Zhentian coffin

The topic of patriarchy is still far away from me personally, because I have never had this need, and it is very far away from me, but the environment of patriarchy is not unfamiliar to me, because Qinghe Town is like that.

Since I was a child, I have heard countless incidents caused by patriarchy, ranging from quarrels between husband and wife to domestic violence and even murders. In fact, in the era of the strictest family planning, almost everyone in Qinghe Town had to play A game of superhero guerrillas.

But after all, it was more than 20 or 20 years ago. The impact on people’s minds in these [-] or [-] years is unimaginable. I have seen many one-child families, so I still can’t figure it out.

Seeing that I couldn't figure it out, Axue explained to me that in Axue's words, it can be summed up as a family ecological model. This term is only modern, but in fact, this fact has existed since ancient times. One is not prosperous. It is very difficult to rely on individual counterattacks to fight against the family, so it is necessary to use the strength of the whole family, ask people to ask for money, train talents, and then feed back the family after they become talents, just like the Gu family in Xuangu Town Same.

After the family is prosperous, the interests of the whole family become more complicated, so it is often seen in the society that members of a family are all engaged in a certain industry, and then occupy a monopoly position in a certain industry in a certain region.

At this time, this monopoly position is stable, because in this region, your entire family occupies most of the market share or technology in the industry, so this kind of family group is also united and exclusive, and they can allow their own people to join the branch. This is a piece of cake, but people with other surnames will never be allowed to join in, because people with other surnames also have their own circle of relatives and friends. If he brings outsiders in again, it will definitely bring challenges to this entire circle.

So at this time, a son, or an heir in the traditional sense, is very important, because in this way, the rest of the family will not be exclusive, so for families without sons, they must either work hard to give birth to a son, or find a way Let the son-in-law come to the door, plus adopt a son, there is no other way.

And Ah Xue's family is similar to this one. Her family has the habit of uniting and helping each other, sharing some resources, but the premise of being able to share this resource is that they recognize their own people, that is, people with the same surname as them.

If outsiders are introduced, it will definitely bring harm to the interests of their family in the future, which is something their family will never allow.

Then, there are only two paths before this relative of Axue. First, give birth to a son, let the son take over, and continue to link up with the family in the future to enjoy those resources. Second, cut off the benefits. Relatives are still relatives. I won't deny it, but the interest exchange is avoided, and it is absolutely impossible to give the family's resources to outsiders, unless it is certain that the person's daughter will definitely recruit a son-in-law in the future.

This matter was driven by interests. Ashe's relatives had the right to choose, but their family chose the first path. Whether it was cutting interests or recruiting people, it was a choice after the first path failed.

As a result, Ah Xue's relatives suffered a lot in order to give birth to a son. Over the years, they prayed to gods and Buddhas, sought medical advice and medicine, but they still got nothing. This process was long and painful, lasting seven or eight years. year time.

Now Ah Xue's relative and his wife are both over 40 years old. These two years are the last chance. If they pass this age, even if they want to have another son, they will die. benefit.

And neither of these is what they want to see. It is not so easy to recruit a door-to-door son-in-law. Excellent boys will not be willing to do this kind of thing. They may not be interested in those who are not excellent. Cutting benefits is for their family. The loss is huge, and it is unacceptable.

After listening to Axue's explanation, I suddenly thought of Chen Menghan. Boss Chen's situation was very similar to this one. Boss Chen's family is rich and he is known as the richest man in Qinghe Town, but he lacks a son. Otherwise, it wouldn't be like this A tragedy happened.

"Jin Yang, you may not have enjoyed the benefits of a big family, so I don't know how important it is. Let me tell you this. In our family, as long as you want to do anything, you can get resources from relatives. If you don't With this resource, his career will be ten times more difficult than it is now, and if it is his descendant, it will be ten times more difficult, do you understand what I mean?"

"I understand, so he wants to have a son, in fact, he still has the meaning of protecting his current daughter, at least no one will covet the family property in the future, right?"

"You think too much. Now is a civilized society. Things like eating out of households will not happen in our family, but the necessary cutting of interests is necessary. I have emphasized many times. This is also a means for us to protect ourselves."

"Well, I really don't understand the mystery of this, but if you come to me, you may really be wrong, I don't seem to have this ability"

"Can you give it a try? You are a cultivator with great powers. My uncle treats me very well."

"It's not a question of trying, the point is, hey, I don't know how to say it all at once. For example, if you want to ask a dermatologist about obstetrics and gynecology, you are asking the wrong person, although they all It's a doctor"

"I understand, but dermatologists have friends with obstetricians, don't they?"

"That's right, it makes sense"

I smiled wryly, Ah Xue's answer was so good that I was speechless, they are all doctors, they must have friends, they are all cultivators, they must have friends.

"Does that mean you agree?"

"Can I say no?"

"I know brother you are a good person"

"Don't be in a hurry to send me a good person card. Let me explain in advance that this kind of thing is completely random. Some people are destined not to have such a fate in this life. Therefore, I can only say try my best. No, it should be to help you ask one time"

"It's enough to have you"

"Sister Xue, what you say makes me very stressed."

I shook my head, who can guarantee such a thing as having a son, there is no one at all, if someone tells you that you can give birth to a son, then slap him, because it is impossible.

Even the evil method that Qin Lang used to fool Boss Chen may not be effective. This is what Liu Laodao told me. It is estimated that Qin Lang's original purpose was not to really want to help Boss Chen, maybe there was some other purpose.

So, I briefly wrote about the cause and effect, and posted it in the circle of friends, asking all the heroes from all walks of life to mobilize their contacts and see who can help. You are so deceitful, you dare to lie to me for money, are you tired of living a crooked life?

This also led to a lot of people making fun of me and making fun of me in private, and a lot of people coming up with bad ideas, but no one who can really solve the problem has yet appeared.

The next day, Sister Xue took me to her home, which was my mother's home, and met her so-called uncle, who was the person who paid a lot of money to beg for a child this time.

The couple are not young, but they are well maintained. Only his wife is a little old, with heavy makeup. What I know is that she went to do some test tubes and the like, which hurt her body, so she looks a little old.

The two of them should have heard Axue talk about me, so they were a little excited to see me, exchanged a few words, and then changed the topic to this matter.

"Don't worry, in fact, I don't have this ability. I'm still looking for help from my friends, but in the end, don't have too much hope. The more you hope, the more you will be disappointed..."

"Golden Ocean..."

"Okay, I won't talk about this, let's talk openly and honestly today, first ask uncles and aunts, what do you think about this matter?"

As soon as I was about to shirk, Ashe was not happy, so I had no choice but to stop talking about it.

"Mr. Liu, I think Axue has made it very clear to you. Having a son is a matter of comprehensive consideration. There are both emotional needs and interest needs. I cannot deny that whether there is a son or no son, interests There is a big difference, but we also sincerely want a son, and I only have a daughter, and I don't want her to be too lonely in the future.

Let me give you a very simple example. If my daughter is entrusted to someone else in the future, and her husband’s family treats her badly, then I need a strong mother’s family to support her, and we will all be old at that time, Ah Xue and the others are separated by a layer, who can support her, of course it is her brother, are you right?"

"Yes, that's right, this angle is normal"

I nodded, it’s true, it’s not unreasonable, this kind of thing happened in Qinghe Town, the son of the family died unexpectedly, the daughter got married and was at odds with her husband’s family, she was raped by the family, and the couple was dying , the relatives can help once but cannot help forever, and they all suffered a lot when they divorced. Everyone said that if there is a strong son backing up, then the husband's family would not dare to bully others like this.

"Then let me ask one more question. Regarding this matter, what does your daughter think? In recent years, the country has advocated the second child, and there has been a lot of news. Many families are not very happy, especially those whose first child is older. that situation"

"We have discussed this issue with our daughter. She doesn't understand or agree with it. There is nothing wrong with it. The children are all babies now. She doesn't look at the problem from my point of view. I don't make things difficult for her. I have already told her. Even if she has a son, she will not treat her badly, it should be that she will not lose a cent."

I sighed, so to speak, his daughter disapproved of it, but she was powerless to stop it, and I didn't know what would happen in the end, hey.

"Mr. Liu, our husband and wife are not ignorant and ignorant people. We have also received higher education. My daughter has the reasons and rights to object, but our husband and wife also have the right to advocate, so this matter has been settled. I don’t know. If there is any way Mr. Liu can help us, we will definitely repay the favor.”

"I'll talk about whether to report or not later, how about this, let me do the fortune telling for you first, and see if you have this fate in your fate"

I shook my head, it's fine to repay my kindness, and I will talk about it later, I can only do my best to know my destiny.