The first assistant girl has space

Chapter 155 Chapter 155
Just when Jiang Wenzhu felt that the matter of the aunts' introduction to the object would soon be over, this matter soon had a follow-up.

The reason is that an aunt surnamed Zhou introduced marriage to a certain relative with a distance of three thousand miles. I don’t know if he has accepted the favor from others. For a good marriage, you have to choose one in a hundred, one in a thousand, and choose the best one, because his nephew is a juren and is qualified to be an official.

Since she is qualified to be an official, a girl from an ordinary peasant family is not worthy of it.

As a farmer, he obtained the qualifications to be an official after examining a few people. It can be said that relying on the strength of his studies, he gained a golden body that crossed the class.

As the only scholar in the family, everyone saves money on food and expenses, from adults to children who tighten their belts to make donations. This move is really a golden phoenix flying out of a mountain nest. It is the hope of the whole family. Now the whole family People hope that this golden phoenix can find a sycamore tree and send him straight to Qingyun.

In the eyes of a real noble family, the identity of a giant is not precious enough, and even the identity of myopia is not enough to attract attention, unless you have shown outstanding material and some outstanding ability, to put it more simply , that is, there must be enough potential to make people look different.

And these people often don't need to promote themselves, and people with vision will come directly to their door. This is the so-called catching a son-in-law under the list.

Moreover, there are only a few talents who can impress others, and there are not many people in one class.The others are mediocre people, and if these mediocre Jinshi and Juren want to stand out, they must go through some channels.

These avenues are what we commonly call marriages, joining parties...

Rats have ways of rats, cats have ways of cats, relying on their outstanding appearance, relying on the eloquence of a fashionable lotus flower, relying on their extraordinary scheming, deep city mansion, relying on various tricks, and even a certain degree of sincerity... ... These people will do their best to find a more convenient shortcut for their official career, and take a faster road to promotion.

However, families with girls are not fools, and these wealthy businessmen, these officials, and these powerful families are not what everyone wants.

In order to change the class, wealthy businessmen marry their daughters to these future officials, which is actually a super-cost investment.

In order to change this kind of class, many wealthy businessmen check the bottom of these oranges after the exam, and then choose the most suitable one.Yes talent to invest.

When most wealthy businessmen invest, they will look at a person's talent, and secondly, a person's character. The most important thing is that a talented person can go far. With the help of their money, they can climb to the top At this time, their rate of return is particularly high. They just fill in a daughter. Who doesn't have many daughters in a rich businessman?

The second is a person's character. If you invest in a person with bad character, you will not get a return even if the investment is successful.This is equivalent to doing nothing. You worked so hard to use your own money to open the way for him and help him reach a high position, but he kicked you away. Your previous investment was in vain, and you still protected Not coming back, because he is now in a high position, and his heart is not what it used to be.At this time, the bamboo basket is basically empty, so if a person like this is very talented, but the character is not good, it is better not to invest. Instead, it is more cost-effective to invest in those who are not particularly talented but have a particularly good character.

Therefore, people invested by rich businessmen will choose based on their talents and character.

However, ordinary wealthy businessmen do not have much money, and if they want to change their families, they will lower their requirements.You have to pick someone who can't find this kind of person with a very average character.

As for the aristocratic families and the officials for many generations, they don’t need to pay attention to these things at all. They just need to choose someone who looks good and hand over the olive branch. If the scholar agrees, then everyone will be happy. There are others besides you.

Or it doesn't matter this year, it doesn't matter if you come again after three years, there will always be someone as young as you in this world.People who work as hard as you, are as smart as you, but are five or ten years younger than you.

Unless there are special circumstances, unless the potential of this person is particularly great, unless the talents of this aristocratic family are not accepted.The resources in hand cannot be dispatched, and it is at an important turning point where the family's life and death are at stake. At this time, they will do their best to snatch talents.But this kind of situation is very rare, basically not likely to happen, only once or twice in a hundred years.

Where can I get a Juren?
Now hearing that the conditions for juren to choose a wife are almost like choosing a concubine, Jiang Wenzhu laughed when he heard it.

First of all, the family must have money.

If you don't have money, it doesn't matter. It's better if you have studied, taller, more beautiful, fair and beautiful, with a gentle personality, and take your husband as your god. You must be able to support him and help him pave the way to become an official. , it’s best to help him a famous teacher from a rich family, help him continue to compete for education, if you can’t help him get a Jinshi, then donate an official to him, and slowly help him improve his rank, at least three years to a rank , help him transfer to a good place, a good one, and then help him take care of various affairs at home.

To be healthy, to look good.Have a good personality.It is best to take care of the family affairs for him as soon as you marry him, and help him give birth to a son. If you can't give birth, then you should give him more beautiful concubines.

He should be put first in everything, and what he said must be obeyed as the imperial decree of the golden rule.

At home, you must not only listen to your husband, but also your parents-in-law. You must be filial to your parents-in-law and treat your brothers and sisters well. You must pull out all the brothers and sisters in his family. It is best to have a formal establishment in the Yang family, be a small official, and then choose a good husband and son-in-law for all the sister-in-laws in the family to marry into the rich family. The food is given to the network, and the sister-in-law's family can live a good life.

No matter who the in-laws make, you must try your best to meet them. If you don’t agree to one thing or don’t do it well, it’s your fault. No matter how much you did before, no matter how much effort, money, and affection you put in .It will also be paid by one vote.A phoenix man like this is now actually explaining to everyone what the matchmaker meant. It seems that Jiang Wenbao of his family is the one who is the one who is the best.

"Their family said it's best to be an only child. Is your family an only child? But it's okay."

(End of this chapter)