The origin of the star lotus world

Chapter 1979 Text

Chapter 1915

I continue to talk about some past events of my family in this life in the mortal world. Some details can be supplemented.

When my mother was doing clothing business in my hometown, she brought the children and descendants of my grandfather's relatives in the countryside to the city one after another to work as waiters and deliverymen in wholesale clothing stores. She brought a large group of people to work in my hometown and the south. She helped those relatives and their descendants for my father's sake. Maybe it was because the salary was low and there was no extra free money, so those people were dissatisfied. They felt that they were only paid for working. They thought that the relatives were rich and should be given more money, the more the better. It was not good to care about such a small amount of money. Maybe, some help was useless, so it was better not to help or help less, so as not to be complained and criticized. Because the evaluation of the same clan in the village became not very good, my grandfather was very distressed about it. He felt that because of such things, he lost face and affected the evaluation and appreciation of his relatives. This old man really cares about relationships. When he was young and serving in the army, he mailed all the money he earned to his brothers in the countryside. He treated his relatives very selflessly. Later, he stayed in the city and became a worker. He never forgot his relatives living in the countryside. He always thought about and entertained his relatives there, and tried his best to do good things. Relatively speaking, grandma only kept in touch with her sisters, but didn't care about her rural hometown. She hasn't been back for many years, unlike grandpa who went back to his hometown many times and cared too much about the people and things there. The conditions in the countryside where grandma lived when she was a child were slightly better than those in grandpa's hometown. The two met in the city through an introduction. When they were young, they got urban hukou and settled down. Since then, they have lived in the city for half a century and have become city people. Grandma doesn't miss the remote and backward place where she lived when she was young. She has memories, which are memories of her mother and elders treating her well. She thinks the environment in big cities is good. But my grandfather wanted to return to his roots and was very particular about hometown feelings. Even though his hometown was remote and the living conditions were far inferior to those in the city, he still considered it to be the place where he was born and raised, and even if he stayed in the city for many more years, he would eventually go back.

My mother knew that those relatives were dissatisfied, but there was nothing she could do about it. After all, there was no real debt, and everyone lived on their own merits. She said she was generous, but in fact she was not that generous. She just hired a lot of employees, and only those with good performance could stay.

With the development of the economy, there are many job opportunities in the city. There are recruitment positions in all walks of life. Some people find suitable jobs in nearby cities, not far from their hometowns, while others go to work in cities thousands of miles away. Since there is no help from distant relatives, it is what it is. If you want more money, you have to work harder. There is no special care or extra subsidies. You have to complete things according to the rules. There is nothing to say. Most work situations are like this and are similar in nature.

In the mortal world, the author has experienced and seen many things in this life, and has experienced everything that should be experienced. My mother is very generous and generous to others, but sometimes, when there is injustice and grievance, she may take her anger out on her children when she gets home, and treat innocent children as punching bags. She thinks that no matter how angry parents are with their children, children must forgive them and cannot not forgive them. Even if the children do not make any mistakes at some times, they will be criticized and scolded a lot, whether there is something wrong or not, in order to establish the absolute authority of parents over their children, because her father educated her in this way, and she imitated her subconsciously, but she did not resent or blame her father for some incorrect educational methods back then. She also admired and respected her father and thought that some of his education was quite correct. However, her son did not think so. Many conflicts with his family were slowly accumulating and difficult to reconcile. Some things could only be faced.

Sometimes, she thinks, why can't her children be as good as other people's children? Everything is good, she can only see the good of other people's children, but what's good about her own children? She thinks that whatever the parents ask, the children have to do their best to do it. After the children have a career, the children have to give whatever the parents want. It's as if other people's children are Doraemon with a four-dimensional pocket, or a perfectly optimized version without any shortcomings. She thinks that other people's children are too good, but her own children are the worst. No matter how she thinks about this, she feels sad and aggrieved. She is very unwilling to have such children who can't bring any benefits to the family.

If parents always criticize and teach their children, causing them to reject and rebel at a young age, then there is no need to think about how harmonious and peaceful the parent-child relationship can be. As for whether such parents can find happiness and peace in their later years, it depends on their own luck. Perhaps, the sadness and distress of their children in the past will be returned in some way in the future. Only with a lot of kindness and care can we get some positive responses and returns.

Correct education should give more praise and encouragement, and think that your own children are very good. Don't always say that other people's children are good and your own children are not good. No matter how good other people's children are, they are not your own. Many of the good aspects of their children are the result of education and supervision. You should praise your children's strengths more, so that they will have confidence in the process of growing up, and intentionally cultivate their autonomy, so that they will have ideas and suggestions. You should express your love and warmth for your relatives. It is right to say some good words, with positive guidance and teaching. It is a great achievement to make your children become people with excellent moral character, abide by the law, and make positive contributions to society. Such parents' education is successful and passed.

Some people are very polite and loving, uphold morals and principles, and contribute to society to the best of their ability. Most of these people have good family environments, which really benefit them for life. They may also educate the next generation with good family traditions. Their parents are proud of them, and they are likely to receive sincere filial piety and respect.

My mother said that her brother didn't know what happened. One day, he was driving a taxi and suddenly felt short of breath. I don't know if it was because he was sitting in the car and driving. It was a bit stuffy in the hot summer, so he went to a traditional Chinese medicine hospital. My ex-wife helped to introduce it. According to the doctor's advice, he was hospitalized for a few days, with intravenous drips and medicine, and observation and measurement. After that, the doctor said that the patient might have a heart problem and should go to a large hospital for a physical examination. There are professional conditions. According to the film, there are any treatment or maintenance plans. The patient should not go to work for the time being. Health is important and you have to check your body. Her brother went home to rest for a while, and then he had to drive a taxi again. He will have a pension at the end of the year. He can receive it when he is 60 years old. He paid a high-end pension. I heard that he will have a monthly pension of more than 4,000 yuan in the future, unlike my parents who only have an ordinary pension of more than 2,000 yuan per month. The pension of ordinary people in my hometown is relatively low, but if you pay a high-end premium, you have to pay for a full period of time. When you reach retirement age, you will have a lot of pension. My mother told me that her elder brother in her hometown had a high salary. After retirement, he became a manager in a place and got another salary. A classmate was a teacher in the university admissions office, and his retirement salary was 8,000 yuan. There are also those who are medical directors, and their salary in their later years is even higher, and some are even rehired. People with ability can have enough money to spend for many years, and the whole family can benefit from it. Who doesn't want to have a capable relative who can get help?

During the meal that day, I listened to some things about her career from my family, some of which were more complicated and tangled. In the business in Yuancheng, several partners wanted to make a lot of money quickly, but due to their lack of ability and limited connections, they didn't make much money, let alone make a lot of money. They always asked one and another, and made a lot of business plans, but most of them were just empty talk and fantasy. There was no business that could be promoted and could be negotiated, so it was time-consuming and laborious, but nothing was achieved. There was a serious lack of large-scale financial support and assistance. It was not easy for the team to live for more than half a year, and there were already many disagreements and contradictions. Some people are eager to make money, but they don't care so much, but they only find partners to join in the fun, but don't want to make actual investments, and some want to get benefits for free. It is said that some partners have invested tens of thousands or hundreds of thousands, and they have indeed spent some money running around, but some have only falsely reported investments of hundreds of thousands, which is not credible. The small country is also urging some businesses to be completed as soon as possible. If the business is not formed for a long time, foreigners will be distrustful and unhappy about it, but there is nothing we can do. Everything depends on human efforts. I hope that some businesses can be successfully completed. Because of the entanglement and embarrassment of these things, it is difficult to deal with them. My family has been very painstaking about this, and even their own intermediary procurement work has been delayed. For a period of time, there was no money coming into the account. Because of the return of the insurance policy, I have already borrowed more than 100,000 yuan, and there will be high monthly repayments to pay. I hope that in the second half of this year, the family's financial luck will improve, and the author can also live a better life and increase the consumption budget.

At that time, when my family was at home, we usually ate vegetarian food because the weather was too hot and it was often sunny outside, so we mainly stayed in the suburbs during this period. Some local scenic spots are beautiful and rich in summer, but because of the sun and heat, we didn't go there for tourism. Every morning, my family still went to the market to buy vegetables and fruits, and often bought watermelons. Although eating more would increase the amount of sweating, the cool big watermelon still helps to clear away heat and relieve summer heat. I have bought cherries several times. They are of medium and low quality sold in the market. The promotional price is only thirty or forty yuan for two kilograms. Although the quality is only entry-level, this kind of deep red cherry has plump flesh and high sweetness. It is two or three times larger than ordinary cherries. It is really good.

  There are abundant fruits and vegetables in summer, and you can get sufficient supplies and adjust your condition according to your needs.