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Chapter 72 The Family of Origin
After talking about his own affairs, Gao Shiyuan remembered what Sun Feifei said about the Er Qiao sisters inviting Song Daren to dinner, so he said to Song Daren: "Daren, Feifei Sun said, you went to them for a big meal yesterday, it was Da Qiao and Xiao Joe invited you, is that the case?"

Song Daren didn't want to talk about it at first, but now that Gao Shiyuan asked about it, he couldn't hide it anymore, so he had to say, "I went to have a meal, and Qiao Meng and Qiao Yu made it themselves."

"Why did the two of them invite you to dinner, or cook for themselves, there must be something in it." Yan Chaoran said to Song Daren.

"To be honest, I'm still at a loss as to why they invited me to dinner," Song Daren said.

"What did they both tell you?" Gao Shiyuan asked Song Daren.

"They first asked about my job, income, family, etc., and then said they would introduce me to a girlfriend." Song Daren said.

"It turns out that the two of them are going to be matchmakers. However, this is a good thing. What kind of girlfriend did the two of them introduce to you?" Yan Chaoran said with a smile.

"I want to introduce one, but I haven't introduced it yet. They said they would keep an eye out for me, and if there is a suitable one, they will introduce it to me." Song Daren said.

"It's unreasonable. They will help you pay attention and introduce you to a girlfriend. It should be you who invite them to dinner. Why are they rushing to cook for you?" Yan Chaoran said .

"That's why I find it strange, I can't figure it out." Song Daren said.

"I think the most reasonable explanation is that they already have someone to introduce you to, and that girl has an extraordinary relationship with them," Gao Shiyuan said.

"Then why didn't they say who it was?" Song Daren said.

"Maybe they felt that the timing was wrong, or they changed their minds temporarily. Do you remember what I said last time when I had my hair cut? I suspect that the girlfriend that Da Qiao and Xiao Qiao are going to introduce to you is one of them." Gao Shiyuan said .

"Is this impossible? I don't know them at all, and I only met at that haircut." Song Daren said.

Yan Chaoran also felt that Gao Shiyuan's words were relatively reasonable, so he said to Song Daren: "Daren, don't deny it, I think what Shiyuan said has some truth. Sisters Qiao Meng and Qiao Yu are looking for a male What are the criteria for a friend? The most important one is being able to tell them apart quickly.

You must have surprised them both by distinguishing them clearly the first time you saw them.It's quite possible that they will look at you differently because of surprise, and then develop feelings for you. "

Gao Shiyuan has always wanted to match Song Daren and one of the two Qiao sisters, and when he heard that Yan Chaoran also supported him, he said to Song Daren: "Big Qiao and Xiao Qiao are both good girls, which one do you like?"

"I can't say whether I like them or not. I know too little about them." Song Daren said.

"If Qiao Meng or Qiao Yu likes you, I think you should think about it, especially Qiao Meng." Gao Shiyuan said.

"I feel the same way. Qiao Yu is a little willful, and Qiao Meng should be more gentle." Yan Chaoran said.

For things that haven't happened, there is no result of discussion, and the dialogue ends without a problem.

The three of them went back to their own bedrooms at [-]:[-]pm.

As soon as he returned to the room, Gao Shiyuan sent a message to Sister Tuanzi: "Sister Tuanzi, what are you doing, are you reading?"

"I'm listening to a book, have you met that girl today?" Sister Tuanzi replied quickly.

"See you, we also talked a lot at the buffet we ate together at night."

"Have you made a one-year contract?"

"I mentioned it, and she accepted it."

"That's fine."

"She usually dresses very neutrally, but today she straightened her hair and wore a dress, looking like a girl."

"Well, she should have dressed up like this on purpose to arouse your favor."

"It should be like this. I always thought that she was a carefree girl with no secrets in her heart. Recently, I discovered that this is not the case. She may have a huge secret in her heart."

"What kind of secret?"

"I don't know, she won't say. It should be related to her family. It seems that her parents have caused her so much harm that she doesn't want to mention them. She dresses herself up like a tomboy , it may not be entirely due to the character, or it may be to hide the fragility deep inside."

"It is very likely that childhood experiences will subtly affect a person's character, and even cause tragedies in life. There must be serious problems in the girl's original family, which makes her feel that the home is not warm at all, and wants to Get out of there."

"Your analysis is quite correct."

"This also further shows how important a complete and happy native family is to the growth of children. It is for this reason that I work hard to maintain my marriage."

"But, Sister Tuanzi, although your marriage is complete, it is not happy. Is such a family of origin beneficial or harmful to the growth of the child?"

For more than a minute, Gao Shiyuan saw "the other party is typing" on his mobile phone.He thought that Sister Tuanzi had typed a lot of words, but in the end the message he received was only five words: "I don't know either."

"Sister Tuanzi, I think your marriage and family must be changed. And this change must be the joint efforts of you and him. If you have been working alone, he will not work hard at all, and it will even be counterproductive. Marriage will not last long. This original family is very detrimental to the growth of children."

"I know."

"Is he good to the child, has he beaten or scolded the child?"

"He seldom took care of the children and never beat them, but he lost his temper sometimes."

"Sister Tuanzi, do you think you can change him?"

"It's hard, almost impossible. We have no way to communicate. What I want to do, he feels meaningless, and what he wants to do, I can't accept it. I want to change myself and adapt to him, but I also There is a bottom line."

"You have done a good job. Really, you shouldn't make endless concessions. That will only make him worse. He doesn't treat you as a person with independent personality at all, but treats you as his subordinate. Taste."

"But so what? Although living together is painful, it is even more difficult to get a divorce. He will not agree to it, and will let the children suffer together."

There is nothing taboo about Gao Shiyuan chatting with Sister Tuanzi, and he can say what is in his heart: "I really feel sorry for you. How many people go into marriage blindly, and when they know what they really want, they have already Lost qualifications. If only I could have been born a few years earlier, it would be nice if we could meet earlier, so that we can all be happy."

How will sister Tuanzi respond?
　Marriage and Family is a University Question
　　
　
(End of this chapter)