The first assistant girl has space

Chapter 193

In the end, Jiang Wenbao came up with an idea and prepared the gift himself.

It took a lot of thought. To be honest, she didn't spend a lot of time choosing a gift, but in the process of choosing a gift, the time and process of indecision was quite exhausting.

For example, if we want to do a certain difficult task, we don't want to do it, so we put it off until the end.

However, we know very well in our hearts that we can't avoid this matter, and we are unwilling to take the initiative to do it, so we drag it on, and during the dragging process, we can't take a good rest. One knife, but he is absolutely unwilling to be proactive and do this thing well early, so he hesitates and suffers.

It makes people uncomfortable to watch. For example, Jiang Wenzhu watched Jiang Wenbao in the yard, walking back and forth in the house, constantly talking about what gift to give, and scratching his head without thinking.

In fact, she didn't know what was going on in her mind, her mind was empty, there was nothing, she didn't think about all kinds of gifts at all, and what kind of gifts were suitable for her.

This kind of repeated entanglement is really uncomfortable to watch. It's not that Jiang Wenbao has choice syndrome. In fact, when Jiang Wenbao buys things, he is very happy, and there is no dilemma at all. , but now she doesn't know what to buy, that's why she is so hesitant.

In short, this process was very uncomfortable to watch. When she finally chose the gift, Jiang Wenzhu couldn't help but cheered along.Finally, she didn't have to watch her being in a dilemma, going back and forth, asking around, she was so happy that she almost cried with joy.

"If I can't think of any more gifts, I won't go to the Full Moon Wine. When the time comes, you can just get me something and send it over."

So Jiang Wenzhu didn't want to listen to Jiang Wenbao's nagging anymore, so she wanted to choose her own gift carefully.

Moreover, the whole family has reached an agreement on this idea, no one will pay any attention to Jiang Wenbao's nagging, and no one is willing to give her an idea.

On the day of the full moon wine, many people came to Lu's house to have wine. Nowadays, it is no longer popular to hold full moon wine in many places. A good friend, but it was not like this in ancient times. The full moon is very lively, basically at home, as long as the baby is imported, invitations will be sent, so that people from an alley and a village will all come to celebrate.

When everyone comes, they will bring gifts, and then have a meal at the host’s house, reminisce about the old days, and then express their blessings to the newborn. The most important thing is to let the neighbors know in this way that their own baby has been imported. .

Heirs are very important to everyone, and even more important to the ancients.

Marriage is also a big event. When Lu Jia gets married, these neighbors will definitely come to the door again, and then they will send another gift to express their best wishes for Lu Jia's marriage. The importance of the wine is no less than that of the full moon wine.

"I said, third sister, you still need to think about your experience and do more things, and you are going to get married soon. It is impossible for you to give gifts with such a perfunctory attitude when the second sister is getting married. When the time comes, don't Said that the second sister can't spare you, and the mother can't spare you either." Jiang Wenzhu said, after saying this, she has already fulfilled her responsibility of persuasion, because she really doesn't know what to say, what should be said and what should not be said It's all said and done.

Jiang Wenbao was beaten many times by his family, and he finally realized the reality. He racked his brains and tried his best, but in the end, his mind went blank, and he went to a neighbor's house to learn scriptures before deciding what gift to give.

The days passed quickly, and Lu Jia was about to get married. The family Lu Jia was going to talk about was introduced by my matchmaker, a family that matched her.

It is said that they are well-matched, but in fact it is not true. Catching fast is a cheap business, and their family has been able to get rid of the influence of cheap business, especially since she is a girl. After she gets married, she will basically not be affected by the family. So when she was introduced, Matchmaker Wang recommended her to the one with good conditions, and of course she didn't choose the one with particularly good conditions.

The so-called marrying a daughter from a high family and marrying a daughter-in-law from a low family, these high and low families do not transcend the category of class.The so-called font, Cinderella, this Cinderella is actually not the real Cinderella, but in the aristocratic class.Condition is not particularly good that one.But no matter what, they are also nobles, definitely not the common people we imagined, Cinderella has nothing to do with common people.

As for what we call crossing classes, it takes a huge effort and a price to be able to integrate in, unless the other party's conditions are so good that you don't need to consider the identity of your partner, you only need to consider one condition, that is, he likes it, otherwise Basically, the other party's family conditions will be included in the consideration of marriage, especially for the vast majority of people, this is a condition that must be considered.

Even when the emperor marries a daughter-in-law and chooses a queen, he will seriously consider the other party's qualifications, and he must be born in a famous family to be eligible to be a queen, and those who later rely on their own scheming to ascend to the queen's position are also capable people , So everything is conditional and not taken for granted.

What we have to do is to recognize our position, our abilities, and what we want, and then choose the one with the best conditions within the range we can find, remember to be ambitious, and not be merciful To help the poor, it is even more impossible to dedicate yourself enthusiastically.

However, there are a few people in this world who are sober and can make people blind when they fall in love. As long as they fall in love, many people will get hotheaded and make some irrational choices, which will eventually harm others and themselves.

And some people have some evil thoughts, try their best to calculate others, and try to change their living conditions through marriage.

However, marrying a high family is not so easy to marry. People who marry a low-level daughter-in-law definitely have some unknown reasons. Therefore, there are very few things that fall into the sky. We must stay awake at all times so that we can face At various critical moments, make the right choice.

Marriages that are blind, inaccessible, moths, and malicious, and full of calculations cannot last long.

The person Lu Jia is going to marry this time is actually a craftsman in the world's business. Compared with their family's catcher, the other party's family conditions are much better, the family has a permanent property, and the other party is also very diligent. She is content and has a good temper and a sense of responsibility.

This is not just what Matchmaker Wang said, but their conclusion after field investigation.

The other party was a stonemason, and there were several shops in his family, all of which were related to stone.

In fact, there are many businesses related to stones, such as inscriptions and making stones.All kinds of decorations, bonsai, stone lions and so on.

And this kind of polishing takes a lot of time and energy, especially good physical strength, not only ingenuity, but also special skills.

So, first of all, this person has a good physical fitness, and secondly, this person is skillful and able to carve many very beautiful stone sculptures.

The most important thing is that masons can do many things, such as building bridges and paving roads, building houses, and doing decoration, etc., from large to small, as long as you can do this skill well, you can also receive There is a lot of business.

The ancestral craftsmanship in the stonemason's house is well-known in this area, because they are ingenious and responsible, and they do not drive up prices, nor will they lower the price of their finished products in order to grab business, so their business It has been very stable, with good quality and reputation.Although there is not much business in doing it, it is more than enough to feed their family.

However, in this generation, the stonemason’s son’s craftsmanship is excellent, so he wanted to go further, recruited many apprentices, asked the apprentices to make rough embryos, and then polished them carefully, using the assembly line mode to polish the finished products, so the efficiency has improved a lot. The family business also expanded.

Moreover, the men in their family basically spend the whole day immersed in the mason's shop, and have no mind or energy to pay attention to other things.

So if you ask their family to go, you really don't have to worry about the man in their family having a lot of money.

At least from the current situation, the men in their family are good men who are hardworking and willing to take care of the family.

A person who is dedicated to pursuing technological breakthroughs in doing something.Generally speaking, their minds are relatively simple, and we call such people research talents.This kind of people don't care about many things, they only care about what they care about, and they seem relatively dull in many aspects.

But they are not low in emotional intelligence, they are just immersed in the field they like, marrying such a person, as long as you can understand him.With such a high probability, these people will not have too many problems in the relationship between men and women.

They may not value the relationship between men and women and love at all, but their sense of responsibility will allow them to maintain a certain degree of loyalty to this relationship.

In short, marrying this kind of straight man should be relatively easy to lead a happy life. Of course, the premise is that you can take it easy and don't pursue that kind of spiritual sympathy, don't pursue that kind of spiritual harmony, and don't pursue that kind of The ultimate romance.In short, think about it a little bit more, it can't be Lin Daiyu's type of girl, of course, people like Lu Jia, after marrying, basically have no problem.

Jiang Wenzhu once thought about this question. A person with a very rich inner world, a unique spiritual pursuit, and a person who attaches great importance to spiritual compatibility and whether the other party understands you. Generally speaking, the chances of meeting a suitable partner for a person like this are very low. Sex will be smaller.

And the kind of people who live a more pragmatic life, they have no requirements for their partners, as long as the other party lives a down-to-earth life, they feel happy, relatively speaking, their chances of achieving happiness will be higher, because their requirements for happiness are lower.

Speaking of which, I don’t know how to evaluate the former kind of people. They have higher requirements for life, because their own level is higher, while the latter kind of people are more pragmatic, and of course we can’t say that their The level is not high. There are many people who are rich in knowledge, understand taste, and have outstanding advantages in various aspects. They are very humorous and funny, but they do not have high requirements for life. Ready.

Everyone's ideas are different. As a member of all living beings, as long as your own ideas and requirements do not interfere with others, you can make various requirements for the person you want to marry. It’s not too much, as long as the request is what you want, then there is no problem how to make the request. For example, I want to find a partner, and I ask him not to smoke. It’s not about how I feel about smoking, nor is it that he smokes. Just not a good person.But I just want to find someone who doesn't smoke, and I'm right, and the smoker is also right, it's just that the two of us are not suitable.

In fact, there is not much difference between Lu Jia and this stonemason in terms of thinking. Both of them are the kind of people who live in a down-to-earth way. Fun and full of surprises.

So this is a couple, a couple who spend all their energy on basic life. Such people have very simple requirements for happiness, and it is easier to achieve happiness.

Of course, people's desires are endless. Maybe some people will put forward higher goals and pursuits after reaching basic food and clothing, and some people just follow the ordinary life.

Both of these two people are down-to-earth people, and they are also capable of pursuing a better life. I believe that after the two of them are together, they will be able to live a prosperous life at home. The key is these two people. His thoughts are very simple, without so many twists and turns, and not so many hypocrisy.

"Then I'll give you an iron hammer, put it in a box and take it there, give it to brother-in-law Lu, and then give a golden hairpin to sister Lu Jia." Jiang Wenzhu silently made up her mind.

In fact, there are many fine things in the work of blacksmiths, such as the blossoming of iron trees. It is a real tree made of stones, and then various flowers fall from it, although there are no various colors. But the fine carving and heavy texture sometimes look more beautiful than real flowers.

When Jiang Wenzhu found out that Lu Jia was going to marry a stonemason, she went to the market to buy two stone ornaments. Among them was a stone flower, which looked very beautiful and felt warm to the touch. It was simply a work of art. .

(End of this chapter)