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Chapter 377 The wisdom of the older generation is all debt
Chapter 377 The Wisdom of the Older Generation Is a Debt
Such a blunt example of Li Songlin is there, if you don't take advantage of it, how can you be worthy of yourself.
People of the older generation are like this. They will create conditions if they have no conditions, and use them if they have conditions. In short, they will not let themselves suffer.
In such an era, it was no problem to be able to raise six or seven or eight children. How could they be so incapable of raising children.
Those who have survived the hard days can only understand the three flavors.
"An old family is like a treasure." This sentence is definitely not just talking, but has been proven since ancient times;
Li Songlin himself was talked about by the old people in the village, and he only felt that these grandparents had a very good attitude towards him.
Before I went to college, I can only say that it was neither good nor bad.
The discrimination and bullying that Li Songlin suffered from childhood was basically given by his peers and his father's generation, and the old people did not get involved.
Now, facing the increasingly intimate attitude of the old people, he naturally responded politely.
Grandma Li undoubtedly knew something, but she obviously didn't intend to say more.
She is most at ease about her grandson, but she is not at all worried that he will mishandle it.
After coming back for the New Year this time, Li Songlin became more cheerful than before.
But Li's father, Li's mother, and even Li Muchen were completely ignored by him!
During this period, neither party thought about talking to the other party, and they avoided each other tacitly.
Of course, Li's father and the others also had their own ideas about Li Songlin being so decisive;
Zuo just thinks that he is such a person without conscience. Fortunately, he didn't invest in feelings before, and such a wolf-hearted person is not worth it.
That's right, that's how they comfort themselves, so as to make themselves feel less guilty.
Li Songlin didn't know about this, and of course he didn't care about it!
After all, the current living conditions are really comfortable, and there is no need to think about those terrible things.
If you have this time, why not take advantage of the New Year's Eve to accompany grandma and take her around.
Not to mention, Mrs. Li is really different from the old ladies in other villages.
She will not be embarrassed to accept the children's filial piety, will not shy away from health care products that are good for the body, and will not feel that it is inappropriate for the children to take her to play...
Of course, this also gave Li Songlin a wide space for self-expression.
If I have nothing to do, I will take my grandma to various scenic spots in the city, live in a house there, and then take her to spend.
That's right, these were all brought by Li Songlin to Mrs. Li, and the other sons naturally couldn't be so thoughtful.
In their view, if the old lady is not hungry and there is no problem with her health, they have fulfilled their obligations as children.
Whoever let them have their own family, naturally it is impossible to put much thought on their own mother.
The relationship is mutual, so after going back and forth, the old lady naturally leaned towards Li Songlin even more.
It is very rare to have such a filial grandson, as for those unfilial sons, forget it!
Once there is a comparison, you can really see the gap very quickly.
Compared with Li Songlin?
No, my son is not worthy, at least in the matter of filial piety, they are not qualified at all.
Of course, she's never been a sleazy person.
In just over two years, Mrs. Li has seen them through, and it would be a lie to say that she is not disappointed;
At that time, she raised five sons and one daughter, and watched them have children. Naturally, she suffered a lot from it.
In the end, to get such a reward, how can it be a joke at once.
It's funny to say that the child she worked so hard to support, turned out to be unwilling to support her.
Really filial piety!
In the past, Mrs. Li was still able to do things by herself, and the children were busy and under pressure to make rafts.
But when Li Songlin supported her one-acre three-point land, after taking care of her grandma again and again until she had nothing to say, her self-deceiving words completely lost their effect.
It's not what the grandson said, but she gradually understood it herself!
It’s okay to have no reference before, but now...
"Mom, why are you so partial?"
Mrs. Li had heard her sons complain about this more than once, and one or two of them were filled with righteous indignation.
But she didn't pay attention to it at all, and she still did what she should do, with an attitude that was not affected in the slightest.
Gradually, those sour words became less and less!
Faced with their mother's refusal to answer, the children naturally had no choice but to shut up brilliantly.
Ever since Li Songlin made a name for himself, these uncles have never received any good looks from their old lady, and their status has dropped again and again.
Although my daughter-in-law had persuaded them not to provoke the child, and not to make fun of themselves in front of the old lady.
But as male chauvinists, they think they are the pillars of the Li family, how can they hold back and endure this grievance?
But after bumping into the wall again and again, he didn't have the stubbornness at the beginning.
The daughters-in-law of the Li family, looking at the radiant appearance of the old lady, felt envious.
I really hope that my children will be as promising and filial as Li Songlin's nephew in the future.
As for whether the wish will come true, it is open to question!
If you think about it carefully, instead of caring about these things, it is better to live your own little life.
It was the same day before, so I didn't ask for trouble after going back and forth!
Looking at their follow-up actions, Mrs. Li can only say that they have completely cut off the expectations and thoughts they shouldn't have.
Instead of thinking about the impossible, it is better to live your old age well.
There may not be many days left in this life, there is no need to always be affected by those bad things.
She is also a little old lady who has a monthly pension subsidy, and there is also a filial younger generation.
You have everything you need, there is no need to expect too much, isn't it?
Desires are endless, and one should learn to be content and always be happy. This is how Li persuaded herself;
The day before Li Songlin left for his winter vacation, the grandfather and grandson sat by the fire and chatted.
During this period of time, because her grandson was by her side, Grandma Li seemed to be more energetic.
"..., do you remember what I told you before?"
"Huh? Grandma, what do you mean?"
Li Songlin looked at his grandmother in a daze, completely puzzled.
The topic of the two people's conversation just now was obviously about the family's faults, so why did such a question suddenly come up.
Looking at her grandson, Mrs. Li couldn't help laughing cheerfully.
???
In such a situation, Li Songlin naturally didn't understand!
However, Mrs. Li at the other end didn't whet his appetite either, but brought up the old story again.
This question is what I talked to Li Songlin on the first day back: settle down with Xiduo as soon as possible.
Although I already have my own answers and plans for the topic my grandma raised, I can't say it too bluntly.
Li Songlin had no choice but to obediently nod in response, Li Shi was quite satisfied with that appearance.
It's good that the grandson can listen to it. After all, Li Shi really likes that girl Yang Xiduo.
I naturally hope that he can take good care of it, such a girl is not easy to meet.
Rich ladies from rich families are easy to find, but how many people are there with clear eyes like Xiduo?
"You kid, don't be perfunctory to grandma, you brought this man home by yourself;"
"I'm not perfunctory!"
Li Songlin made a gesture of "I swear", no matter how you look at it, you feel sincere.
That pair of clear eyes blinked at you, and there was always an inexplicable force that convinced you.
Regarding this matter, he will take the initiative to talk to his girlfriend when the time is right, but it seems that he is not now.
Mrs. Li carefully looked at the appearance of her grandson facing the wind in the jade tree, and only felt that time was really treating her child well.
The two just sat by the stove on the stove, chatting about homework while warming up the fire.
In fact, Li Songlin can see that Grandma Li is in a bad mood, but for him who will be outside for a long time in the future, this is undoubtedly a phenomenon that cannot be solved.
As for going to Shanghai with him, Li Songlin had mentioned to Mrs. Li, but she refused without even thinking about it!
Obviously, she didn't want to leave the village where she had stayed all her life, and she didn't want to leave the place full of memories with her old man.
"Grandma is old, I don't want to go back and forth anymore!"
When she said this, she was smiling all over her face without any hesitation.
It's good to have this intention, but she doesn't plan to go to Shanghai with her.
Even if he really has this ability, Mrs. Li doesn't want to run around anymore!
After staying in a small village for almost half of my life, almost all my memories revolve around this boundary, how can I get away?
It's hard to leave their homeland, and to be honest, foreigners of their generation are even worse than dogs in the eyes of their generation.
Thinking that you can return to your hometown after you die, and you don't know many people outside, so you really shouldn't be happy when you go.
She has already buried half of her body in the soil, and she doesn't want to run around anymore!
Li Songlin's heart throbs whenever Li reveals that time is running out.
He is a child raised by his grandmother, and his closest family member is his grandmother. Just thinking of her not being here, he feels as uncomfortable as if he has no home.
My heart seems to be blocked;
If grandma is really gone, he may not come back to this city as much as possible!
Even if he came back, he should visit Wang Lei's family.
In such a big city, there are only a few people worth nostalgia for, which is ironic.
Whenever Li Shi makes such an assumption, he will obediently change the current topic, and then try to talk about things that make her happy.
Although the topic is always shifted, both grandparents and grandsons also know that some things must be faced;
Birth, old age, sickness and death, normal life;
He can understand and accept things that are placed on others.
But when it was placed on Grandma Li alone, he didn't even dare to think about it, for fear that it might become true sometimes.
How could Mrs. Li fail to see the thoughts of his grandson, but he couldn't persuade him either.
It's really not up to her to decide;
She has lived to be in her 70s, and has been busy and exhausted for most of her life. She really doesn't know how long she can live.
I just hope to see Li Songlin get married and have children. She doesn't dare to expect too much about the rest~
However, Mrs. Li did not reveal any intention of death in front of her grandson, so she was very good at keeping her mouth shut on this matter.
"Grandma, don't worry! Grandson likes her and will work hard;"
The chat beside the stove continued, and the grandparent and grandson slowly chatted about it.
From the words, it is not difficult to see that Grandma Li is very satisfied with this girl Yang Xiduo, otherwise she would not have spoken in front of Li Songlin at this moment.
Against the background of the stove next to him, he couldn't help but have a flash of inspiration when he saw grandma's expression of interest.
Immediately, he took out his mobile phone, quickly found WeChat and typed a few lines.
"Xiduo, can I video now?"
At this moment, Yang Xiduo had just showered and dried her hair, and then saw a message on WeChat.
"sure!"
"My grandma is also nearby, maybe I will talk to you..."
"Wait, wait and play the video for me, I'll go clean up, give me some time."
Instead of refusing, she chose to tidy herself up again. It was obviously impolite and inappropriate to show up in pajamas.
"Well, it's okay, take your time~"
For girls, Li Songlin can understand their desire to appear beautifully in front of everyone.
And it was originally my own temporary idea, but it was my own problem.
"Mmmmm~"
Immediately, a dynamic JPG of the cat nodding obediently was sent.
Looking at the cute expression pack, he just felt that his girlfriend looked like that.
For a while, he couldn't help smiling.
Looking at his expression, Mrs. Li knew that the young couple were chatting, so she slowly stopped chattering.
Seeing that grandma's voice was no longer in his ears, Li Songlin immediately turned his head and looked at her suspiciously.
"What's the matter, grandma?"
"..."
Seeing this question, for a moment Li didn't know how to answer.
"Cough~ It's okay, you and the girl have a good chat, don't worry..."
With a clear cough, Grandma Li shook her head as if nothing had happened.
"Grandma, don't you keep mentioning Xiduo, I just want to let you two have a video, so that you two can have a good chat."
Li Songlin couldn't see the little Jiujiu in his grandma's heart, so he couldn't help explaining with a smile.
As soon as these words came out, the old man in front of him suddenly lit up.
As a grandma, she can chat with her grandson any way she likes, but she rarely has the opportunity to chat with her grandson's girlfriend.
I liked that girl at first, but at this moment, my face is naturally full of anticipation.
"Then why don't you give the phone to grandma?"
"Cough cough cough~"
Li Songlin looked at his grandmother's face that changed again and again, and shook his head with a chuckle.
"The girl has to clean herself up, she has to wait for a while~"
Hearing these words, the smile in Li's eyes deepened even more.
Meet the partner, meet the family, and dress up well, she is very good at all aspects of it.
After all, he came from that age, how could he not know what the girl was thinking.
The more attention the better, the greater the possibility that the two children will get together.
She wished that the relationship between the two of them would be better, so that she could see her grandson get married and have children as soon as possible...
(End of this chapter)
Such a blunt example of Li Songlin is there, if you don't take advantage of it, how can you be worthy of yourself.
People of the older generation are like this. They will create conditions if they have no conditions, and use them if they have conditions. In short, they will not let themselves suffer.
In such an era, it was no problem to be able to raise six or seven or eight children. How could they be so incapable of raising children.
Those who have survived the hard days can only understand the three flavors.
"An old family is like a treasure." This sentence is definitely not just talking, but has been proven since ancient times;
Li Songlin himself was talked about by the old people in the village, and he only felt that these grandparents had a very good attitude towards him.
Before I went to college, I can only say that it was neither good nor bad.
The discrimination and bullying that Li Songlin suffered from childhood was basically given by his peers and his father's generation, and the old people did not get involved.
Now, facing the increasingly intimate attitude of the old people, he naturally responded politely.
Grandma Li undoubtedly knew something, but she obviously didn't intend to say more.
She is most at ease about her grandson, but she is not at all worried that he will mishandle it.
After coming back for the New Year this time, Li Songlin became more cheerful than before.
But Li's father, Li's mother, and even Li Muchen were completely ignored by him!
During this period, neither party thought about talking to the other party, and they avoided each other tacitly.
Of course, Li's father and the others also had their own ideas about Li Songlin being so decisive;
Zuo just thinks that he is such a person without conscience. Fortunately, he didn't invest in feelings before, and such a wolf-hearted person is not worth it.
That's right, that's how they comfort themselves, so as to make themselves feel less guilty.
Li Songlin didn't know about this, and of course he didn't care about it!
After all, the current living conditions are really comfortable, and there is no need to think about those terrible things.
If you have this time, why not take advantage of the New Year's Eve to accompany grandma and take her around.
Not to mention, Mrs. Li is really different from the old ladies in other villages.
She will not be embarrassed to accept the children's filial piety, will not shy away from health care products that are good for the body, and will not feel that it is inappropriate for the children to take her to play...
Of course, this also gave Li Songlin a wide space for self-expression.
If I have nothing to do, I will take my grandma to various scenic spots in the city, live in a house there, and then take her to spend.
That's right, these were all brought by Li Songlin to Mrs. Li, and the other sons naturally couldn't be so thoughtful.
In their view, if the old lady is not hungry and there is no problem with her health, they have fulfilled their obligations as children.
Whoever let them have their own family, naturally it is impossible to put much thought on their own mother.
The relationship is mutual, so after going back and forth, the old lady naturally leaned towards Li Songlin even more.
It is very rare to have such a filial grandson, as for those unfilial sons, forget it!
Once there is a comparison, you can really see the gap very quickly.
Compared with Li Songlin?
No, my son is not worthy, at least in the matter of filial piety, they are not qualified at all.
Of course, she's never been a sleazy person.
In just over two years, Mrs. Li has seen them through, and it would be a lie to say that she is not disappointed;
At that time, she raised five sons and one daughter, and watched them have children. Naturally, she suffered a lot from it.
In the end, to get such a reward, how can it be a joke at once.
It's funny to say that the child she worked so hard to support, turned out to be unwilling to support her.
Really filial piety!
In the past, Mrs. Li was still able to do things by herself, and the children were busy and under pressure to make rafts.
But when Li Songlin supported her one-acre three-point land, after taking care of her grandma again and again until she had nothing to say, her self-deceiving words completely lost their effect.
It's not what the grandson said, but she gradually understood it herself!
It’s okay to have no reference before, but now...
"Mom, why are you so partial?"
Mrs. Li had heard her sons complain about this more than once, and one or two of them were filled with righteous indignation.
But she didn't pay attention to it at all, and she still did what she should do, with an attitude that was not affected in the slightest.
Gradually, those sour words became less and less!
Faced with their mother's refusal to answer, the children naturally had no choice but to shut up brilliantly.
Ever since Li Songlin made a name for himself, these uncles have never received any good looks from their old lady, and their status has dropped again and again.
Although my daughter-in-law had persuaded them not to provoke the child, and not to make fun of themselves in front of the old lady.
But as male chauvinists, they think they are the pillars of the Li family, how can they hold back and endure this grievance?
But after bumping into the wall again and again, he didn't have the stubbornness at the beginning.
The daughters-in-law of the Li family, looking at the radiant appearance of the old lady, felt envious.
I really hope that my children will be as promising and filial as Li Songlin's nephew in the future.
As for whether the wish will come true, it is open to question!
If you think about it carefully, instead of caring about these things, it is better to live your own little life.
It was the same day before, so I didn't ask for trouble after going back and forth!
Looking at their follow-up actions, Mrs. Li can only say that they have completely cut off the expectations and thoughts they shouldn't have.
Instead of thinking about the impossible, it is better to live your old age well.
There may not be many days left in this life, there is no need to always be affected by those bad things.
She is also a little old lady who has a monthly pension subsidy, and there is also a filial younger generation.
You have everything you need, there is no need to expect too much, isn't it?
Desires are endless, and one should learn to be content and always be happy. This is how Li persuaded herself;
The day before Li Songlin left for his winter vacation, the grandfather and grandson sat by the fire and chatted.
During this period of time, because her grandson was by her side, Grandma Li seemed to be more energetic.
"..., do you remember what I told you before?"
"Huh? Grandma, what do you mean?"
Li Songlin looked at his grandmother in a daze, completely puzzled.
The topic of the two people's conversation just now was obviously about the family's faults, so why did such a question suddenly come up.
Looking at her grandson, Mrs. Li couldn't help laughing cheerfully.
???
In such a situation, Li Songlin naturally didn't understand!
However, Mrs. Li at the other end didn't whet his appetite either, but brought up the old story again.
This question is what I talked to Li Songlin on the first day back: settle down with Xiduo as soon as possible.
Although I already have my own answers and plans for the topic my grandma raised, I can't say it too bluntly.
Li Songlin had no choice but to obediently nod in response, Li Shi was quite satisfied with that appearance.
It's good that the grandson can listen to it. After all, Li Shi really likes that girl Yang Xiduo.
I naturally hope that he can take good care of it, such a girl is not easy to meet.
Rich ladies from rich families are easy to find, but how many people are there with clear eyes like Xiduo?
"You kid, don't be perfunctory to grandma, you brought this man home by yourself;"
"I'm not perfunctory!"
Li Songlin made a gesture of "I swear", no matter how you look at it, you feel sincere.
That pair of clear eyes blinked at you, and there was always an inexplicable force that convinced you.
Regarding this matter, he will take the initiative to talk to his girlfriend when the time is right, but it seems that he is not now.
Mrs. Li carefully looked at the appearance of her grandson facing the wind in the jade tree, and only felt that time was really treating her child well.
The two just sat by the stove on the stove, chatting about homework while warming up the fire.
In fact, Li Songlin can see that Grandma Li is in a bad mood, but for him who will be outside for a long time in the future, this is undoubtedly a phenomenon that cannot be solved.
As for going to Shanghai with him, Li Songlin had mentioned to Mrs. Li, but she refused without even thinking about it!
Obviously, she didn't want to leave the village where she had stayed all her life, and she didn't want to leave the place full of memories with her old man.
"Grandma is old, I don't want to go back and forth anymore!"
When she said this, she was smiling all over her face without any hesitation.
It's good to have this intention, but she doesn't plan to go to Shanghai with her.
Even if he really has this ability, Mrs. Li doesn't want to run around anymore!
After staying in a small village for almost half of my life, almost all my memories revolve around this boundary, how can I get away?
It's hard to leave their homeland, and to be honest, foreigners of their generation are even worse than dogs in the eyes of their generation.
Thinking that you can return to your hometown after you die, and you don't know many people outside, so you really shouldn't be happy when you go.
She has already buried half of her body in the soil, and she doesn't want to run around anymore!
Li Songlin's heart throbs whenever Li reveals that time is running out.
He is a child raised by his grandmother, and his closest family member is his grandmother. Just thinking of her not being here, he feels as uncomfortable as if he has no home.
My heart seems to be blocked;
If grandma is really gone, he may not come back to this city as much as possible!
Even if he came back, he should visit Wang Lei's family.
In such a big city, there are only a few people worth nostalgia for, which is ironic.
Whenever Li Shi makes such an assumption, he will obediently change the current topic, and then try to talk about things that make her happy.
Although the topic is always shifted, both grandparents and grandsons also know that some things must be faced;
Birth, old age, sickness and death, normal life;
He can understand and accept things that are placed on others.
But when it was placed on Grandma Li alone, he didn't even dare to think about it, for fear that it might become true sometimes.
How could Mrs. Li fail to see the thoughts of his grandson, but he couldn't persuade him either.
It's really not up to her to decide;
She has lived to be in her 70s, and has been busy and exhausted for most of her life. She really doesn't know how long she can live.
I just hope to see Li Songlin get married and have children. She doesn't dare to expect too much about the rest~
However, Mrs. Li did not reveal any intention of death in front of her grandson, so she was very good at keeping her mouth shut on this matter.
"Grandma, don't worry! Grandson likes her and will work hard;"
The chat beside the stove continued, and the grandparent and grandson slowly chatted about it.
From the words, it is not difficult to see that Grandma Li is very satisfied with this girl Yang Xiduo, otherwise she would not have spoken in front of Li Songlin at this moment.
Against the background of the stove next to him, he couldn't help but have a flash of inspiration when he saw grandma's expression of interest.
Immediately, he took out his mobile phone, quickly found WeChat and typed a few lines.
"Xiduo, can I video now?"
At this moment, Yang Xiduo had just showered and dried her hair, and then saw a message on WeChat.
"sure!"
"My grandma is also nearby, maybe I will talk to you..."
"Wait, wait and play the video for me, I'll go clean up, give me some time."
Instead of refusing, she chose to tidy herself up again. It was obviously impolite and inappropriate to show up in pajamas.
"Well, it's okay, take your time~"
For girls, Li Songlin can understand their desire to appear beautifully in front of everyone.
And it was originally my own temporary idea, but it was my own problem.
"Mmmmm~"
Immediately, a dynamic JPG of the cat nodding obediently was sent.
Looking at the cute expression pack, he just felt that his girlfriend looked like that.
For a while, he couldn't help smiling.
Looking at his expression, Mrs. Li knew that the young couple were chatting, so she slowly stopped chattering.
Seeing that grandma's voice was no longer in his ears, Li Songlin immediately turned his head and looked at her suspiciously.
"What's the matter, grandma?"
"..."
Seeing this question, for a moment Li didn't know how to answer.
"Cough~ It's okay, you and the girl have a good chat, don't worry..."
With a clear cough, Grandma Li shook her head as if nothing had happened.
"Grandma, don't you keep mentioning Xiduo, I just want to let you two have a video, so that you two can have a good chat."
Li Songlin couldn't see the little Jiujiu in his grandma's heart, so he couldn't help explaining with a smile.
As soon as these words came out, the old man in front of him suddenly lit up.
As a grandma, she can chat with her grandson any way she likes, but she rarely has the opportunity to chat with her grandson's girlfriend.
I liked that girl at first, but at this moment, my face is naturally full of anticipation.
"Then why don't you give the phone to grandma?"
"Cough cough cough~"
Li Songlin looked at his grandmother's face that changed again and again, and shook his head with a chuckle.
"The girl has to clean herself up, she has to wait for a while~"
Hearing these words, the smile in Li's eyes deepened even more.
Meet the partner, meet the family, and dress up well, she is very good at all aspects of it.
After all, he came from that age, how could he not know what the girl was thinking.
The more attention the better, the greater the possibility that the two children will get together.
She wished that the relationship between the two of them would be better, so that she could see her grandson get married and have children as soon as possible...
(End of this chapter)
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