It is difficult to obey the order of the common people

Chapter 292.
Ji Shaoyuan expected it, and said with a smile: "Your father is Wu Mingcheng, and your mother is Du Lan'er."

That's enough, Bo Keshan and his ilk are not worthy of being a father.

Now that we have talked about the past, Xiao Yue also took the opportunity to talk about something with Ji Shaoyuan, "Yuan'er has something to do, I have to apologize to you first."

"what's up?"

Ji Shaoyuan raised his eyebrows, Xiao Yue didn't look like the kind of person who broke through the glasses, so Xiao Yue couldn't imitate Bo Keshan and also have three wives and four concubines.

When Ji Shaoyuan's brain was wide open, Xiao Yue said bluntly, "Yuan'er, do we not want children for the time being?"

As soon as these words came out, Ji Shaoyuan was caught off guard.

To be honest, Ji Shaoyuan still has some thoughts about having a child, she is always worried that she will die because of having a child.Even though she survived, she had to bear the many sequelae after giving birth.

It's not worth it to give birth to a child and be weak and sick.

Moreover, after giving birth to a child, it means that she can't go outside to have fun.

Just kidding, in her prime, can she only be around men and children for the rest of her life?
She didn't want to, so she didn't think about having a baby so soon.

At least, when she has the confidence to be a good mother and has the courage to bear the many sequelae of having children, she will have children.

However, Xiao Yue always felt weird when these words came out of Xiao Yue's mouth.

Seeing that Ji Shaoyuan was surprised but not angry, he knew that she didn't want to have a baby so soon, he slowly explained: "Having a baby is the easiest and most painful thing in the world, and I haven't fully grasped how to be a father yet." .My mother gave birth to me at a young age, which was not what she expected, and she tortured herself all her life. I was thinking, if I don’t have enough preparation and confidence for my children, I still don’t want them to be born Yes, I don't want them to suffer."

Xiao Yue understands the risks of women's childbirth, Ji Shaoyuan is in full bloom, how could he be willing to let Ji Shaoyuan wander between life and death, but he can do nothing?

Furthermore, having children too soon is not a good thing for them.Immature parents, children born suddenly, he didn't want to do that.

After Ji Shaoyuan heard it, he chuckled, "General Xiao, aren't you worried that others will say that you have lost your children and grandchildren?"

She doesn't want to have a child too soon, she can think about it a bit later, but Xiao Yue is about to be born, others at his age have already been the father of several children.

Xiao Yue couldn't help laughing, "Do you think no one cursed me with this back then? If I, Xiao Yue, were the kind of layman who cared about the world's gossip, I wouldn't be able to tie the knot with you until now."

He, Xiao Yue, never bowed his head for anyone. Everything he did was worthy of the heavens. All kinds of slander and abuse could not describe a ten-thousandth of him.

What is to cut off children and grandchildren?He even faked his own surname, and he was nothing more than a magnanimous word when he came and went. As for the inheritance of the family, heh, Xiao Yue really didn't like it, and he didn't care about it.

Ji Shaoyuan rubbed his chin, "That's right, when I was in the Hou's mansion, I heard a lot about how Dingxuan Wang Xiaoyue described Wei An, how he looked clean, others said that a person like you is destined to die alone Yes. I think so too."

Xiao Yue: "..." Is his style so polarized?

Of course, that was Ji Shaoyuan's joke. To most of Daxing's subjects, Xiao Yue is a resounding and indomitable hero. He treats people sincerely, but is alienated and polite.

A small number of people, who either had hatred or disliked them, naturally didn't have a few good words for Xiao Yue, and didn't call him licentious and shameless behind his back, it was because he was low-key and didn't like vulgar things and riches.

Xiao Yue was speechless after success, and Ji Shaoyuan looked cheerful, "Oh, I don't have a plan for having a baby. If you don't want it for the time being, I fully support you. There is one thing, if people outside ask, please bear all this on your own." .”

If a man is childless for a long time, most people in the world will blame the woman for not being able to have children.Even though Ji Shaoyuan didn't bother to care about these clichés, she still didn't like being scolded as a hen that couldn't give birth.

Why should a woman not be able to have children?Is a woman a sinner if she cannot bear children?
After seeing too many "good men" who say that they live up to their wives in this life and how they flirt with other women on the other, Ji Shaoyuan had to get vaccinated in advance to prevent Xiao Yue from regretting it later.

Without hesitation, Xiao Yue said, "I have already asked Dr. Lu for the anti-child medicine, and I will bear the consequences of this matter."

Anyway, he and Ji Shaoyuan haven't reached the point where they get along emotionally, not to mention that the two of them are too young to be parents with children at such a young age.

For children, Xiao Yue's attitude is resigned, it doesn't matter if they have them, but at this moment, neither of them is suitable to have children, and avoiding children is a must.

Ji Shaoyuan nodded vigorously, "Very well, whatever you say and do is fine. Anyway, you don't regret it, and neither do I." About having a baby, uh, not for the time being.

"To tell you the truth, Dr. Lu thought I was crazy at the time. I haven't seen a few couples avoiding children soon after they got married, unless it was those with bad intentions. I told him that Yuan'er is young, and I don't want her to have children all the time. Trapped in the back house, the matter of having a child is all for now. He stopped talking and handed me a decoction that is convenient for avoiding children. It is only for men. If I stop taking the medicine, I will be able to have a child soon without any sequelae. He He also said, remember to tell you something, lest you worry about yourself."

As long as Xiao Yue thought of Lu Baichuan's eyes looking at the monster, he couldn't laugh or cry.

Although there are too few people who do this, it doesn't mean that a man who wants to avoid children is a monster, right?
Ji Shaoyuan jokingly said: "He didn't look at the monster, but praised you for fulfilling the responsibility and responsibility that a man should have."

Whether he is a good man or not takes his whole life to judge, but whether he is responsible or not, Ji Shaoyuan can still make a judgment or two.

With a smile on his face, Xiao Yue said, "Then I have to give my wife some advice in the future. What is wrong with my husband, please don't be polite to my wife, hit me when I should be beaten, and scold when I should be scolded." The tenderness and pampering in the words are like A bay of spring water, clear and sweet.

Here the willow twigs are on the moon, and people make an appointment after dusk.Two standing figures, one tall and one short, stood side by side. Suddenly, a tall shadow seemed to approach the person who loved him by a head, and the tender affection made the bird sing happily.

……

After removing the poison, Ji Shaoyuan resumed his free movement.

Ziyan has been taken away by Princess Shengping, and Ji Shaoyuan couldn't keep her, so he had to give Ziyan the bank note and land deed that she planned to leave her in advance.

Zi Yan kowtowed to Ji Shaoyuan three times, which was considered to be the end of this master-servant relationship.

Zi Yan's younger brother also left the General's Mansion. Before Zi Yan left, she specially and solemnly thanked Xiao Yue, Ji Shaoyuan and his wife for their care and teaching.

Princess Shengping didn't say much, she just pulled Ji Shaoyuan to tell her something secretly, and left quickly after speaking.

Watching the frame of Princess Shengping going further and further away, Ji Shaoyuan felt a sense of loneliness and melancholy.

Ziyan... goodbye.

"My aunt is willing to take Zi Yan away and deal with it alone. She is already very tolerant of Zi Yan. Before that, Zi Yan would definitely die."

Xiao Yue calmly comforted Ji Shaoyuan.

With Ziyan gone, it can be regarded as clearing away a time bomb, and those thieves have no chance to use Ziyan to attack Ji Shaoyuan.

Ji Shaoyuan pursed his lips, "I know, once she leaves, our master-servant relationship is over. I don't want to ask whether she is dead or alive."

She has her own difficulties, and Ji Shaoyuan also has her own standpoint and principles.

Biyue was very sad, although she didn't cry.

"It's windy outside, let's go in." Xiao Yue wrapped Ji Shaoyuan's cloak tightly and smiled.

Ji Shaoyuan did not refuse, and returned to the house with a group of people.That ray of wind blew away each other's melancholy.

Ziyan's matter is over, Ji Shaoyuan is busy with another matter now.

It was previously agreed to build a school, and Ji Shaoyuan has drawn up the relevant regulations. The admission requirements are also very simple-all orphans and children from poor families can enroll, and boys and girls study separately.

The education of boys and girls is different. Many boys have to learn classics and history, and the six arts of gentlemen. On the contrary, girls' education is not paid much attention to. After all, most women want to be virtuous and virtuous, just know a few words.

Ji Shaoyuan didn't think so. Girls could also learn classics and history, martial arts like horseback riding and archery, depending on whether girls were interested.At the same time, it is also necessary to arrange courses for girls to strengthen their bodies and protect themselves. Girls are too vulnerable. Ji Shaoyuan hopes that they will be able to protect themselves well in the future, so as not to suffer.

Regarding this idea, Xiao Yue had a different opinion, "Yuan'er, the great Confucianists taught those boys because they were kind, but they educated girls, which is unprecedented."

This is the difference between men and women. Women can only marry and have children and take care of housework, while men make contributions and make achievements.Daru accepts the most students, boys are the most, and there are too few girls.

Ji Shaoyuan frowned, "You mean, those great Confucian scholars should better teach male students, and female students should find a female gentleman who is well-read?"

Xiao Yue smiled slightly, "Women understand women better after all. Besides, women's piano, chess, calligraphy, and painting must be taught by the master. We must not let those great Confucians get in touch with these female students. If it spreads, it will hurt their reputation."

After all, girls should not lose their reputation in the future when they walk in the society. In terms of teaching, they have to be careful.

Ji Shaoyuan pondered for a moment, then smiled, "Okay, I will immediately post a notice to let many famous and famous scholars come to the school to teach, and the salary is not worrying, as long as they teach seriously, they are teachers, so they can preach and teach."

Once the school is built, it will be good news for the people of Licheng and even the children in the world.

"The number one talented woman, Wen Hongmian."

(End of this chapter)