life is sweet

Chapter 175 [175] The remaining children of the dead

Huang Xiaopei's family has worked in the factory in the county since her father's generation. In the eyes of her parents, her parents are solid rice bowls. Although they have experienced some difficulties in life, their living conditions must be much better than Su Qingchun's.

So the rumors that Su Qingchun just said were a bit unbelievable to her.

Su Qingchun knew that Huang Xiaopei didn't understand, so he continued to explain: "I know you think this countryman's rumor is a bit false."

"Let's not talk about it far away, let's just talk about those aunts and uncles in my family. They are always the people around them, right? In fact, they can't escape the fate I just mentioned."

"You see how the children in the palace are so easy to die in TV dramas. Do you think that those children have miscarriages and other things that are made up by the screenwriters?"

"Isn't it?" Huang Xiaopei asked back, "Where is it true that the emperor has so many concubines who can't have children, or are they killed when they are born?"

"I agree with what you said about those who were killed may be a joke, but in real history, the survival rate of children is indeed very low, because in that era, medical care was really underdeveloped and life was limited during years of fighting. It's really not easy for children, it was a little better in our parents' time, but we still can't escape the restrictions of living conditions."

"Our parents can't do it, can they?"

"Why not? Think about when our parents were born?"

"You still have a lot of elders who don't understand medical common sense to oppose the obstetric examination. They always say that everything was born like this in her time. I haven't seen anyone who has a problem?"

"Actually, it's just that she doesn't know, or she's just lucky. In fact, many people who are born with disabilities just don't know about it because of poor communication, but not knowing doesn't mean they don't have one."

"So I'm not surprised that my uncles and aunts died young and died of starvation, but the other third child is an aunt, and it's not surprising that the third child died of illness after how old she was raised."

"It's not unusual for people to die of illness. I think this is the least strange thing. Even now, the level of medical care can't be said to be very developed, but at least it is unprecedentedly developed, right? Then there are still sick children who die young." "Huang Xiaopei said disapprovingly.

"It's normal to be seriously ill and die, but do you know what kind of disease my aunt died of?"

"What's wrong?"

"Have loose bowels!"

"Ah? No way?" Huang Xiaopei was surprised, "What year are you talking about? Didn't Tu Youyou invent artemisinin at that time?"

"It was true that it hadn't been invented at that time, but I don't think there is any cure for her disease," Su Qingchun said, "Because I heard from my grandma that it was just vomiting and diarrhea, and her body was numb. Now she is studying medicine. I knew that in fact, at that time, she might have an electrolyte disorder, and then she didn't get timely treatment before her condition worsened."

"Then why didn't you take him to the hospital?"

"You don't have to ask for money to send to the hospital. At that time, my family was relatively poor, so I wanted to take care of it at home. Later, I heard that my grandparents were still working in the fields when they died. At that time, it seemed that they were earning work points. The family was away from home. The field is also very far away, we go out in the morning and come back at night, and when we come back, people are hard.”

"Oh my god, this is terrible," Huang Xiaopei was astonished, "I can't believe such a thing happened to me."

"So, it's not that the children at that time were easy to take care of, it's simply that the elders at that time didn't take care of them. To put it bluntly, the children who survived in that era were simply leftovers from death." Su Qingchun said.

"What's left of death?" Originally, this topic sounded serious, but Huang Xiaopei couldn't help laughing when he heard Su Qingchun's words, "Your words describe, really"

Huang Xiaopei really couldn't think of any good adjectives right now, so he just gave a thumbs up!

"What I said is true, and the situation in my family is not an exception. When I was young, I heard my grandma say that there are many such cases in our village. Just like what I just said, the child is lost after birth. The whole family is very calm. , not just the mother of the child, this is terrible! It proves that the whole people are so indifferent to their children."

"Of course, what I said may be a bit far away from us. Let's just talk about our generation, which can only be called support at best, while their post-10th generation is the real nurturing. So, don't blame this Children are naughty, in fact, this is really a child's nature, and don't think that it is easy for the older generation to take care of children, in fact, it is not easy for them to take care of them now."

Su Qingchun finally returned to the topic, and he continued to add after speaking, "Of course, the reason why children are so difficult to take care of nowadays is that many of them are only children and there are no other children in the family. The parents' attention is on her alone, so it's inevitable that they are a little bit idiosyncratic, and the parents are also a little aggressive."

"What you said is really possible," Huang Xiaopei agreed.

Then she said with empathy, "When we were young, we wouldn't be as exaggerated as you said in your father's time. My parents were only two or three children. Although my younger brother and the others were naughty when I was young, they didn't dare to be so bold. Where are you? How dare you talk back to your parents, let alone do such an outrageous thing."

"That is to say, in the final analysis, children are all naughty, but there are many reasons why children are so naughty and self-willed nowadays, and we can't just blame children blindly. Xuanxuan's situation is definitely not an exception, it should be because of nature. So don't take it too seriously, and we as parents also have a certain responsibility for the child's naughtiness."

"But for a child, no one is willing to be so strict, which will cause such a difficult situation for children today."

Huang Xiaopei always thought that she really had a big problem with educating children, or that her method was wrong. In her opinion, it was so easy for the elders to take care of their children, but why is it so difficult for her? Woolen cloth.

Now that I heard Su Qingchun's words, I feel better. Su Qingchun's point of view is actually quite fair.

Having said that, it makes sense, but if things fall on her own head, she still can't do it well, especially when she thinks of Su Zixuan's various behaviors, she is still very angry.

So she said: "Maybe you said that children are so naughty by nature, so, you always say that I know how to yell when I speak loudly, so who doesn't want to talk to her calmly? But reality doesn't allow it? "

"You also saw it today. I was trying to tell her a lot of truths. Look at her. She heard that her soul ran away after eating. She is so mad." Huang Xiaopei sighed, "I can't help but shout loudly." Wait, I don't think anyone in the world wants to be a shrew or a vicious mother, they are all forced."

Hearing Huang Xiaopei's confession, Su Qingchun also understood that it was not easy for her, not to mention Su Qingchun just watched the contrast of his daughter, what else could he say, he had no chance to say good things, so he had to persuade his wife instead.

"Hey, okay, okay, I also know it's not easy to take care of children, and you have worked hard."

"Let's eat first, and we'll talk after we finish."

"What are you going to eat? I'm so full of gas, I don't even have the heart to eat."

"What if you don't eat, come and eat quickly."

As he spoke, Su Qingchun pushed his wife's shoulders and walked out of the room.

(End of this chapter)