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Chapter 383: Abandoning Useless Social Players Dining Free
Recently, Liu Qun just read an article from Reader.The name is "Please give up useless social interaction".

The main meaning is to suggest that when people reach middle age, they should return to their innocence, let themselves clear their distracting thoughts, and live a simple and refreshing life.

From material to spiritual, every dimension of life can be reduced and simplified. As you regularly throw away those unnecessary cumbersome things, you will become more and more aware of what you really care about in a person's short life. s things.

There are also such people around Liu Qun. They always talk about "connections" and "resources". Their biggest hobby is to show off who they have eaten with, who they have drunk with, and how many good friends they have on WeChat.

By swiping through their circle of friends, you can often see which gatherings among high-level people he has attended today, who he had a drink with yesterday, and tomorrow he is going to attend a party in a certain circle.

In fact, Liu Qun’s first impression after reading this article is that network of friends and circle of friends, and drinking are completely different concepts. opponent's resources.At best, they are just drinking buddies, dining buddies, friends who are not in contact with WeChat.

Writer Li Shanglong said: "If you are not strong yourself, those social interactions are actually useless. Only an equivalent exchange can get reasonable help."

The famous actor Chen Daoming is well-known in the showbiz circle for not liking meaningless socializing with people, and he rarely goes out to participate in dinner parties. Even if he does, it usually does not exceed half an hour. He prefers to be alone. He either plays the piano or paints. He even makes dough, sugar pourers, and makes leather bags by himself. His life philosophy is to concentrate on doing what he likes to do, give up those useless so-called social interactions, and leave more time for himself and himself Most beloved family.

Mark, a university professor in the United States, said: One of the signs of a person's maturity is to understand that 99% of the things that happen to us every day are meaningless to others.

Liu Qun actually agrees with this point of view. His social concept is to sit down and chat with like-minded people instead of drinking or eating. His friends are people who can understand each other and are in the same class. Social is the most effective.

When chatting with your like-minded people, it will not involve work and the so-called help between each other.Just talk about things that you like in common, for example, Liu Qun sat down with a few people who took the legal qualification examination, or a few people talked about each other's learning experience in the square, or supervised each other's learning progress.There is nothing else in between.

For example, there is a person in their circle who is the deputy captain of the traffic police.Although it is said that there are relatives and friends around Liu Qun who will violate the rules and other phenomena, but Liu Qun has never opened his mouth to the traffic police friend to ask for a settlement.

The same is true for other people, limited to hobbies and nothing else. Among these people, no one has ever asked Liu Qun to buy a train ticket and entrusted Liu Qun's relationship when taking the train.

The true friendship between gentlemen is as light as water.Liu Qun likes this kind of social interaction, there is no pressure on each other, and there is no distinction between high and low.

On the contrary, there are colleagues like Wang Qianjun around me, who gather once every three days and once every five days.The key is that there are not some positive factors in their gatherings, but it is inevitable to complain about others, complaining about poor work, and then very likely to drink away their sorrows. Liu Qun once participated in it once, and he did it patiently for a long time. After more than an hour, he left the meal on the grounds that he had something to do. He thought it would be a torment to sit for an extra minute at this kind of meal.

Without any positive meaning, even if Liu Qun had time, he would never go to this kind of party again.It is time-consuming and labor-intensive, and after a meal, there is no gain except a full stomach.

Liu Qun was in a daze when he saw Wang Mengmeng was still sitting on his seat.

He walked over to Wang Mengmeng and said, "What's wrong with Xiao Wang? Are you too nervous? Don't think so much after the exam. It doesn't matter if you do well in the exam. Let's do our best."

Wang Mengmeng said, "Liu Che, I made a big mistake."

Liu Qun asked in amazement: "What big mistake can you make in this martial arts test? Is there a question wrong or something?"

Wang Mengmeng said: "I was too nervous when I was handing in the paper. I made an old mistake while checking and stuffed the pen holder into my mouth. I didn't expect to use a fountain pen today, and the ink in the ink bag was blown out between mouth sucking and blowing." The child squeezed out and fell on the paper."

Liu Qun said: "Yeah, but will it be counted as a paper and suspected of being marked? How big is the ink stain?"

Wang Mengmeng said, "About the size of a 5-cent coin."

Liu Qun said: "It's not safe, it is very likely that your paper will be sealed separately and not graded. This is to create an obvious mark on the test paper.

You are really careless, you should have answered well.It depends on the situation, the first martial arts competition will inevitably have such and such mistakes.

It is very good to be able to participate, and we don't expect to get a ranking back the first time, and the results will come out tomorrow.Let's mainly check how we have learned?
After a while, I went to the teacher of the vocational education department to ask for a test paper. Anyway, the martial arts competition is over now, and there is no problem of leaking the questions. You can write the answers according to your memory and see how many points you can score. It is worthwhile to achieve this goal. "

Wang Mengmeng said: "Well, that's the only way to go."

The two left the arena.Wang Mengmeng said to Liu Qun: "Liu Che, it's getting late, I invite you to have a simple meal outside, you are so kind to me, you often help me, I have never been able to find a chance to repay you, let's have a simple meal and chat." Be cautious."

Liu Qun laughed heartily and said, "Xiao Wang, you know, I don't like to waste time going out to eat, and it takes at least half an hour to eat. So, let me treat you, I'm your superior, let's go Go to Harmony Garden Hotel."

The office cafeteria of the passenger section where Liu Qun works is called Harmony Court.

Cadres and workers who eat here enjoy meal subsidies.Daily breakfast and dinner are one yuan per person, and lunch is two yuan per person. The standard of four dishes and one soup is nutritious and full.

Wang Mengmeng said: "Okay, that's fine, let's go to the Harmony Garden Hotel, but you can't invite me, we have to use our own mobile phones."

Every cadre and worker is registered to use a dedicated mobile payment software to pay.

Liu Qun said: "Okay, Xiao Wang, let's go, then let's make AA system, each pays his own."

Liu Qun and Wang Mengmeng came to the office cafeteria. Since it was not time to get off work, there were few people eating in the cafeteria, and most of them were contestants who had finished participating in the competition.

The two each took a stainless steel dinner plate, and went to the credit card counter to swipe their mobile phones.

When the two walked to the front desk, they saw a piece of red paper pasted on the big glass, which said-you have worked hard for the contestants, and today you have free meals.

The staff of the restaurant said to Liu Qun and Wang Mengmeng: "Contestants also swipe their mobile phones, but the information has already been entered into the system and will be automatically recognized."

Liu Qun and Wang Mengmeng swiped the QR code of the mobile payment software respectively, and both of their mobile phones showed that they had paid, and the payment amount was 0 yuan.

Don't underestimate the saving of one dollar, the amount is not much, but it has established the concept of glory in the contestants' minds, so that the contestants have a sense of pride and glory, and then drive more people to learn rules and regulations and learn technical knowledge , participate in technical training and technical competition, and then form a virtuous circle from "I want to learn" to "I want to learn".

(End of this chapter)