Your order of love has been delivered

Chapter 182
Chen Sizhong:

The relationship between the two of us has come to the present point, which is the result of accumulation over time. The conflict didn't just happen this year, it just broke out recently.Marriage problems must be caused by two people. My decision to divorce is also the result of careful consideration, and there is no possibility of changing it.

The reason why I sent you this long message is not because I still have any feelings for you, but because you keep calling me, sending messages, and coming to my unit every day. You think it is love, But I just think that's harassment.I want to explain to you why I want a divorce.

First, you think you love me very much, but I don't feel love.I know you must say that you have worked so hard for this family, you have done this and that.But have you ever asked me what was on my mind?Have you respected my emotions?

Have you ever thought about how I feel when you use violence against me again and again?I tell you: life is better than death!If you regard violence as love, I really don't know how to describe you.

I can even tell you that you don't know me at all.I used to think I knew you, but now I don't think I know you either.You only have yourself in your heart, and your so-called love for me is actually just loving yourself.

If you think that you have never been wrong, and I am the one who is wrong, that is great, since I am so bad, we divorce, and you find another one, wouldn't it be better?If you think you are wrong, you think I am a good woman, then I am even more sorry, I have given you a chance to correct your mistakes, but my patience has a limit, my limit has been broken, broken many times , there is no possibility of repair.

Stop saying that you love me, you will correct your mistakes, and tell others.Even today, don't you understand?Our marriage was a mistake from the very beginning, a complete mistake. I can't understand you, and you can't understand me.It's a miracle that our marriage can last for so many years, you know?
Looking back, I don't know how I survived all these years!If you love me, then please let me go!If you don't love me and we happen to be divorced, you go find someone you love.Don't kidnap me in the name of love, it will only make me hate you more!

Second, don't force me to use children's affairs.I know, you must say again that children need to have a complete family and be with their biological parents, so that they can grow up healthily.Let me tell you, the reason why I didn't resolutely divorce you before was because I considered my child's feelings.

But now, I realize I was wrong.Biological parents are indeed important, but a happy and happy native family is beneficial to the growth of children, and a conflict-filled native family will only bring greater harm to the growth of children.

When it comes to the importance of family to children, I have more say than you. I have read a lot of books and know many such cases, but you don’t understand it at all, it’s just hearsay.What you said means nothing to our marriage.

If you really love children, don't use them as bargaining chips to blackmail me.It's useless even if you threaten me, because I've already made up my mind to get a divorce.If you feel that you can take good care of the child and it is more beneficial for him to grow up with you, then well, then give you the custody right, and we will divorce.For children, a single-parent family is far better than a miserable marriage.

It's not that I don't love children, it's that this marriage makes me despair.I want to sever our marriage, not my relationship with my children.After the divorce, you are still the father of the child, and I am the mother of the child, and the child has not lost its parents.Whoever has custody of the child, I will love him as much as ever.

Third, I didn't get divorced to be with any other man.You said that I divorced you to be with Gao Shiyuan.Let me tell you, he and I used to work in the senior vocational department of Weicheng Modern Vocational College. If we want to be together, will I still transfer jobs?

Also, over the years, you have always mistrusted me and suspected me of cheating, I don't want to explain.The problems in our marriage are our own responsibility and have nothing to do with anyone else!Since you think I'm such a wretch, why do you hold on to me?We are divorced, wouldn't it be better for you to find an innocent woman?

We have lived together for so many years, and you actually look at me like this and insult me ​​in front of so many teachers and students, which makes me see your true person even more clearly.It's impossible for me to turn back!
Don't think that I'm a thin woman and I'm at your mercy.I am a living person, a person with dignity and personality. If you trample on my dignity like this, if I still forgive you, then I am not alone!
This is my final reply to you. Don't call me or send me WeChat to harass me. I won't answer, read or reply.Don't come to me again, it will only make me hate and hate you more!
If you still have a little compassion for me and a little real affection for me, then agree to divorce.If you don't agree, you're going to drag me down and make me feel uncomfortable. I'm sorry, I don't feel bad anymore, because I have already let go of this wrong marriage.

If you don't agree to the divorce, you are forcing me to file a lawsuit with you and sue for divorce. Do we really want to meet in court?Do you think that is a glorious thing?Is that any good for the kids and you and my family?I don't want to sue for divorce, but if you force me like this, I can only sue.

Of course, when it comes to court, you can still insist on not getting a divorce, just to drag me down, but what good will this do for you, me, and the children?Even if the court ruled that we should not get a divorce when I sued for the first time, but a year later, I will sue again, and the court will definitely decide to divorce, which has a clear legal basis.If you don't believe it, you can go to the marriage law, you can consult a lawyer.

No matter what you say, no matter what you do, I must leave this marriage.Don't tell me again, you will die if we divorce.Life or death is your own business and has nothing to do with me.

Everyone is only responsible for their own life, and I want to divorce you just to be able to live.When you talk about death, please think about your parents first.Threatened with death at every turn, you are not even as good as a weak woman!This will only make me look down on you even more!

Again, this is the last time I reply to you on WeChat, don't send me any more messages, I won't read it, let alone reply.The only news I want to see is that you agree to divorce.Also don't come to me again, if you come, please tell me that you agree to divorce.

Divorce by agreement is the best choice. Before I sue, we still have time to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to apply for a divorce certificate.

Cheng Fangyu

　What would Cheng Fangyu's husband do when he saw these words?
　　
　
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