The story of a cook

Chapter 395
Zhang Li is five years older than me. I am 31 this year and she is 36.

A 36-year-old woman is the most mature, and it's time to start a family.

I was the second man who came into her life. In her eyes, I was a little man and also someone she liked.But I already have Lin Yan, so I can no longer have her.She knows that I can't be with her, and I can't give her anything, but I can't let go of this feeling for a long time.

He also wanted to find a man to marry him off, but he didn't find it for a long time. As he got older, his views on life changed, and now he has the idea of ​​not wanting to have a family and just living alone.She feels that living alone is quite good, free from restraint, without too many burdens, and without so many troubles after getting married and starting a business.The only shortcoming is that she has no children. She wants to have a child of her own, but does not want to start a family.

The idea sounds a little funny, but it's what she really thinks.

If you want to have children, you have to live with a man, and you have to have a relationship to have children.

She had to find a man. Although she didn't want to start a family, she still had to start a family.

I know what she thinks, and as a friend, I hope she finds a suitable partner.If her idea is known by other men, the man who wants to date her should break his head and be able to give birth to himself without being responsible for himself. Where can such a beautiful thing be found.

She told me that Li Shuang and Master Tong are getting along very well now, they are in the sweet period of love, and they are still working together, which has reached the level of being a couple.And the two are living together now, living a life together.

They are both adult men and women. They have a good relationship and can get out together. They are both single. It is normal to live together.

"Old Tan, when will the two of us live together? It's been all these years, and we haven't done anything yet." She said half-jokingly and half-seriously.

"Let's do it, isn't it just living together? It's not easy, just go out and open a room." I said with a smile.

"That's what you said, don't deny it then." She said.

I said, "There's nothing wrong with that."

She asked me seriously: "You tell the truth, Old Tan, don't you want to stay with your wife?"

I knew what she was talking about, and replied: "I think, can I not, I am also a normal man."

"I thought you didn't want to?" She said, "Why do you pretend to miss you? I don't need you to be responsible. It's okay, it's fine for us to have a room together." She paused, and then said: "The main reason is that I like you. I have the mood with you, but I don't have the mood with other men."

I looked at her and said to her: "I can't do it. To be honest, I just talk about it. I can't get through that test in my heart. I can't do it when I think of my wife. I can't do it now. I have a son, and I don't have that kind of thinking anymore. You can't have anything to do with other women."

"It's good for us to get along like this. We are friends and iron sons, and we are also lifelong confidants." I said.

She looked at me and said, "It's pretty good."

Men and women are still friends when they don't have skin-to-skin contact, but the nature changes after skin-to-skin contact occurs.

Lin Yan returned from Beipiao with her son two days later.

I am very happy to see their mother and son, especially to see their son who is indescribably happy. The feeling of being connected by blood is very strange, and it is an indescribable feeling.

He hugged and kissed his son, who smiled in his arms.

My son, I have to keep fighting for you too.

Lin Yan saw that I looked like a good person, and said, "I see you are fine."

I said, "It's fine now. I couldn't lift my arms when I was in Binhai. After I got home, I had acupuncture for a week and it was done."

"Did you catch the wind there?" she asked.

"Maybe." I said, "The old Chinese doctor who gave me acupuncture said that I didn't get this disease now. I had it a long time ago. It just didn't break out, and now it broke out."

"I haven't heard you say that your shoulder hurts before, but you have said that your back hurts." She said.

"I've had pain before, but I didn't pay attention to it. I forgot that I put plaster on it." I said.

She said: "Forget it, you seem to have put on a plaster." She replied.

I asked her if Zhiye would go back to hold a school entrance banquet, and she said she wanted to go back and have a look, but Zhihao’s wife is confinement at home, and confinement people have to take up half of the kang with their children, so she has to take her son back. It occupies half of the kang, the house is narrow, and there are many guests doing business, making noise, so I will not go back, and I will go back after the business is done and quiet.I thought that was the same thing, so I went alone when Shino held a school entrance banquet.

I went there on the same day and came back the same day. Lin Yan couldn't take care of the child at home by herself, and she couldn't even eat. I can cook for her when I come back.When I came back, I asked my mother-in-law if there was enough money for Zhiye to go to college. My mother-in-law said enough, and received a lot of gifts for the school entrance banquet, and the gift money was enough for Zhiye to study in college for a year.

As long as there is enough money for Shino to go to university, I will find a way if it is not enough.

It is not easy for the mother-in-law, and it is very difficult to bring up the three children.Now that Zhiye has been admitted to university, it seems to be quite an honor. It is easy for a family with conditions to provide a college student with time, but it is a burden for a family with difficulties.The mother-in-law is strong, she raises pigs to earn money, first she married Zhihao a wife, and now she has to continue raising pigs to earn money for Zhiye to go to college. It is difficult enough for an old lady.

The mother-in-law is only one year older than the eldest sister, and now the eldest sister is enjoying family happiness, but the mother-in-law has to continue working—the old son has just entered college and has not yet married a wife.

All I can do is take the money and nothing else can help.

Back when there were only me, my fifth sister, and my mother, my sister and brother-in-law helped us in the same way.I was different then from now. The money back then was really money, and it was forbidden to spend it.At that time, 50 yuan was worth 500 yuan now, or even more.

The main reason is that every family had no money at that time, and it would be good for a family to have 1000 yuan. Although there are also households with [-] yuan, how many families can there be in a village?In some villages there may be one ten thousand yuan household.

When I was studying, I really didn't have the money to study, and I couldn't afford to study.

Although the university that Zhiye was admitted to was not well-known, it was at least a university, as long as it was a university, or as long as it was studying, I was willing to get paid as long as I was studying, because I liked studying.

It's just that whether you can change your destiny depends on how you use knowledge.

Knowledge is more useful than no knowledge.

After returning from Zhiye's school entrance banquet, he was not in a hurry to find a job. Although he was anxious to go to work and earn money, his body hadn't recovered yet, so it was good to take care of him.Every day at home, I wash diapers for the children, cook, and serve Lin Yan and his wife.

My job is like this.When I get up in the morning, I make breakfast first, then wash the diapers that I changed in the evening, and then clean up the house.When I was cleaning up the house, Lin Yan took care of the child. At this time, the son did not sleep and played there.After tidying up the house, it was nine or ten o'clock in the morning.The weather was nice in August, put my son in the stroller and started pushing him for a walk outside.

After I push my son out, Aunt Wang upstairs will communicate with him for a while.Aunt Wang was standing by the stroller teasing her son, who was lying in the car and giggling at Aunt Wang.At this time, Aunt Wang would say: "It seems that I can't die, the children like me."

There is a saying that children are clean, their eyes are pure, and children can see things that adults cannot see.If an elderly person has reached the end of his or her life span, there will be a display. This display cannot be seen by adults, but can be seen by children. Children will cry out of fear when they see it.Therefore, if an elderly person sees a child who is afraid of crying loudly when he sees himself, he will know that his life span is up; Year.

This is of course a superstition, but many old people believe it, otherwise it is superstition.

I was pushing the car in the courtyard with the child, and at this time Lin Yan had to take a quick sleep in the house, otherwise she would have no time to sleep at night when the child made trouble.

The son is very likable, and no one cries when he hugs him, which is good.Every time I push my son out, I bring a few diapers and toys.My son is less than three months old, and he doesn't know how to play with any toys. He just brings a rattle and flower bell, and sometimes he will smile happily when he shakes it.

Taking the child out requires patience and cleanliness. As long as the child is clean and comfortable, he will not cry.The son will play outside for an hour and pee once in an hour.I don't know when he urinates, sometimes he smiles at you while lying in the car, and then the dick starts to shoot up into the sky.At this time, you have to change the diaper quickly, change the wet diaper and put on a dry diaper.After changing the diaper, the son does not feel uncomfortable and will continue to play.After playing for a while, you will feel sleepy, and you will not be able to lift his eyes when you watch him, closing and opening them for a while, and falling asleep after repeated several times.

When my son is asleep, I am happy. If Aunt Wang is in front of me, she will ask me to smoke a cigarette, and she will watch over me by the stroller.Sometimes, Sister Ni from the massage parlor helped me watch and told me to go home and prepare lunch.

When the son woke up, he must be hungry. At this time, he pushed the son back, changed his diaper and took a bath, because he was pulled.After taking a bath, I started to breastfeed. I was so happy to eat, and I ate big mouthfuls, obviously hungry.

At this time, Lin Yan would say: "Son, don't worry, mother has plenty of milk, no one will grab it from you, eat slowly."

The son still went his own way, sucking milk.

Lin Yan's milk is indeed sufficient, and her son can't eat at all, so he squeezes out a lot and throws it away every day, otherwise Lin Yan will feel uncomfortable.

The son will play for a while after feeding, and after playing for a while, he starts to make trouble, which means he wants to go out.I carried him to the gate of the building to stay for a while, not too long, it was the beginning of noon, and it was the hottest time, and he would suffer from heat stroke after a long time.After staying for a while, I took my son back to the house, and soon after arriving at the house, my son fell asleep.

After five o'clock in the afternoon, my son almost leaves me alone.The first thing my neighbor, brother and sister-in-law Li, came back from get off work was to visit my son in my house. No matter what, she had to hold her son and play for a while before going back to the house.Xiao Lele in his family didn't leave at all, and played with his son until after dinner.

They coaxed me to start cooking, and our two families have been eating dinner together since I came back.I can’t have breakfast together, and sometimes Li Ge’s sister-in-law doesn’t eat. Li Ge has started to go to work these two days, and he doesn’t eat at home when he gets up in the morning. He goes to the breakfast shop outside to eat deep-fried dough sticks.Brother Li and his family didn't come back at noon. Lele ate in the kindergarten, Brother Li ate in the factory, and sister-in-law ate in the workplace.When the family of three came back in the evening, I made dinner at this time, and our two families ate together.

I ate it for seven years.

There are very few people who can live as a family with neighbors like us.

When eating at night, the sister-in-law is mainly in charge of the children. She will take a bite first and then start coaxing the children. At this time, Lin Yan eats, and Lin Yan changes to her sister-in-law after dinner.Brother Li and I will drink some wine. After drinking, I will take a bath for my son. Xiao Lele is responsible for playing with my son.

After bathing her son and playing with her son for a while, Lin Yan took advantage of this time to tidy herself up, wash her face, brush her teeth, and then nurse the child to sleep.I would come out of the house to take a breath and chat with the idiots in the compound for a while.

Aunt Wang would lie on the window of our house and chat with Lin Yan for a while. If her son was not sleeping, Lin Yan would hug her son to the window. Aunt Wang and her son would have a conversation that only the two of them could understand.

The weather is hot in summer, and the most difficult thing to solve is the problem of bathing.

I can't take a bath at home, and the child is sweating all day long, and I feel uncomfortable if I don't take a bath.Every day, some water is boiled, and then mixed in a large basin. In the dead of night, Lin Yan wipes her body in the room, and it is considered to be a bath.I rinse myself with cold water in the kitchen, which is also very comfortable.

The conditions at that time were like this, and we should pay attention to what we can.In fact, I felt pretty good at the time, and I was very content.It's just that now that the conditions are good, I feel incredible in retrospect, and I don't know how I got here.

People say what they say and when they go, and take off their shoes wherever they go.I already feel very good, as long as my son is like anything, it’s fine for me and Lin Yan to suffer a little, not to mention that I haven’t felt any pain yet, I feel very good.

People can only be happy if they are content.

In the middle of the night, I started to sleep, and my son fell asleep at this time.It's just that he wakes up when he's hungry, and he has to eat when he wakes up.

The second half of the night was the most difficult time for Lin Yan.

Raising children is not easy.

Only by raising children yourself can you know the hard work of being a parent.

It is not easy for us to raise children, how about our parents to raise us?
Even more difficult!

If you don't raise children, you don't know your parents' kindness.

One must be filial in this life and calibrate his parents.They are the people who brought us into this world, they are the people we have met before, without them there would be no us, why should we not honor our parents? !
Not being filial to one's parents is immoral.

Small filial piety governs the family, medium filial piety governs the enterprise, and great filial piety governs the country!

Unfilial do not teach.

Filial piety to the world!

(End of this chapter)