The story of a cook

Chapter 216 Discuss about getting married
After Qiuping left, Lin Yan asked me, "Is Lan Jun's wedding lively?"

"It's lively, it's a big deal, and it's been going on for several days." I said.

"Sister must be very happy."

"Well, I'm very happy. Wouldn't it be nice to have a happy event for my son's wedding?"

"Eldest sister didn't ask when you got married."

"I asked, I said New Year." I said.

"Who said we got married during the Chinese New Year? I'm not ready yet."

I smiled and said, "Then wait until you are ready before getting married."

Lin Yan said to me in a negotiating tone: "Why don't we get married two years later, okay?"

"It's up to you. If you think it's better to get married two years later, then you can get married two years later. When you go home during the Chinese New Year, you can discuss it with the old lady. Just let me know when you've discussed it."

Lin Yan stared at me and said: "The old lady definitely disagrees, and promises to let us get married early."

I said, "Then get married early and listen to you."

Lin Yan said: "My mother also wants to ask me to get married later."

Speaking of her mother, I thought I should go to her house to see her mother, and said to Lin Yan: "By the way, can you take two days off? Let's go back to your house and see your mother."

Lin Yan said: "I can't ask for leave. If I can, Qiuping and I will go home with you. If you can't, Qiuping and I don't dare to take a day off now. We just wait for the Chinese New Year." Stay home for two more days."

I said, "I haven't seen your mother for almost a year, and your mother will blame me by then."

"My mother doesn't pick these things, as long as we are good." Lin Yan said: "You don't have to go, my mother is very busy all day, and she has to feed the pigs, clean up the pigsty, and push the pig manure out. You don't have time to go Don't worry, you don't need to go, when we go back to my mother's house during the Chinese New Year, will my mother look different then?"

I said, "When we return to Beipiao during the Chinese New Year, we will run out of time again."

Lin Yan said: "This year's Chinese New Year we will stay at home for less than two days. We will come back on the third and fourth day of junior high school. Take the bus to the provincial capital by Beipiao. Get off at our Zhenwai Road and make a direct call." Xiaobengbeng" (three-wheeled motorcycle) can come to my house. The two of us came to my house on the fourth day of junior high school, stayed at my house for a day, and came back directly on the sixth day of junior high school, and I happened to go to work."

I said, "That's fine, as long as your mother doesn't pick on me."

Lin Yan said: "My mother didn't talk like that, not as much as your family did."

I said: "My family doesn't talk much, but I haven't been to your house since the last time I went to your house. It's not right for me as a son-in-law not to go."

Lin Yan said: "No, we can just go back to visit my mother during the Chinese New Year." After speaking, she looked at me and asked, "Where are you going to go?"

I said, "I'm looking for it. Wherever I find it, go there."

Lin Yan said: "You have to hurry up and find a job. The Chinese New Year is coming soon. We both have money in our hands. We have to go home during the Chinese New Year. We have to spend money to go to my house after going to your house. The money you earn at work is enough for both of us." It’s a good time to spend Chinese New Year.”

I said, "Don't worry, you don't have to worry about the money for the New Year even if you don't go to work, so you can rest assured."

Lin Yan said: "I don't want to borrow money for the New Year."

"You don't need to borrow money, you will have money." I asked, "By the way, how much money does our family have now after a long time?"

Lin Yan said: "Our family doesn't have much money now. Last month I got some money for my younger brother and some feed money for my mother."

I said, "Oh, it's okay, I'll go out and earn money if I don't have money." Then I asked, "So is your brother learning to get a driver's license now?"

Lin Yan said: "I will learn after the new year. We don't need to spend money on learning a driver's license. He saves all the money he earns. My mother and he don't give it to him. He uses the money he earns to learn."

I thought about it and didn't say much.In fact, I was a little angry with his elder brother. As a son, if he can earn money, he has to spend it for his family, so why not spend it for his family?Too ignorant.

Lin Yan's family is now in the same situation as when I first came out to work, it is very difficult.Lin Yan's mother has a heavy burden. There are two boys, one works at home and the other goes to school. They have to spend money on everything.Seeing that the old and the young have to get engaged, the old boy has to go to college after three years of high school, and four years to go to college, all of which have to be paid for, which is enough for the old lady alone.

Lin Yan's family didn't have much wealth in the first place, but now Lin Yan and I are fine, so don't worry about her mother, her elder brother will get engaged immediately and be called a daughter-in-law, and talk about a daughter-in-law in their house. Ten thousand, at least five to sixty thousand if the conditions are not good, not including the house.I read that Brother Lin Yan said that it is more difficult for me to find a wife than me. At least I can find one outside. He has to ask a matchmaker to find a wife at home.

Hey, spend your money.

I understand that Lin Yan spends the money at home, she is helping her mother to reduce the burden, and she doesn't want her mother to be so tired.

It's only natural for a girl to feel sorry for her mother.I don't have any opinion on these, understand.

I asked Lin Yan: "How many pigs does your mother raise now?"

Lin Yan said: "There are thirty of them."

I said, "Your mother's growth is fast enough, and it has grown to [-] in just over a year."

Lin Yan said: "My mother raises very few. Our average family raises sixty or seventy heads, and there are quite a few hundred heads. My mother has no money, so she can't raise that many."

I asked, "How much money can a pig make?"

Lin Yan said: "I can't earn much. I heard from my mother that if you catch up with the pigs, you can earn more than 200 yuan per pig. If the pigs are not good, you will make a few U-turns and you won't make any money."

I asked, "So is there any U-turn this year?"

"The first batch of pigs turned around four times this year. My mother felt so distressed. She got angry and had a toothache. She couldn't eat for several days." Lin Yan said: "My mother thought about raising an old sow by herself. You don’t need to spend money to buy piglets, and you don’t have to feel bad about turning around.”

I said, "Then buy an old sow, or buy two together."

Lin Yan said: "That's not money! Now my mother doesn't have much money. When these pigs are sold, if my mother buys old sows, she won't have money to buy pigs. After the new year, my younger brother will have to spend money to start school." Money, my mother doesn't have that money."

I said: "That's right, you can help your mother order some, and take some if you have money."

Lin Yan said: "We both have to spend money during the Chinese New Year, and we have to get married during the New Year, so we need some money." Lin Yan paused, looked at me, and said, "Old Tan, how about we The two of you won’t get married during the Chinese New Year, and we’ll get married a year later, we need some money to get married, and now we have nothing, how can we get married?”

I said: "It's okay, let's talk about it at that time, isn't it the Chinese New Year yet? Let's see at the end of the Chinese New Year. If it works, we can get married. If it doesn't work, we can get married one year later. Anyway, it doesn't matter if we get married now." The difference is that there is only a marriage certificate, or you can get the marriage certificate first, and you can do it later."

Lin Yan said: "Then we will talk about it at the end of next year——"

I said: "I know you are under pressure and want to help your mother. I have no objection or objection to this, but there is no conflict between helping your mother and getting married. After we get married, we have to help. We don't want children first." It’s fine if you ask for it a year or so later, first help your mother to marry the eldest brother-in-law, and then provide for the younger brother to go to college, then we can breathe a sigh of relief. Besides, your mother also earns money by raising pigs at home. Money, the three of us earn money, and we can handle everything easily, and you don’t have to be afraid that I will be unhappy, I will fully support you.”

Lin Yan said in my arms: "Old Tan, you are so kind, you never ask where I spend the money, and you don't get angry if you take money from my family."

"I don't worry if you take care of the money, you won't spend it recklessly, and help your family to be normal. You are the boss of your family, they are both young, and your mother is also tired. I lived that life and understand." I said: "Now My family doesn’t use money very much. If we use money, it means we spend money to get married and live. We both can earn money now. Let’s spend less and give the money to your family. Let’s talk about a daughter-in-law for your elder brother first. This is anxious thing."

Lin Yan said: "My family is poor, everyone thinks my family is not good, and no one proposes marriage to my eldest brother."

I said: "Difficulties are immediate difficulties. Tell your elder brother to be more patient and live a good life. It's hard to find a wife when you get better. There are plenty of them."

"There are more?" Lin Yan suddenly asked me: "Old Tan, did you have sex with many women before I didn't have sex?"

"No, how can there be." I said, "At that time, I was the same as your brother now. How could a woman fall in love with me?"

Lin Yan said: "I heard the eldest sister (Sister Zhang, who washes the dishes) say that there are several women who want to have sex with you. Why did you have sex with me then?"

I said, "Hello, who will be with you if you are not good? Besides, it is fate. I fell in love with you at the first sight, and I can't even run away."

Lin Yan hugged me and said, "Now you can't run away either."

Whoever becomes a family with whom is fate.

When I was with Yaru back then, I thought it would be great if she could become my wife, but the weather was not perfect, her family didn't allow her to have sex outside, so she found a husband's family at home.Although I didn't see Yaru this time, I also know her current situation, so it can be said that it is not very good.

I met Yaru's husband. He is a very energetic young man. It may be because of his good family conditions that he has the habit of gambling. If the family conditions are not good, he will not go out to gamble if he has no money.

I admit that I have deep feelings for Yaru, after all, it is my first love, and she is the woman I want to marry as a wife.

Getting together with Lin Yan may be an arrangement of fate. The two of us didn't have the romance of the past and the moon, and we came together naturally. No one asked anyone or anything, and we were together like this.

Her family is difficult, and my family is also difficult.

I am not handsome, she is not beautiful.

They are just two ordinary children who work outside the home.

I can understand her, and she can understand me.

It is enough to have these.

Two people with the same fate don't need to find a common language, experience itself is the best language.

I know what Lin Yan wants to marry two years later. She wants to help her family for another two years, or her mother will be too tired.Her idea is that it is justifiable to take money from her family when she is not married, but it is a bit unreasonable to take money from her family when she is married.These are nothing to me. I understand her. Even if I get married, I will still help her family, because she is my wife and her mother is my mother-in-law. I have this responsibility.

Everyone has double-layered parents. When living together, a couple cannot always think of their own parents instead of each other's parents.Everything is mutual, if you treat your parents well, they will treat your parents well, and if you don't take other people's parents seriously, they don't have to be filial to your parents.

One cannot be selfish.

(End of this chapter)