The origin of the star lotus world

Text Chapter 610 and Eight

"The author's family used to be harmonious and warm in this life. When the family was well off, there were many relatives who praised and praised me. However, those people were just in it for money and to get some benefits, and they were not polite and welcoming for no reason. When the author was young in his life, a lot of things happened in his family. The family situation gradually became bad, and there were more and more entanglements. Some relatives and friends also fully described the coldness and indifference of human nature. It shows. Sometimes, some actions and words really make people feel cold to the bone and embarrassing. They don’t have any friendship or morality from relatives. Even if they haven’t done anything wrong, they still have to be scolded! Because I’m used to giving money. , some people are happy to get money for free. They used to have money and were willing to give money for free. But later, if they don’t give money, what else can they say? Say a thousand words and tell the truth. Isn’t it just that you dislike not having much money? At home, When you have money, those are the people who say good things. When your family has no money, those are the same people who don't say good things. The kindness of giving money and things in the past has turned into a bane and evil obstacle in the future. Repaying kindness with evil and no kindness. There are too many things to do. Don’t always give too many benefits to people who are ungrateful. Once you get into the habit of giving, you may become your enemy if you stop giving. When you are prosperous, many people will come to you uninvited. When you are in trouble, many people don't come to invite you. When you are at the lowest point in your life, whoever sticks to you and shares the burden is a rare fate in your life. Cherish and be grateful for those who treat you sincerely and kindly. People don't always have it in life. If you have the ability, you can repay and compensate some kind and noble people who are good to you. Other people's children can give their parents money and take care of their parents. This is the best. My mother has always She thinks that other people’s children are good (there are indeed many good and filial children in the world, but they can’t be compared), but her own children are not good at all. But after all, other people’s children are other people’s children. How can this be good? She is very She wants to have a lot of money to solve all problems, but her children don't make much money and still spend her money. As a parent, she can only envy other people's children, who can allow their parents to live such a good material life, but they themselves Children lament that life is not good, and nothing can be as their parents wish. Some people are quite scary, as if parents have given birth to children, and children should live for their parents and fulfill their parents' wishes. Such parents lament that there is no place for them. Ruyi's children think that it is a bad fate, but those children who have been suppressed and controlled by their parents for decades are good? Even worse. If the fate of the closest relatives is not repaired, there will be a lot of conflicts and quarrels. . Some parents do not really love their children. There are many such people in the world. Not all of them will really love and care for their children. Some parents just hope that their children will achieve things that they cannot achieve, and they will be treated as tools. Parents You have to have what you want. If your children cannot do it, it is bad and unfilial. Some parents will even force the misfortune and pain of life onto their children in the growing stage, artificially causing a lot of hardships and all the negativity and gloom. Inflicting it on the closest relatives around you may leave a lifelong shadow on your children, and some psychological problems are difficult to cure. The happiness in the growth period can help heal the rest of your life, and the misery and pain in the growth period may have to be cured in the rest of your life.It’s hard to say whether those parents who make their children grow up in a miserable and sad life are pitiful people, but such children are definitely pitiful people. When they need a lot of tenderness and care, they get a lot of harsh criticism and pressure. , there is no psychological depression, which is already very good. Don’t expect children like that to be kind to their parents. They may get the same criticism and indifference in return, because that’s how their parents treated them back then. way to return it.Regardless of whether there is family affection and care, long-term belittling and scolding are very failed education methods.Children from other families are so kind to their parents, maybe because they have received too much love and encouragement from their parents and family, and they have given a lot of good things in return for some good things.How much good can be gained from those things that are not good all year round?There is a high probability that it will be tit for tat.Children will eventually grow up, and parents will eventually grow old. If parents are always strong and domineering and only think about using their children to achieve something, the chance of such a family being happy and harmonious is very low.If you want to have better, grateful, and filial children, good and correct education methods are very important during the 3 years when your children grow up and mature.I said in the software call that the fat aunt’s son did not have the physique of his mother to gain weight easily, but had a standard figure and appeared to be a talented person. I praised the aunt’s son for being so filial and spent all the 20 yuan given by the aunt to hold a thank you banquet. Come and thank me for your hard work as a mother.My mother said that it was a banquet held by my aunt at her own expense. I collected the money from aunt’s previous gifts and spent some more money.I said that the thank you banquet was very well organized. Auntie is also very lucky to have a child who looks pretty good and the banquet was very decent. If I didn’t mention it, it would have looked like a wedding, no less than what some ordinary people would host. The wedding banquet.A round plate was added to those tables, and there were two round plates at the top and bottom that could be rotated. There were a dozen dishes in total, and the table was full. Nine tables of catering were held. The catering alone cost a lot of money. It’s a small amount of money, and there are venue fees and other expenses.On the morning of the Mid-Autumn Festival, my mother used chat software to send wedding photos taken by her brother’s daughter and son-in-law. She took wedding photos of a Western wedding, and then went to an antique building to take wedding photos and short videos of an Eastern wedding. The female staff member was supporting the woman who was wearing an imitation low-end and mid-range phoenix crown as she walked in front. The fat boy in ancient costume was dragging an ancient wedding costume behind him. The image of the strong woman and the weak man was too revealing, and the photo had a petty bourgeois sentiment. The photos of the couple looking at each other with the sunset on the river as the background are all good.My mom sent me a lot of photos and short videos. It looked like she was well prepared and attentive. They were no less beautiful than the wedding photos my mom took when her friend’s daughter got married. It can be seen that the couple had a good relationship.My mother mentioned in the previous phone call that the woman is amazing and the man is honest. The woman asked for a gift of 10 yuan to get married. The man contributed the money. It is said that the man’s family is in good condition, but he is a father and has remarried and has a child. Yes. The ex-wife’s son is not so good, but he still took hundreds of thousands. He used the money for gifts and weddings. The man owns his own house and does some business. It’s just that he was so afraid of the woman before the marriage. He may be controlled after the marriage. of.My mother said during the call that the fat aunt said that in her hometown, ordinary people usually give 20 yuan as a bride price to the woman, but she asked for 20 yuan as a bride price. This is double the bride price.My mother said that the little girl is very powerful and looks very much like her mother.I said that the little girl still has means. She is looking for a partner who has a decent family background, has been in love for several years, and can treat her sincerely. She has to pay 30 yuan to get married. She has equalized the money she had defrauded by bad guys before, and there is not much burden. If you get married happily before the age of 15, your smile will of course become better from the inside out.Just a few days ago, a wedding was held in the old house many years ago where the son of one of my mother's childhood friends, that aunt, got married.That woman was sentenced to many years for selling certain items, and her sentences were later commuted. Her original husband divorced her, and the woman's parents also passed away. After she was released from prison, she got married for the second time, and the man she found bought her a house.Because the woman broke the law and was sentenced, her son had to go out into society at the age of [-]. The woman felt sorry for the child. Fortunately, the child was able to go out and have a career, and he could still give his mother some money.That man was about the same age as the author in the mortal world. When he got married, he became richer and looked older than his peers. However, the wife he found was very beautiful. It seemed that he spent money on the wedding gift. Obviously not less. If you have money, you can find a partner with good external conditions.Watching several children of people I know get married, and some children of people I know got married some time ago, my mother is very distressed about this. Her son still doesn’t even have a partner, and he often mumbles incomprehensible words without thinking at all. It seems that a man has to make money to improve his life and give money to his parents. He doesn't know what he is doing all day long. A man in his thirties has already lived a dull life with a heartless heart. He is not good to his family and relatives, and he has suffered a lot from his family members. There is a lot of scolding and contempt from relatives (others have been treating you badly all year round, how can you be willing to be kind to others?), those people think that they are annoying if they don’t have money!What else could be better?The author has not hindered or affected those relatives, but he is often ridiculed and hostile, and criticized for all his mistakes and rightnesses!I don’t know why I have created so much hatred and resentment.Some people know that the person they have humiliated for a long time has a deep hatred with them, and they don't want anyone to stand up, so they have to seize the opportunity to bully and trample the other person again. If this continues, whatever the consequences will be, they all deserve it.You have committed sins all year round, and your sins are unforgivable. Good and evil will have their own rewards, and no one will get less retribution.How could I possibly give the slightest kindness to those who only have evil intentions towards me?It is what it is, it should be so, and it must be so. "

While I was talking a lot, Lin Qisheng brought me several top-notch divine dishes, and I tasted some of them one after another.Eat like a fairy tale with the shadows of the emperor’s stars in the sky, and enjoy a little joyful fragrance, the rain-scattered skylight rushing through the wind river, the poems of swaying flowers and dancing flowers reflecting the splendor of the blue sea, and the sky surpassing the extreme mountains in the distance. Dream cloud music that sings the four seasons, Xingluan milk cake with rich golden lotus flowers and psychedelic beauty, etc.I originally wanted to just enjoy some of the divine dishes, but after seeing Lin Qisheng serving the dishes again and again with a smile on his face, I still used some.While chatting and eating, I was not very interested in tasting the gorgeous and delicious imperial food. Some of the things I said may cause displeasure.In the ordinary world, nine out of ten things in life are unsatisfactory. Many life have depression and irritability, which are difficult to avoid. Some things can only be faced. These are the weight of life and the suffering of life that some lives have to bear. .Right and wrong, joys and sorrows, some people live a very miserable and aggrieved life. They often want good things, but it is difficult to get or retain those good people and things.

As I ate the luxurious and delicious fantasy main course, Lin Qisheng served the dishes faster, and the poetry and painting table also quickly completed the perfect transformation of fantasy. Table after table of gorgeous and fairy-like combination meals appeared wonderfully, competing for beauty.Not to mention there are tens of thousands of food combinations, there are even hundreds of thousands of different themed and glorious food combinations, none of which are the same. There are so many gorgeous food items that it is difficult to appreciate them all, not to mention that each group of food items will slowly become more beautiful. Taste some and savor properly.