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Chapter 166 [166] Reluctant to accept

Although there was a fire in his heart, Huang Xiaopei still smiled and said on the face: "Mom, I understand Dad's idea of ​​wanting to live with you. After all, you two have been used to living together. It's still a good time to be separated." It’s going to be a little uncomfortable.”

"However, Zihan is still in school as you said just now. It's only May, so it's not good to just stop going? Right? Qingchun!"

After Huang Xiaopei finished speaking, he turned the conversation to Su Qingchun, and she hoped that her husband would quickly help her to refuse.

"That's right, Mom, Zihan still has more than one month's class to attend, right?" Su Qingchun quickly echoed knowingly.

"I know this. I thought about it that way at the time, but your father is right. How old is Zihan? She's only in kindergarten. It's the same as not attending class. What do you think she can learn in class? She's not in kindergarten yet. play," He Meizhen said, "If you don't go, let's go, and you can save one month's tuition."

He Meizhen's reply made Huang Xiaopei, who is a teacher of the people, really dumbfounded.

"Mom, what you said is wrong. Going to school is definitely different from not going to school. Even if it is a kindergarten, you can learn something in school. Even if you say you are playing, it is subtle , You can listen to some of the knowledge that the teacher taught you, no matter how you say it.”

"Xiao Pei, you don't know, the kindergarten in our town only teaches dancing and playing with toys, unlike here in Shanghai, where you can't learn anything," He Meizhen explained, "This kindergarten is expensive. In the past, Mangzi and Zihan’s father had never been to kindergarten at that time, and he was still in the first grade!”

"Zihan's father doesn't want to talk about it because he doesn't live up to it. It's not the same for Mangzi to go to university if he doesn't go to kindergarten, so it doesn't matter whether he goes to kindergarten or not."

"How can this be generalized from the past to the present? In the past, kindergartens themselves were not popularized on a large scale. When everyone was in the first grade, their knowledge level was actually about the same, but it is different now. Let alone kindergarten. In order to meet this assessment, many parents are trying their best to enroll their children in transition classes from kindergarten to elementary school." Huang Xiaopei said.

Now the only breakthrough that Huang Xiaopei can think of is Zihan, so naturally he has to argue hard.

"Xiao Pei, you are talking about Shanghai, right? Isn't everyone in our town enrolling in the first grade like this? I haven't heard that there is an exam in the first grade."

He Meizhen has actually heard what Huang Xiaopei meant, but it's okay for Huang Xiaopei to speak clearly. Now she is a little unhappy when he talks about the kindergarten. He Meizhen is actually very concerned about children's education. Now Huang Xiaopei So, wouldn't it mean that she doesn't pay much attention to children's education?

He Meizhen has nothing to show in her life. She thinks that the education of her children is the most worth mentioning. After all, it was because of her persistence that her son Su Qingchun became the first college student in the village. It has always been something she can be proud of.

Now Huang Xiaopei is just saying that she doesn't understand children's education. This is trampling on her proudest thing. Naturally, she is not happy about it. Although she doesn't agree with Su Tiejun's saying that children are the same whether they study or not, but in In her opinion, there is not much difference between going to kindergarten and not going to kindergarten, at least in their town, not to mention that they sent Zihan to kindergarten according to her age. In her hometown, many parents are out of town, bringing their children here Reading, reading over there, occasionally changing places and not being able to attend, or skipping reading is common, and it is not said that those who cannot sign up because of these first grades, this incident made her feel that Huang Xiaopei is a little bit of a feather When the sword is too deliberate.

Su Qingchun, who was at the side, obviously smelled the smell of gunpowder when he heard the words of the two of them.

"Mom, in fact, what Xiaopei said is right. We used to be different from what we are now. Children will definitely learn something when they are in kindergarten, but as you said, if you just take a month's leave, you won't lose anything. Knowledge, after all, children are not very old now, and there are not many things that schools should teach."

Su Qingchun can talk, and he didn't offend anyone.

After He Meizhen heard her son's words, she was very happy, and she replied proudly: "Yes, we didn't say that we would not let Zihan go to kindergarten, but we said that taking a month's leave would not have much impact."

At this time, Huang Xiaopei, who saw that he was obviously at a disadvantage, gave her husband Su Qingchun a blank look.

"However, Mom, I don't think Zihan's matter is so simple. If you don't go, it's hard to explain to Qingfu, right?" Su Qingchun quickly added.

When Huang Xiaopei heard her husband's words, it was as if she had grasped the straw to save her life, and quickly echoed: "Qingchun is right, Qingfu and the others are Zihan's parents, and they have the right to decide whether Zihan wants to ask for leave. "

"To be honest, even if we think it's okay for Zihan to ask for a month's leave, if Qingfu and his wife find out about it, what will they think?"

After finally finding an excuse, Huang Xiaopei seemed to want to seize the opportunity.

"Zihan is their child after all. They heard that Zihan asked for a month's leave in order to play, and they would definitely not agree."

Then, Huang Xiaopei added, "Then the two of them will definitely blame us for being ignorant as uncles and aunts. In order for the child to play in Shanghai, he insisted on making her not go to class. That's really not good."

After finishing speaking, Huang Xiaopei was a little proud. After all, as a parent, who would agree to a child taking a month off for fun? So when the words came out, Huang Xiaopei was confident, and even thought that if her mother-in-law still pushed back, she would call on the spot To Qingfu.

However, He Meizhen replied calmly: "I have also considered Qingfu's side, so after I heard your father talk about this matter yesterday, I called them in the evening to ask them what they think about it."

"What did they say?"

Huang Xiaopei asked.

"Qingfu said the same thing as your father, saying that it's okay, you can stay as long as you want." He Meizhen replied.

"Then have you asked her mother?" Huang Xiaopei still didn't give up.

"I asked, and her mother is right next to her, and she agrees."

When Huang Xiaopei heard it, it was completely out of the question. This result was beyond her expectations. In her consciousness, there is no parent who does not work hard to let their children win at the starting line and learn as much as they can. Let alone It's Zihan's current age, her own daughter has been enrolling her in various dances since she was 3 years old, and her eloquence is waiting for cram school, for fear that she will fall behind.

In fact, Huang Xiaopei's thinking on this matter was correct, and she miscalculated because she didn't consider that her brother-in-law and sister-in-law didn't graduate from junior high school. They didn't have any concept of children's learning, and they even thought that reading was useless. Otherwise, the sister-in-law wouldn't have gone to work and not brought the child with her, and she would have been educated by her side, leaving the child with her grandparents in a small town, living a life where she could learn if she wanted to.

The matter has come to this point, and Huang Xiaopei can't find any reason to refuse at this time.

Su Qingchun, as a son, his mother proposed that his father wanted to stay in her home for a longer period of time, which is understandable and impossible to refuse.

He Meizhen's wishful thinking was fulfilled, and her son and daughter-in-law did not refuse, and they lived in Shanghai safely.

(End of this chapter)