The story of a cook

Chapter 271 Ready to Go Home and Get Married
In the evening when Lin Yan got off work, I had already prepared the meals. Lin Yan was very happy when she saw the ready-made meals on the table.

"Okay, I finally got a ready-made one."

Lin Yan was as happy as a child.

"Okay, I will cook for you at home every day when I don't go to work." I said.

"That's not okay, our family is still counting on you to earn money, I earn too little to support the family." She said.

"That's not enough to give people a break," I said.

"Take a break, you have to take a break." She said, "You are tired enough during this period, now you can rest at home and don't worry about finding a job."

Hearing her say that makes me feel better.

It's been a long time since I sat down to eat with Lin Yan. Seeing that she eats very deliciously, I guess every day she deals with one mouthful and doesn't do a good job for herself.

I said, "Honey, I don't want to look for a job anymore, I just have time now, let's get married."

Lin Yan was taken aback and said, "Married? This is too sudden."

"It's so sudden, otherwise, we both decided to get married this year." I said.

When I said marriage, it was indeed a bit sudden, she hadn't thought about getting married yet.

Lin Yan said: "What are we going to get to get married? We don't have enough money."

"Now our conditions are not good, so we spend as much money as we have, and we don't compare with others. It's just a formality, and we don't need much money." I said to her.

"If not, let's get married next year, save more money, and manage well." She thought for a while and said.

Marriage is a major event in a lifetime, and every girl hopes that her wedding will be grand, and I can understand this.But I can't give Lin Yan a grand wedding, because my conditions really don't allow it.

"It will be the same next year. If I go to work, I may not be able to ask for leave to get married. This time is a chance. I don't need to ask for leave, and I will get married just fine."

I hold on.

Lin Yan said: "Then listen to you, I will tell my mother that we will get married this year."

I said: "I guess your mother can agree, we have been together for several years, and we should get married."

"My mother doesn't want me to get married, and wants me to help her for another year." Lin Yan said: "We will help her in the same way when we get married, but she just can't think about it. Besides, my mother is also reluctant to part with me. When I get married, I will be your old Tan The family is gone, not the old Wang's." Lin Yan said.

"Hey, we're going to get married sooner or later. You can call your mother tomorrow and tell her that we're getting married this year."

"Okay, just get married this year." Then she said, "I'm a little scared when you talk about getting married."

I laughed, "Said: What are you afraid of, I didn't sell you."

"That's also a little scary, haha."

Maybe it's a woman's premarital phobia.

I'm also surprised that such a big deal as marriage is settled.

After eating and washing up, I sat on the bed and watched TV, while Lin Yan packed the clothes in front of the closet.

I asked: "How many days can you ask for leave when we get married?"

Lin Yan said: "It's easy for me, I can ask for a week's leave."

I said, "One week is enough."

Lin Yan said: "We still have to take wedding photos."

I said: "Must, wedding photos must be taken."

"My store is not far away for wedding photos. Many people go to his house to take wedding photos. We take photos at his house. I also know his makeup artist, so it can be cheaper." Lin Yan said.

I said, "It's up to you, it doesn't have to be cheap."

Lin Yan said: "I heard from his makeup artist that, in fact, there is not much difference between the [-] and [-], just a few more art photos and a few more sets of clothes. We don't need too expensive ones. I will look at them first when the time comes." Look, pick a set that fits, and it doesn't cost too much."

I said, "That's fine, you really know how to live."

Lin Yan said: "Let's pass it. I think it's enough to have a wedding photo. Take a good photo and hang it on the bedside. When those are useless, it will be a photo album."

I said, "Isn't that a commemoration, it's nice to see when I'm old."

"What's the use? It's all about living. If you don't live well, you might get a divorce. Then there's nothing to commemorate, and nothing to commemorate." Lin Yan said.

"There are still a small number of divorced people."

Lin Yan cleaned up the closet and sat on the bed, looking at me seriously.

"Old Tan, do you think we can get a divorce?"

"No, you can't at all. How about a proper divorce? Neither of us is allowed to say the word divorce."

"We will not divorce."

After speaking, he lay down next to me, put his head on my lap, and took the remote control to switch to Korean dramas and watch TV.

I touched her head and she put her hand on mine, then took my hand off her head and put it on her face.

"You said getting married, when will we get married?" she asked.

"Tomorrow, I'll call my eldest sister and ask her to find someone to marry us at home, to see which day is suitable for us to get married, and to choose a good day."

"Do you have to have your birth date to get married?" she asked.

"Yes, I must."

She said: "I don't know my birthday, I have to ask my mother."

I said, "No." Then I asked her, "Do you know when you were born?"

"I heard from my mother that I was born in the afternoon. I don't know the exact time. My mother knows. I'll ask her tomorrow."

"This must be asked clearly, don't forget." I told her.

"I can't forget." Then he asked me: "What else do you ask besides Bazi?"

I thought for a while and said, "There's nothing left, just ask your mother how much dowry, if it's too much, I can't afford it."

Lin Yan turned her head to look at me and said, "My mother has raised me so much, so why should I ask for a bride price, what do you think?"

"That's normal, it's okay." I said.

"My mother spent a lot of money on us. I don't think we can ask for a lot of gifts. It's just a symbolic point."

"If you don't want it, you have to give it. My daughter-in-law can't be worthless."

She leaned over and said, "Old Tan, you have to promise that you will treat me like this after you get married."

"necessary."

I make the highest guarantee.

Chatted a lot with Lin Yan at night.

Lin Yan was very dependent on me, and would crawl into my arms at night, like a kitten.

Lin Yan has a lot of personality, and she admits to death. If she wants to do something, she must do it, and no one can say it.At the same time, I am a bit out of gregarious and don't want to be crowded.This has something to do with her childhood experience. She didn't have a father at the age of three, and lived a life of dependents, which caused this character defect.But the last few years have gotten better, not so much.

Lin Yan is very strong, and wants to live a good life all at once and make herself rich.But life is not a one-day life, we have to take our time, we both have weak foundations, we don't have much family background, so we can't talk about life, it's good now.

Lin Yan is very pragmatic, she never says what can't be done, and promises to do what can be done.This touched me a lot, and she brought a lot of my pragmatic energy.For example, I sometimes talk loudly after drinking, although what I say is very practical, but Lin Yan always hits me.

She said: "Old Tan, you are good at everything, even if you talk big after drinking, you can do what you say, but try to say as little as possible in the future, if you can't do it one day, no one will believe it. "

I nodded and said, "Yes, I also found this problem, and I have to correct it in the future."

"Also, try to avoid going out to drink as much as possible in the future. Even if you are invited by others, you should go less often, and you always ask them to invite you. Then you must not invite others. Just drink and drink. If you say something wrong and offend others, don't say it." , and make yourself feel bad. If you want to drink, you can drink at home, and if you drink too much, you can sleep, how good it is."

Lin Yan made rationalization suggestions for my drinking.

"Okay, try to go out and drink as little as possible in the future." This must be accepted, it is for my own good.

"In the future, you will have to smoke less. It's best to quit. Look at your trachea, it squeaks when you sleep. We are not afraid of anything, but I am afraid that you are sick. I don't want to be like my mother." Yes, when the time comes, my husband will be gone, so I will suffer more."

Lin Yan said worriedly.

"Okay, quit smoking in the future." I also agreed.

"You, say you promise everything, but don't do it, I don't know you yet."

"Don't worry, I can do what you said."

Lin Yan hopes that I will be healthy and healthy, everything is for my own good, I know this in my heart.

I was very excited when I thought about getting married.Although living with Lin Yan is the same as being married, I still feel that being married is different from not being married.

Married couples live together as a legal couple, and non-married couples live together as cohabitation.

(End of this chapter)