The origin of the star lotus world

Chapter 1966 Text

Chapter 1902

I continue to talk about some life in the mortal world. The author knows that life is not easy for his family at many times. At such an old age, he still has to work hard to make money.

Some people she knows would belittle and ridicule her children for not having any ability, career, or the ability to make a lot of money. Some of their words were harsh and hurtful, which made her feel ashamed and embarrassed. Some people are very hateful, and they are happy to gossip and look down on this and that. Some bad people are mean, and bad people will get bad retribution. Whether other people's children have a career or not has nothing to do with them. Taking good care of their children may not be very filial, or very good. Maybe they are not as good as people say. There is no one in the world who has only advantages and no disadvantages. People who always criticize and belittle other people's children may not have good children. Maybe they are not as good as other people's children.

Don't always criticize other people's families, take care of your own family. Your family may not be as good as others in some aspects. It is not a good thing to affect and destroy other people's parent-child relationships.

Some people don’t have much money and it’s hard to repay their families with material things, but they can do some housework, provide some companionship, support and encourage their family’s ideas, sincerely hope that the family’s material conditions can be better, and have filial piety and good intentions. It’s still this sentence, some family members have a lot of meaning in their existence.

While dining that day, I turned on the wall-mounted TV in the bedroom at a high volume and heard some news. The opening ceremony of the new Summer Olympics was scheduled to be held in late July. There would be a large number of sports competitions and a lot of preparations. The Olympic flame was about to be passed. In some places, there might be negotiations. The temperature was very hot at that time. In some areas, there were frequent rains and the water level would rise. In some places, the tourism and shopping indexes were good and the tourism was booming. It was close to the date of the high school entrance examination, and many students and their families hoped to get good grades. After that, the students would have a long vacation.

While eating, I added a plate of sliced ​​red sausage as requested by my family. I bought a hundred-yuan red sausage, and the merchant also gave me a small butter sausage as a gift. I can eat it directly. If I grill it, the sizzling taste should be even better. I also cut the gift of diced butter sausage. It is special and can be used as a grilled sausage. If heated, the diced butter inside will melt when heated, and it will be more fragrant.

The garlic sauce duck and smashed cucumbers I made that day were a little bland because the garlic sauce and the duck had salt and I didn’t add any extra salt, so half a plate of smashed cucumbers was left. It seems that my family members thought it wasn’t salty enough, and there wasn’t much left over from the smashed cucumbers I usually make. The garlic eggplants I made were pretty good. Although my family members thought they were average, I thought they tasted okay and there wasn’t any left over. I will do the same when making steamed eggplants in the future. It’s just a steamed vegetable, not a pickled vegetable, so of course it doesn’t need to be too salty. I often buy vegetarian buns because I think they’re better than the sesame sesame cakes that cost 1.5 yuan each.

For a period of time in June, and in early and mid-July, my mother took two breakfasts from the fast food restaurant every day, including cheese pork or chicken burgers, and two stainless steel cups of coffee. The fast food restaurant clerks allow coffee to be poured in medium-sized stainless steel thermos cups, which can be slightly more than paper cups of coffee. If you eat in the store, you can get a refill of coffee, which is good. The breakfast coffee in the fast food restaurant is cheap. After breakfast, the original price of coffee is more expensive than the price of a small burger and coffee for breakfast. After getting breakfast, I went to the market to buy ten yuan vegetarian buns and other food. Most of the time, I would go to the noodle shop to buy vegetarian buns. There were fennel eggs, carrot eggs, and celery eggs. I didn’t see any meat fillings. That store’s business is good, but the noodles of a brand store are not selling well. The price is high and the sales are small. The business is far less than before. Affordable meals are more popular in the market. During this period, I often bought cucumbers and tomatoes. I either had cucumbers in a cold salad or fried eggs with cucumbers, and fried eggs with tomatoes. I occasionally bought watermelons for around 20 yuan, and bought beer roast duck a few times, and also bought fresh noodles. During this period, I ate relatively light and healthy food. My family did not ask me to prepare more hot dishes in the hot summer. I just did what I could. Although cleaning, cooking and washing dishes in the hot summer are more tiring than usual, the author persisted and did a good job of housework.

When we were eating dates in the rice dumplings for lunch that day, I asked my mother to be careful. Fortunately, there were no pits in the candied date rice dumplings, so it was safe to use. If it was a rice dumpling with red dates, you have to be more careful because there are pits. The two ends of the pits are pointed and should be removed before use to avoid bad results.

My mother said that her ex-husband was not careful when eating last year, and there were dates in the food he ate. Due to his slow reaction, he did not spit out the date pit, and it happened that it got stuck in his stomach. He had to go to the hospital and have a side surgery. The wound was quite serious and not easy to heal, but no matter how much he cried in pain, he had to endure it. The doctors and nurses could not do anything about it. They all followed the regular surgery and postoperative treatment, and anesthesia and painkillers could not be used excessively. After that, there was a suture operation. Due to the constant tossing, the wound did not heal well, and there were inflamed areas. As a result, he had to undergo another operation, and experienced pain again, which delayed recovery. It was very difficult for him to live in those months. My mother gave a few thousand yuan, but her ex-husband did not take it, but she accepted the nutritional supplements worth several thousand yuan, hoping that he would get better, but he did not expect it to be so serious. Later, the disease was cured, and the recovery surgery had been completed long ago. It has been more than half a year, but there is a big scar left on the skin of the belly. It was not a minimally invasive surgery. She was abroad at that time, and was very sad when she heard these things. She could only vacate the house in her hometown and let her ex-husband and relatives live there. It was more convenient to have an elevator. After her body recovered, she returned to her own home to recuperate and live. After a period of recuperation, she recovered, but she had to bear all the pain and pain by herself. Although her ex-husband always abused and insulted her, and still often cursed the mother and daughter, he never reacted slowly to such behavior. He cursed them very smoothly, thinking that the mother and daughter were so sorry and so sorry to the old man at home. This old man is a typical domestic violence man in the world who has never won outside and never lost at home. It is a common thing for him to beat his wife and scold his children. He is very good at showing off his power. He does not think that domestic violence is a sinful act. He still thinks that his family has to bear domestic violence and that what they owe should be repaid in this way. This is a completely wrong idea, which violates morality and law. They should not always beat, scold and humiliate others. If the spouses do not love each other, there is a high probability of domestic violence, not once or a few times, but many times. There is no need to imagine that there is still love. If there is love, there will not be so much violence. My mother thought that her ex-husband could scold and beat her as he pleased, and she thought it was okay, but she was also surprised that the punishment was so cruel. She thought that since he was her husband, even if he had made mistakes, he should not be punished. She was just overthinking. How could there be any special cases? She herself had undergone multiple cancer removal surgeries, but she still thought that there was no possibility of karma, and that there would be no punishment for mistakes. It was useless to think about it, and what was due would naturally come. It was her business to forgive or not. Some people committed evil deeds and must be punished. She had no ability to stop them, but could only help to reduce the punishment. She always insisted on doing things that she shouldn't have done, and there might be reasons for it. Do what you want to do, but don't force others to change their minds.

There are some things that the author doesn't want to talk about, and can be left unmentioned, but I still say them out. Others may not think so, but the author feels that some aspects of the family in this life are very bad, too complicated, too entangled, and I can only not participate, or participate less. I don't have the ability to take care of so many things. I know who is good to me and who should be treated well and rewarded. As for some things, it is what it is, and it is enough to follow the cause and effect.

In the spring and summer of the year before last, her ex-husband was lured to another place by several women. It was not clear whether they were introducing jobs or not. He was defrauded of 50,000 yuan and was involved in pyramid schemes. He was locked up in a house in that place and was not allowed to go out. The only way he could contact the outside world was through the chat software. He was told to invest money and nothing else, only investment. He was said to have no freedom and to cook. Those people were a gang, with thugs. He had to work even if he didn't want to. He couldn't use violence against them. He could fight when he was young, but when he was old, other than beating his wife and scolding his children, how could others be afraid of a man who couldn't even walk steadily. Later, he ran back to his hometown, saying that he was withdrawing money to continue investing. In fact, he knew that he had been deceived, and he was completely deceived. He also had to do housework for strangers for free for several months. It happened that his ex-wife was in his hometown at that time. He fell to the ground in front of his ex-wife and asked him to help get the money back. But how could he get all the money back? The first investment of 10,000 yuan can be helped to get it back, but I don’t know who can get back the more than 40,000 yuan that those women got. This matter has not been resolved yet, but he always urges his ex-wife to ask for money. Does this matter have anything to do with the previous spouse? He has brought this upon himself, but he has to ask his spouse who has been divorced for more than 20 years to help him. How abominable is it to ask a housewife to negotiate with many strangers? He still thinks that his ex-wife should do this, but there are not so many shoulds in the world? Last year, he spent tens of thousands of yuan on surgery and recovery treatment. Fortunately, the remaining pension money was saved. Thanks to the help of his ex-wife, at least he still has his own house. He has about 100,000 yuan in savings, which was not defrauded by others, leaving some room. Most of the other money was spent. In recent years, he has been very squandering, which is completely different from the way he saved money before. In just a few years, he spent a lot of the hundreds of thousands of savings. He never thought of using the money to help his children. He only knew how to scold them, thinking that he could be filial.

My mother was talking that day, thinking that her ex-husband had a very hard life. Over the years, he spent more than 200,000 yuan on a car, but he couldn't drive an online taxi. He had two big dogs, one of which ran away and the other was sold. He encountered a scam and lost 40,000 to 50,000 yuan. He used the money he wanted back as travel and accommodation expenses, and he spent it all. He went to ask for money again but couldn't get it back. He has been hospitalized many times, and he has lost a total of 300,000 to 400,000 yuan over the years. He has found many women one after another, and I don't know how much money he has spent. Anyway, none of them lasted long. The husband didn't give money, and those people left. I felt that there was no reason to keep them. My mother hopes that I can forgive and bless such people. Even if there are mistakes, because they are family, they should be tolerant and forgiven. It doesn't matter what parents do, and children have to recognize and endure it, as if the lives of children belong to their parents and they live to serve their parents. It's also very bad to have such a consciousness.

  Respect those who deserve respect, treat those who deserve kindness, do what you can, and do it with a clear conscience.