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Chapter 259 [259] Educational Thoughts 2
Huang Xiaopei was really excited to see what this parent said. It can be seen that she really planned a lot for the child, but the idea was good, but Huang Xiaopei was a bit whimsical as she said, how easy it is to transfer to another school.

"I understand what you think, and you are doing it for the good of the children, but we don't go to the school district in junior high school. I'm afraid it's not that easy to transfer." Huang Xiaopei didn't want to hit the parent, he just told the truth.

"I know, for the sake of my children, I am willing to change houses."

"It's so easy to change houses. I heard that houses in good school districts are very expensive now, and they are old and small. The point is that it is still difficult to find."

"In ancient times, Meng's mother moved three times. At such a difficult time, Meng's mother knew how to create a good learning atmosphere for her children, let alone us. No matter how difficult it is, I will find a way to find it. As long as the direction is right, the effort is not afraid. If you are interested, and there is still some time before the next semester, I believe I will be able to find it."

"Have you really thought about it? Even if you find it, can you adapt to such a small place? Can the child adapt to the new environment and new school?"

"I figured it out very clearly. It must be changed. The child is still young and has strong adaptability. I believe she will adapt slowly. Teacher Huang, you don't know. I visited a key middle school some time ago. I just realized that the school district in a place directly reflects the quality of a child. The overall quality of children in those key school districts is higher. It's the same, after I went there, I became more determined to send my child to such a school.

"If you think about it, this kind of child will definitely be able to accomplish a lot when he grows up. Even if my child is not particularly outstanding, then her outstanding classmates are a fortune.

"That's why I have to go to the best school district to buy a house. The children can't wait for the time to study. We will work harder. When the children have finished their studies, we will still worry about not being able to live in a good house."

After finishing speaking, the parent took Huang Xiaopei's hand and continued, "Mr. Huang, you also have children, so you should be able to empathize with my current feelings. I believe my children will understand my hard work now.
"Really, Mr. Huang, you haven't reached my age yet. You may not be able to understand. I used to think about not having children for my career, but my family finally gave birth to her when I was 36 years old. At our age Only then can we understand that our career is not that important, and the education of our children is the most important thing. When we are young, people may ask us how much money we earn from what kind of work, but when our children grow up, even if we No matter how capable you are, people will always ask what your child does and how much money does he make?"

"This is the reality, so no matter how hard it is, I will donate my child. I have quit my job now, and I plan to accompany my child to take the high school entrance examination. I believe you will do the same with me for the good of the child, right?"

This question stopped Huang Xiaopei.

She suddenly found that as a teacher, she seemed less enlightened than this parent.

In other words, Huang Xiaopei realized at this moment that he thought he had paid a lot for his family, but now he is really nothing compared to this parent. On the contrary, he seems to have paid too much attention to the superficial self-relaxation during this time, anyway, he ignored this parent. What parents call children is the most important thing.

Thinking about this period of time, in order to be able to do a good job in cram school and for the sake of my so-called career, I am indeed a little slack in my children's study, and Huang Xiaopei seems to have ignored the educational environment mentioned by this parent. I was always fighting in school, and I only thought about changing classes, but I didn't think that my children might not be suitable for this school's education model at all.

And as the parent said, our school district is not bad, but it must not be said to be very good. The overall quality of the children is higher, but the quality of the children in the school district where I live is actually uneven.

At first, Huang Xiaopei didn't quite agree with the saying that the environment determines a person's fate. At this time, she suddenly thought of her mother-in-law He Meizhen. Isn't she just a "used to be a young man who was forced by the environment and life?"

Now think carefully about what Su Qingchun told him about He Meizhen when she was young. Although he didn't detail how she worked hard and studied, but in which era, when food was scarce and food was scarce, and sons were preferred, especially when she was a girl , to be able to be unafraid of the world, to persist in learning, and to be able to truly achieve such a high learning reserve, that level of accomplishment is unmatched by ordinary people. Huang Xiaopei guessed that she must be a phoenix among people at that time, definitely a leader.

But looking at her current mother-in-law again, Huang Xiaopei can't see the slightest sign of her previous knowledge. Some only have food, rice, oil, salt and endless colorful life, and even like that era, patriarchal.

Huang Xiaopei believes that He Meizhen once hated the injustice of that era, otherwise it would be impossible to insist that Su Qingchun must study. She should hope that her children can help her to go to college and fulfill her unfinished dream, but why is it so important now? But the mother-in-law lived like the person she once criticized?

Why is that?
Can you say that He Meizhen didn't work hard when she was young?It is obvious that she has worked hard and fought for it, otherwise, how could she be able to recite an extremely ordinary article that she studied many years ago? It can be seen that she has never given up and never forgotten her study, but she has to let it go in real life. She compromises.

Imagine if He Meizhen did not live in the countryside, but in the city. If there was no patriarchal preference in the place where she lived, but she was allowed to continue studying, maybe He Meizhen was also a teacher, or a government official, or more It is also unknown whether everyone has the ability to become a leader.

No matter what she becomes, it is possible, but she will never live like this, so embarrassed and humble.

He Meizhen may be a real person whose life was misled by the environment.

Thinking of this, Huang Xiaopei couldn't help being covered in cold sweat. She wondered how her mother-in-law He Meizhen lived every night when she was young?Faced with such an unfair living environment, but she is full of ideals and revenge, the suppressed ideals and yearning life cannot be achieved, how to calm down, how long and difficult it must be for so many nights.

Perhaps at this time, Huang Xiaopei suddenly understood why her mother-in-law He Meizhen gave her son the book that read "There is a road in the mountains of books, hard work is the path, and the sea of ​​learning is boundless!" when her husband was going to college. Well, maybe that book has nothing to do with Tin Opera and Dream of Red Mansions, it just represents my unfulfilled wishes and ideals.

She just hoped that her son would leave the countryside with his own hope, and leave the place that made both of them sad.

(End of this chapter)