Han Zuo Gaomen

Chapter 958
The relationship between Du He and the governor is regarded as peers.But Shen Jin was engaged to his cousin Du Yi's wife, so he was a generation younger.However, Jiangdong folk customs are quite open-minded, and in this regard, they are not as rigorous as those big families in the north who have lived together for several or even ten generations.

Hearing what Shen Jin said, the corners of Du He's mouth couldn't help trembling.It is the most normal thing to be born in such a troubled world, and the world must be difficult.But this kind of words, only Shen Jin can't accept it, this kid is moaning without illness!
Others say how difficult it is, it is true that even survival is unsustainable.But born in such a family, Shen Jin's so-called hardship is nothing more than being reprimanded by his father and brother, or being ridiculed for being far behind his brother.

Du He was already irritable enough at the moment, and he didn't have the patience to explain the confusion of a rich man. He laughed dryly after hearing the words, and then closed his eyes again.

Shen Jin didn't think that his emotion was more like a tiresome show off, he sighed next to Du He, and then said: "Uncle, in your opinion, am I a useless person? Waste dog?"

Du He didn't want to talk to Shen Jin at first, but when he heard that he belittled himself so much, he felt that the problem was a bit serious, so he couldn't help but take heart.Under the cover of his elder brother's brilliance, this young man seems to have gradually lost his self-confidence.

Even if nothing else is discussed, Shen Jin is his family's future son-in-law, and Du He doesn't want to see him become a wealthy rich dude who is doing nothing because of lack of confidence.

Although relying on the Shen family's status and prospects, it is completely possible to protect his life's wealth and well-being, but Du He also understands that the current glory will definitely not be the end of the Shen family's power. People like Shen Mu, Shen Yun and others have gradually gained independence. status.If Shen Jin does not have the belief in making progress, even if he has no worries about food and clothing all his life, it is inevitable that he will be marginalized in the Shen family in the future.

In fact, in Du He's opinion, this young man is not bad in talent. He was born in such a family but has not developed bad habits. It can be seen that his nature is pure and good, and he is skilled in bow and horse martial arts. He has a strong desire to make contributions. He takes his father and brother as an example , is not like an ordinary Gaomen Gaoliang who indulges in comfort, and if he develops, his future achievements will not be inferior to the current Shen Mu.

To be honest, in Du He's opinion, a young man like Shen Jin is the normal performance that a child of the Wu Zong family who is not deep in the background but eager to make progress in the Shen family should have.As for the monstrous characters like Dadu Du, they are completely favored by the heavens and blessed by their spirits!

But it is probably a bright contrast with his elder brother, and people at that time, including his parents, expected too much of him.Du He clearly felt that the governor had very high expectations for this young boy, and was not only satisfied with his mere talent for battle, but also wanted to cultivate him more comprehensively.

But the accumulation of these high expectations will bring a lot of pressure to the teenager, and at the same time, it will also accumulate a lot of frustration in his heart.Once the setback is too great, and you decide that you are a useless person, your aggressiveness will naturally fade, and you will gradually become a useless person who achieves nothing.

Thinking of this, Du He's expression became serious, and he said solemnly: "Ahe, why did you say that? Could it be that there are idlers making noise recently? Don't pay attention to those meaningless words. I know your Yushu is high standard, The rest are unavoidably filthy. But if it is extended to the entire Jiangdong and even the world, the governor is a high standard in the world, and no one can match it!"

"After Yongjia, the country has been in decline for a long time, and the sages of the time tried their best to restore it. For more than ten years, there was only one person who made such a great achievement. , no matter old or young, they are all incompetent people, born useless!"

Du He's meaning is that if you want to judge whether talents are good or bad, the chief governor is of the same level, and the rest of the people will compare whether they are wise or not.

After Shen Jin heard this, his complexion looked much better, and he said proudly: "In the early years when I was still in the gate of Jiangdong Court, my father would talk a lot about my brother's past, and when he talked about my brother entering the capital at the age of [-], then Brilliant talent shocks the world. Shiliu's many ignorant and eccentric disciples were defeated by brother one after another, and they sighed that they were not as good as Jiangdong Lingxiu gathered in anger, how can Shiliu's mediocrity be compared!"

Hearing this, Du He's face darkened immediately, and it must be known that he himself was also a member of the timeless mediocrity that Shen Jin said.

Shen Jin didn't notice the change in Du He's expression, and still poured out his bitterness to himself: "My father often taught me that it is my life's blessing to have such a good brother in my family, and I naturally know this. They ridicule me for being incompetent, but when they ridicule like this, why don't they look up to themselves, they are as good as my elder brother! So I always don't respond to such words. "

"Since Ahe, you have such an open-minded view, so why..."

Du He breathed a sigh of relief when he heard Shen Jin say this. After all, this kid is destined to be a strong support for his family in the future, but he said in doubt.Since you are so open-minded, what are you doing here again, moaning about nothing.

After Shen Jin heard this, his face froze for a moment, only to realize that he had lost his composure for a moment, and instead revealed a little bit of the foreshadowing just now.

He quickly put on a mournful expression again, covered his face and sighed: "Ordinary people may think this way, it's because we are not as close as brother and me. Brothers born by blood are connected by blood, but there is such a big difference between high and low. I'm not a shameless person. Every time I look at myself and ask myself, my elder brother is busy working for the family business when he is young, and he becomes a high-ranking minister who supports the king's business when he is weak. What is there to create for the community?"

"Ahe, you have such self-motivation, which is already very valuable. There are so many willful people in the past, who are born just obsessed with pleasure, do not look forward to the suffering of the world, and the king's career is in trouble. Even myself, I was forced by the troubled times. After a long time, after returning to the south, I was lucky enough to meet the governor, and now I can do my best for the king's affairs, and I have lived up to this life. You have such a vigilant heart, and you have your father and brother to support and help, so why not worry about your achievements in the coming year!"

Seeing this situation, Du He couldn't help persuading him earnestly.

However, Shen Jin was still in a depressed mood, rubbing his eyes frequently and even shedding a little tears: "Thank you uncle for your comfort, I also know that brother's talent is amazing, far beyond comparison. Everyone has their own destiny, and I don't want my parents to treat me I'm too thin, I just want to improve myself, and don't let people laugh at me too much!"

"Brother, I have a heavy responsibility to pass the age, and it is difficult for me now. But I can't fall behind when the boy is enlisted in the army! So this time after the brother returns to the town, I will ask you to join the army no matter what. Don’t just sit idle! See the best and think about it, and follow suit. Although I am not as good as what my elder brother can accomplish, as long as I use it as an effect, it may not be worse than the rest!”

Speaking of this, Shen Jin wiped away the tears that seemed to be in the corner of his eyes, and said loudly.

"Young people should have this kind of ambition. Study hard in the bookstore. After all, you can only use what you know, and you can show your sharpness!"

After hearing the words, Du He couldn't help applauding and applauding, feeling gratified that this young man has such an ability to resist pressure.Ask yourself, if he is in the position of Shen Jin, in fact, he may not be able to maintain a correct mentality and fighting spirit like this young man.

But at this moment, Du He's rest time was over, and seeing that the boy was no longer gloomy, he planned to serve tea to see off the guests.This is also a new etiquette extended after the governor vigorously promoted the style of drinking tea in the town.

However, Du He finished his tea, and Shen Jin finished his statement, but he didn't intend to get up and leave, but stepped forward to fill a cup of tea for Du He himself, with a little shyness on his face, as if hinting.

But Du He is currently troubled by many affairs, how can he receive these messages, after seeing this, he just waved his hands and said: "There is no need to drink any more tea. Since you have already made this decision, Ahe, I will return to the town in the future. I will support you. Although Heluo has been settled, there are still many places around to sharpen talents. If you can keep this heart, I also hope that your success will be rewarded."

When Shen Jin saw Du He's statement to dismiss the guest, he was a little dumbfounded, opened his mouth and said again: "Uncle, I follow my elder brother as an example... This, this, it's like this inside and out... You, you You have to give me a conclusion!"

After Du He saw this, he couldn't help feeling a little suspicious. After pondering for a while, he recalled Shen Jin's suggestive words and slightly shy expression. That has nothing to do with the governor, he wants to marry a wife!
Take your brother as an example?The governor married the eldest princess, that is even younger than the current Shen Jin!

After Du He understood Shen Jin's hint, he was so angry that his teeth hurt for a while. He was already busy enough, and this kid came to add to the trouble, but he just put on a gesture of lovelessness, which made him believe it was true and comforted him for a long time.

But he thought about it again and felt that this matter should be put on the agenda.After all, nowadays, especially in the rich and powerful families, children don't care about their age when they get married, and when they meet the right one, it's normal to marry according to their age.

Now the Shen family is becoming more and more powerful, and although their Du family is also a big family in Jingzhao, they are nothing in Jiangdong. long time friendship.

Now the Shen family is Jiangdong's first marriage partner, and the marriage contract of their family is envied by many people. It is also a good thing to be able to confirm it as soon as possible.

It's not that Du He wanted to use this to invite honors, because he crossed Jiangbei not long after he established himself in Jiangdong, leaving his widowed wife and little niece under the care of Shen's family. It can be said that he has no choice.If there are any twists and turns, then his niece will not be happy for the rest of his life, and there will be a gap between him and the governor.

Although he believed in the trustworthiness of the governor and the Shen family, there was no guarantee that there were other sinister interferences secretly.Although Shen Jin himself came to ask for a marriage, he was a little dumbfounded, but he also reminded him that he should discuss this matter with Shen's parents as soon as possible.

Seeing that Du He was silent, Shen Jin became a little anxious and said, "Uncle, it is true that I told you that I want to join the army and build a military affairs, and I also said that to Mrs. A Ling... well, my family is full of Yingmai. , I can't bear to be the only one who will be entrusted to mediocrity by Mrs. A-Ling for the rest of my life! But the fortunes of war are unpredictable, and I, I also... Mrs. A-Ling grew up in my house. If I can follow this etiquette, even if something bad happens to me, The little lady can also be a second wife, instead of being raised by my family..."

Du He originally had a lot of resentment towards Shen Jin, but after hearing this, he looked at it seriously again. He didn't expect that this kid was actually a kind and responsible person.

The meaning is also very simple, Shen Jin is worried that he will not be able to come back if there is an accident on the battlefield.But Mrs. A Ling from the Du family was raised in his house. Although there was a marriage contract with each other, it did not become a fact.If Shen Jin is gone like this, then the status of the Du family's wife is really not good, it is hard to tell whether it is the Shen family's raising slaves or something else.

But after the official marriage, she will be Shen Jin's widow, and this will not affect the choice of a spouse for a second marriage in the future.And because of such a definite status connection with the Shen family, it is possible to attract more and better suitors.

Du He couldn't laugh or cry for a while, he felt Shen Jin's care for his niece, but also couldn't help feeling that this kid really lacked common sense in battle.Although it is true that misfortune and good fortune are unpredictable on the battlefield, Shen Jin, as the direct brother of the governor, will definitely be taken care of, as long as he does not commit suicide, it is really difficult to die.Such an idea is really a bit unfounded.

But since Shen Jin approached him and made such a promise to express his position, Du He always had to respond, so he said sternly: "Ahe, I am really pleased that you have such an intention. My wife from a famous family grows up to be gentle and kind." Virtuous, worthy of being called a good spouse. But this matter is not up to you as a gentleman. Later when the governor returns to the town, I will personally interrogate him. When the affairs of the mansion are a little quieter, I will cross the river and sit down with Sikong."

　It's been a long time since I went out and waved, I was so excited that I couldn't sleep, and I will add another chapter. . .Let's do this for the time being today, if tomorrow the update is delayed, please don't hit me. . .

　　
　
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