The goddess gave birth to a dragon and a phoenix

Chapter 204 To put it simply... Please subscribe and ask for a monthly pass~
And if you put it simply, in fact, these trivial and troublesome things can only be dealt with in two words:

accompany.

Grandma Chen looked at the news at home and in the community. Many young people got married and had children. Although she didn't understand the thoughts of young people and couldn't understand many buzzwords they said, she could see clearly that young people nowadays When they fall in love one by one, they seem to be talking about love on that mouth, describing love, touching themselves or touching their significant other...

But when this love comes to each other's lives, the communication between the two families, and even the life after marriage, it becomes a mess.

In fact, when most young men and women fall in love and even get married, they are very sweet... A mess is naturally impossible to describe this. This kind of mess is not the sweet life of two people after marriage, but when things happen, such as giving birth, such as There are conflicts between the two families that need to compromise or give in. This is the moment to witness true love!

The moment of love is never the right moment.

Ability is one thing. Only by breaking through many contradictions and difficulties with attitude and actions can we reach the most perfect state of love——

People can be invited, but please accompany me.

This kind of company doesn't mean that a man has to stay by his wife's side every day...

A man needs a career, and a family also needs a man's career, but when they return home after work, many men are often perfunctory at this time, evading when they can, and not doing things if they can... In their It seems that this is because I am tired from working all day and want to take a rest. I just sit and swipe my phone to play games. Anyway, don’t I ask someone to serve you?

But the point is, this performance...

From the point of view of a wife who is pregnant or has just given birth, she can’t feel the love. The most important thing is that the hormone changes in Baoma’s body during the period from pregnancy to postpartum are like a roller coaster. At this time, her temper is mostly It's very bad, and I will naturally make all kinds of noises and toss with my husband.

And these...

In the eyes of the man, don't you just make trouble for no reason?

Didn't I care if you didn't sleep well or sleep well today?
Didn't I just ask how the baby is, but didn't ask you how you feel today?
What are you doing?Let me ask you, what are you doing? !

Why don't I love you anymore? !

In the end, it directly evolved into a meaningless quarrel like "you are making trouble for no reason" or "how do you love me", and it is a normal result to break up on bad terms.

However, what many husbands don't know is that wives are still willing to quarrel with themselves, which shows——

No problem!

The big problem is that the wife is always depressed before or after childbirth, and even smiles in front of her husband and mother-in-law. This kind of behavior requires the husband to pay special attention.

Both—

In the previous situation, as long as the husband realizes that it is an attitude problem, he does not even need to do housework, but only needs to give him some attentive company and care——

Maybe someone will say again, how can I accompany me when I want to work? !
Well, it’s true that you have to work, and it’s true that you need to concentrate and not be distracted when you work, but there is always a cup of coffee during the break, and you have to eat during the lunch break, right?
At these times, think about the wife who is in confinement at home, and she doesn't sleep much. Can I have a rest today?Can you eat your meals during the day?How's your appetite? !

Make a Weixin video call and go back to see her, even send a Weixin, how about asking?There are always a few minutes, right? !

This is not a simple greeting, nor is it a formal concern, but that many husbands in this society can only do this in order to support their families...

Even if she doesn't care, but through this kind of communication, the wife at home can also see the exhaustion of her husband who is running around outside sweating profusely, and the way he is still working hard in fatigue can also give her a lot of energy from afar .

And the latter—

It is the primary manifestation of depression. No matter who is prenatal or postpartum, mothers will show signs of depression, such as taciturnity, inability to eat, and poor sleep. Before childbirth, they will be afraid and anxious about giving birth, and after childbirth, they will lose their temper , guilt, and even being at a loss in taking care of the baby, losing confidence, etc...

In such a situation, unless the husband wants to leave the family immediately, he would ask for leave or even quit his job and return to the family. It is the best way to actively treat with his wife.

If love at the beginning only needed hormones and dopamine, then what love in this period needs is to work hard to live a taste in every detail and every trivial matter in life.

If a man can experience peace, security and happiness from such a life, then congratulations...

You still have love.

The so-called marriage is the tomb of love...

It's just that a marriage that can't bear the details of married life and trivial tests and dies of love is just a self-consolation and excuse for the incompetent who has no ability to love at this critical moment.

……

As for these, Wu Jiangtao is quite lucky. He passed these checkpoints one by one in less than half a year. Of course, the most important thing is Chen Jun's sister...

Different from ordinary girls.

Just like now, even when the baby is sleeping during the day at home, she must turn around and sit at the desk or in front of the computer to start doing some work at the research institute.

For this, Wu Jiangtao felt like shooting himself in the foot with a stone...

The next day, after finishing the practice class in the morning, I saw my wife sitting at the desk and turning on the computer to do calculations. Well, although the research institute did not send her any work assignments, she was very interested in some work projects in the current research institute. I understand everything, especially the part that requires mathematical operations, and she will help with it...

In the research institute, her ability in pure mathematics is one of the best, and her work efficiency is much higher than that of others.

In this regard, her tutor, Professor Lu Huixin, also told her several times, but she still did it.

And this matter, Wu Jiangtao didn't stop it at first, because her mood fluctuated a lot in the months after giving birth, and she could only settle down when she sat at the desk in the room.

The project materials that Li Xiaoshan brought from the research institute played a role in calming her emotions, and made the two of them less emotional collisions and conflicts.

To a certain extent, this inadvertently promoted the harmonious and stable development of the relationship between the two of them. Well, a certain best friend didn't know that she had become a moon elder.

Of course, things are changing and developing, just like now this thing has vaguely become an "obstacle" to the sweet relationship between the two of them. Of course, the obstacle is only relative to Wu Jiangtao. For Chen Jun, she has just given a sweet Sweet kiss, just turned around and came to work...

Well, this is a report.

But for someone, this is not a report, but an ignition!
(End of this chapter)