The first assistant girl has space

Chapter 195

Usually, we have a bad relationship and do not communicate with each other, and even hate each other, wishing to rush up and slap each other, but girls from the same family are getting married. The reputation will be even worse, and Lu Weiliang can't do anything good here.

In fact, everyone is very clear that their relationship is not good, but no matter how bad the relationship is, for the sake of face and the honor of the family, they must give each other enough face.

If Boss Lu and the others don't come, everyone will accuse them of being unkind to the younger generation. Their old Lu family's hearts are not in harmony, so they can't handle it.

And if Lu Weiliang can't invite them, people will say that Lu Weiliang can't be a man, without the help of his brothers, he may fight alone at critical moments.

If this impression is left on other people, then the Lu family brothers will be much weaker when facing outsiders.

In ancient times, the status of the family was very important. The reason why a family can be strong and strong not only depends on the large population, but also depends on the unity and common development of all members of the family.

If a family is like a pan of loose sand, falling apart when encountering things, and all forces cannot be united and unanimously external, then everyone will look down on this family and everyone will bully you.

People in the family may have some conflicts, but these conflicts are only internal conflicts. If you are arguing at home, everyone ignores each other, and even if you have a bad relationship, it is okay for outsiders to know.

But once you encounter a major event, you must put aside all personal grievances and unanimously speak out.The attitude must be very firm. After resolving external conflicts, it is okay for you to have a bad relationship, but when facing major events, you must show it. Your attitude as a family member is to let go of your sincerity unconditionally. , unanimously external.

The occasions to show this attitude, in addition to the usual ancestor worship, the clan's assembly, and the unified activities of the clan, are some very important weddings and funerals.

And Lu Jia's marriage is a great joy.

Regardless of whether Boss Liu and the others care about the marriage of the Lu family, and whether they still have kind thoughts for Lu Jia, but when Lu Jia gets married, they will come out, even if they don't give gifts, after Rujia gets married, they will never be with Lu Jia again. They should all be there at the moment of marriage.

So no matter how bad their relationship was, at the wedding, Jiang Wenzhu still saw Lu Jia's six uncles.

It's just that these six uncles are really a bit out of tune. When they come, they just sit on the table, drink, eat meat, chat with others, and do nothing.

I made myself feel like a guest. When uncles and brothers from other people’s homes came, they would help out in the kitchen, in the yard, and help with work. Even if they were not uncles and brothers, neighbors and friends who were closer to each other would volunteer to help.

These guys are good, Erlang turned his legs up, and he came here to enjoy himself. As a shopkeeper, he only knows to eat delicious food every day, and he pretends that he is here to help.

Forget it, just treat it as good wine, good food, and invite people to join in the fun, but these people not only join in the fun, eat with their mouths open, they also talk with their mouths, and they talk when they talk, what he said It's not a good word. On the day when people are happy, you can see what they are talking about.

"I don't know what Lao Qi thinks. The family lived well and alienated us, so we used to have some conflicts, but after all, we are blood relatives, how can we treat us like this?" Lu Lao said, "Hey, it's better to be kind. I don't mean to blame him. Anyway, if I were the seventh child, my life would be better. I would definitely not treat other brothers so meanly."

The second son Lu nodded again and again: "Yeah, brother, you are right, isn't that the case? These days, as long as people have money, they always change their faces, and I don't know what to think about it, my family No, friends don’t want it, just take care of yourself, don’t care about anything, it’s too selfish.”

Lu Laosan said: "This actually tells us a truth. It is better to have money than to have money. Although you are rich, you will not forget your brother, but others may not be as good as you, so we You should also make good money, and you shouldn’t count on others.”

Lu Laosi said: "Hey, third brother, I don't quite agree with what you said. How can things in this world be tolerated? Who doesn't want to eat well, dress well and live well. Well, everything is good, there are many Qian, everyone in the family can get along well, there is no conflict, everyone is kind, but men think about everything in the world?"

"After all, there are only a small number of people who can make money. There are only a small group of people who can get ahead and make a fortune. If everyone can live the life they want, then everyone can do whatever they want, and there is no need to please others. Is it? If the world can become like that, then I can't even think about it."

Lu Laowu sighed next to him: "Hey, keep your voice down, what day is it now? We usually talk about it at home, so many people are around, if people hear it, our reputation will be ruined." It stinks even more."

"You can hide everything in your heart, so why tell us at this time. Didn't you say that you will have a meal today? Then, you can have a good meal with your belly open. Don't think about what you have. Anyway, it's usually I can't count the advantages of his family, and I can't even get a penny, so today we take back all the advantages that we usually can't take advantage of, and we have to eat a few more bites no matter what."

Lu Laowu is an extremely pragmatic person. He can always see the development of things to be very pragmatic, and he can get what he can get in a down-to-earth manner. He never has illusions about those impossible things, so when it is time to act Just shoot, and stop when it's time to stop. He can be regarded as a particularly pragmatic person among the Lu family brothers.Of course, this pragmatic person is not an honest person, but a person who adapts to the situation, relatively speaking, a person with more vision.

At least he knows that he has to take advantage of what he wants. For example, when he took Lu Weiliang's salary, he also had to take a share. But although he robbed Lu Weiliang of his salary, he never offended Lu Weiliang on the surface. In other words, when he wanted to offend Lu Weiliang, what he said would be relatively tactful.

When he wants to make an effort to offend someone, he will let others rush forward, while he himself will only knock on the corners behind, and occasionally add a few words when talking, and when knocking on the corners to start a conversation, he has to When speaking, he will not make a sound when he can.

Because he knew that there were so many brothers, sisters-in-law and younger siblings who rushed ahead, so why should he stand out?Anyway, he also knew that the brothers in this family were all selfish, and the only one with humanity was Lu Laoqi who was oppressed by them.

If he doesn't press the stairs with these five brothers, then he will be squeezed out by these brothers headed by Boss Lu. In that case, he will not only lose the support of these brothers, but also suffer a huge economic loss, so he knows how select.

He will not risk being squeezed out by all his brothers, you go to make friends with Luo Laoqi, and if you make friends with Lu Laoqi, he will not get any benefits at all at that time, not only will he lose the money, but also If he wants to have a bad relationship with the Lu family brothers, the most important thing is that if he wants to make friends with Lu Weiliang, he must help Lu Weiliang to support the three younger sisters in the family. He is not willing.

The fifth brother's idea is very clear. Although he doesn't hate Lu Weiliang and doesn't want to befriend him, he doesn't want to befriend him either. So in this state, he half-pushes and half-willedly follows the brothers, often playing soy sauce But he never said anything particularly heart-wrenching, and occasionally said a few words in the middle, so relatively speaking, Lu Laowu is the one with the best attitude among the six brothers.

Of course, this good attitude depends on comparison. In fact, Lu Laowu is also a person who values ​​interests and only cares about himself.

The reason why he was able to appear a little better among the brothers and left a slightly more positive impression on Lu Weiliang than the others was not because he was so good, but because of the other five brothers. Well, it is based on comparison, because others are too bad, so he, who is relatively poor, becomes relatively better.

"Yes, Fifth Brother is right. I also think that I have to open my stomach to eat later. For this meal, I didn't eat a day in advance, so I wanted to eat more to pay back." Lu Lao Liu lowered his voice, "We can walk around later, maybe we can see some places that need help. At that time, let's find a chance and go back with something. On such a great day, they can't quarrel with us, can they? "

Boss Lu's eyes lit up: "Okay, old six, what are you thinking? Why are you so flexible? You have thought of these things, hey, why didn't we plan before? If we really follow your plan Let’s move on, we can earn a lot of things today, let’s walk around. Hurry up, think of a way, go to several places, put a few Western Han things in your pocket, even if you can’t find anything worthwhile, go to It’s also good to have a few more snacks in your pocket.”

The brothers of the Lu family looked at each other a few times, their eyes might as well show a look of excitement, but not everyone has such an impulse, so Lu Laowu raised objections.

"Brother, let's forget it. On a day like today, if we mess up something, people will find out. My God, maybe we will be laughed at. So many guests will come, and everyone will spit on us. One spittle can drown us."

"Even if we want to leave, we can't all go together, and there must be a maid watching beside the valuable thing. People come and go, so many guests, everyone knows to watch, if we go along with the things, we will definitely be caught. People caught it, but they didn't get it like the previous things. Instead, they were ridiculed by others. Isn't this stealing chickens and losing money? Normally, when we come to make trouble, we will make trouble, but at this time, no It's suitable for making trouble."

When Boss Lu heard this, he hesitated and couldn't make up his mind: "Why don't we think about going one by one, what a good opportunity, when we usually come to his house, there are always their maids and guards, who are there We are blocked by the side, as long as we enter his house, we will be strictly guarded, for fear that we will rush in and bully others. When we come in, let alone the sugar pollution of entering his house, we can't even touch the threshold of his house But now this opportunity is rare. Not only are we sitting at the same table, but there are so many people next to us who want to hate my mother-in-law and entertain them. There is no manpower or energy to watch us. If we don’t seize this opportunity, we will be There’s never been such a good time to come in.”

Lu's second son was also very moved: "Yes, come to us, just take a few taels of silver, and it will be enough for us to work for half a year. Be careful, no one will see us."

Lu Laosan said: "I don't want it anymore. As the elders of the Lu family, although we don't have a good relationship with Lao Qi, but on this occasion, so many eyes are all staring at us, so don't lose our Lu family." face."

He had a feeling that as long as they stole money and took things, they would be found out, and it was not beautiful to make a fuss about this discovery.

They came to eat, not to make troubles. The reason why they came to eat was also to look good.Look at it, if there is something about them stealing things, don't talk about it, their faces can't be picked up even if they fall on the ground.

"Third brother, you are such a coward. Have you forgotten what the younger brother does? Ordinary people, as long as they fall into my hands, they can be taken advantage of if they don't pay attention." Fourth Lu said, "Why don't I Go to inquire first to see if there is any chance? If there is no chance, I will stop in time. Don't worry, I will definitely save our brother's face and will never be found out. "

The veins on Lu Laowu's forehead twitched, and he suddenly felt helpless: "Fourth brother, forget it, the timing is not right, and come back when there are fewer people. If you are caught, not only will your reputation be ruined, but the seventh brother will also lose your reputation." It is because of the face that we are brothers, so he will not attack us for the time being, but when the little sister is out of the door, he will definitely turn around and deal with us."

"Think about it, he is the head catcher in the yamen. At that time, he will randomly call two people to come to our house to look for us, and put us in the yamen for two days. We can't find anyone to explain it to us."

"Don't use our reputation for such a little unreliable opportunity. If we really want some benefits, we can just borrow money from Lao Qi with a shameless face. At worst, write an IOU and delay the repayment at that time The time limit, or simply not paying it back, is better than the current situation."

After all, people need face in life, and they have to show face to themselves.

(End of this chapter)