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Chapter 148 Chapter 148 Don't Be Perfect
Jiang Wenbao didn't know why he couldn't suppress such a thought, but the desire in his heart was so strong that he finally felt that he should make a little more trade-offs.

Before doing bad things, you must think about the consequences of doing bad things. Can you bear the consequences?In the end, she still gave in, and said to her two sisters unwillingly, "If my mother didn't like her orchids so much, I would have dared to take out two pots."

Jiang Wenhu said: "What you said seems like you really want to pull orchids."

She didn't want to make any further comments on this matter, anyway, everything that should be said has been said.

The truth is clear, whether one can suppress the thoughts in one's heart and make the right choice depends on one's understanding and persistence.

Jiang Wenzhu also raised her eyebrows, looked at Jiang Wenbao and said, "Tomorrow we are going to see Eldest Sister, do you want to ask her if she would like you to pull out her orchids?"

Jiang Wenbao shivered: "No, no, I still don't want it."

She herself knew about this matter, and it was unreasonable to speak out, not to mention being scolded, or even beaten.

Jiang Wenhu said: "In this case, then you go and cook dinner, at least two dishes, and we won't tell her that you want to throw Niang Lanhua out."

Jiang Wenbao jumped up happily when she heard it. She likes cooking the most. If she can just cook two dishes and she can get rid of this matter, it will be a piece of cake in the true sense.

Jiang Wenbao walked quickly to the kitchen, turned around and asked them, "What do you want to eat? You can order one each."

Jiang Wenzhu thought for a while and said, "Stew pork ribs with lotus root."

Jiang Wenshan said: "Then let's braise the eggplant."

The two ordered their favorite dishes, looked at Jiang Wenbao's cheerful back, and smiled at each other.

"Second sister, how are you and your second brother-in-law?" Jiang Wenzhu asked.

Jiang Wenshan thought for a while, and said: "It's the same as before, but you'd better not call him second brother-in-law in front of him, and don't call him that in front of outsiders, after all, we are only engaged, not married yet."

Jiang Wenzhu rolled her eyes: "I don't just say that in front of my family, second sister, don't worry, I know how to measure, and I won't let it slip."

After thinking about it, he continued to ask her: "Do you know what the second brother-in-law likes? What's his favorite food? What's his favorite book? What's the most annoying thing?"

Jiang Wenhu was stunned, thought for a while, and replied: "Actually, I don't know much, that is, I talk to him about the family, talk about his family's situation, and when I read books, I basically read those scientific examination books. Look, I haven't asked if Huaben eats vegetables, I'll ask him next time."

Jiang Wenzhu said with a smile: "You can also ask other questions, such as favorite color, favorite fruit, favorite pastime... You can also get in touch with his friends, from his classmates and with him. Among the people he gets along with, find out what kind of person he is, after all, his appearance in front of you may be different in front of others."

There may be a certain difference between him in the eyes of outsiders and him in his own eyes. Everyone has different perceptions of people. If you can understand what kind of person other people are through the evaluation of him by the people around you, you will be able to Know his character more comprehensively.

So it's a great vehicle to get to know people.

Hearing what she said, Jiang Wenhu smiled slightly: "Okay, I will ask him next time I meet him."

Jiang Wenzhu heard this, and said with a smile: "Not only can you ask these questions, but you can also pay attention to details. When you are with him, you can make appropriate requests and see how he behaves? Is he careful enough? Actually It’s okay if you’re not considerate enough, the main thing is to have a positive heart, correct three outlooks, and a good character.”

There are always some people who want to ask others to be perfect and find a good partner.This kind of object meets all my expectations, but in fact, no one is perfect.

If he fights his career, he must not have enough time to accompany you.If he has enough time to accompany you, it is impossible to be brilliant in his career.

If he's considerate, then you probably don't think he's manly enough.If he acts straight, then you will feel that he lacks warmth and is not gentle at all.

There is no perfect person in this world. You know exactly what you want. If the person you are looking for has one or two traits you want most, it is already very good. In other places, as long as it is not principled There is no big problem, and it is a very good target.

There is no natural pair in this world, and there is no perfect match that is completely tacit without going through a process. All perfect matches are dependents who have gone through the test of time, accommodate each other, change each other, and achieve each other.

Jiang Wenzhu understood this early on, so when looking for a partner, he hoped that she and his sisters would be able to stay sober enough when choosing, not to cry and beg the other party to be a perfect person, and more Don't use imaginary characters to match people in real life, you will only get endless disappointment.

"What you fall in love with is just the image of a character in your imagination. The person you want is a perfect angel in the kingdom of heaven that you can't reach."

This sentence suddenly appeared in Jiang Wenzhu's mind. She didn't know who said it, but she thought it made sense. The knowledge and experience of her previous life told her that it's better to be down-to-earth. Only people who are down-to-earth can live a good life. Only those who are clear-headed can know how to choose, and only those who are easy to be satisfied can feel happy.

She doesn't want his sisters to become people who crave others. We can strive to be perfect and pursue perfection, but we can't achieve perfection. If we ask others to be a perfect person, then we must also be a perfect person.

And the word perfection itself is an unattainable state.

Jiang Wenhu listened carefully, and then said: "Don't worry, I will test him a lot. In fact, as long as there is no big problem, I can accept it."

Jiang Wenzhu said: "That's not the case, but we just want to make sure that there is nothing wrong with him."

Some people are good at disguising, because people can show a face for what they want.And once you get this kind of thing, you will change into another appearance. This kind of camouflage and purpose of people is the most troublesome.

If everyone could keep the outside and the inside the same, then there wouldn't be so many troubles, but people are things that like to pretend too much and are too fickle.

(End of this chapter)