life is sweet

Chapter 277 [277] The meaning of life
Le Pingyun actually didn't mean anything else, but simply felt that Huang Xiaopei was a woman, and now it was pitiful to quarrel with her family and stay in a hotel, and seeing that she was bored only pressing the road, she just wanted to simply accompany her.

But after returning to the hotel, Le Pingyun clearly felt Huang Xiaopei's unnaturalness.

Moreover, he was far away from himself, and felt like a big villain, which made Le Pingyun very uncomfortable.

He asked: "Xiao Pei, why do I feel that you are afraid of being alone with me now? Feel like I will eat you?
"You were not like this before. You have always been a very open-minded person in my mind. You can talk and do things when you have something to say, but now you are always hesitating and hiding."

Huang Xiaopei smiled awkwardly: "Did you feel it?"

"I'm not a fool, why can't I feel it, what happened to you the day before yesterday, if I insisted on asking you and didn't tell you, today is the same, I asked you what you were doing, and said you were outside, fortunately, I saw it.

"We are all friends. If you have any difficulties, you can tell them. There is nothing embarrassing. We have been classmates for so many years. At the beginning, Dr. Su helped me like that. There is nothing wrong with it. I regard you as my best friend. You That really makes me sad."

Le Pingyun opened his mouth at this moment, Huang Xiaopei has been suppressing this matter in his heart.

"Ping Yun, in fact, I'm telling the truth, I also find it strange how I feel now."

"That's right, what are you doing? We are friends. A friend is someone who can share things and help out when there are difficulties. What are you afraid of?"

"Then do you know why I avoided it?"

"Is it because of Xie Min?" Le Pingyun asked back.

"Yeah, you know it's because of Xiao Min, so you still ask." Huang Xiaopei said, "You should have a feeling that Xiao Min has something for you since the divorce, right? In fact, every time I joke with you that you Both of you are single, why don't you get together? It's not a joke, it can be regarded as a real match for you."

Huang Xiaopei is actually very concerned about Le Pingyun's Pingyun friendship. After all, she really doesn't have many friends in Shanghai, so she is very concerned about the gains and losses of her friends, so she speaks out her thoughts.
"Of course, I also sincerely hope that you two can be together, after all, you are my two best friends."

"So you avoid me everywhere, just because you are afraid that Xie Min will misunderstand you?"

"Forget it, although the three of us are classmates and friends, but obviously Xiao Min thinks about you, I have to know how to avoid suspicion, not to mention that the two of us are still on business together."

"I know what you mean, you are a person who knows how to measure, and I also know that you must do this because Xie Min actually has taboos about the two of us being alone." Le Pingyun said directly The real reason, "But don't you think this is ridiculous? First of all, I'm not her boyfriend. What right does she have to care about those friends around me?"

"No, you misunderstood, Xiao Min didn't directly ask me not to contact you."

"I know she won't say it outright, but she definitely sent a signal that makes you feel that you shouldn't have more contact with me."

At this time Huang Xiaopei was silent.

"In fact, I know Xie Min better than you. I know what kind of person she is. When I first heard you say that I was very familiar with Xie Min, I was very different."

"why?"

"She's nothing like you at all."

"Also, I don't have any ideas, and I have clearly told Xie Min many times that ours is impossible, and we are not suitable at all," Le Pingyun continued, "I will discuss this matter with you today. Make it clear, you just don't want to lose your friend because of Xie Min's meaningless thoughts."

"But I can see that Xiao Min really cares about you. Are you really not thinking about it? Maybe if you try to talk about it, you will find it suitable?"

"Xiaopei, you can't force your relationship. I know very well that Xie Min and I are not suitable at all. To put it bluntly, our three views are not compatible at all. Then why bother to be together? There is really no need to try."

"Yeah, that's right. You can't force things about your relationship. I'm just making a suggestion. Seeing that both of you are single, I just want to match you up."

"Xiao Pei, how can such a thing be arranged randomly?"

"Hehe. I actually didn't think much about it at the time."

"I know, you also have good intentions."

The two opened up, and the atmosphere suddenly became much more harmonious.

"By the way, why did you go there just now?"

"I really went shopping, but suddenly found that a person is not interesting, and then I was thinking about life as I walked."

"Hehe, think about life!"

"Yeah, do you find it ridiculous? I was really thinking just now, what is the meaning of my life? It feels like my life is really meaningless."

"In fact, the meaning of life is a big question, and you don't have to be confused. Whenever a person falls into confusion, confusion, or feels life is empty, he likes to reflect deeply on himself. And most people will encounter This problem or I will encounter this confusion in the future. In fact, the essence of this problem is that I don’t know what the meaning of life is? It means that the current life cannot satisfy me.”

"Yes, yes, yes, it should be what you summed up. I just started to feel confused about my current life. I feel that I have been working for this family all these years, but now because of his brother, I am forced to leave the family. Only then did I realize that I was really an outsider, all my hard work seemed to be in vain, my husband, my child, and my home where I gave everything seemed to be suddenly not mine.”

"Xiao Pei, actually I don't think you need to be so depressed, and there's no need to turn your back on your horns. Your current marriage is actually okay. Just look at me and Xie Min and you'll know that it's all a mess," Le Pingyun said.

"But I can only feel that my house is really a mess."

"In fact, it is very difficult for people to live a satisfactory life. Because the essence of human beings is that they are never satisfied with the status quo, not only for themselves, but also for the world around them. Almost everyone will have some kind of spiritual troubles, and they are bound by them. Even the brightest minds cannot escape. They are negativity that keeps us feeling unhappy in life, and we are often entangled in it.”

"Yes, maybe it's what you said, to have a meaningful life or to be satisfied with the current life, you have to feel that life is meaningful, the premise is to be satisfied with the status quo, but people will never be satisfied with the status quo, when there is no money I hope to have money, when I have 10, I think why I have 100 million, and when I have 100 million, I wonder why I don’t have 1000 million, so this is a false proposition.”

Huang Xiaopei also expressed his thoughts accordingly.

"You're right, people are never satisfied with the status quo, and once they are not satisfied with the status quo, they are easily confused, and when they are confused, they will doubt life, and then they will be troubled by those bad emotions, resulting in some unsatisfactory feelings. With good ideas, there is inertia, and I feel that it is the same as working hard, which is boring, and then I slowly settle down.

"Why are people poor? It's because they are content with the status quo and poverty. Haven't they tried hard? They should have, but after working hard, they were hit, and then they doubted life, and then they became lazy. In this case, it is better to be content with The status quo, slowly began to get used to the status quo. Since then, I will not inspire the soul, try to change the current situation, and create a rich life.

"We overcome inertia, that is, many troubles in life, and turn those bad and negative thoughts into positive attitudes. Then, a bright future will unfold before our eyes, and we will naturally see the meaning of life."

"Wow, you're very profound. You really have been doing education for so many years, and you can analyze these things so thoroughly." Huang Xiaopei also admired Le Pingyun's words.

"Hey, I just encountered too many hurdles in life, and I have learned from experience to make a summary, but even if I understand the truth, I may not be able to live a good life, because most people find it difficult to integrate knowledge and action. "

Huang Xiaopei gave a thumbs up and nodded.

"You are amazing, and your conclusion is too correct."

After that, the two chatted for a while, and then went to eat together.

(End of this chapter)