Chapter 181 Isn't This a Problem
Xu Ting was puzzled, and quickened his pace of eating, because he couldn't wait to hear what Qin Zhuxi had to say.
However, a gentleman is a gentleman, even if he eats a little faster, it is still very pleasing to the eye.
In just 5 minutes, he had already filled his stomach and said calmly.
"Can you tell me your concerns now?"
He's not stupid, of course I can tell that Qin Zhuxi has doubts about the child, maybe she was so sluggish when she was eating alone just now, besides the hot weather, there are also reasons for this.
"If you don't want to have children yet, I don't mind. We are still young, and we can live again in a few years. My family will not have any opinions on this. You don't have to worry."
Xu Tingzhi held Qin Zhuxi's hand and said seriously.
He thought a lot, even Qin Zhuxi was worried about the pressure on his family.
"It's not about this problem. I'm not afraid of having a baby. What I'm afraid of is what happens after giving birth. Look, someone has to take care of the baby after it's born, right? Does the diaper have to be washed?
I think these two issues are the most important. After we have negotiated these issues, I don't mind having children. "
Qin Zhuxi made it clear.
The baby is fragrant and soft, so cute, how could she not like it.And as far as her and Xu Tingzhi's appearance is concerned, the child born is definitely very good-looking, do you like it more?
Even when a child cries, it is very annoying. If you are not mentally prepared for this, you will not want it for the time being.
"We don't have any elders around, so we must take care of our own. I will learn to take care of my children and work hard to be a qualified father. I can guarantee this. But why do you ask you to tell me about washing diapers?"
Shouldn't this be a problem?It's all included with the kids.
Xu Tingzhi fell into deep thought.
"Brother, don't you understand what kind of diapers you wash? The diapers are all reused, that is to say, if the child urinates on them, we have to wash them, and if they are pulled on them, we have to wash them too. !
Moreover, the child ate lala food when he was a child. Although I don’t know exactly how many diapers have to be changed in a day, but it should be changed every two hours, and 12 diapers need to be changed in a day! ! ! "
Qin Zhuxi emphasized emphatically, biting hard on the pronunciation of the number 12.
"The child is full of energy and cries a lot. He doesn't sleep at night and wakes up early in the morning. We are physically and mentally exhausted just taking care of the child. Then we have to wash clothes, cook, wash diapers and go to the ground. Hiss~~~"
She successfully told herself that she was terrified of childbirth, otherwise, the matter of having a child should be postponed for a few years, until the college entrance examination resumes and she walks out of this place.
It’s not a new century now, and you can’t hire a nanny. After the college entrance examination, you go to a big place. At that time, it’s basically no problem to hire a nanny to take care of your children.
Xu Tingzhi was not intimidated by Qin Zhuxi's ideas, on the contrary, he was logical and well-founded.
"First of all, I really can't bear to wash this kind of diapers, but it is a child's, and I can overcome this mentality.
If we can’t overcome it, we can still hire someone to wash diapers for us. If we can’t pay for it, we can exchange it with eggs, rice, or sugar, etc., which everyone likes.
As long as we have money and food, this is no problem, we can always find someone willing to wash our children's diapers, I have the money, so this matter can be solved. "
"Secondly, we don't necessarily need to farm. You want to farm now because the family has no other source of income besides you. After we got married, the family has one more source of income, and no one will say anything about you if you don't farm.
Especially if you are pregnant and have a baby, the baby needs someone to take care of it, we are too busy, if you don’t go to the field, then there is no problem, I can solve it on the captain’s side, so the field can also be crossed out. "
"Then, the only things left are the difficulty of taking care of the children and the need to wash clothes and cook meals. I am not busy at work and have a lot of free time. If you don't go to work, it means that we have more free time than now. Much more.
Before we had children, we were able to do the housework such as washing clothes, cooking, and cleaning the room, and we were able to do it with ease. In fact, after having children, what we added was only the troubles brought by children. "
"Then even if we can't deal with the troubles our children bring us with ease in the time we have added, I think we can basically deal with it, what do you think?"
"Assuming that we are just a little busy, we can also seek help from other people, such as Xiao Nan, our child is also his niece and niece, I believe he will be willing to help us take care of it when he is free.
Secondly, we can also ask Aunt Jin for help, as well as other experienced elders in the team to help us.This kind of help, on the premise that everyone is not busy, will basically help us. We don't ask people to help for nothing.
This is not only helping each other, but also appropriately increasing the feelings between neighbors and neighbors. "
"Of course, the baby hasn't been born, these are only on paper, and I can't guarantee 100% that after the baby is born, we can take care of it well, but we can wait until we are mentally prepared and learn the skills of being a parent. , and then start having children.
If we have made sufficient preparations before having a child, even if we encounter difficulties in raising the child in the future, we can adjust our mentality and work hard to overcome it. What do you think? "
Xu Tingzhi spoke clearly and logically, and successfully knocked Qin Zhuxi into a coma.
Although I don't remember exactly what you said, but it seems to make sense, what should I do?
"I think what you said is good, um, the eloquence is very good!"
Qin Zhuxi praised from the bottom of his heart.
Xu Tingzhi:····
He said so much, not to let her praise his eloquence, but to let her see his attitude of serious analysis, let her know that he is a man worthy of entrusting him for life, and can be a good father and husband!
"What you said is also very reasonable. I suddenly don't worry about things after giving birth, but we are not married yet, so let's talk about having children later."
Seeing that he was dissatisfied with her answer, Qin Zhuxi added a few more words, and then looked at Xu Tingzhi with blingbling adoring eyes.
Whether it should be said or not, Xu Tingzhi's powerful analysis still moved her. Indeed, almost all of the problems she was worried about could be solved.
The two of them don't want to wash diapers. Some people are willing to wash them. Nowadays, people wash diapers by hand, and they don't think there is any problem at all. Washing these things is not much different from washing ordinary clothes.
In this era, materials are scarce, and everyone is willing to do anything for a little food.What's the point of washing a diaper, as long as there is food, some people rush to do it.
However, even if these problems can be resolved, she still has to make mental preparations first. Within a year of her first marriage, she felt that she still wanted to live a life together, and she could put aside the children's affairs for the time being.
"Well, I'm not in a hurry to have a baby."
(End of this chapter)
Xu Ting was puzzled, and quickened his pace of eating, because he couldn't wait to hear what Qin Zhuxi had to say.
However, a gentleman is a gentleman, even if he eats a little faster, it is still very pleasing to the eye.
In just 5 minutes, he had already filled his stomach and said calmly.
"Can you tell me your concerns now?"
He's not stupid, of course I can tell that Qin Zhuxi has doubts about the child, maybe she was so sluggish when she was eating alone just now, besides the hot weather, there are also reasons for this.
"If you don't want to have children yet, I don't mind. We are still young, and we can live again in a few years. My family will not have any opinions on this. You don't have to worry."
Xu Tingzhi held Qin Zhuxi's hand and said seriously.
He thought a lot, even Qin Zhuxi was worried about the pressure on his family.
"It's not about this problem. I'm not afraid of having a baby. What I'm afraid of is what happens after giving birth. Look, someone has to take care of the baby after it's born, right? Does the diaper have to be washed?
I think these two issues are the most important. After we have negotiated these issues, I don't mind having children. "
Qin Zhuxi made it clear.
The baby is fragrant and soft, so cute, how could she not like it.And as far as her and Xu Tingzhi's appearance is concerned, the child born is definitely very good-looking, do you like it more?
Even when a child cries, it is very annoying. If you are not mentally prepared for this, you will not want it for the time being.
"We don't have any elders around, so we must take care of our own. I will learn to take care of my children and work hard to be a qualified father. I can guarantee this. But why do you ask you to tell me about washing diapers?"
Shouldn't this be a problem?It's all included with the kids.
Xu Tingzhi fell into deep thought.
"Brother, don't you understand what kind of diapers you wash? The diapers are all reused, that is to say, if the child urinates on them, we have to wash them, and if they are pulled on them, we have to wash them too. !
Moreover, the child ate lala food when he was a child. Although I don’t know exactly how many diapers have to be changed in a day, but it should be changed every two hours, and 12 diapers need to be changed in a day! ! ! "
Qin Zhuxi emphasized emphatically, biting hard on the pronunciation of the number 12.
"The child is full of energy and cries a lot. He doesn't sleep at night and wakes up early in the morning. We are physically and mentally exhausted just taking care of the child. Then we have to wash clothes, cook, wash diapers and go to the ground. Hiss~~~"
She successfully told herself that she was terrified of childbirth, otherwise, the matter of having a child should be postponed for a few years, until the college entrance examination resumes and she walks out of this place.
It’s not a new century now, and you can’t hire a nanny. After the college entrance examination, you go to a big place. At that time, it’s basically no problem to hire a nanny to take care of your children.
Xu Tingzhi was not intimidated by Qin Zhuxi's ideas, on the contrary, he was logical and well-founded.
"First of all, I really can't bear to wash this kind of diapers, but it is a child's, and I can overcome this mentality.
If we can’t overcome it, we can still hire someone to wash diapers for us. If we can’t pay for it, we can exchange it with eggs, rice, or sugar, etc., which everyone likes.
As long as we have money and food, this is no problem, we can always find someone willing to wash our children's diapers, I have the money, so this matter can be solved. "
"Secondly, we don't necessarily need to farm. You want to farm now because the family has no other source of income besides you. After we got married, the family has one more source of income, and no one will say anything about you if you don't farm.
Especially if you are pregnant and have a baby, the baby needs someone to take care of it, we are too busy, if you don’t go to the field, then there is no problem, I can solve it on the captain’s side, so the field can also be crossed out. "
"Then, the only things left are the difficulty of taking care of the children and the need to wash clothes and cook meals. I am not busy at work and have a lot of free time. If you don't go to work, it means that we have more free time than now. Much more.
Before we had children, we were able to do the housework such as washing clothes, cooking, and cleaning the room, and we were able to do it with ease. In fact, after having children, what we added was only the troubles brought by children. "
"Then even if we can't deal with the troubles our children bring us with ease in the time we have added, I think we can basically deal with it, what do you think?"
"Assuming that we are just a little busy, we can also seek help from other people, such as Xiao Nan, our child is also his niece and niece, I believe he will be willing to help us take care of it when he is free.
Secondly, we can also ask Aunt Jin for help, as well as other experienced elders in the team to help us.This kind of help, on the premise that everyone is not busy, will basically help us. We don't ask people to help for nothing.
This is not only helping each other, but also appropriately increasing the feelings between neighbors and neighbors. "
"Of course, the baby hasn't been born, these are only on paper, and I can't guarantee 100% that after the baby is born, we can take care of it well, but we can wait until we are mentally prepared and learn the skills of being a parent. , and then start having children.
If we have made sufficient preparations before having a child, even if we encounter difficulties in raising the child in the future, we can adjust our mentality and work hard to overcome it. What do you think? "
Xu Tingzhi spoke clearly and logically, and successfully knocked Qin Zhuxi into a coma.
Although I don't remember exactly what you said, but it seems to make sense, what should I do?
"I think what you said is good, um, the eloquence is very good!"
Qin Zhuxi praised from the bottom of his heart.
Xu Tingzhi:····
He said so much, not to let her praise his eloquence, but to let her see his attitude of serious analysis, let her know that he is a man worthy of entrusting him for life, and can be a good father and husband!
"What you said is also very reasonable. I suddenly don't worry about things after giving birth, but we are not married yet, so let's talk about having children later."
Seeing that he was dissatisfied with her answer, Qin Zhuxi added a few more words, and then looked at Xu Tingzhi with blingbling adoring eyes.
Whether it should be said or not, Xu Tingzhi's powerful analysis still moved her. Indeed, almost all of the problems she was worried about could be solved.
The two of them don't want to wash diapers. Some people are willing to wash them. Nowadays, people wash diapers by hand, and they don't think there is any problem at all. Washing these things is not much different from washing ordinary clothes.
In this era, materials are scarce, and everyone is willing to do anything for a little food.What's the point of washing a diaper, as long as there is food, some people rush to do it.
However, even if these problems can be resolved, she still has to make mental preparations first. Within a year of her first marriage, she felt that she still wanted to live a life together, and she could put aside the children's affairs for the time being.
"Well, I'm not in a hurry to have a baby."
(End of this chapter)
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