The origin of the star lotus world

Chapter 967 Text
Text Chapter 910 Seven

I looked at him happily, and praised Lin Qisheng that he was very smart!I said that his analysis of some things made sense, I massaged his shoulders, and then suddenly punched him hard on the back a few times.

He said in disgust, don't press it again!I smiled and said that I should be rewarded for the correct answer. I did what I said, but I didn't say gentleness.You were fooled and you asked for it. It’s nothing to guess wrong, but you guessed right.Lin Qisheng was speechless to me, so I stopped massaging, sat down quietly, and continued talking.

"Lin Qisheng, one has millions of debts, only a few houses, and one has millions of dollars in driving and luggage. He has shops and business. Why don't you choose the latter, who is obviously rich! Oh, you can't just look at appearances in everything, um, many people You should understand this truth. For example, those who can show off their material life on the Internet are not necessarily rich. Luxury cars can be rented, clothes can be combined, some props can be used multiple times, and there are special packaging groups. Some people put high-end hotels The sheets used to wipe your feet are draped over your body, showing off the high-end workmanship! These are packaged, maybe you can meet the noble person you want to meet, and it is only because of the profit or enthusiasm that you will be so vain." After I finished speaking, Lin Qisheng He's smug, but he might just be right.

"During the few days I stayed in that small hotel, my aunt took my mother to the credit bureau one day to open her personal records, and I went with her. I saw many young men in shirts and trousers outside the building. , Most of them are very thin. These people look around, as if they can help some people with something. Auntie is in the car, saying that there is another good thing, a house with several million yuan, and you can get it with only a part of the money. My mother She didn't say much, but she just hoped that the aunt would be cautious in doing things. She thought the aunt's car pendant was very good, and the aunt took it away if she liked it. My mother didn't want it, saying that she had no car to drive, which was not like before. I went to an ancient medical clinic to find a male doctor to see the thyroid gland. The doctor told my mother to consider surgery. Since the diagnosis has been made in a top-tier hospital, it is better to have the surgery as soon as possible. My mother does not want to have the surgery to remove the glands. After the operation, she has to rely on hormone drugs to maintain her , Later, according to her wishes, the minimally invasive ablation surgery was performed. It was not malignant, and that part was successfully removed. The re-examination in September this year was fine, and the female expert doctor asked her to re-examine in a few years. This is how the patient recovered. Well, I am happy. Because my mother is doing a free physical examination in a small country, foreign doctors suggest micro-sampling of suspected risky parts. Even if it is a lump for many years, it should not be taken lightly. My mother asked the male doctor in my hometown to find someone else to see The mammary gland physical examination film, the person I was looking for said it was intraductal carcinoma, and there was a lesion inside the mass in that film. My mother was scared to have surgery, thinking that she was suffering from a serious disease, because she was very panicked, and she lost her judgment Even if the expert chief doctor said that the diagnosis could not be detected, it is recommended not to operate first. This person is the chief doctor of the department. Of course, he has experience in treating diseases, but my mother would not listen. I have done professional X-ray scans many times, and there is no They found it strange to find signs of cancer. There has been a lump for decades, and it is enough to continue the physical examination and observation. Why did they suddenly become so anxious? My mother just didn’t believe the professional examination results of this tertiary hospital, but she didn’t know if it was What the doctor said, instead, the thyroid report has been at the level of 28 West many times, and it can almost be diagnosed as cancer, but she does not plan to have a resection for the time being. Some people in the hospital cannot understand this behavior. My mother has to do pathology. During the operation, a lot of anesthetics were used, which affected her reaction for a while, and the area was suppurated. After being discharged from the hospital, she had to go to the hospital for half a month to ask the doctor to prick the wound with a needle to drain the pus. She mistrusted bad people, but she did not believe in professionals Examination and specialists, you have asked for big trouble! The big pathology is just a benign mass, which existed decades ago. After so many years of physical examination, the tiny mass has not changed. Spending money is secondary, and the pain is unbearable. My grandma is from a nursing home. When she came back, she was worried about her daughter. Fortunately, she was fine. The old man was very scared. What would happen to the family if something went wrong? The doctor who didn’t know who it was, made a family feel sad for several months with just a few words. Fortunately, during the Chinese New Year, the family got better, and I was 1000 years old. My mother went to the ancient medicine clinic in Nancheng to see her doctor. The doctor still advised her to have a thyroidectomy as soon as possible, but my mother really didn’t want to do this kind of operation. .Auntie bought grapes for my mother, and asked my mother and I to go to the restaurant to eat at night.It was also at that time that my aunt was on the night street and said that she would send her son who will take the college entrance examination in the future to go to college in Golden Bay. It seemed that she had sufficient financial resources.The aunt gave my mother 26 yuan in cash in her car, and said that I would eat roast suckling pig. This is what I want to eat. My mother accepted the money, but I didn’t eat roast suckling pig. I went to another city in the south.When I was in elementary school, my aunt gave me New Year’s money, and my mother used the money to give to her children. My mother bought some toys, and Pikachu’s big doll was given to her children, and I also had them.They used to eat together in Bingcheng. When my mother was in the most difficult time, my aunt never lent her money, but every time my mother went to Nancheng, my aunt would entertain her and invite her to dinner.My dad and aunt’s husband have a very good relationship. In a few years, because they cooperated several times at that time, my dad ate and drank at their house, and my aunt deducted part of the money earned as my dad’s personal living expenses. My dad and the original This pair of good friends is in the same boat!The money may not be much, my dad asked that woman to find knives and guns, and went to the south to settle accounts, but nothing happened. On the contrary, my dad's financial situation soon became far worse than before. The store closed, and the woman ran away. Most of my wine and meat friends do not contact.After that, my mother asked my dad to borrow money, and then my dad partnered with her again. After that, it was very painful for many years.Until September when I was 29 years old, she was subjected to domestic violence many times again. She said she ran away thanks to her, and told her that she had no money to pay back. My dad beat and scolded his ex-wife, but he didn't care.To put it at least, he has been in contact with dozens of women in his life, and maybe only one for domestic violence, which is what my mother is willing to do.In the summer when I was 40 years old, I went to a place and listened to free psychological counseling, professional courses and private counseling need to be charged.A group of parent-child group members get together and tell their own family stories as a way to relieve negative emotions.My grandma passed away a year ago, and my dad blamed me more, thinking that I was not filial, he thought that I should not treat me well, he should beat and scold me since I was a child, a filial son is born under the stick, the more beating and scolding, the more filial piety he has. I think that life has been given to me, if I am not satisfied, I should be beaten and scolded, and I cannot exist without a job.I haven't talked to him for a while, and my mother doesn't know right from wrong and thinks I'm too much!How can I reduce exposure for refusing to be scolded?She thinks that parents should be responsible for scolding their children. If I don't pay, don't take care of my children, and don't want to be scolded and hurt, I am not filial!It was painful, so I went to counseling and was honest about my situation and some family stories.I said that my mother used to believe in Buddhism, and believed that parents are twin Buddhas, who can give and raise children’s lives, so they can do whatever they want. Whether parents are good or not, children should treat their parents well, as if only children are wrong in the world, and parents Even if there is a mistake, my mother thinks that it is already the Buddha of the children, so who can care about and intervene?She thinks that children have a bad life in front of their parents, so they can only accept their fate and bow their heads. It would be better if they can spend money and be as good as other children's children.I told some things about my family to the members of the parent-child group, and others also talked about it. Everyone talked a lot. Some members of the group experienced more serious domestic violence than I did.Some people work in big cities for a better life and future, while others are avoiding their original families. The shadow of the family in the growing period may only be cured in a lifetime, or even cured. This sentence makes sense.Those whose families are warm and their parents are harmonious may not be able to appreciate the negative impact of domestic violence on people when they are growing up. How terrible and dark some domestic violence is, some scenes will be recalled over and over again, which is quite torturous. disease.It is difficult for an upright official to judge housework. Don't judge how a person treats his family and relatives hastily. You can understand some personal experiences before commenting.Think in another way, if you suffer from those things, what would you do?Not necessarily how well it can be done.People who understand psychology asked me some things about my elders when they were growing up, and then told me that my mother became like this, and my grandfather was responsible. My mother was stubborn since she was a child. Well, let her subconsciously have a wrong understanding of domestic violence. She is very dependent on her father, so she is very filial to him. She is a strong woman with a strong appearance and a twin personality. She still lives in her heart as a little girl back then, and Has the bad habit of duplicity.My father was young and loved to fight. My mother thought he was a masculine man, which attracted her in some ways, but the family and neighbors did not agree to this marriage. My mother thought her choice was very good!After we got married, I was beaten hundreds of times. My mother thought beating was love and abuse, and my dad loved her (...). Perhaps only a few people would think that being beaten often is a sign of love.The relatives said that this is not a normal marriage. There are quarrels and conflicts, but they have children, and they are not young and ignorant couples. How can they always hit people?There must be a sense of proportion in doing things.My grandma and grandpa have been husband and wife for more than [-] years. They have never touched their hands a few times in their life. Still have to go on.My uncle was rarely beaten by his parents. Before the parents did anything, he said something wrong, and when he committed a crime, he said something wrong again. He has his own cleverness.My mother said that my uncle lied since he was a child, but my grandma still favors her son. She thinks it’s okay for him to do something wrong, because he is a close relative, and any wrong thing can be forgiven. She thinks that others should understand that mothers love their children. Heart.My mother does not allow family members to say that her husband is not good!Her choice is not wrong!The family must be angry with her for spending her money!Back then, my family did not agree with this marriage, and my mother wanted to get married if she stole her household registration, but my mother later lost her stock and couldn’t be the family’s cash cow. She knew what kind of life she lived, and she thought her family was incapable of letting her get married. To be so unlucky, to shift the blame to someone else, to think it was someone else's fault. "After I finished speaking, I shook my head. I didn't have to think about all the grievances and grievances, but I still said it.

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