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Chapter 126 A 38-Year-Old Girl
In life, a woman who is close to 40 years old, what should we call her?Children would call her Auntie, young people would call her Sister or Eldest Sister, people older than her would call her by her first name directly, and if she had a job, she might be called by her job title.

At what age does a woman cease to be a girl?There doesn't seem to be a fixed standard.But by any standard, if a woman who is approaching 40 and has children in elementary school still thinks she is a girl, and a little girl at that, people will probably think that there is something wrong with her self-perception.

However, I was lucky enough to meet such a girl: Ms. C.

How old is Ms. C?38 years old.Her child is seven years old and is in the first grade of elementary school. He is excellent in character and learning.

She is the wife of a middle-aged man and the mother of a primary school student.But at the same time, she was a girl, a very lovely girl.

In China, when the elders say the age of the children in the family, they are used to using imaginary years.Therefore, most people are also used to using false years when they were young, and some people will deliberately increase their age to make themselves appear more mature and not be looked down upon by older children.

When I was young, I wanted to grow up quickly, but I really grew up, but I was afraid of getting old.Most women (including some men) will be more taboo to talk about their age after reaching a certain stage of life.

The exact age of this stage varies from person to person, 25, 30, 35...all are possible.When people ask their ages, she will avoid talking about them, or say their full age, instead of saying false age like when they were young.

However, Ms. C has never shy away from her age, just like when she was a child, when talking about her age, she does not say her full age, but uses false years, and even deliberately adds two years, saying that she is 40 years old, as if she thinks she is older. Too slow, looking forward to growing up quickly.

Ms. C has a pair of bright and big eyes, just like a female writer wrote, her vision is like the clearest crystal.When she talks, you can see twinkling little stars in her eyes, which makes people feel very kind when they see her, and a sense of trust will be generated unconsciously.

A 38-year-old woman—and it can be older, such as in her 40s, 50s, or even 60s—can't be a girl?
It is true that in the general sense of the word girl, it refers to young women, especially unmarried young women.A 38-year-old woman, age alone, is already excluded from girls.

In our real life, regardless of men and women, some people have an old look because of their appearance, and they look much older than their actual age. It seems that they are no longer in their teens or even younger. It's a child.

There are also people who are just the opposite. They have a small appearance and a particularly small appearance. They still look young when they are in their 30s or even older.Some film and television stars still play roles in their 40s, 19s, or [-]s at such an age, and people don't find it unnatural.For example, when Zhou Xun played the [-]-year-old Jiuer when he was [-] years old, he received wide acclaim.

Ms. C belongs to the category that looks very small.If you didn't know her age, you might think she was under 30.But if you think "looking small" is why she considers herself a girl, you're wrong.

If "looking small" is a reason, it is only a secondary reason, not the main reason.

What kind of woman is Ms. C?In our lives, there are many people whose hearts are flat, as thin as a piece of paper, which will break when touched. Ms. C is not like this, she has many "sides" in her heart.She is a particularly rich and three-dimensional person, and every "face" emits bright but not dazzling light.

Ms. C is a tiger. When she was in kindergarten, she ran away from home and walked dozens of miles to her grandmother's house without getting lost.Today, she is still a tiger.

Ms. C was very mischievous. Once in a meeting in the unit, she lowered her head. When she raised her head, the leader who was speaking on the rostrum couldn't help laughing, because he saw that Ms. C's two big eyes turned into cross-eyed.

Ms. C loves to read, she reads during the day and at night, whenever she has free time.Literature, history, philosophy, sociology, psychology... She reads all kinds of books.Her life is particularly fulfilling.

Ms. C is very virtuous. She gets up early every day to cook, takes her children to exercise outdoors, sends them to school, and studies with them at night.Everything in the house is in order, not a single speck of dust can be found on the table or on the ground.

Ms. C does not follow dramas, but watches sports games.She would go crazy for a handsome athlete, even after many years, his identity has changed from a player to a coach.

Ms. C is very smart. She thinks a lot about life, and often says some thought-provoking words, which makes those who come into contact with her feel like a spring breeze.

Ms. C does laundry every day, and she says she has a cleanliness freak.I say this is not cleanliness, but that a clean mind cannot see dust on clothes.

Ms. C has many friends, but very few who really know her well.

May I ask where Ms. C is from? C is the first letter of China.

Do you want to ask where Ms. C works?She can do most of the jobs in the world. Although she may not be very good, she must be very responsible.

Ms. C will also grow old, and she is also afraid that the passage of time will take away her youth, so she wants to live every day well and not let every minute slip away.

Ms. C is a virtuous and intelligent person with a young girl's heart.This girlish heart makes her always be a girl.

In "A Dream of Red Mansions", Jia Baoyu's evaluation of girls and married women is completely different.In his view, an unmarried girl is a priceless treasure, and once married, she becomes more hateful than a man.

Unmarried and married are just different life stages of a woman. Why is there such a big contrast in Jia Baoyu's evaluation?The most important reason, I am afraid, is not the marriage itself, but that this woman has lost the original pure and lovely aura of a girl, so she is no longer a girl.

This is not the case for Ms. C. Even if Jia Baoyu met her, he would definitely admit that she is still a girl at the age of 38.It is lucky and happy to meet a girl like Ms. C.If the heavens are merciful, let me be fortunate enough to be a partner with such a woman, I will regard it as a treasure and protect her for the rest of my life.

Ms. C is a real person, and her existence proves that the beauty of the heart is as important as the beauty of the outside.When your heart is good enough, even if your appearance is not beautiful, it will radiate the brilliance of wisdom.

Ms. C is a fictitious person again, she can be any woman, she can be not 38 years old, but 48 years old, 58 years old, 68 years old... Ms. C can even be a man.She said: A man who loves reading is the most handsome.

　does ms c really exist

　　
　
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