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Chapter 384 Psychological Counseling
When Mark took Ma Li to study that day, he saw Xiaomeng looking a little unhappy.After Xiao Meng taught Ma Li, and when Ma Li practiced by herself, she asked curiously: "Mr. Xiao Meng, what's wrong with you, are you a little unhappy?"

"It's okay, Papa Lily, I'll ask you something."

Xiaomeng said with some embarrassment: "You are a man and the father of two children, please analyze it for me."

"Qiao Weidong and I have been together for three years. During this period, we got along quite happily, but from the second half of the year, I feel that there is a problem in our relationship."

"I have been urging him to marry me, but I have always shied away, saying that it is the feeling of taking care of the children. I understand, but I am not young after all, and I want to have my own children."

"What do you think he is thinking? Is he still unable to let go of Mr. Song? Or is there something else I haven't considered?"

Mark looked at Xiaomeng and said, "You have been together for so many years, have you never had a child?"

"No, we've always had protection."

Xiaomeng blushed a little while talking, and felt that she was crazy, so she told Mark such a thing.

On the contrary, Mark didn't think there was anything wrong, and said: "I don't know what he thinks about this, but if I want to think about it, if I have a young and beautiful girlfriend, if I like him, I will definitely marry her early , because as you get older, if you don’t settle down early, you will definitely lose your partner in the future.”

"And I don't think it's wrong to have children. Of course, Old Joe may consider more things, such as the distribution of property in the future. For example, if you have children now, when you go to school in the future, compared with the parents of other children, yourself It's from grandpa's generation, so it's definitely inappropriate."

Hearing what Mark said, Xiaomeng felt that she needed to have a good talk with Qiao Weidong. If it was because of the inheritance, she didn't know if she would change her mind, but for now, she doesn't really want much, as long as she can live with her family. That's about it.

Besides, she didn't believe that after Qiao Weidong really had a child with her, he would be cruel and not give his child at all.

As for the so-called child support, in fact, she felt that it was nothing, because now many people in their forties and fifties have a second child, and this cannot be the reason for Qiao Weidong not to have children with her.

"It's not a problem at all. Let me talk to Old Qiao and have a frank and honest talk. There shouldn't be any problem."

Mark looked at Xiaomeng amusedly, and said, "The first two possibilities are actually easy to solve. But there is another possibility, and you need to be more cautious."

"What is it?"

"That's because Qiao Weidong has a physical problem. There will be no other children in this life. Qiao Yingzi is his only offspring. Of course, Qiao Yingzi's feelings should be considered more."

Xiaomeng looked at Mark in shock after hearing Mark's words. She couldn't believe that there was such a possibility, because if it was the case, she had to consider her relationship with Qiao Weidong.

It's not that she doesn't like Qiao Weidong, but if she can't become a mother, her life will be imperfect.

If it is true that Qiao Weidong cannot give himself a child, and he also knows that he is infertile, then his attitude towards himself now is very doubtful.

Mark was a little stunned when he saw Xiaomeng, and turned to look at Marin.He didn't care what Xiaomeng did in the end, anyway, it had nothing to do with him.

Even if Xiaomeng pursues her in the end, she still maintains an attitude of not taking the initiative, not refusing, and being irresponsible.

Xiaomeng just has a crush on Mark now, but she hasn't liked it yet. After Ma Li's practice, they separated.

Chunfeng Middle School has another activity here, and the school is planning to hold a parent meeting for the third grade.This parent meeting is different from the previous parent meeting, but mainly aimed at the psychological problems of senior high school students. Psychologists were recruited from outside to provide psychological counseling and consultation for senior high school students and their parents.

Although not every parent is required to participate, at least one parent in a family must be present to understand how to get along with senior three students and what issues should be paid attention to.

The reason why the school prepares such an event is mainly because a student who was admitted to Tsinghua University in the previous class was already suffering from depression and was hospitalized due to too much pressure from high school study and family.

The school does not want such a tragedy to happen again, so it has given a vaccination to the parents and teachers in advance to avoid such a thing from happening again.

Mark also knew about the parent meeting, and after discussing with Tian Ye, Mark came to the meeting, but Tian Ye continued to work.

Ever since the beauty salon got on the right track in this field and Mark opened the bookstore, the family affairs were basically handed over to Mark, while she was concentrating on her career.

This psychological counseling is mainly aimed at the problems of high mental stress and puppy love, so as to avoid problems in the parent-child relationship.

Mark actually knows a lot about some things that psychologists talk about. It’s not for nothing that he opened the book club these years. He has read a lot of various psychological books, and he has long been a half-psychologist.

In fact, Mark doesn't need to worry about Ma Li's mental health, because Mark has already intervened in Ma Li's situation, so that Ma Li has always grown up healthily.

The so-called divorce of parents, single-parent family and other psychological problems affecting Ma Li, when he was with Tian Ye, it was already destined that these would not be factors that would affect Ma Li.

Mark on Qiao Yingzi's side has also done corresponding operations, mainly through Song Qian. Since she divorced Qiao Weidong, she is now a single-parent family.

In the past, Song Qian put a lot of pressure on Qiao Yingzi, mainly because Song Qian always wanted to control Qiao Yingzi's life. Now that she lets go, Qiao Yingzi's pressure is much less, and the probability of suffering from depression is also much smaller.

Song Qian heard the teacher's lecture on the stage, and felt that there was still a lot of work in it, which was similar to what Mark told herself, and she also realized that she was not forcing Qiao Yingzi to study like this now.

She also heard about a graduate student suffering from psychological problems, but she never thought that the student was actually a tenant of her house.

Since this is a school, Song Qian and Mark did not sit together, but Song Qian and Tong Wenjie sat together.

After the teacher's lecture was over, Tong Wenjie asked curiously: "Did our school have lectures like this every time before?"

"How could there be such things before? This year is also the first time. It seems that it is also because a child has been hospitalized due to psychological problems."

Tong Wenjie asked in shock: "Ah, they are all hospitalized, so serious?"

"I haven't paid attention to it before. I know it's difficult to take care of third-year students. If it weren't for this time, I really don't know the seriousness of the problem."

"The students in the past had so many problems. They all studied hard and tried to get themselves admitted to a good university. But what the teacher said just now was right. The psychological quality of today's children is much worse than that of the previous children. .”

"Most of the children nowadays are only children, which is the result of factors such as social punishment, the increasing divorce rate, and single-parent families."

"Your family is fine, you have two children, and you have a good relationship with Fangyuan, so there will definitely be no problems. But our family, Yingzi, is a bit dangerous. If Lao Ma hadn't told me to pay attention to the mental health of the third-year children , Maybe I have overlooked Yingzi's question."

Song Qian said with deep emotion, and said: "You may see that Yingzi's academic performance is good, so you think everything about Yingzi is very good. I used to think so, but after Lao Ma told me once, I Only then did I realize that Yingzi was actually under a lot of pressure."

"I have been strict with her over the years, but the school teachers also have requirements for her, because she has always been the first in the age before, and they must pay special attention to Yingzi's grades."

"In addition, Yingzi has been very good since he was a child. He went smoothly all the way and didn't encounter any setbacks at all. When he encounters setbacks, he will not be able to stand it."

"It's also fortunate that Yingzi gave me peace of mind. These problems did not occur, and there was no history of puppy love. Only then did I know that there are so many puppy loves in the third year of high school."

She couldn't help thinking that when Lin Lei'er came to take the first class placement test, Qiao Yingzi was taken away from the first place for the first time.

At that time, I didn't think there was anything wrong, because Song Qian hadn't always been the number one since she was a child, and she had also experienced being surpassed by others.It was Mark who reminded her that she noticed that Qiao Yingzi's life had always been too smooth, and she had never encountered such a thing.

So when she knew that Qiao Yingzi was secretly meeting Qiao Weidong, or even secretly playing Lego at Qiao Weidong's house, she pretended not to know, in order to let Qiao Yingzi relax and adjust her emotions.

But she ignored that Qiao Weidong didn't understand these things at all, and even used Qiao Yingzi's absenteeism as a way to please her daughter, which made her a little angry.

It was also from that time that Song Qian began to herd Qiao Yingzi gradually, in order to let Qiao Yingzi discover her own problems and know how to work hard.

Normally, Mark would casually talk to himself about some university things, such as how difficult it is for someone to succeed, subtly letting Qiao Yingzi know that the road to success cannot be smooth sailing.

Giving Qiao Yingzi sufficient freedom allows her to contact the outside world, and the same is true for her studies. From the beginning, she forced him to study, and later she decided to take the initiative to learn.

He even took Qiao Yingzi to Mark's bookstore early in order to let her enrich her knowledge, thereby broaden her horizons and enhance her self-connotation.

So although Qiao Yingzi still sometimes gets into trouble with Song Qian, it's all about venting his emotions, and there is no possibility of his heart being unhealthy.

Song Qian now feels that Mark deserves to be the man she chose, not only to fall in love with her, but also to help her educate her children.

Now she is full of gratitude to Mark in her heart. If she is not in school now, she even wants to give Mark a hug and a kiss.

(End of this chapter)