Farming in space: Nongmen Fufei is beautiful and sassy

Chapter 33 The eldest sister is like a mother
Of course Ye Ying also wants to live in a green brick and big tile house, but if he wants to marry a wife...

A picture could not help appearing in Ye Ying's mind: When seeing people, they always ask, who owns this big brick house?No matter how arrogant I am, I am embarrassed to say that this is my house? !
Where is your house then?
...thatched cottage, the kind that collapsed.

Ye Ying closed his eyes in embarrassment.

"In the best case, Lu Chengze treats me as well as you, but if after two or three years, Lu Chengze moves away, what if his house is sold?" Ye Zhen looked at the three brothers.

Three Brothers:"……"

No one has the face to say that this house cannot be sold, so they should keep it for themselves.After all, such a good green brick and large tile house is worth a lot of money, so it is basically impossible not to give it to relatives.

"It's almost possible. What if he doesn't like me in the future and drives me out? Where are you going to live?"

"Thinking about it even worse, if he marries a concubine or an ordinary wife in the future, people will look down on us and grind us, where are you going to hide?"

"In other words, Lu Chengze and I are good to you, but what if one day we are gone and his family members come over and take away the house and sell it, who do you rely on?"

Having said that, Ye Ying also understood, he raised his head, his eyes were burning: "What do you mean, we can't rely on anyone?"

Ye Zhen nodded with satisfaction, and finally came to her senses: "It's their affection, not their duty, to rely on you. As I said before, you must have the ability to live on your own at any time. Because No one can be relied on, except myself. But today, I have to add one more sentence, you may not understand, but you must keep it in your heart and think about it from time to time. "

The three brothers looked at Ye Zhen with burning eyes.

"If you want to rely on others to live a better life, you must provide them with relatively equal benefits. For example, if someone gives you a steamed bun, you have to do the work of a steamed bun. If someone gives you a steamed bun, you give What people do is not worth a steamed bun, so next time they may not be willing to give you steamed buns again. Knowing that you can't give him anything, if he gives you steamed buns, that is affection, not what he owes you."

This example is easy to understand, and Ye Hong nodded: "It's like when we were doing things for people in the town, they gave us a steamed bun, but they thought we didn't do well, so they refused to ask us to do things in the afternoon. Don't give us steamed buns."

Ye Zhen nodded: "So if you can't provide the corresponding benefits, you don't deserve this kind of good, then you shouldn't want it, and it won't last long if you want it."

"If you only want what others want, and feel that what they owe you, you should give it to you, but you can't give them equal benefits. After a long time, you get used to it, and you will feel that it should be done. Once others don't give you If you fall, it is their fault, and you will fall from the sky into the quagmire, and you will be sad, disappointed, and angry."

The three brothers looked at each other, a little guilty: Before Ye Zhen worked alone to support four, they just thought it was right, but if Ye Zhen didn't give enough, they would get angry and quarrel with Ye Zhen, thinking that Ye Zhen was incompetent.

"But if you have the ability to provide benefits to others, this person will not give you any more. You can also cooperate with other people and still get benefits. It's like the neighbors who repaired the house for Brother Lu. They provide strength. Lu Big brother provides wages. If you say you are his relative and you don’t come to work and ask him to pay wages, will he pay you wages?”

"But Brother Lu's house has been repaired here. If they go to repair other people's houses, do they have to pay them? They provide strength, and others provide wages. This is the benefit you give me, and I will give you the same benefit. .In this way, we can live a good life for a long time."

Ye Ying murmured for a while, then he understood for a moment, and nodded to show that he understood: Now Ye Zhen can feed and clothe the three brothers, and also have meat to eat, but it is not equal, but Ye Zhen has affection for her three brothers In, not obligation.

But outsiders don't even have affection for their three brothers, let alone obligations.

These words sound piercing and harsh, but they are extremely realistic.

Because Ye Zhen spoke as down-to-earth as possible, Ye Ying understood most of it.

Ye Yu understood half of it. After all, Ye Hong was still young. Although he answered the words the fastest, he didn't understand the truth all at once. He looked at the two brothers blankly, "I didn't understand, do you understand?" look.

Ye Zhen looked at the expressions of the three brothers, and sighed: "I will always be your sister, and of course I hope that I can give you better, even the best, but my ability is limited, so when I do what I can When it’s not possible, when you don’t meet your expectations, I hope you can learn to stand in my position and think about my difficulties, and then, understand me and don’t blame me. It’s the same for other people.”

This is the first time Ye Zhen told the three brothers to think differently. The three brothers were stunned for a moment, and then nodded.

In the past two months, the three brothers have been able to eat enough, clothe themselves warmly, and have meat every meal, which is already a good day that they could not have imagined before.

They can see Ye Zhen's contribution. Before doing housework, they felt aggrieved, but now they are a little ashamed: If the benefits should be equal to each other, the "benefits" they give are far from enough for those who eat meat and dress, big sister Yes, it's love.

For a child who is only ten years old, it is too much to say so much, Ye Zhen nodded and put the topic to an end: "I am looking forward to it. In the future, the four of us, siblings, will work together and work hard together." , we are capable, we can build green brick and tiled houses by ourselves, marry our own wives, and live a good life by ourselves. At that time, no matter who we face, we will be able to straighten our backs and tell everyone: our brothers and sisters Four, they didn’t starve themselves to death, and built a big house on their own, and lived a good life.”

"We will do it!" Ye Ying's eyes sparkled, obviously chicken blood had been injected into it.

"We will do it!" The two younger ones also shouted.

Outside the house, Lu Chengze, who was worried about the quarrel between his siblings, silently went back to his home behind the house after listening to the corner.

The little daughter-in-law of my family talks about the truth one after another, but it is easy to understand, and she can make children who are only a few years old understand. This ability is not something that ordinary village girls can have!

Lu Chengze felt more and more that he didn't know anything about this little daughter-in-law in two lifetimes!
After the chicken blood was beaten and the cold water was poured, the boss Ye Ying could calmly respond to the villagers' teasing and instigating: "That house is not mine, but Brother Lu's. It's kind of love for Brother Lu to live in me. I will work hard on it myself." But it’s my duty, I will rely on myself to build green brick and big tile houses in the future, and earn money to support myself.”

The second child, Ye Yu, also nodded: "We all listen to the elder sister. We will do whatever the elder sister tells us to do. The four of us, siblings, work hard, and we will get better and better in the future!"

The old Sanye Hong looked up with a small face: "I will let everyone listen to my eldest sister in the future!"

(End of this chapter)