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Chapter 173 [173] Educational differences

Huang Xiaopei was actually trying to be quick-mouthed for a while, but now that she came to her senses, she also knew that it was really inappropriate to talk about her grandfather in front of the child.

But she has her own self-esteem, so she just replied: "Anyway, our family is a responsible person, and I have never seen such a naughty child."

"Our family is also a law-abiding person. Besides, children are naughty by nature, which is normal. What you said feels like she has done something outrageous."

She didn't continue the topic just now, but turned to Su Zixuan, she waited for Su Zixuan to say loudly: "I have seen this kid no matter how naughty he is, but I have been a teacher for so many years, and I have never seen him do anything like this." of."

"Tell me, did you come up with this thing yourself or was it taught by someone else?"

Su Zixuan, who was still quietly watching his parents' interrogation, quickly lowered his head in fright.

Seeing Huang Xiaopei's posture, Su Qingchun was a little annoyed that he had to ask who taught her before giving up.

"What are you doing? In fact, she just did something that is not suitable for her age. Don't make it look like you have committed a crime and sentenced to death. And I feel that the child has done something wrong. You always Don't you think it's bad to want to shift the responsibility to other people's head?"

"Besides, don't always divide your family's and mine's. It's really ugly."

Although the tone of Su Qingchun's words was not serious, it actually sounded serious.

Ever since his in-laws came, Huang Xiaopei also felt that he really had an opinion on his in-laws, or because of this, he would have personal emotions in dealing with some things, and he might be biased.

But she has her own reasons for saying this. In fact, since her in-laws came, her daughter Su Zixuan has really changed a lot. She has learned many bad behaviors of her in-laws.

For example: when eating, she will follow the parents-in-law to turn around with chopsticks, and then stop eating, and she will say that everyone is like this; and now she is not taboo at all, eating any snacks, regardless of whether it is oil or not Fried food, junk food, anyway, she eats what she shouldn't eat and what she should eat. As long as the mother-in-law thinks it can be eaten, she will buy it for her children. Huang Xiaopei educated her after seeing it, but she didn't listen. It was the younger sister who ate it all, so she would definitely be able to eat it; in fact, there are many habits of life that have gradually assimilated with the parents-in-law.

In fact, these are the real sources of Huang Xiaopei's anger.

She said angrily: "Although it was wrong for me to ask that way just now, I didn't make it out of nothing. Think about it, has your daughter changed a lot recently, and she can even say swear words casually."

The Su Qingchun that Huang Xiaopei was talking about actually knew that his parents were born in the countryside, and they loved to swear in their mouths, but those were actually mantras, not swearing at all.

He said in a gentle tone: "Those are actually things that can be educated well. There is no distinction between teaching and learning."

"You don't know how to imitate. What's at home, the child will naturally learn. She is the best at imitating people at her age. It's only been a month, and she has directly become a lively country girl."

"Don't always be from the countryside, from the countryside. I am also from the countryside. Don't discriminate against the countryside so much, okay? Besides, if it's not good, we can teach her, tell her what's not good, what can't be done, "Su Qingchun explained, "Don't keep thinking that if she did something wrong, someone must have taught it. The child is so old and has her own thoughts and judgments. You tell her right or wrong, and she understands."

"I made a mistake, every time you yell at her like that, do you think you can ask anything? How can she listen?"

Su Qingchun continued, "Besides, as a teacher, don't you think there is something wrong with your education method?"

"Can you have a good and calm talk with your child, it's useless to just yell at her like this."

Huang Xiaopei has been a teacher for many years, and her educational achievements can be said to be very good. She has been rated as an advanced teacher many times. Now she is a doctor, and she is a doctor who usually doesn't care about children. She was a little annoyed.

She replied loudly: "I am a teacher, and I have my own way of education. It is not up to you, a doctor, to criticize and educate me."

"Besides, you think I want to yell at her, but she is really disobedient. She doesn't listen to what I say, and she has her own way of speaking, which is better than me. What do you want me to do?"

"You just stand and talk without backache, I still say that, if you are so capable, then you go to educate her?"

"The child is not alone. As a father, you can educate her well."

On the issue of children's education, Su Qingchun and Huang Xiaopei had never been on the same line, and each had their own ideas.

But Su Qingchun is very good at this point. He knows that he spends less time with his family because of his work, and his wife Huang Xiaopei does worry a lot about children's education. In her opinion, many of his wife's behaviors are wrong, but she also has her own point of view. And position, there is hard work without credit, let alone generalization.

So he quickly explained: "I didn't mean to question your education method just now, I just think why you have to force her to say that her idea must be taught by others before you are willing?"

"I mean, now that something is wrong, we as parents, should we think about how to make her correct at the first time, and the most important thing is not to do it again in the future, and there is no need to just yell at the child like this, calm down and be good Say it."

When the two were in a stalemate, He Meizhen suddenly heard shouting: "It's time to eat!"

Su Qingchun knew that in such a situation, it was useless for the two of them to argue here, and Huang Xiaopei was very stubborn, especially when it came to educating children.

He knew that no matter what he said today, Huang Xiaopei would not be convinced. Instead of making such an unpleasant scene, it's better not to mention it.

So after he heard what his mother said, he immediately changed the subject.

"Okay, okay, let's eat first, let's talk about something after dinner."

"She still wants to eat today?" Huang Xiaopei looked at Su Zixuan fiercely and said.

"This child made a mistake and it's a mistake. You still have to eat. It's so late, the child must be hungry." Su Qingchun persuaded.

Su Zixuan on the side also quickly cooperated: "Mom, I know I was wrong. I am really hungry now. I didn't even drink my saliva when I came back."

"Look, it scares the child so much that he doesn't even dare to drink water."

"With her courage, I can scare her so much that she doesn't dare to drink water? Why do I not believe it so much? I think you are stubborn and don't know your mistakes." Huang Xiaopei said angrily.

As soon as the words fell, Su Zixuan's stomach started growling, and her stomach was very compatible with Su Qingchun.

(End of this chapter)