The origin of the star lotus world

Chapter 1960 Text

Chapter 1896

The author continued to chat about the trivialities of life during this period. He originally wanted to talk about a few things, but it led to other stories of the past and told a lot of things. There were some memories and reviews of past experiences.

The local season in June and July is really hot, so my family didn't originally want to come back to live here during this period. It has been many years since we came back to live here during the hottest two or three months of the year. But because of some things, my family has to come back, and after a while, they have to go out of town again. There are some things to be done, so it will be very busy.

Before the Chinese New Year, my family said they wanted to buy a vertical air conditioner, which cost 6,000 to 7,000 yuan. They were willing to buy it, but they just expressed their thoughts. It seems that they will not buy it this year. They have said for many years that they will buy home appliances such as air conditioners and wall-mounted boilers. I don’t know if they will buy them. The wall-mounted air conditioner in the main room of our family has been unusable for many years and has not been replaced. In the summer, we can only use electric fans at home.

Because the family is in the hometown, there is no one to cook, wash dishes, mop the floor, etc., so you have to do the housework by yourself, and you may have to cook for relatives and give them money and things. Even with such accommodation, relatives still think it is not good, and they should give more and more gifts, the more the better, and they think that if you have money, you should spend it, and it is wrong not to give benefits. Some people think that since they are brothers and sisters with the same parents, the relatives owe them, and giving money and things is a matter of course and should be done in this way. This is the result of parents always favoring one child from childhood to adulthood. Unfair education and treatment force some children to bear the debts of their relatives in their youth, causing some people to be middle-aged and elderly, in their fifties or sixties, and still ask relatives for money or benefits for free. Don’t say that there are no people who behave like this in the world. Perhaps there are many such people. They just want to shirk responsibility and don’t let others criticize them. They think it is not wrong. The family doesn't want to take on more responsibility, but they have already taken on a lot. Because the parents always educate and urge them from time to time, help more, help more, and help as much as possible, the parents don't want one of their children to work hard to make money and solve difficulties, but think that the other child should give more money and help more. The family is sad, but there is nothing they can do. Their own children are even more disappointing and have been relying on their parents for years, but they can do some housework and accompany them. There are no debts or negative things. Even if we don't talk much about the good things of the fat nanny, it is actually somewhat useful. There are many houseworks that have to be done by the children. The grandparents are gone, and the children choose to replace the role of the family members who always do housework and do what they can. Giving money and things is filial piety, but is it not filial piety to accompany and take care of them? They can't give much money and things, but they can do a lot of housework and accompany the family to many places. This is also okay. It's not as bad as others say. It's just that the family wants their children to make more money to support the family, but they can't do it, which makes them very distressed. In fact, don't be greedy for too much. It's good to have what you have. Some family members have a meaning of existence. Whatever you can give, you should give it. It's better to give good things than nothing. Although the author spends his family's money all year round, which is a big disadvantage, he doesn't spend much. He tries to reduce the financial burden of his family. However, his family still blames him, saying that they don't know when they can let their parents live a decent and superior life through their children. They think that they are unfilial if they can't give good material rewards. They should be like the excellent children of other families, work hard to make money, spend money on their parents, and let their parents live a good material life in their middle and old age. Because of poor performance, family members will scold, belittle and scold from time to time. It's not easy to be a punching bag. This is the price of survival. Everyone has their own difficulties and hardships.

Many people will experience and sacrifice a lot for their own and their families' livelihoods. In many families, there are difficult scriptures of grievances and right and wrong. Everyone has their own reasons, and they should abide by the law and justice to solve the problems.

Perhaps, the suffering and embarrassment that the author has experienced in this life is not too sad for some people, but the author feels that at some times in this life, he has lived a very depressed and aggrieved life. Each life has a different ability to bear the suffering and misfortune. Those who truly have dreams and ideals, who can burst out and shine the light and power of life, have admirable and lamentable qualities. They are indomitable, have will and perseverance, and can work hard and pay for their dreams and ideals, and they will eventually achieve success.

Many people choose to work hard, have money and a place to live. If their family members always criticize them, they will not live together. No one wants to live a life of being scolded all year round. They have to have their own life and ideals. It is different if you have your own ability. You should work hard to live and improve your situation. Don't be like the author who lives under someone else's roof and does not make progress, and is forced to bear a lot of blame. In recent years, all aspects of material life have improved a lot. I rarely think back to the embarrassing and miserable life in the past. It is better not to touch the sad past.

Some people treat outsiders as family members and bad people as good people. They treat their closest relatives with extreme harshness and take their resentment and anger out on their closest relatives who live around them, making their family members feel so innocent and unfortunate.

If possible, please treat family members who deserve to be treated well, and respect those who should be respected. Some family members have made sacrifices and taken on responsibilities, and they deserve respect and kindness.

Society is very generous, and many people will help the disadvantaged. Some people are away from their families who have been criticizing them for years, and they may not be unable to live independently. They may just want to have their family around them. There is no need to chase them away. If you really chase them away, there may not be much affection left, and it will be difficult to continue. Some sincere and amiable emotions are difficult to regain once they are gone, and even if they are restored, there may be cracks that are difficult to repair. Incompetence does not mean that you can bully them at will. Some people are narrow-minded and hold grudges. You really shouldn't bully such people. There is a high probability that they will retaliate, it's just a matter of time.

Because of the many requests from my family members, I gave up the idea of ​​packing food from the restaurant. I wanted to go to the northern restaurant on the street nearby to buy braised pork elbow and a large plate of cold dishes before my family members arrived home. I could put them in the refrigerator. If I had enough time, I could bring the packed food back in the morning. The quality would be better, but if I arranged it that way, I would be in a hurry and would not have much spare time. I have been to that store several times and ordered food in this way. It is economical and tastes good. I am satisfied with it. So I only ate at that restaurant during this period. I have spent hundreds of yuan. I also always go to the breakfast shop in the market to eat breakfast and buy fruits, which occupied the budget for other restaurants. The restaurant serves food faster, but it is closed in the afternoon and cannot order food. Since my family members said that they did not want to eat the meat dishes in the restaurant this time, they did not buy them and chose other arrangements. In a few days, you can order takeout. If there are coupons or affordable combination packages in the software, it may be more economical than going to the physical store.

The author went to the market at around 10 o'clock in the morning to buy large vegetarian buns, soy milk, rice dumplings, and watermelons, in an effort to ensure the food was fresh and of high quality.

After resting for a while, I went to the kitchen to cook. I planned to have lunch at around 12 noon. I got up very early that day but did not have breakfast. There were no seats at the breakfast shop in the market, so I did not wait to eat. I was not very hungry, so I would wait until noon to eat with my family.

After rereading recent chapters of the Star Lotus story, there is still work to be done, and some busy work.

  Try to do as many positive things as you can, and believe that good things will come out of it.