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Chapter 213 [213] Patriarchal

He Meizhen saw that the two granddaughters were very happy to hear that she was an older sister, so she corrected her: "Xuanxuan, this Hanhan is a helpless older sister, you are just a cousin."

"Why?"

Su Zixuan asked puzzledly.

"Because my aunt gave birth to a little brother."

"Oh."

"Do you want to have a brother yourself?"

"think."

"Then when your mother comes home, you have to tell your mother to give birth to a little brother for you." He Meizhen said happily.

Su Qingchun knew that her mother was always urging them to have a second child, but life in Shanghai was so stressful, and now one was enough for them to work hard, so the couple had already decided that they only wanted one, otherwise they wouldn't have dragged on till now.

Seeing his mother instigating his daughter like this, he was a little unhappy, so he said, "Mom, what are you doing? Didn't I tell you that you should not get involved in such a thing, let alone let the children join in."

"Is it okay if I don't get involved? Look at how old you are. You are almost forty. You were in college when I was your age."

"I won't be able to give birth again." He Meizhen added.

"Didn't I tell you many times, we only have one child, and we won't have a second child." Su Qingchun emphasized again.

"What a joke."

"I'm not kidding you." Su Qingchun explained, "Life in Shanghai is so stressful. It's hard to raise one child, let alone two."

"What are you working hard for? Both of you are state units. Everyone in our place is a migrant worker and has at least two children. No one died of starvation." He Meizhen insisted.

"Where is the child going? You only need to raise it. Educating him well is the most difficult thing. Do you know how much it costs for a child to go to various cram schools?"

"That is optional, if you have money, go there, if you don't have money, pull it down."

Su Qingchun was speechless when he heard his mother's words.

"Raising children is about quality not quantity."

"What do you know? People can prosper." He Meizhen glanced at Su Tiejun and said, "Right?"

On the contrary, Su Tiejun showed little advanced consciousness in this matter.

"It's their business to have children, why do you care so much?"

Seeing that he didn't get any benefits, He Meizhen said angrily: "I can understand if you don't have a second child with only one son, but now it's definitely not good if you don't have a second child with Xuanxuan."

Su Qingchun said helplessly: "Mom, don't bother with this matter, and don't bring it up in front of Xiaopei."

"Why don't you mention it? How long are you going to delay if you don't mention it?" He Meizhen was very angry every time she mentioned this matter, and then she said, "Oh, yes, Qingfu said today that they are not here this time. Went for a blood test and it was a boy."

After Su Tiejun heard this, he suddenly asked excitedly: "Really?"

"Yeah, it's said that I took a Hong Kong blood test and spent thousands of dollars. It can be fake."

"That's great, this is really a happy event." Su Tiejun was very excited.

Su Tiejun's behavior at this time seemed to be in stark contrast to Su Qingchun's indifference to the issue of having children just now.

Of course, facing such a gap, Su Qingchun felt relaxed. Hearing what his mother said, his younger brother was pregnant with a grandson again, which relieved him of some of the pressure, and said with a smile, "Oh, that's pretty good too."

"That's right, I've been looking forward to him giving birth to a son for a long time." He Meizhen paused for a while and then said, "Mangzi, you said that his wife had a miscarriage before, and she finally got pregnant this time, didn't she?" Be extra careful?"

"Has Qiqi had a miscarriage before?" Su Qingchun asked curiously.

"flow past."

He Meizhen glanced at Su Tiejun and replied.

"Oh, so, is it a natural abortion or man-made?" Su Qingchun asked naturally as an obstetrician and gynecologist.

"What do you mean?" He Meizhen asked puzzled.

"It's because I couldn't carry it anymore, or I didn't want it, and I took the initiative to go to the hospital to have it done." Su Qingchun actually thought it was unnecessary for him to ask. The younger brother and sister-in-law have always wanted children, and if there was a miscarriage, they couldn't keep it. But Su Qingchun It's a doctor, he has some cautions of his own.

"It's all done on my own initiative."

"Ah? Didn't you always want a child yourself? Why did you have to get rid of it when you were pregnant?" Su Qingchun didn't know about this, and was very surprised.

"Isn't it all girls who were checked before?" He Meizhen explained.

It was because of the girl again, Su Qingchun was really annoyed when he heard this, he asked puzzledly:

"What does it matter to a girl? They are all her own children. They are all born the same. It's not worth having an abortion just to give birth to a son, and this woman's abortion is very harmful to her body."

Even though Su Qingchun said so, her mother still looked disapproving.

"Then it must be a boy. Their conditions can't support so many children. They can only have two. The first child can't be helped by a daughter. The second child must be a boy."

What He Meizhen said was analyzed very clearly. From her tone, he not only supported the miscarriage, but she might even be involved.

Su Qingchun has been in the hospital for a long time, and he is used to seeing too many patriarchal old people, especially the medical dispute he experienced before was caused by patriarchy, so he hates the concept of patriarchy even more.

Moreover, among these patriarchal people, there are actually women in the majority, mother-in-laws or young mothers. He really can't understand why he is so patriarchal because he is a woman.

Su Qingchun was glad that Huang Xiaopei was not at home today, otherwise she would be angry again when she heard this.

Originally, her mother had been urging her to have a second child recently, and she was very disgusted. If she heard that the second child might be aborted even if it was a daughter, she would not die of anger.

Isn't this treating people's lives like a joke?

Faced with his mother He Meizhen's patriarchal Su Qingchun, he also tried to persuade him countless times, but it was always fruitless. He was also very helpless with the deep-rooted concepts of these decades.

"Mom, how many times have I told you, and just now, that boys and girls are the same, they are all your own children, as long as you raise them well." Su Qingchun reminded again, "In the future, if Xiaopei is here Don't say such things here."

"Hehe... I will definitely not say that Xiaopei is here. I just saw that Xiaopei is not here. Besides, what I said is right. This girl will marry out sooner or later. As the saying goes Well, the water poured out by a married daughter will be the same as if she hadn't been born."

Su Qingchun was speechless when he heard his mother's words, and he finally understood what the sick mother-in-law said to refresh his three views. Now it seems that she is really not a weirdo. It turns out that his own mother is also like this. .

(End of this chapter)