there be so many things? Romance and surprise.

But she thinks she is happy. Maybe this is what a girl can give a boy. If she is a boy, well-dressed, and smiles for a beautiful woman, then naturally she hopes that the girl can make him happy and happy. of.

After all, whoever spends money to treat guests and socialize is basically willing to be comfortable and happy, and speaks softly, without airs, thinks more about the other party, knows a lot, says what should be said, and does not say what should not be said, and looks very textured.

It's like it's not a couple relationship now, but you can treat each other as a couple and enter a couple state. Although you don't need to kiss or hold hands, it can be very sweet.

At least you can make the other party feel your happiness, and happiness can also infect the other party. Besides, sometimes a woman can't make the other party feel happy. In fact, it is really painful. Maybe two people are not suitable.

Sometimes it’s just the same thing when dealing with boys, put on a bright smile, speak softly, think about each other more, wear a mask, in fact, it’s more than just a blind date, isn’t it the same in the work unit?
After all, no one likes to see someone with a stinky face. Even if you are not beautiful or happy in your heart, will the people in the unit care about you?Many emotions still have to be digested by themselves, so that interpersonal relationships are easy to get along with. She has only gradually realized it recently. After all, people live with masks, so that they can be measured and polite.

But she was really happy, she thought Yang Jinhua was also very happy, didn't she say that sneezing and coughing can't be faked?In fact, it's not very good to fake a smile. Besides, isn't it nice to be happy?The two of them talked and laughed along the way, and Yang Jinhua was also very caring, so he bought some tea and snacks, so she could chat and eat while walking.

The street scene of the Big Wild Goose Pagoda is bustling. Although both of them ate some, Yang Jinhua would still buy some delicacies for her. Sometimes Yang Jinhua wanted to buy her some accessories and gadgets she liked.

But she refused. She didn't want to get too involved in money matters with anyone. After all, the two are not in a relationship. Besides, couples don't necessarily have to spend money from each other, but it also depends on how far it is related?
If she met her parents and got engaged, then basically she wouldn't care so much. Besides, the distribution and consumption of spending money will also be a problem in the future, so this intimate relationship can probably be seen that it is necessary to find a partner who is compatible with her now. How difficult is it?
Besides, some things, a dogmatic girl like her, is just so passive. Women are sometimes passive in certain things. Even if they take the initiative, it is useless. This is determined by the physiological structure of men and women. Besides, the survival of the fittest has been determined by genetic evolution long ago, and there is no way to believe it.

So for her, to find a partner, she has to find someone who knows more than her and can take her with her, so that she won't feel too tired, and there will be very few things after marriage.

(End of this chapter)