little fisherman catching the sea

Chapter 176 Attitude Customs
Zhang Liye and Zhao Ling were gratified. Their pigs had finally grown up, and now they seemed to have learned how to bow Chinese cabbage. This is something to be gratified about.

For many parents and elders, their definition of "adulthood" does not mean being an adult at the legal age, or graduating from college, but starting a family and starting a business. This is the maturity in their hearts.

My son's career is quite good now, not to mention his impressive development, he also looks much better than his peers.Now if you add that your personal life has stabilized, it will naturally be more gratifying and exciting.

Although this matter can't be busy immediately, but it really needs to be considered and prepared quickly, and these things can't be too sloppy.

There are mainly these things, which obviously cannot be sloppy, especially the man's family, which naturally needs to be better prepared for this matter.

Zhang Liye and Zhao Ling really felt that this matter needed to be busy, and these things were not unfamiliar, but it was the first time to prepare by themselves.Especially as one of the 'parties', it is even more necessary to be fully prepared.

What's more, this is still related to my precious son. Naturally, I need to prepare better for this matter. I can't let others pick it up, and I can't make some mistakes in such things and cause some unpleasant things to happen.

For Chen Yiyi, Zhang Liye and Zhao Ling were still very satisfied and liked, and they were naturally happy to see this matter come to fruition.

Although some things are said to be handled by the children themselves, and some things really need to be done according to the children's ideas, the opinions of parents and elders are still very important.

For these matters, Zhang Miao seems to have no right to speak now, or it seems that he does not have much room to intervene now. After all, when it comes to etiquette and so on, he only knows a little bit. That's all.

Zhang Miao, who was in a happy mood, was reading the book, and he didn't know if it was because of the happy mood, so he felt that the efficiency of reading the book had been greatly improved. He felt that he had made greater progress and learned a lot of useful knowledge.

After waking up in the morning, Zhang Miao can be sure that she will not be able to go fishing today. It seems that this is another stable day, and this is another day where she can take a good rest.

This matter can be done, and Zhang Miao also feels that these things are quite comfortable. After all, he was quite tired a few days ago, and he felt a little sore and backache, and he felt somewhat exhausted.

Taking a break at this time is an excellent combination of work and rest. Zhang Miao thinks there is no problem with such a thing, and he thinks this plan can be made.

Seeing her son run away after breakfast, Zhao Ling felt it was funny and helpless, "We used to say that our son is like a child, he knows how to play tricks and eat snacks all day long, like a child who doesn't grow up. Look at it now , we still underestimated him.”

Zhang Liye also laughed, shook his head and said, "It's normal, this child is still this old. When we were this age, we basically all had families."

Isn't that right, in this age group in the early years, many people don't say that they have already married, even having children is a normal thing.Of course, in this day and age, it is normal for some people to marry and have children late.

Zhang Miao, who ran to Chen Yiyi's house in a hurry, greeted Chen Yiyi's parents politely. This was not just superficial work, but also a matter of family education and self-cultivation. Zhang Miao didn't think it was a deliberate performance.

Seeing Zhang Miao coming, Chen Yiyi immediately said, "I'll get the bag, we'll leave right away."

This time it was Chen Xinlin and Song Huihui's turn to feel speechless. The Chinese cabbage at home might soon be taken away in pots. When they were happy about this matter, they also had some reluctance and depression.

It's just that there really isn't much to do. As the children grow up, some things naturally seem to be unavoidable. Such things are indeed stages they have experienced.

Chen Xinlin, who was running for tea, asked with a smile, "It's raining today, and it's wet outside, where are you going?"

"Go to see ancient buildings and museums." Zhang Miao said to Chen Xinlin with a little expectation, "Yiyi and I still have a tacit understanding, and we are more interested in these things."

Song Huihui looked at Zhang Miao, and then said, "The two of you have really similar personalities. Other young people like star chasing, clothes, and cosmetics, but you two are slow and like old-fashioned things."

Zhang Miao disagreed, and explained, "Auntie, I'm not a slow person. I also like more trendy things. I also watch F1 cars and extreme sports, but I just don't participate. Besides, I feel that some traditional culture , customs, the more you taste, the more flavor you will get.”

After packing up, Chen Yiyi ran over from downstairs and echoed, "We are not old-fashioned people, we just have a wide range of hobbies. We like traditional culture and emerging culture, and we can accept both."

Chen Xinlin and Song Huihui didn't say anything more, these things were left to these children, not to mention they didn't think such a thing was a bad thing.

Chen Yiyi was beaming with joy, full of anticipation, "We won't be at home with you old people drinking tea or watching soap operas, we're going to visit museums, we're going to see ancient buildings, maybe I'm in a good mood to bring you some tourist souvenirs !"

"You can save me some snacks!" Chen Xinlin laughed and complained to his eldest daughter, "If I bring those souvenirs back, I would be embarrassed to take them. It's not a trip to other places, so bringing back those handicrafts is not interesting." .”

Chen Yiyi nodded, and said solemnly, "That's right, those things are still preferred by outsiders. So forget it, we don't think about bringing some tourist souvenirs back."

After saying this, Chen Yiyi did not avoid suspicion, took Zhang Miao's hand and went out. He was still very much looking forward to this date.For Chen Yiyi, there is really nothing to avoid suspicion now, anyway, the family basically knows these things.

Not to mention family members, even people from Lingshang Village, including Dongping Village where Zhang Miao lives, probably know that these two young people are talking about someone.

Chen Yiyi said while wearing his seat belt, "My graduation thesis has been delayed. I have been letting myself go for a few days. I don't have the patience to read and write papers."

For this, Zhang Miao was not surprised at all, "The fact is like this. If there is a little pressure and a sense of urgency, it may be okay, and then I will be busy focusing on one thing. Now there is no sense of urgency, so naturally Just let yourself go.”

Chen Yiyi also followed suit and said, "And there is still no learning atmosphere, so I just drifted with the crowd and didn't intend to seriously write a thesis."

So at this time, I still have to scold those postdoctoral stars, think about how good their acting skills are, and have nothing to do with academic fraud, and how many students will be implicated, making it more and more difficult to write papers.

The two were chatting, and after complaining about some past stars, Zhang Miao said, "I went back yesterday and chatted with my parents. They were very excited and started to prepare. But let me ask you, your family Are there any customs here?"

It's normal for three miles to have different winds and ten miles to have different customs. Every place has its own customs and habits, so there's nothing strange about it.

Although Dongping Village and Lingshang Village are next to each other, it can be said that the basic customs are the same.It's just that sometimes, there may be some differences in customs and habits, and there may be some similarities with minor differences.

Although they are in the same city and county, there are still some differences in customs between some villages, and there are some things that even Zhang Miao and his fellow "villagers" stare at.

Chen Yiyi thought about it carefully, and then said, "There should be nothing special, I think the customs are the same. But my mother asked a little bit, your family has an ancestral hall, right?"

Zhang Miao regained her spirits and said jokingly, "It's a little early, isn't it? But don't worry, if that day really comes, our family will definitely open the ancestral hall. When you come out of the Chen family's ancestral hall, we will definitely be there." The ancestral hall of the Zhang family tells the ancestors."

Zhang Miao, who was shameless for a while, and Chen Yiyi, who had a hot face, looked out the car window. She naturally knew what Zhang Miao meant.

Thinking of something, Chen Yiyi quickly said, "By the way, it's okay for you to come and sit at my house during the Chinese New Year, but don't call twenty or thirty people. You are not allowed to bring fish or candies, only your family members come to sit and sit."

Zhang Miao naturally knew this, so she replied with a smile, "Don't worry, just look at it at first glance. We must go there for a while, and at the most we will bring an acquaintance there. At that time, you will come out and pour a cup of tea, right?"

Chen Yiyi gave Zhang Miao a blank look and didn't speak. According to the customs of his hometown, this is a 'first look', which is still a bit far from engagement, and it can barely be regarded as a blind date stage.As for 'pouring tea', it was naturally Chen Yiyi's attitude. If he was not satisfied, he would not come out to pour tea.

Chen Yiyi, who was a little bit annoyed, looked at Zhang Miao who was still smiling, and said angrily, "You'd better pray, if the two of us don't get along, it will be troublesome again!"

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This is really a big deal. In my hometown, everyone is very sensitive to many things.Even speaking of this age, some people don't care about these things, but my hometown still cares a lot.

These things need to be studied carefully, and Zhang Miao also feels that he needs to communicate better with Chen Yiyi.

Of course, the attitudes of the parents on both sides are also extremely important. Zhang Miao and Chen Yiyi also need to communicate more on these matters.Nothing else, now it is only suitable for two 'children' to communicate more, which is also the attitude of the parents on both sides.

(End of this chapter)