The origin of the star lotus world

Chapter 1964 Text

Chapter 1900

The author continued to chat about some things at home. Since the family had important things to do in the future, they would be very busy. The author also had a lot of things to do during this period, not only housework, but also some other things to do.

Let me tell you something. After she returned to her hometown in late May this year, she went out for a walk as usual. One afternoon, she went to the park for a walk. At night, she arrived at the side gate of the community. She accidentally sprained her ankle. At first, she didn't think it was serious, but her foot was swollen the next day. Because of the sudden illness, she delayed the negotiation with the insurance company. Needless to say, her ex-husband had bad legs and feet. How pitiful he was. A few days before that, they had dinner together and she walked him home. She sighed and felt sorry for him. It was really unfortunate to see her ex-husband's legs and feet were not in good condition. Unexpectedly, the pitiful thing happened to her soon. Maybe she was punished for it. Don't doubt that there will be punishment.

I heard her say that after she sprained her ankle, she posted a picture of her foot with a professional wrist brace on her Moments with tears in her eyes. She also wrote that she felt that she shouldn’t go back home at that time. Her son advised her not to go back so hastily, saying that she had other things to do and that the trip back home could wait. But she didn’t listen, and ended up spraining her ankle when she went back. Fortunately, it wasn’t serious. She didn’t fall down and had to be hospitalized. She was able to walk.

You can listen to some of the advice from your family. When you encounter something, you should treat it calmly. If you use an anxious attitude, you may not be able to solve the problem properly. Believe that there will be solutions to the difficulties you encounter. If you treat them reasonably, some things can be handled.

Because I need to recover from the injury, I need to rest and adjust for many days. After spraining my ankle, I took a lot of medicine, which helped reduce the swelling. I can walk, but I walk slowly. I feel pain when walking or touching the joints.

In the first few days after her family member fell ill, although she could walk, there was no one around to take care of her, clean the room, and buy things. She felt that it was difficult to have no one to take care of her when she needed help. Fortunately, the illness was not serious. Her brother bought her a plaster to relieve joint pain. Once, she made dumplings, but only ten were delivered, which was not enough to eat. So she ordered takeout and ate alone. Her feet were so painful that she couldn't cook, let alone go to the market to buy vegetables. Relatives still ate out and wanted the sick relatives to cook, but they couldn't do it. That person always wanted to go to the neighbors' house for free meals, but others had already refused in person and didn't allow him to go for free meals during mealtime. He felt that it was very bad to do so in the long run. Her brother always went to several families in the community to eat. Because he went too frequently, those people were very unhappy. He didn't need to give any gas or rice money. Those families didn't need that money, so he had to solve the problem of eating by himself. Whether the food in other people's families is good or not has nothing to do with that person. It is human nature not to want to always give an extra pair of chopsticks to outsiders and to be very disgusted with the behavior of often coming to eat for free. If you eat at your own home, but there are always outsiders, they may also say something, thinking that the dishes are not prepared enough, and that guests are not entertained frequently. They are dissatisfied with this and that, which of course makes people complain. That person's sister returned to her hometown and sometimes had to cook for her. That person could not even give money for seasoning. It was okay to save money to treat friends to dinner and spend hundreds of dollars at a time, but it was not okay to give it to relatives. That person borrowed money from his sister and did not pay it back. Others borrowed money from him and did not pay it back. It was really a tit-for-tat. Although the retribution in this life was delayed, it would definitely come. On matters of principle, you cannot be shameless and unreasonable. You should abide by the rules and laws of the world. You can borrow money from relatives for turnover, and you have to pay back the money you borrowed. Why do some people not pay it back? It should be returned. Friendly relatives gather together to eat and drink during festivals, exchange gifts and get along harmoniously, which is of course a good thing, but regarding finances, brothers should make clear accounts. Some families make clear and explicit accounts of money and property, and do things according to principles, which can reduce many troubles and causes of disasters. Unlike some families that always have disputes because of borrowing money and not paying it back, some families believe that borrowing money is borrowing money, no matter relatives or not, borrowed money must be paid back, and clear accounts are made, which can reduce so many troubles and disputes.

If you don't pay back the money you borrowed, and you lose your credibility, it may be difficult to borrow money again in the future. You must have principles and credibility. My grandmother had hundreds of thousands of pension money. If she had used it all to buy health products, she should have lived a few more years, but her son took it away and used it to pay off her debts. This is the result of parents' over-pampering. Without proper education and supervision, some people are still thinking about how to get benefits for free when they are in their fifties or sixties. They think that whoever treats them well is owed to them and they should be thanked. They have absurd and unreasonable inexplicable ideas. A loyal and sincere couple has such a child. This is the failure of their parents' education for many years. The children have many wrong perceptions in the process of growing up. They think that whoever treats them well is right, and whoever doesn't treat them well is wrong. They never reflect on themselves and blame their relatives. With such a failed education and teaching, they will have to bear the consequences. The old mother was already 70 years old at that time. The money was her retirement money. Even if she gave some money to her children, she couldn't give it all. She had to save some for herself. However, her son forced her to take it away. She had to pay off her own debts. She couldn't pay off her own debts. Using her mother's retirement money to pay off debts was of course a hateful behavior. He said he was helping with her retirement, but he was just talking. He didn't take much responsibility. The man's daughter got married. He usually said that he loved his daughter and should give her more money. It's not easy for a daughter who grew up in a single-parent family. The daughter and the ex-wife didn't ask for much money. They only asked for 10,000 yuan, but the man only gave 5,000 yuan. He thought it would be better if his sister could get more money. Maybe she could get less money. Such behavior is very hurtful. Everyone sees it. Some words are just not said. There may be corresponding performance in the future. If you don't pay more when you should, you will naturally be evaluated badly. The man's family also saw through this behavior and looked down on such in-laws from the bottom of their hearts. Driving a taxi in his hometown can make a surplus of 10,000 or 20,000 yuan a year. If he worked harder and spent less, he could save more money, but he was reluctant to give his daughter more dowry. People who understand know that if you are too selfish, there will definitely be backlash and bad consequences. During the Chinese New Year this year, the newlyweds were too lazy to pay attention to that person. They were realistic to their family, and so were the family. If they didn't treat them more kindly, it would be difficult to get positive returns in the future. If that person could contribute money and effort in the future, perhaps the parent-child relationship could be eased. Only with more efforts can you get some rewards.

If you want your children to be filial and caring, parents must also be virtuous and loving, so that your children and grandchildren will be filial and respectful. Some people are unfortunate in their later years and are abandoned by their friends and relatives. There must be a reason. Some bad people suffer and they deserve it.

Those who have filial children and grandchildren and are in good health can enjoy a long life and good fortune. This is the result of accumulated merits and virtues. Everything has a cause, and the cause and effect will come true.

  There is no absolute good in the world, only relative good. We should cherish and value those beauty and warmth.