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Chapter 22 [022] Deceitful Education
Su Qingchun didn't want to talk about this matter any more, nor did he want to delve into it further.

"Forget it, don't mention those stupid things." He quickly changed the subject, "By the way, what do you think Xuanxuan is doing today?"

"What else can I do?" Huang Xiaopei asked back.

"Are you fighting again?"

Su Zixuan, born in 2011, is a rabbit, but he doesn’t have the docileness of a rabbit, and he doesn’t look like a girl. This child is very smart and naughty since he was a child. He was like this from kindergarten to elementary school. Huang Xiaopei was often punished for Su Zixuan’s naughty things. The teacher called to educate.

So Huang Xiaopei said that he was called by the teacher for questioning today, in Su Qingchun's view, it was not a big surprise.

Su Qingchun is also commonplace.

Huang Xiaopei nodded in response.

"Why is our girl like a boy? She always fights with her classmates."

"Xuanxuan has always been naughty, and it's not a big deal at ordinary times, but this time she actually beat up her male classmate to tears, don't you think it looks like it," Huang Xiaopei said, "and every time she is reasonable."

"I'm so mad at her."

"Slapped the male classmate?" Su Qingchun was very surprised, and asked with wide-eyed eyes, "What's the matter?"

"It's a male classmate in their class. His family is rich but his grades are poor. He sits not far from Xuanxuan. He wants to copy Xuanxuan's math homework, but Xuanxuan refuses to let him. He made a mistake and was criticized by the teacher. , and then he tore up Xuanxuan's homework after class, and then your Xuanxuan used what she learned in the Taekwondo gym to beat up the male classmate."

After Su Qingchun heard the whole story, he said happily: "Then he should be beaten!"

Huang Xiaopei looked at Su Qingchun with dissatisfaction and asked, "Can fighting solve the problem?"

"When something like this happens, you must report the situation to the teacher as soon as possible."

"Yes, yes, yes, what Teacher Huang said is right," Su Qingchun said with a smirk, forgetting that his wife is also a teacher, he quickly added, "Xuanxuan did something wrong, how could he hit his classmate, it should be on the spot Report the situation to the teacher, right? Teacher Huang."

"That's right!"

Then Su Qingchun said: "However, Teacher Li is not right about this matter. The main reason for this matter is her classmate's problem. Why are you looking for it? It should be the parent of that male classmate, so he should educate him well. .”

"Why didn't you find Xuanxuan?" Huang Xiaopei continued to use his teacher's authority and said, "No matter how wrong the male classmate is, Xuanxuan can't hit him first?"

"This is a child. If an adult hits someone first like this, he will break the law."

"And you didn't see that boy, he was beaten so badly by Xuanxuan, the corner of his mouth was bleeding from the beating, your daughter was too ruthless."

"Fortunately, his mother is abroad, and his father didn't have time to come during the meeting, so a nanny came. Otherwise, the parents might sue your daughter if they saw it."

"You hit so hard!" Su Qingchun gasped.

"What do you think?"

Huang Xiaopei stared at Su Qingchun with staring eyes, as if Su Qingchun had made a mistake.

"I said at the beginning not to let her learn taekwondo. You insist on her learning. Every family of a girl learns dancing. It's better for you to let her learn taekwondo."

"It's all right now. What she learned in taekwondo happened to be used on her classmates. A seven-year-old girl is stronger than a boy."

"Then I asked Xuanxuan to learn Taekwondo because I thought she was not in good health when she was born, and I thought that learning Taekwondo would strengthen her body." Su Qingchun explained.

"What do you mean to keep fit? Every girl in the family dances, but your daughter is good. She takes Taekwondo classes." Huang Xiaopei said angrily, "Don't hit people at every turn."

"Let me tell you, she is no longer purely for physical fitness, she is prone to violence!"

"Isn't it?" Su Qingchun frowned and replied.

"Why not!"

Huang Xiaopei said: "Let me tell you, her habit of beating people is really bad. What's wrong with a girl who beats people every day! Of course, it's not just because of learning Taekwondo, but also because of watching those Violent cartoons."

"I've made a decision. Starting tomorrow, I'll take her IPAD, I'll turn off the TV at home, and I won't go to that taekwondo class. Let's break her up. A girl should act like a girl."

"It's a good thing to watch less cartoons, and it's not good for the eyes, but that taekwondo is for strengthening the body, and girls grow up with a bit of kung fu, so they are not easy to be bullied."

Su Qingchun said his own opinion: "I think the way you handle it now is a bit extreme. Xuanxuan is still young, so it is inevitable that he will make some small mistakes. It should be fine if you guide him slowly."

"I think you can take care of it, but you have to have a degree, don't cut it across the board."

"You know, you take care of it, you guide it, okay?" Huang Xiaopei said angrily, "You usually don't care about the children, but now you are criticizing my education method."

"I didn't criticize you either, I just think your way is a bit too much."

"How did it pass?" Huang Xiaopei said angrily, "When did you take care of Xuanxuan from kindergarten to now?"

"You don't care about children yourself. You don't understand the difficulties of managing children. It's not as simple as you said."

"Where did I not take care of it? Did I not return her to the parent-teacher meeting yesterday?" Su Qingchun retorted.

"Don't mention the parents' meeting to me, I don't even mention you." Huang Xiaopei was irritated by Su Qingchun's words.

"Yesterday, something happened at school and I couldn't spare time to come to the parents' meeting. It's rare for you to hold a parents' meeting for her for the first time, and you can't even find the child's classroom. How dare you tell me."

"You just take it for granted that it is our mother's task to raise children. As long as the child cries a little bit and there is something wrong, we are mothers to solve the problem. Occasionally let you do something, and you think you have done something big. It’s like something, and I feel like I’ve made a great contribution to my family by doing this thing.”

"Do you know? You don't have time to take care of the children. I don't blame you. After all, you are busy with work, but the most chilling thing is your 'natural'. No matter how much I sacrifice and sacrifice, you will not take care of me because of my hard work. Thank you for my child, you always think everything is what I should do."

"I don't have one!" Su Qingchun quickly replied.

"Why not? You see, you held a parent-teacher meeting for Xuanxuan just now, and you felt like you had done a great deal. You said that you don't usually take care of the child, and occasionally play the role of a loving father. You feel that the child is quite obedient, so you just I don’t think it’s difficult to take care of children at all.”

"Do you know what day she goes to violin class? What day does she go to Math Olympiad class?"

"Okay, if you don't care, just ignore it. I didn't say anything about you, but now when I am in charge of the child, you are talking here again. Do you know what your behavior is called?"

"Your behavior is the 'deceitful education' spread on the Internet. After I saw it that time, I felt it was right. You are a typical person like this. You don't usually educate your children. When you have time, you just give directions. Talking sarcasticly, I don’t feel back pain while standing and talking.”

"And I even think that the main reason Xuanxuan is a bit violent is because he lacks fatherly love, so he likes to attack people."

(End of this chapter)