mortal train conductor

Chapter 26
On the train, the deputy captain is generally in charge of the office seats of the train, and is mainly responsible for the management of bills, materials, and spare parts. Zhang Lan, the deputy captain of the first package of K18, wrote a good word. The information on the office seats of the train is generally She writes, Zhang Lan doesn't talk much in daily life, and always tries her best to complete the work assigned to Liu Qun. She cooperates with Liu Qun in team management and other tasks, and is Liu Qun's very satisfied partner.

Zhang Lan grew up in this team. She used to work as a train conductor in this team, and later became a broadcaster. After working as a broadcaster for two years, she passed the train conductor recruitment test.

Zhang Lan is very delicate, with big watery eyes that seem to be able to talk. Although she is already a mother, if people who don't know the details, they will often guess that she is about 25 or [-] years old. She is small and exquisite, and her figure is Thin, but because she has been with the conductors in this team for many years, everyone has always treated her as a little sister, so her affinity is enough, but her majesty is much less.

Zhang Lan also realized this. She has served as the deputy driver for more than two years. In order to enter the role of manager as soon as possible, she also worked hard. She wanted to establish her own authority, but she was repeatedly frustrated. She has a sense of equality, but lacks a sense of awe towards her superiors. The advantage of this is that it is easy to carry out work, and her proposal is easily recognized by everyone.However, the shortcomings are also obvious. If you, as a manager, correct violations of regulations and disciplines at work, it may even appear to be a little insufficient in the assessment. Some employees will openly contradict and stand up and say "NO".

After the return meeting at a train turning station, the train conductor Liu Qun was sitting in the crew room of the soft sleeper car writing the crew report. Zhang Lan knocked on the door. Liu Qun saw that Zhang Lan seemed very nervous through the glass of the cabin door. Liu Qun beckoned to her, and Zhang Lan stepped in carefully, and closed the flight attendant door tightly again.There is only one double seat in the crew room of the soft sleeper car. Zhang Lan stood opposite Liu Qun, looked at Liu Qun with a flushed face, and immediately made Liu Qun, a 38-year-old man, feel like fifteen buckets in his heart Fetching water, fluttering:
what's the situation?Could it be that Zhang Lan has strange thoughts about me?Although I am more handsome, but it is impossible, I have always been very strict about the relationship between men and women, and I am serious with the female colleagues in the team, especially the young and beautiful ones. news.But Zhang Lan, the deputy captain, is different, because he is a partner, and also a superior and subordinate in the same level, the relationship is very delicate, it is impossible to be so serious, and sometimes he talks and laughs.It seems that I have to pay attention in the future. Is there something I said wrong that Zhang Lan misunderstood?So much so that Zhang Lan looked at herself like this.Although I am no longer an ignorant kid, my love life is also very simple. Once Zhang Lan says something that shouldn't be said, how will I take it up?Look at her, she is panting, her nose is sweating, she hesitates to speak, woman, what a trouble!

Just when Liu Qun was thinking wildly and wondering, Zhang Lan mumbled and said, "Well, Liu Che, I have something I want to discuss with you. I have an idea, and I don't know if I'm right or not. ? Don’t laugh at me if I’m wrong.”

Liu Qun thought to himself: This is a blessing, not a disaster, and it is a disaster that cannot be avoided.Escape is not the way, if she confesses to herself, she must refuse, and she must not have such feelings, harming others and herself.

Liu Qun patted the seat beside him and said, "Mr. Zhang, please sit here. If you have anything to say, please sit down and talk."

Zhang Lan sat beside Liu Qun, but kept a punch away from Liu Qun.

"Just tell me if you have any ideas, and I will judge for you whether it is right or not, and whether I can do it. After all, I am a few years older than you, and I have seen a lot of things." Liu Qun also sweated.

"Liu Che, it's like this. I was admitted as the train conductor from this team. Although I am very popular in the team, the employees don't have the feeling of superiors and subordinates with me. It has been two years. I have been I tried my best to reverse it, and tried my best to play the role of the train conductor as a manager, but I found little effect, so I just want to ask you, can I be a good train conductor?"

Liu Qun secretly breathed a sigh of relief, and secretly scolded himself for thinking so crookedly. "Well, I have also discovered this problem. The staff in the team are very kind to you, but they lack a kind of respect for their superiors.
Everything has advantages and disadvantages. This lack of distance and hierarchical relationship is really not conducive to work, especially for us. "

"Zhang Che, do you have any good suggestions? We cooperate well. You are so diligent, but you have put in a lot of effort for the team. I will definitely help you."

"Liu Che, I read an article on the Internet two days ago. The content is that, the general meaning is that addressing people seems to be a trivial matter, but in fact it hides respect for the person being addressed."

"Oh, I quite agree with this point, and I also have a lot of experience. Sometimes the wrong address is really annoying. Take me for example. Many people call me 'Qun'er' regardless of the occasion. Of course , this is a sub-pronunciation and a group of words. In fact, if my superior or my age is much older than me, I have nothing wrong with calling me that way, but there are many conductors who are younger than me or train conductors of the same level. Call me, I hear very harsh."

"Chechang Liu, yes, that's what was said in that article, which means that people who are lower than you and who are younger call you by your nickname in order to gain a psychological advantage."

"Oh, there is such a saying? I have also done a little research on psychology, and I know a little bit about it. If you want to say this, I think it is really the case. Many conductors who used to be on the same team as me, now I also called 'Qun'er' when I saw you. According to the idea of ​​your article, for them, it is really possible that in their subconscious mind, they think that they should be better than me, and I am just a junior. Maybe I don't deserve their respect!"

Zhang Lan went on to say: "It's not entirely like this. There are still many people who are used to screaming and can't change their mouths."

"I can't change my words. I think they don't regard me as a superior. They still have a kind of self-satisfaction spiritual victory like Ah Q. They may think this way: you are the conductor, and I am the conductor, but I want Calling you by your nickname, if you say that you have been playing with the big ones since you were a child, or if the leader calls you this way, you will feel very kind, but you are young and I am not used to it. You are obviously insulting me and belittling me by calling me like this. .”

"By the way, Captain Zhang, what do you say at the end of this article? Generally, suggestions are given at the end of articles like this."

"At the end of the article, it is recommended that people who are called juniors resolutely resist, that is, push back, especially some relationships that require a sense of distance, such as superiors and subordinates, must let the other party know that his title is wrong, don't act like a mere Ah Q, who has a strong heart, always feels that he is superior. If you are a subordinate, you are a subordinate. Don’t feel that you are a superior psychologically, and don’t think that you are old. You, I love you. If you always stand on the psychological high ground and look down on others, then it is easy to be kicked down by others." Zhang Lan said.

"Hey, this article is well written, and I think it suits me quite well. In the future, if someone younger than me and with a lower position calls me Qun'er, I'll go back. By the way, tell me this Does it mean that many people in our team call you Lan'er?" Liu Qun has dealt with passengers for many years, and his ability to draw inferences from one instance to another is very good.

"Yes, Liu Che, I also want to start with this aspect first, and see if I can change the title first? Will everyone have a certain sense of hierarchy and gradually adapt to the reality that I am already the conductor of the train?"

"It's easy to say. I'll tell you about it next time I go out. If not, I don't think it needs to be said. Now that there are such good technological means, it would be a waste not to use them."

"What method? Liu Che?"

"I posted a circle of friends and set it up to be visible to some people. People in our team and our unit call me 'Qun'er' and you 'Lan'er', except of course the leaders and our special 'fa Xiao'. Other than that, I will list them all, and I will change the words based on the content of this article you mentioned.”

"Isn't it good for Liu Che to be like this? Will it make others think that we are narrow-minded?"

"Hey, we didn't say that. I posted it on Moments. People with a discerning eye will know what to call me and even others in the future. In fact, I am giving a free post to those who are arrogant in heart and weak in reality. Class, if there is something really annoying, I will correct him face to face. Just like the article said, since you disrespect me from the bottom of your heart, why should I swallow my anger and let you take the psychological advantage? The superior is the superior, and the subordinate You should obey the command of your superiors instead of saying that your psychological advantage is my superiors, how can you do your job well? You are resisting the fact that others are your superiors from the bottom of your heart!"

Zhang Lan wanted to say something else, but at this time the station has broadcasted and started to release passengers...

After returning to the departure station for K18 times, after getting off the bus, the team workers got the mobile phones they had handed in one after another, and couldn't wait to turn on the mobile phones, and first swiped WeChat to see if they missed anything.Coincidentally, they all found such a dynamic in Liu Qun's circle of friends:
(Headshots of three cupped hands) Dear colleagues and friends: Please don't call me by my nickname "Qun'er" when you call me in the future, because you are neither my elder nor my leader. If you Respect me, call me Liu Che, if you think you can sit on an equal footing with me, or if you don’t want to respect me but must address me, you can also call me Liu Qun, but don’t call me “Qun’er” again .Whoever wants to call me "Qun'er" again, I will give him the nickname "Second Bing". I don't care how old you are, I will call you "Second Bing".In the back, there were three portraits of minions with grinning teeth.

"Liu Che is really funny. He posted such a joke." Some people thought it was funny after reading it, but most of them thought for a long time after reading it.

The next day the team rested at home.Liu Qun called Zhang Lan: "Zhang Che, you will send a message in our team's WeChat group in a while, informing everyone to bring the newly issued badges when leaving the bus, and asking everyone to 'receive the reply'. I Let's see if the title has changed?"

Zhang Lan released this message according to Liu Qun's instructions.Someone responded quickly.Most of them reply "Zhangche received".However, the woods are so big that there are all kinds of birds, and there are really some people who are not open-eyed. The reply of a male old conductor in his 50s is "Lan received".Liu Qun had been waiting for this kind of person to appear, but now he became angry.

Liu Qun directly @that employee in the WeChat group: "Excuse me, are you the elder of Zhang Lan? Or the leader of Zhang Lan? Do you call her like this? As the train conductor, I call Zhang Lan Zhang Captain. Respect—do you understand? Those who respect people, people always respect them. Please reply if you receive it.

Next, the old employee immediately posted a sweaty profile picture, and replied: I'm sorry Liu Che.And a separate reply "Chapter car, I have received."

Since then, all replies have been "Zhang Che, received."

This seems to be an innocuous little episode, but after two trains, one day, when the passengers were being released at the station, Zhang Lan said to Liu Qun: "Liu Che, thank you very much, since you asked everyone to change my attitude towards me. After addressing me, I feel that besides the closeness, there seems to be some inexplicable feeling in the eyes of everyone looking at me, and there seems to be a sense of distance and awe."

"Don't thank me. In fact, I still have to thank you. Since I accepted your proposal, I have sent Moments to those who call me 'Qun'er' in Moments. Now besides the leader and 'Fa Xiao' , no one calls me 'Qun'er' anymore. In fact, the title seems harmless, but it actually shows a person's mentality. When the title changes, the mentality will gradually change. Although the title is just a symbol, the symbol has changed. , then the heart that realizes the change will gradually change accordingly. People should respect themselves first, and then others will respect you. If you don’t respect others from the bottom of your heart, how can others respect you? It made me wake up. The deputy captain of our team is named Wang Xiaozhan. He is 35 years old. He is indeed younger than me. From the beginning, I followed others and called him "Xiaozhan".

"Every time I call Wang Dui "Small Station", the look on his face is not very friendly. I don't care about it, I think I am very close. In fact, deep down in my heart, I am dissatisfied and envious of him. I think why you are the deputy captain. , and I'm just the train conductor? Why should I carry out your orders? Recently, I asked people not to call me 'Qun'er', and I changed my words. I called him Team Wang a few times when I met him. Well, I look more complex than before. It looked much better, and after calling it several times, I got used to using honorifics, and I got used to him being my superior. When I carried out Wang Dui's instructions, I felt at ease, and my work felt smooth. See Come on, I also have to be vigilant and self-examine myself, because of the old saying, people live to learn, if you ask others to do it, do it yourself first!"

"Liu Che, thank you no matter what. Recently, I have the feeling of being the captain of the car in our class. The address is really important. Just like you said, when you are called by a nickname, you don't have respect in your heart. , when you call a superior position, you will gradually respect him in your heart." Zhang Lan said vigorously.

"There is another little joke. I remember when I first came to the sports car, a leader came up to check. I called him 'Master'. Guess how he answered?" Liu Qun asked.

"Did the leader call you 'disciple'?" Zhang Lan said with a smile.

"No, the leader turned his face and asked me when he heard my title. You called me 'Master', why didn't I remember that I took you as an 'apprentice'?" After speaking, Liu Qun laughed.

(End of this chapter)