Han Zuo Gaomen

Chapter 1364
Nowadays, it is not an era when the etiquette of the later generations is strict and rigid. Women, especially the main wife of the family, have a relatively equal status with the head of the family.

In fact, there is no clear standard for the amount of dowry.But even if it is a folk Hansu sect, once it is a formal wedding, they often have to do their best to prepare a dowry for their married woman.And this dowry is completely owned by the woman herself, and can be passed on to her children. Neither the husband's family nor the mother's family can take it at will.

Therefore, in this era, women's social status is based on independent economic ability.Such a concept of family ethics is close to the era when Shen Zhezi came.

Later generations talked about the so-called jealousy of women in the previous generation, which already regarded the personification of women as an accessory and should not have an independent personality. Instead of being pampered and proud, she is defending her rights as a housewife.Especially for the kind of behavior of hiding a girl in another room, the housewife chasing and hitting the door is more just than the later generations catching the mistress.

Economic base determines social status, which is common in many cases.The Shen family may not have the intention of oppressing the in-laws by this, but it really created a big problem for the Huan family.

The Huan family in Zhixian County is neither a rich family nor a famous family. Being able to marry the Shen family has already attracted criticism. If this matter is further suppressed, the Huan family will become the laughing stock of the world.

During that time, Huan Yi also really deeply felt many difficult things in the world that were not taught by Xinshiguan, nor were they touched by the scriptures.The little lady of the Shen family, whom he really admired, could become the general's brother-in-law, and I believe that no one who came from the academy would refuse.

But even if they are in love, the two families also approve of this marriage. When the huge gap brought about by the standards of the world is in front of them, it is really helpless.

Even if Huanxuan returns to Luo early, he actually has no good solution. The solution is very simple, that is, the Huan family must prepare enough etiquette to match this dowry, at least not too different.In short, it's money.

Although Huan Yi is not Huan Xuan's own son, this marriage is an opportunity for the whole family, so naturally they have to contribute their strength and money.However, although Huan Xuan has a high position and authority, in his early years he was rebuilding the wasteland in Xiangyang, and then he was busy with affairs in Guanzhong.

The matter stopped for more than half a month for no reason, and in the end it was Huan Xuanshe who went out of his face to write a letter to the general to express his troubles.Shen Zhezi couldn't laugh or cry when he heard about it, so he could only issue another summons to ask his family members to take off the dowry on the bright side, so as not to embarrass and pressure the Huan family too much, because a mere face problem would ruin a happy marriage.

This can't be said to be rushing to marry a daughter. First, the Shen family is not short of money, and there is no need to use it to gain momentum. Second, if the Huan family can really make a matching ceremony, he needs to call off the marriage instead. Send someone to check Huan's family carefully.

But even so, the subsequent marriage brought a lot of pressure to the Huan family. Huan Yijiu was in school, and his father, Huan Jing, was in charge of clearing the office all the year round. With the support of Huan Xuan, the marriage was considered to continue. .

And at the wedding held in Jiangdong afterwards, Huan Yi really got a solid grasp of the deep heritage of the Shen family as the No. [-] door in Jiangdong.

His father-in-law, Shen Chong, never knew what restraint was, and guests from all over the place came to congratulate him, almost filling up half of Wukang County, and the flowing banquets flowed out dozens of miles along Longxi.In the days before and after the wedding, Huan Yi saw not [-] faces, but perhaps [-]. Anyway, for a long time after that, he was so blind that he couldn't even recognize people.

After living in Jiangdong for a while, the father-in-law Shen Chong said the most when he saw him: "Floating money and making a living, there is no trouble if you have me. The children only need to polish their talents and help your wife and brother share the work. Relying on self-reliance through merit, don't make my daughter shameful and boast about family affairs when she returns to the province."

But aside from these little details, Huan Yi is also genuinely happy about this marriage. She is a lovely wife and is admired by relatives and friends.Because of this, he was able to talk freely with the general at the family banquet, which was a blessing that he could not have imagined in previous years.

During the banquet, Shen Zhezi was not only relieved that his younger sister was lucky enough to have a good wife, but also one more thing, that is, the family members present also treated Huan Yi very warmly and kindly, and they did not look down upon Huan Yi because of the power of the family.Even if it's just pretending, it's a good thing to be aware of these details and get used to it over time.

Today's Shen family has a good family style, maybe the background is still shallow, but the family style is much stricter than when he was a local tyrant in Jiangdong in his early years.

Thinking of this, Shen Zhezi couldn't help thinking of the deceased Shan Xia. In addition to the warnings from him and his father at the helm and the self-discipline of the tribe, Shan Xia's fierce law enforcement that did not fear the powerful in the past did help Shen to a certain extent. The family builds a family tradition, and few children dare to wander around outside.Both public and private, Shen Zhezi has a lot of love for him.

The family banquet didn't last long, after more than half an hour, the people of the tribe got up to say goodbye, even Shen Jiu and Shen Yi returned to Xinshi Hall for the night.

After the banquet was over, Shen Zhezi returned to the inner house with Huan Yi. At this time, the younger sister Shen Yan also went out to pay homage to her brother accompanied by the female relatives.

Shen Zhezi saw that his little sister was still in good luck and joy, and there were still many young girls remaining in her solemnity, so she felt very grateful, and raised her hand and said: "My little lady, after giving birth, my brother has no need to take care of her. Unknowingly , is already slim, and turned into someone else's housewife. Before and after, my elder brother has neglected his duties a lot, even if you have complaints, you should, but don't forget to look back home, evil brother or not close, but there are old parents at home ..."

"Brother..."

Hearing what her brother said, Mrs. Ah Yan was also extremely emotional. After a trembling, she buried her head in her brother's arms, crying like pear blossoms with rain.

"What are you crying about, brothers and sisters, we have plenty of time to wait. Although we are separated from each other, we can visit you day and night. It's just that in the future, you won't have the arrogance of your parents, brothers and sisters-in-law. No other grievances, ha..."

As he spoke, he raised his head and looked at Huan Yi, who was at the other seat. With just a glance, Huan Yi felt as if he was sitting on pins and needles, sitting upright in a hurry, without looking sideways.

Without the presence of other clansmen, there are only a few members of the Shen family in the small pavilion, the youngest son Axiu, Pusheng and the new youngest son, who is still in his infancy, are called Ayou, including Shen Jin, Shen Jun, Shen Mu, Shen Yun, etc. The sons and daughters also went out to meet their aunt and son-in-law.

Seeing this scene, Shen Zhezi felt that the time had passed. Before he knew it, he came to this world not only with a family, but also with his cousins.These years, he has been busy and has no time to take a nap. Even his own children and girls have seldom been with him until now.

After the new year, even Axiu Xu was ten years old, and Shen Pusheng was in his early six years old.Shen Zhezi felt something in his heart, and he couldn't help but seriously looked at his sons.

Axiu is a child, who can no longer be called a child. She is no longer short, her features resemble her father's, her eyes are bright and her teeth are bright, her nose is straight, her forehead is clean and graceful, and her moon-white silk robe is tied around her waist with a jade belt. He hasn't been crowned yet, but he has long since ceased to be the main character. The mischievousness of the old year is rarely seen, and his demeanor is obviously pretending to be mature.

Shen Zhezi mostly treats his sons with carelessness, and in private there is no lack of complaints, saying that this child, Axiu, has somehow acquired the bad habit of putting on airs, and he is no longer as cute and cute as he was when he was young.

But after hearing his complaints, the princess just gave him a blank look, and coldly sneered that Dao Fulang is really busy with his affairs and has been tired of taking care of himself for a long time.Even Gua'er, who has always been cowardly and gentle, said in a low voice, Axiu Xiaolang's attitude really has a lot to trace.

Laughing at his son but being ridiculed by those close to him, that kind of depression is really not humane, maybe people are born with a lack of self-knowledge, if it wasn't for Axiu who acted as a backdrop, Shen Zhezi really didn't feel that When he was a child, he used to be such a posturing and annoying pretender.

However, after being reminded by her family, Shen Zhezi felt that Axiu was quite calm at a young age, her graceful posture had begun to show signs of her elegant demeanor, and she was growing up day by day, which made people dare not underestimate her. Live up to the high expectations of him as a father, Jiangdong Yushu, succession from generation to generation!
Today's Axiu no longer studies at home. After Shen Zhezi returned from Fangtou last year, he personally sent him to study in the library to broaden his knowledge and learn to get in touch with the currents of the world.No matter how careful you are in the court, it is still not as good as your peers.

It's just that the mother Wei's love for this eldest grandson is still considered immature, and she strictly ordered that after the day's schoolwork is over, she must be taken back to the mansion at night, and she should not stay outside to take care of her.Shen Zhezi was noncommittal about this, anyway, he was not the one who was pulled out of bed before dawn every day and rushed across the entire Luoyang City to go to school.This kind of harm in the name of love made him gloat.

This boy Shen Pusheng was born with a thick head and a thick head, although he has not fully opened, but he can tell that he has a different type of appearance from his father and brother, but more similar to his elder father Shen Chong.When he was young, he was a chubby meatball, which was very tactile when held under his armpits or in his arms, so he often encountered such cruel hands.

But in recent years, Shen Zhezi has stopped doing this. One is that the kid is getting bigger and heavy to hold, and the other is that Shen Zhezi is worried about playing too much. This kid is really developing in the direction of fat and round.

As for the other boy, Shen Ayou, who was also born of the princess, but compared to the two elder brothers, he received less attention from his father.

One is that there are more and more children, and the freshness before that is gone. Second, the development of the downstream station has also reached a critical period, especially for the preparations for the war in Hebei, which involves too much energy for Shen Zhezi. I am really busy. Sometimes, for ten days and a half months, it is rare to return home, and when they come back, they often fall asleep.

So he felt guilty about it, but he just told Shen Pusheng to take good care of this young brother, the son should work on behalf of the father, and he should use it early after raising a son.

Because since entering the cabinet, Shen Pusheng has kept her arms akimbo and protruding belly every step of the way from the wet nurse who embraced Shen Ayou. Even Shen Zhezi wanted to take Ayou, but Shen Pusheng frowned and waved his hands, and refused impatiently: "Ah Brother is already tired, Grandpa don't bother him!"

I miss it when I haven't seen it for a long time, and feel itchy after seeing it.Being a parent is hard work!

　Adjusting in the last few chapters is also adjusting my own state and preparing for the final battle in Hebei. . .

　　
　
(End of this chapter)