Han Zuo Gaomen

Chapter 1067
"If you talk about morality and high standards, it is true that I can't compare with Xi Gong. But when it comes to standing in the world, in fact, I do not lack my own insights, so I might as well have a little debate with Xi Gong."

Shen Chong said with a smile: "Human nature is different, but it is all the same to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and to enjoy safety and danger. If you embrace bad things, if you don't take good care of them and teach them well, even if they grow into shape, they are no different from animals. "

Hearing this, Xi Jian's face gradually softened, and he became less angry, and turned to a discussion between the two fathers.

"Once a child is conceived, the family background is determined, and the endowment is determined. The difference between good and bad in the future lies in the careful teaching of the parents."

Speaking of this, Shen Chong couldn't help laughing at himself: "I won't hide it when I say this. My family was only a villager in Wuzhong in the old days. I didn't have a good reputation and no righteous admonition. I really dare not compare And the famous family in the north and the south. But my father and son dare not hurt themselves because of this. As of today, it is a little boastful in the world..."

When Xi Jian heard this, he gradually felt something was wrong. Shen Chong's words were more like a mockery, ridiculing that the aristocratic family education that Shiliu admired was not as good as the barbaric growth of their Wuxiang sect thieves.

"Many people praise me for educating Lin'er and benefiting the community. But in fact, I am quite ashamed when I talk about this. In the early years, I worked outside the home, and my children were enough to support me, but I was really lacking in listening to education."

After Xi Jian heard the words, he couldn't help grimacing, secretly thinking that it's fortunate that you are busy working outside and have no time to educate, otherwise you don't know what kind of education your son will be.

Shen Chong didn't know how to arrange himself in Xi Jian's mind, and continued: "Later, I became calm, and I often pondered why my son was neither taught by the scriptures nor taught by his parents. Standing out from the peers, is the beauty in the world? Is it just because of the extraordinary endowment? After thinking hard, I got something..."

Hearing what Shen Chong said, both Xi's father and son couldn't help pricking up their ears, and couldn't restrain their curiosity.To be honest, it is really puzzling that a sect like Shen's sect can raise a leader in fashion like Shen Weizhou. mystery of.

"In fact, if you don't teach, isn't it a kind of teaching? People have a heart to love beauty. Choosing the good and following the law is an innate instinct that doesn't need to be taught. As long as you don't have a bad nature, you will have the ability to self-examination and self-examination. Insufficiency, lack of self. In the past, the only thing my family could boast about was the capital of the country. The barn was full of grain and silk, and the fields were endless. The most important things for ordinary people, to my son-in-law, they were just common finds, and they were really not worth yearning for. Because of chasing after Gong is cultivated in virtue, not to cherish the old, only what is lacking in the picture. It is precisely because of this endowment that my children can be praised."

Shen Chong's words were quite convoluted, and Xi Jian only gradually understood after listening to them.

The meaning of Shen Chong's words is that the Shen family already has money, and the extravagant enjoyment that others can't ask for is just a common thing in his family's eyes. As the pursuit of life, so the Shen family can keep thriving.

In other words, from Shen Chong's point of view, Xi Jian's dissatisfaction with his son's emphasis on material things is actually not his son's fault, it's all because of poverty!

No matter how hard I touch these words, I feel that they are unreasonable, but if I think about it in connection with reality, it seems to be the same thing.The Shen family's second-generation children in the current situation, even if you don't mention Shen Weizhou, like Shen Mu, Shen Yun, etc., although they lack righteousness and elegance, they are indeed specialized in doing things, which is something to praise.

Moreover, although the Shen family has been criticized for the rise of Wu Zong, who is less than propriety and righteousness, if you really observe carefully, even if the children of the clan are lacking in establishment, they have not heard many evil deeds of bullying others. Of course, Shen Chong himself is a exception.But in reality, although the Shen family has been criticized a lot, the family style is much stricter than some old schools with a good reputation.

"Xi Gong has great virtues, and everyone recites it. Your son was born in such a family, so why should he suffer from the shadow of virtue? Following in the footsteps of his father, he is more than calm. But even Xi Gong, I don't think I dare to boast that he can Be good at complicated human affairs. I said before that Xi Gong reprimanded him too harshly, and this is also the reason. The so-called peaches and plums do not say anything, and the world is self-made. Even if Xi Gong did not have strict training, your son is an ordinary person, and the court is so thick Dear father, how can he follow the law illegally?"

Shen Chong pointed to Xi Yin who was standing next to him and listened intently, and he admired him a lot: "Longer than Xinshi, his robes and sleeves are full of fragrance. From my point of view, your son is not lacking in paternity. It is true that virtue is beautiful, but Xi Gong has lived so far. You should also know that if you want to calmly lead the world, you should learn from others and benefit me. Xi Gong, you use the things that are inherent in the court, and you are fiercely admonishing your children to follow the law and have no future. Naturally, what you can teach is only The guard dog, who is immersed in his father, Yu Ze, really lacks the ability to make more progress!"

Xi Yin Gong stood on the side, and when he heard Shen Chong's remarks, he couldn't help clapping his hands in admiration. This Shen Sikong really understands him!In the past, his father taught him that only virtue was just a matter of saying, and it was always the same truth over and over again, which made him feel very depressed.Although I was bored in my heart, I didn't dare to disobey my father's order.

What Shen Sikong said today was simply enlightening to him, and he suddenly came to his senses.The reason why he has been silent in the current situation for a long time and has not made his voice known to the outside world is precisely because his road was strictly restricted by his father to the old road he walked.

As the son of Xi Jian, it is the most normal thing for him to be respectful and respectful. No matter how good he is in this respect, what is there to boast about?In this respect, his father is a shackle that binds him, a shadow that has long shrouded him.

On the other hand, the governor of Shen Dadu was born in Jiangdong, worked in Jiangbei, grew up in a poor household, and respectfully obeyed the king's orders.Anyone who makes a difference will naturally be able to get rid of the protection of the family. It is an achievement that belongs to himself and is praised by others.

In this process, instead of restraining Shen Sikong, he let him do what he did.The governor of Shen Dadu is not weak in talent and ability, coupled with the great help of his family and village capital, he will naturally be able to accomplish a lot and be known to the world.

If we really compare each other, instead of giving him full support, my father will only reprimand him in the name of the virtues accumulated over the years. Accumulate the father who has spent most of his life?Naturally, in the eyes of his father, many of his actions are full of shortcomings.

Xi Jian didn't know that in his son's mind, he was no longer a good father, and he also fell into deep thought because of Shen Chong's words.

Of course, he will not be deceived by Shen Chong's fallacies. Just one point, virtue is long-term self-discipline and self-cultivation, how can it be equated with those real goods and family assets.But Shen Chong's words still touched him, which made him reflect on whether he had protected his sons too much?
Although Xi Jian held power in the second half of his life, the first half of his life was rough. He was implicated by military disasters in his early years, and most of his family members had withered. Only when he was in his forties did he get another son, Xi Yin. He cherished him and kept him by his side for a long time. Even Zheng Pi, who was in the front office early in the morning, was reluctant to let his son leave him to become an official in the capital.

Seeing that Shen Weizhou, a young man younger than his son, has won many awards in Jiangbei, even surpassing himself, an old Fang Bo, it is impossible to say that he is not out of balance.This kind of loss naturally unavoidably transfers his anger to his son, so he has a lot of dissatisfaction with his son.

Now hearing what Shen Chong said, he can't help but reflect on whether he really seems to be strict, but in fact he is pampered, and he protects his son so well that he has become a mediocre guinea dog with no ability to make progress?

In the past, even if what Shen Chong said was true, Xi Jian might not agree with it.But now, he has lost his power and status, and he is already very old, especially when he met Wang Dao, he was still talking and laughing one day, but the next day he was lingering on the sick bed. How long can you take care of your son?
Thinking of this, Xi Jian was not in the mood to argue with Shen Chongqian, he bowed his hands to Shen Chong and sighed: "It's a pity that I couldn't hear Sikong's wonderful theory earlier, because of my own obsession, I have failed my son for a long time."

Hearing what Xi Jian said, Shen Chong was also taken aback for a moment, he didn't expect that he would convince Xi Jian even with his unreasonable reasoning, and the resentment in his heart disappeared immediately, he laughed and said: "Why did Xi Gong say that? I'm just sharing my experience, so I really don't deserve it. What's more, the sages said that it's okay to die in the evening after hearing the Tao in the morning, and it's not too late for Xi Gong to recognize old mistakes and be quick to introspect himself."

Xi Jian was a little sad at first, but when he heard Shen Chong speak so brazenly and pretended to be wrong, his stomach felt nauseated again, the corner of his mouth twitched, and he finally said nothing.

Seeing this scene, Xi Yin couldn't help admiring Shen Chong even more, even his own father was impressed by his principles, and the image of Shen Chong in his mind was simply a teacher with golden rims!

He stole a glance at his silent father, and then looked at Shen Chong. After a moment of hesitation, he bravely stepped forward and saluted: "You can only know that the body and spirit are filthy when you see Gao Shi. I don't know if I am lucky enough to ask for instructions." Enter Sikong's sect to listen to teaching?"

As soon as this remark came out, not only Shen Chong was a little stunned, but even Xi Jian was stunned for a while, and looked at his son in disbelief, thinking that he had hallucinations.

Soon, a look of embarrassment and anger appeared on the old Xi Jian's face. Even if his Gaoping Xi family was not a first-class Qingwang family, he still had a good reputation. The patriarch is the teacher, this really makes me feel ashamed of my ancestors!
"Don't be presumptuous! Sikong is the pillar of the honored officials of the country, how can you let a floating child come and go to disturb you!"

Xi Jian sternly reprimanded, if he hadn't been a guest and Shen Chong was watching, he would promise to beat out all the blood of this ignorant villain.

Xi Yin was extremely stubborn at the moment, although he lowered his head to avoid his father's eyes that were about to spit out his anger, he still insisted: "I know that I have no deeds and reputation to praise, but as Sikong said, I have been taught since I was a child. There is nothing lacking in my father's teachings, Yu respectful obedience and etiquette. I don't dare to hope that I can catch up with Liang Gong's high sages, as long as I can inherit Sikong's understanding of the abyss, I will remember the teacher's virtue and benefits."

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