life is sweet

Chapter 192 [192] Can't have both fish and bear's paw

Huang Xiaopei and Su Qingchun's way of getting along is like this. Although Su Qingchun likes to avoid many things, doesn't understand romance, let alone sweet talk, but in the face of big problems, he can always stand on a reasonable stand to give Huang Xiaopei warmth.

In fact, for the quarrel just now, everyone just wanted to talk quickly. Everyone thought it was ugly when they said it, but they couldn't take it back. As an intermediary, Su Qingchun's approach can make both parties not so bitter , which he did.

After the phone call just now, Huang Xiaopei was indeed in a much better mood, but when she thought of her mother-in-law coming to Shanghai, it seemed that there were a lot of trivial things in the family, and small conflicts and awkwardness were always there. Really uncomfortable.

She is a person who has a clear distinction between what she likes and what she hates, and she doesn't like such trivial things to pester herself every day, and such small things seem to be nothing, but when she thinks about it, she gets upset and will still affect people's mood. It's like being stuck by a small fishbone. Although it doesn't affect the body, it always feels uncomfortable.

After returning to school, although she was much better than before when she went out, it was impossible to say that she was in a happy mood.

During the second class, she saw that the class time was about the same, so she walked from the office to the classroom.

When she stepped into the door of the classroom, she found that there was already a teacher on the podium. This person Huang Xiaopei knew very well, and it was her good friend Xie Min who was on the podium.

Xie Min was startled when he saw Huang Xiaopei, and then teased the listless Huang Xiaopei: "Why, Mr. Huang, are you planning to switch to teaching English?"

Huang Xiaopei quickly raised her head and glanced at the sign at the door. Only then did she realize that she had passed a classroom, and the classroom next to her class was in the next room.

She quickly ran out with a smile.

It made the other students in the classroom laugh out loud.

After the bell rang for the end of get out of class, Xie Min came out of the classroom door just in time to see Huang Xiaopei walking in front of her again.

She has always been a gossip, the incident just now was enough to make her laugh at Huang Xiaopei for several days, and she will definitely not let it go when she sees Huang Xiaopei this time.

"Mr. Huang!"

she shouted loudly.

Huang Xiaopei stopped and waited for Xie Min when he heard the yelling.

Xie Min asked as he walked: "I said, Mr. Huang, you are not in the right shape today? What are you doing?"

"It's nothing." Huang Xiaopei said perfunctorily.

"It's nothing, you can go wrong in this classroom? This is your first time!" Xie Min said, "It's nothing to say, whoever you tell will believe it?

Xie Min has always been a gossip, and Huang Xiaopei has become used to sharing her life with her over the years, so she also replied without going out, "Hi! Don't mention it, I broke my face with my mother-in-law today."

"Huh? The fight started so soon?"

Xie Min really didn't think it was a big deal to watch the excitement, and he didn't hide his excitement and curiosity at all.

"That's not true, it's just a quarrel in the morning."

"Is this just a quarrel?"

Xie Min asked with a disappointed heart.

"Ah."

"Isn't it just a quarrel, you are like this, as for you"

"We've had a fight, how embarrassing will it be when we meet again?" Huang Xiaopei said, "I don't even know what to do when I go back at night?"

"To speak or not to speak?"

"What's the embarrassment? That's your home. You can talk if you want to talk, and don't talk if you don't want to. What's the trouble with it!"

From Xie Min's usual tone, Huang Xiaopei always felt that the relationship between her and her in-laws was harmonious, but now she was so disapproving of the quarrel, which surprised Huang Xiaopei.

"Isn't that embarrassing? I'm so stubborn. How dare I take the initiative to speak? If you don't speak, it feels a bit too much to be under the same roof."

"There's nothing embarrassing about it. It's like you had a fight with your husband, and you'll have a cold war for a few days at most. Don't you think you'll never see each other again? If you think it's nothing, you can just pretend that nothing happened and live your life as you want." How do you live?"

Xie Min suggested with a familiar look.

Huang Xiaopei felt that what Xie Min said had some truth, but it was the first time she had a direct conflict with her elders, and she had never had any conflicts with her own parents, and she had less with her in-laws for so many years, and naturally she never had any.

Although the quarrel between them this morning was not so serious, it was still a little insulting after all. It was really difficult to let her pretend that nothing happened.

Thinking of the embarrassing situation now, Huang Xiaopei regretted his decision to let his parents-in-law come to Shanghai.

She regretted and said, "Hey, I'm the one to blame for this matter."

"Why are you to blame?"

"If I hadn't insisted that they come to Shanghai, such a thing would not have happened."

"Hey, don't say that. It was my suggestion to let your in-laws come to Shanghai. If you say that, you are blaming me."

"No, I'm sure I didn't mean to blame you." Huang Xiaopei quickly denied.

"You were just a suggestion at the beginning, and I still have the final decision," Huang Xiaopei continued to explain, "I should really think about my husband's suggestion at the beginning, after all, he knows his parents best."

"Now at home, I really don't know who I am. My husband tried to persuade me to let them come. Now, I let my in-laws come without telling my husband. I am really affected by their habits and lifestyles." No, but it’s not easy to say directly, who told me that I called them here in the first place.”

Speaking of this, Huang Xiaopei added with some relief: "Fortunately, my husband didn't blame me for the current situation, otherwise I would really have to dig a hole in the ground. I was full and had nothing to do, so I lifted a rock and smashed it." Your own feet."

"Hey, why should your husband blame you for this matter? It's his parents. How could he blame you for what his parents did badly?"

"Isn't that why I asked them to come?"

"So what? After all, it's his parents who have the problem, not you, so don't blame yourself here." Xie Min said forcefully.

Xie Min has always been proud and feels good about herself, unlike Huang Xiaopei, although Huang Xiaopei doesn't like Xie Min's arrogance, but sometimes he envies her mentality, at least he won't be troubled by such things like her .

Seeing that Huang Xiaopei was still looking sullen, Xie Min explained, "Don't worry too much about this matter. If it comes, you'll be fine."

"Besides, there are gains and losses. How can you have both fish and bear's paws! Isn't it? Think about it since your in-laws came, and if nothing else, at least you don't have to spend time on what you don't have. Housework of any kind?"

"Also, you can still go to the cram school after work now, and you can occasionally go out for a stroll as an excuse. I asked you out before, how could I have this time? Isn't it also very good!"

"It's true what you said. After my mother-in-law came, I did have a lot easier housework, and I did have more time to spend on myself."

"That's right. How good is this state now? You can do what you want. Wherever your mother-in-law is wronged, just accept it. Besides, there is nothing to be wronged. If there is anything you don't like, just accept it." Say it, it's your house, not hers, after all, you are the hostess."

"If it's really useless, then you just turn a blind eye and close one eye. It's impossible for you to take all the benefits by yourself."

Xie Min's words were really reasonable. After her reminder, Huang Xiaopei finally understood: indeed, in this world, there are gains and losses. He got his own freedom, but he must endure other things. There is no other way, how can you have both!

(End of this chapter)