life is sweet

Chapter 247 [247] The Philosophy of Marriage
As soon as Le Pingyun heard that Huang Xiaopei would not go, he said, "If you think it's too late, forget it."

"It's only past ten o'clock. How late is it for you? It's great that you don't have to help your children with homework when you go home. I have no choice but to go with you, but I have to help my children. My daughter I guess it is still waiting for me to check the homework." Huang Xiaopei explained, "Hurry up and go?"

In fact, Huang Xiaopei had already sent her today's study courses through the IPAD for review, and now his daughter is probably asleep, so he just didn't want to get involved among them.

After saying that, Huang Xiaopei left in a sensible manner.

After Huang Xiaopei left, Le Pingyun looked at Xie Min helplessly.

Xie Min smiled and said, "Hehe. Xiaopei is like this. He values ​​family matters more than anything else."

"Hehe. Yes!" Le Pingyun also echoed.

"Then what are we going to do? Are we still going to have supper?"

"Go, as long as you are willing to go, Miss Xie, of course I'm fine."

The situation has already become like this, and Le Pingyun himself brought up the matter of eating supper, if he just refuses Xie Min like this, it will be too disrespectful to Xie Min.

He could only readily accept this fact, and Xie Min was naturally overjoyed.

The two quickly found the newly opened late-night snack shop not far from the training class. The environment was really good, not at all like the imagined late-night snack stand.

Le Pingyun boldly ordered some food and ordered a few bottles of wine, and the two were chatting and laughing.

"Xiaopei is right. Now we are quite alike. We are both divorced and our children are not around. We are both alone. Let alone ten o'clock, even two o'clock is early." Le Pingyun He said while pouring wine.

"Yeah, I don't know what to do when I get home. I just count sheep while lying on the bed. Sometimes I count to a thousand, and I find that the more I count, the more awake I become."

"Oh, it really is."

Le Pingyun responded with a smile.

"But if there are three people, it will be more lively."

Le Pingyun added another sentence.

The two were chatting and laughing, but Le Pingyun brought up Huang Xiaopei again, which made Xie Min a little unhappy, and Xie Min's raised eyebrows suddenly drooped.

She glanced at Le Pingyun, and said with a fake smile: "Hey, Xiaopei is like this. She is too accommodating to marriage and pays too much for her family. She only pretends to be her family in her heart." .”

Xie Min took the opportunity to express Huang Xiaopei's importance to this family.

"It's better now that her mother-in-law is here. You didn't know it before. I've worked with her for so many years, but I can count the number of times I went shopping with her on weekends. Believe it or not?"

"Oh? Really? Don't they all say that women love shopping?"

Le Pingyun also joined in the conversation.

"Yeah, but it's not that she doesn't like to go shopping, but she doesn't have time to go shopping. On weekends, she either spends time with her children or her husband rests with her husband. She doesn't have much time for herself. Occasionally, she finally finds some time to come with me. Let's go shopping, either to buy things for the children, or to buy clothes for her husband, I have never been willing to spend money."

"She and Dr. Su really have a good relationship."

After Xie Min finished speaking, he glanced at Le Pingyun again.

Le Pingyun heard Xie Min's words, and only replied indifferently: "There are fewer and fewer women like Xiaopei who are willing to pay for their families."

Xie Min originally wanted to express the love between Huang Xiaopei and her husband, and was willing to give everything for the family, but Le Pingyun was stuck on this point.

So she also echoed: "It's true. In the past, I always thought she was stupid. I always persuaded her to pay so much for the family."

"What do you advise her for?"

"Why don't you advise her to live out her life? Is it worth it to live so tiringly for the family?"

"Or she doesn't feel tired of paying?"

"Yeah, I only know her happiness at this age. If I also have a harmonious family and treat my husband sincerely, I am willing to give everything for the family."

Xie Min sneered and said, "I'm starting to envy her now."

After she finished speaking, she picked up the glass and drank it down.

"Xiao Pei is very good. In our era, materialistic desires are rampant. Except in the countryside, it is probably really difficult to find a woman like her."

No matter what Xie Min said, Le Pingyun could always find a point to boast about Huang Xiaopei, which made Xie Min speechless. Now she feels that she should not talk about her when Le Pingyun talks about her, because the topic will only be endless up.

So she retorted: "However, a person like her also has her disadvantages. She has given too much, and in the end she is afraid that life will deal a fatal blow to her."

"Fatal blow? What do you mean?"

"Hehe." Xie Min smiled, and then said, "It's good that she is like this, but she is also the one who is most likely to have problems in her marriage. She is too compromised, and if something goes wrong, it is the most unbearable."

"Don't you think she's accompanying her day after day, giving her wholeheartedly, and in the end she will lose to something called freshness. Now this society is so complicated, people are impetuous, and marriage is even more erratic. There may be a person who breaks into your life, and when will the person who hurts the most is not the person who has given the most for the family."

Xie Min's explanation made Le Pingyun feel that her so-called envy of Huang Xiaopei just now seemed to be just a rhetoric, but in fact, she still did not agree with Huang Xiaopei's approach to marriage at all.

Le Pingyun dislikes a person like her who always cares about who pays more and who gains more in a marriage. This may be the reason why he and her are not the same way.

Le Pingyun said: "Maybe what you said about the balance of interests and the amount of gains and losses is indeed correct, or the values ​​​​of our society have become like this, but because of this, I think people like Xiaopei are It’s rare in our society. In fact, I don’t think Xiaopei doesn’t know what you said, but after so many years of social baptism, she can still maintain her original thoughts on marriage and relationship. This is what I admire and admire the most. .”

"To be honest, I'm also very envious of Dr. Su's good fortune to be able to marry her," Le Pingyun added, "Of course I also believe that Dr. Su will not show up with people who shouldn't appear like you said."

"It's hard to say, who can tell who is right?" Xie Min glanced at Le Pingyun after finishing speaking, thinking that he might not agree with it, and then explained with a smile: "Of course I just said that she is like Xiaopei. A group of people have low ability to resist risks in the face of marital changes."

"It didn't say that she would definitely encounter the same problem as us. I am also familiar with Dr. Su. She seems to be relatively honest, so she should be fine."

"Xiao Pei is a wise woman. Even if she encounters the situation you mentioned, I believe she will have a way to solve it."

(End of this chapter)