I'm not interested in money anymore

Chapter 219 Ideals and Achievements

"The Gu family used to be a famous family? Is it true or not?" Su Chen asked in surprise.

Gu Qingya said casually: "Shouldn't it? I heard Dad say something, but I don't know the specifics. But even if it is, so what? Now is not the past? The famous and famous families are already in the past!"

"That's right! Cough cough, it's too far away. Daughter-in-law, Xiaoyu is not young now, have you ever thought about her future?"

Gu Qingyu's pretty face wrinkled slightly. "Xiaoyu is only seventeen, right? The college entrance examination will only take place next year. Isn't it too early to think about the future?"

Su Chen shook his head. "It's not too early! It's true that the college entrance examination is a turning point in life, and it's true that the grades are the most important thing, but for a child, there are actually more important things than the college entrance examination grades!"

"What?" Gu Qingya asked curiously.

"interest!"

"interest?"

"That's right! A child's personal interests determine the direction of his application after the college entrance examination, and this direction can actually determine his life's destiny.

Nowadays, many parents require their children to put grades first. Before the college entrance examination, in addition to letting their children study hard, they do not pay attention to cultivating their children's interest in personal skills.As a result, when a child fills in the application form after the college entrance examination, he is like a headless fly, without even a basic direction, and can only follow others' advice. When he hears which major is good for employment or easy to make money, he fills in blindly, without thinking about himself Are you interested in this major, can you delve into it!
So that after these students enter the university, they find that they have no interest in the major they choose, and they can't learn it at all. Even if they barely learn it, they will have a strong sense of rejection. change jobs.And once he changes careers, half of his four years in college will be wasted, and his future will become bleak.

I am not alarmist. In fact, our country not only has such graduates, but also accounts for the majority.

This is the consequence of blindly choosing a major after the college entrance examination.

Therefore, I think that for the cultivation of children, academic performance is important, but the ideal of interest is the most important thing.We don't ask her to know or expect anything from her interests.As long as she can recognize her ideal and is willing to work hard for it, then our goal will be achieved.

Even, after cultivating children's interests and ideals, it will help improve their academic performance.Because when a person has no ideals, his learning is blind, passive, and without passion. No matter how hard he works with such a learning attitude, it will get half the result with twice the effort!And once a child has her own goals and ideals, she will study hard for her own ideals, which is equivalent to having a subjective will. Her learning goals are no longer blind, and she will be full of passion. A learning attitude will make reading and studying much easier, and the efficiency will be higher, achieving twice the result with half the effort! "

Su Chen's words are by no means general, but his personal experience, the experience gained from the lessons of blood and tears.

When he was young, he completed his middle and high school studies thanks to the support of kind people, but at that time, he had no time to think about other things besides studying and working every day. I chose the wrong major.As a result, when he was in college, he found that not only was his professional knowledge extremely difficult, but it was also very difficult to find a job.

This caused Su Chen to be passive at work when he was in college, and graduated with an ordinary grade. After that, he was considered lucky and successfully joined a company. In the end, because he really didn't have any interest in the knowledge of this major, he was bored every day at work. In addition, the boss was a vampire, so Su Chen resigned in a rage.

Then he was unemployed all the time, and finally he was forced to be helpless. He was a dignified college graduate, and finally he delivered takeaway food.

I have to say, it was really a choice that ruined Su Chen's life.If he hadn't met the system later on, he might have been useless in this life. Let alone marrying a wife and having children, it would be nice to be able to support himself for a lifetime!
Thinking of this topic, Su Chen really has a lot to say.

And Gu Qingya was also shocked by Su Chen's words.It's not that what Su Chen said is so amazing. In fact, the truths Su Chen said are all bad, and basically anyone who has gone to college can understand it. It's just that truth is truth, and reality is reality. Not everyone A theory can be integrated into reality.

What surprised Gu Qingya was that Su Chen actually said so much truth today. Is this the first time he has seen Su Chen being so sentimental after being in contact with Su Chen for so long?

"Husband?" Gu Qingya was a little worried, not knowing what Su Chen had experienced.

Su Chen recovered and couldn't help laughing. "Hey, you don't have to worry about me. No matter what I was like before, I'm fine now. Do you think I still have these troubles now?"

"Uh..." Gu Qingya thought about it when she came back to her senses, and she was also happy.

Well, with Su Chen's current conditions, there is nothing to worry about.It can be said that all Su Chen's sentimentality now is hypocritical.

"Husband, I thought about it, and you are right. But you also know that not every family has the conditions to create ideal conditions for their children to choose!"

Indeed, if you want to have a firm ideal, you must have personal experience. Only after personal experience can you strengthen your heart.Otherwise, it will be difficult to cultivate your own ideals if you rely solely on imagination.

But it is precisely this kind of experience that not every family has the conditions for their children to experience.

For example, a child's ideal is to be a corporate executive, and he likes to sit in the office and give advice.So unless there is a company at home, it is impossible for a child from an ordinary family to personally experience what it feels like to be a company executive.

Maybe he just got the feeling from the Internet that being a corporate executive is cool.But if you don't experience it yourself, you can never prove that he really likes it.Because every job has its pros and cons.It's really cool to sit in the office and give advice, but not everyone can adapt to and bear the business, manage subordinates, and intrigue with opponents.

So there is actually no difference between such false ideals and blindly filling in volunteers.

Su Chen also knew this, so he just lay on the bed and talked to his wife, instead of making this point of view public.

"I know you have to think about it, but daughter-in-law, we don't care about other people's children, but we can't ignore Xiaoyu. Other people's families don't have the conditions, but our family has whatever they want. No matter what job Xiaoyu wants to try, I can think about it." A way to let her take advantage of the summer vacation to experience it for herself!
Our family doesn't have much else, only money! "

(End of this chapter)