I'm not interested in money anymore

Chapter 398 Emotional Intelligence and Circles

"I understand a little bit!" Xu Binghua said with a bitter face: "Do you want to say that if you help me as an elder, it is equivalent to that our Xu family owes you a favor. If you Helping me with my identity means that I owe you a favor?"

Su Chen smiled when he heard this.

"That's it!"

"Is it?"

"Well, what I really mean is that whether I am your elder or your friend, if you have something to do, I will definitely help you, but the premise is that you tell me the truth in advance. In this case , if you ask for help, I will definitely help. And if you ask me afterwards, it is taking advantage of me, and I may help you too, but after the help, I will feel very uncomfortable!

The so-called emotional intelligence is not an unpredictable routine, nor is it a calculation of several birds at first sight. The essence of emotional intelligence is that what you say and what you do, on the premise that your own interests will not be lost, will not be affected. It will make the other person feel uncomfortable!
And to do this, the most basic principle is sincerity! "

Xu Binghua's eyes glowed, and she nodded. "I seem to understand something!"

"It doesn't matter if you don't understand. If you have a high EQ, there are ways to live with a high EQ. If you have a low EQ, there are ways to live with a low EQ. You can try to learn how to make people comfortable, but the premise is that you don't wrong yourself. Okay, back to the topic just now. .

As you said, why can a big boss and an ordinary student chat in a small restaurant?
There are many explanations for this, let me ask you first, what do you think is a big brother? "

"success?"

Su Chen shook his head. "The so-called big boss is someone who has seen through the rules of the world and is not bound by the world. Such a person can not only wear a formal suit to eat elegantly in a high-end restaurant, but also wear genuine sandals to chat with others at a roadside stall. I lived in a five-star hotel, and also lived in a rural village. I can be neither humble nor overbearing to princes and generals, and I can also have long talks with lower Liba people.”

"It sounds reasonable, but it feels too chicken soup!"

"Then to put it another way, I'm here to make friends, not to eat. I'm here because of you. Not because of here, I'm here!"

"This statement is very true, but it is too heartbreaking!"

"Let's put it another way! I'm an ordinary person, but I just got rich by accident. I've had hardships, so where I eat, it's all the same to me!"

"The poor get rich, and the villain gets aspirations. Although this statement is sincere, there is still pride in the bones!" Xu Binghua continued to shake her head, and then suddenly said: "I want to know what you think!"

Su Chen smiled: "Me? I'm here because you are here!"

After hearing this, Xu Binghua was stunned for a moment, and then suddenly smiled like a flower!
"You are really, really different!"

"Of course, how many 25-year-old self-made bosses are there in the whole world?"

"Are you self-made?"

"That's right, it takes hard work to inherit an inheritance, right?"

"for example?"

"For example, it took me a long time to accept the fact that I am a rich second generation!"

"Pfft!" Xu Binghua cast a reproachful glance at Su Chen. "You are not serious!"

"You are wrong again! I dare say that there are not many people in this world who are more serious than me! Because I basically don't tell lies!"

"Are you serious? You haven't lied to my sisters-in-law?"

"Hehe, didn't they tell you that the prerequisite for our family to live in harmony is to treat others with sincerity?"

"I don't believe it! Then you came out on a date with me today, what did you tell your sisters-in-law?"

"I didn't say anything, they all said it."

"What did they say?"

"Do you really want to hear it?"

"Of course!"

"They said, behave well, don't waste the opportunity we gave you!"

Xu Binghua was dumbfounded. "Huh? What chance?"

Su Chen shrugged.

"What do you say?"

Xu Bing's pretty face turned red with a smile.

"Let me tell you about the Gu family!"

"Okay! I can talk about anything!"

"You don't seem to be afraid of the Gu family at all?"

"What am I afraid of?" Su Chen said indifferently, "Don't you know that I beat the young master of the Yan family?"

"Ah? Did you beat the young master of the Yan family? I have heard about it. It is said that the Yan family was very angry at the time and said aggressively that they wanted to seek revenge. However, because of internal problems in the Yan family, this matter was over. Of!

Originally, we wondered why the Yan family didn't bring up the matter again after solving their internal problems, but instead sent Yan Quan abroad.Now I seem to understand. "

Xu Binghua suddenly said.

"Yan Quan went abroad?" Su Chen smacked his lips. "Pity!"

"What a pity?"

"It's a pity that there is an opponent! I thought I could fight him! I didn't expect it!"

Xu Binghua was speechless. "Is that why you want to cause trouble?"

"You do not understand!"

"Okay, I don't understand, but I want to remind you that the Gu family is not the Yan family. The Gu family's status in China is far higher than that of our Xu family. Of course, it is not as good as our three families joining forces."

"I don't understand what you said. The three of you have always been connected with each other. How could Gu Jianfeng pursue you with such fanfare? Is this Gu Jianfeng's wishful thinking, or did the Gu family premeditate?"

"Have both!" After all, Xu Binghua is a child of an aristocratic family, so he knows all these things.It's impossible to really be a bookworm who dies, otherwise she wouldn't be called a talented woman. "It's true that Gu Jianfeng likes me, and it's also true that the Gu family wants to marry my Xu family."

As he said that, Xu Binghua's eyes were a little dazzled, and he said: "Actually, I had some doubts before this, but seeing you, I seem to have figured it out again.

This incident is still because of you. With the development of technology, the old and new societies are changing rapidly, and many families have disappeared in this torrent.

Although the Gu family has a strong background, it cannot guarantee that their family will always be at the forefront of the times.And once the vision of a family is abandoned by the times, it is not far from decline.

Before the Gu family wooed my Xu family, they should have taken a fancy to the descendants of our three major families. The background of our three major families seems to be inferior to these century-old families, but when it comes to the descendants, they are definitely not comparable to the Gu family.

The second generations of our three major families, one counts as one, are now elites in the military, political and business circles.

Later, because of your appearance, the three generations were guaranteed, and even our three major families had a strong backup, which was enough to make up for the lack of foundation of our three major families.

The Gu family may have taken a fancy to you, so they want to urgently get involved with our Xu family.Because of this, Gu Jianfeng has been harassing me more and more over the past few months! "

The more Xu Binghua explained, the more she finally realized that all the mysteries before had been solved by herself now!
Su Chen was speechless.

Is he lying on the gun?

Originally, it was a favor for him to be a shield, but now, it seems that this dog skin plaster was brought on by him!
What is this!
Seeing Su Chen a little depressed, Xu Binghua smiled instead. "It seems that some things are really destined!"

(End of this chapter)