Mountain Village Chicken Tycoon

Chapter 424 The Ritual at the Bride's House
Ordinary people get married, when the groom comes to the bride's house, he saves some red envelopes, because he himself doesn't know how much appetite the bride's younger brothers and sisters have. However, Zhao Qingshan got married today, and he was so calm that everyone stood up. Good team, start to receive red envelopes.

What does this mean? This shows that they have strength!
"As for the red envelope, how should I send it out? We are not people who are short of money, so you just take out the things you have hidden as soon as it is over. What do you think?"

Zhao Qingshan slapped a stack of red and white in his hands, then looked at everyone.

"Brother-in-law, isn't your attitude a bit arrogant?"

"Yeah, can't you keep a low profile?"

Zhao Qingshan was right when he thought about it, he patted his head suddenly, then looked at his wife and said, "Yes, wife, did I just get a little too high-profile?"

Han Li couldn't be happier at the moment, she covered her mouth and said, "As far as your virtue is concerned..."

At this time, Han Li's mother stuck her head in from the outside and said, "Han Li, it's almost done, don't delay the auspicious time."

Marriage is a big event, from ancient times to the present, from the middle to the outside, there is no exception.

For such an important event, every step must be considered clearly.

The core ceremony of marriage is to pray to heaven and earth, this worship cannot be casual, you have to find the old man to get together, and then set a good day and auspicious date.

The auspicious time that Zhao Qingshan and Han Li set for praying to heaven and earth was 06:30 in the morning, and since Zhao Qingshan arrived at Han Li's house, it was already [-]:[-].

Han Li's natal family had to hold some ceremonies here, and then they could take the bride back to Fenghuangling Village for the ceremonies over there.

It's already 06:30 now, and it will be almost seven o'clock to hold various ceremonies, and then arrive at Zhao Qingshan's house in Fenghuangling Village, just in time for the auspicious time.

So Zhao Qingshan nodded again and again, Han Li's younger brothers and sisters stopped making troubles, and the red envelopes had to be handed out one by one. Li put it on.

The custom of marriage in rural areas in Central Shandong is more fun in both the woman's house and the man's house.

In the woman's home, the groom wears shoes for the bride.

And in the man's house, the woman also has to put on shoes for the man.

These ceremonies are all targeted.

It is estimated that these rules were formed earlier, and those in the man's house were all to give the bride a bad blow, and then said that it would be easy to deal with in the future.But in the woman's house, this expression is much smaller.

It can be seen from these ceremonies that the status of women was very low in the past.

However, now the situation is reversed.

It's been so long since we've heard voices saying anything about the advancement of women, why?Because now it is time to mention the status of men.

There is a popular saying now that when a man gets married, he marries a grandma and gives birth to an ancestor.

There used to be a saying that a daughter-in-law who has been married for many years can become a mother-in-law, which means that being a daughter-in-law is a very hard job. She has to serve her in-laws, support her husband and teach her children, be careful everywhere and often get angry.To be honest, such a situation is indeed unreasonable and devoid of humanity, but what about the current situation?It is even more excessive.

Now in families born in the [-]s, this kind of combination is common. It is a typical situation where a single-child man born in the countryside finds a woman with two brothers and sisters born in the countryside, and then has two children.

In this case, most of the coaxers are the grandparents of the children, and women cannot go to work immediately after giving birth, so for a relatively long period of time, only the man in the family makes money.

Because of the rural birth situation, the child's grandparents don't have a pension. Even if they save a little money, when their son gets married and buys a house, it will be emptied long ago.

When I was a child, it was enough for grandma to go to the city to coax the child, but now there are two children, and now grandpa is forced to come along.

As the saying goes, if you touch a spoon in a pot, it's hard to guarantee that you won't touch a piece, and then quarrels between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are really common.

But now most mother-in-laws care about the happiness of their sons, often swallow their anger, and slowly indulge their daughter-in-laws to become more and more presumptuous.

The daughter-in-law has become a grandmother, and the child born, under the doting of so many adults, directly becomes the ancestor.

The pillar of the family, the man, is struggling to support him. On his back, there are mortgages, car loans, a noisy wife and mother, and two children with huge expenses...

A man who earns 1 yuan a month is considered excellent in Quancheng City, but with such an income, it is not easy to support the family.

The most important thing is that such a man under great pressure, after working outside for a day, came home, his wife came to complain, his mother came to complain, his son and daughter came to ask for toys when they were crying, and he couldn't have any ugly faces. Otherwise, everyone can criticize you to death.

Everyone complains that if a month is 1 yuan, the housing loan will cost several thousand yuan, and then the children will have to pay another one or two thousand yuan to go to school, and there will not be much left after it is over.

So, the most important thing is to improve the status of men now, because it is really difficult for men.Besides, if a man has a brother-in-law who pesters him all day for this and that, it will be even more unhuman.

Such people feel that everyone is shitting on their heads, and many times they feel that being alive is really too exciting and challenging.

Of course, this is most of the cases, and it is also the case of Zhao Qingshan's previous life, but in this life, he is not so unlucky.

The operation of the red envelope was as fierce as a tiger, and then the shoes were handed over, and Han Li put them on, and then the ceremony began.

In addition to not praying to heaven and earth, the ceremony on the woman's side also has many cumbersome things, such as the delivery of small meals.

The small meal is hand-rolled wide-hearted noodles by the bride's family, put in a food box, and then brought to the groom's house, and then given to the bride and groom to eat.

The small meal delivery ceremony held at the groom's home is more solemn, and at the bride's home, there is a similar ceremony, which is to let the bride and groom eat something before going on the road.

After eating something, the bride's parents will give the groom a red envelope. The amount of the red envelope is generally not small, and of course it depends on the family conditions.

After the red envelope handing ceremony is over, the bride's family will start sending the bride and moving the dowry.

Zhao Qingshan carried Han Li out of Han's house, then Liu Ming opened the car door, and then the two of them got into the car.

There were quite a few people moving dowry, they already knew that Zhao Qingshan's family was going to bring eighteen cars, so it would be shameful not to have less dowry preparations.

Han Li's family is not poor either, so buying a dowry of [-] cars is no problem.

(End of this chapter)