The first assistant girl has space

Chapter 153 Chapter 153
When he saw the ducks on the dining table, Jiang Wenyan jumped up three times, and he was even happier.

"Great, there are ducks to eat today."

Jiang Wenyan raised his chopsticks and started to eat. The meal was very satisfying.

Even the homework after dinner today is done faster and more passionately than usual, and the mind becomes more flexible.

"It seems that every time before the big exam, I should cook a duck for you." Jiang Wenzhu teased from the side.

"Don't worry, the meaning of the duck is not very good. It symbolizes that the cooked duck flies away." Jiang Wenbao said with a smile.

Jiang Wenyan quit immediately: "These words, how come they are boiled ducks? I study well, and I have learned everything my husband taught me. I read more books and practice more. How could I not pass the exam? Even if I ate ten ducks before the exam Duck, it's not like I can't pass the exam, and it's impossible for me to fail the exam."

It is impossible for a child who has just turned nine years old to speak and keep his mouth shut, which makes people laugh.

"You are confident. You have to think more about how to study hard. I will wait and see. You have to work hard to realize your declaration." Jiang Wenhu glanced at Jiang Wenyan and put pressure on him.

In fact, it is not considered to be exerting pressure, but it can be regarded as a reminder to him, not to speak out carelessly, but not to do it later, to relax the requirements on himself.

Seeing that Jiang Wenhu had already started to suppress him, Jiang Wenzhu felt that she should stand up and give some positive encouragement now. My child, you should suppress and encourage at the same time. You can’t beat people to the end. Such words are not conducive to his growth, so she said:
"I believe you, Wen Yan works so hard, has a smart head, and can still persist. We will definitely get good grades. At that time, we will study hard with my husband, at least a scholar will not be able to escape."

Jiang Wenyan was happy when he heard it, his chin was raised high, and the proportion of his body was higher. If there was a tail on the buttocks, the tail behind the buttocks would probably wag.

"Fourth sister, you are the best for me. Don't worry, brother, I will definitely be admitted to the scholar. The scholar is only the first step for me to be admitted."

Seeing his confident look, Jiang Wenzhu couldn't help laughing: "Okay, as long as you work hard and enjoy reading, you can keep reading."

She didn't mean that Jiang Wenyan must be admitted to such a great fame. If Zhang Wenyan doesn't have that talent in the future, it's okay. As long as he can read and read, he can live happily, safely, and be an optimistic person. In the end, even if you don't even pass the exam as a scholar, it doesn't matter.

As long as a person has worked hard and struggled in his life, lived a happy life, and did not do anything wrong, he would be fine.

There is nothing wrong with wishing for a son to become a dragon and a daughter to become a phoenix. Seeing one's relatives rise to the top is not bad, but putting too much pressure on the family, thinking that the children in the family must be better than themselves, not studying, not getting fame is useless, this It is also not advisable.

In fact, there are many times in life, which is the process of constantly comparing with others.

Few people take the initiative to think, why do they compare themselves with others, what is success and what is happiness?

As long as we keep moving forward without stopping, use our best efforts to live upwards and pursue what we want, and occasionally be lazy, enjoy life, and be happy, it is a kind of success.

However, the vast majority of people can't do this. They live their lives in a mess, struggling all the time, not knowing what they want, and just comparing unnecessary things with others.In the end, I made myself very tired and made people very tired, and everything was wrong.

For example, when I was young, I felt that I was the least annoying one. When I grew up, I found that I was not as good as others in study, height, family background, and everything, but I stubbornly thought that I was the most special one. One, when you grow up slowly, you will realize that you are actually the most ordinary one, no different from others.

Ordinary life accepts that we are an ordinary person, recognizes that we are an ordinary person, and from the perspective of an ordinary person from the heart, to reflect, understand, and accept ourselves in all directions. This is the first step in our understanding of ourselves.

This step is difficult. There are many people who feel that they are extraordinary all their lives, and have never clearly understood what kind of person they are and what kind of status they are in.

Gradually understand life, the first step is to accept that you are ordinary, the second step is to accept that your parents are ordinary, why don't you have a parent who is helpful to you and can make you stand at the end of life?Or worse, just better than the parents of the dog next door, or better than the cat next door, but unfortunately my parents are so ordinary, so ordinary that they are thrown into the crowd, and there is no difference compared with others .

When I was young, I bumped into walls everywhere, and was beaten by the society early. When there was no help, I would resent my parents. Why can’t I provide myself with a little help? This kind of resentment will last for a long time until I become a parent and become a child. The ordinary parents in the eyes will change their views.

Well, I am an ordinary person, and my parents are also ordinary people. We don't want to be ordinary at all, so we have to change the status quo, work hard to climb up, and live a happier life.

After accepting the ordinaryness of our parents, after accepting the ordinaryness of our parents, we will set our goals on the children, because we and our parents are so ordinary.That being the case, my children cannot be as ordinary as me. I have to turn my children into a generation that surpasses me, and each generation is better than the previous generation.

However, the vast majority of children can basically accept that their parents are ordinary, and they can even accept that they are ordinary, but they cannot accept that their children are ordinary.

So I instilled in my children from an early age that you have to work hard, you have to make progress, you have to stand out, you have to honor your ancestors, you have to become a high-ranking official, and you have to serve the country and the people...

However, we are all ordinary people ourselves, why should we ask our children to excel?
You are an ordinary person, with a high probability of average IQ, average educational ability, and average in all aspects. Why do you expect your child to be more promising than you?
Your knowledge is so limited by your vision, and your class limits your imagination, so those things in your imagination have nothing to do with your children. Some of your practices and certain requirements are imposed on your children. body, then the child will not accept your idea.Or if the child can't fulfill your expectations, what's wrong?
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