The first assistant girl has space

Chapter 88 Standard 088
Jiang Wenshan was also anxious in her heart, and it was imminent to find a suitable person for engagement.

If there is no government regulation, he and she can actually wait a little longer. Anyway, if you can't find a suitable person, just look for it slowly. There will always be a day when you find it.

In fact, her requirements are not high, and she doesn't ask how good or perfect the other party's conditions are. His own conditions are just like that, and he is not a perfect person either.

So in this matter, it is not how high her qualifications are as rumored to outsiders, but that in the living environment, the people she comes into contact with are not suitable.

In the eyes of outsiders, Jiang Wenshan's conditions are very good.

Good-looking, good-looking, mild-tempered, not the kind of careless, stupid person, the conditions inside are good, she is the eldest daughter of the family, and can manage business. For ordinary people, marrying such a girl Going home, that is a sure-fire deal.

So in fact, many people are very tempted, because there are too many people who are tempted, and the group of people who are most tempted can't hold back, can't see how much they are, they eat ugly, and the conditions they put forward are profound, so they rush forward to propose marriage , was naturally rejected.

When she was rejected, she became angry from embarrassment. After returning home, she just spread all kinds of unfavorable rumors about Jiang Wenshan, but she said it with a nose and eyes.

Moreover, these shrewd people with abacus are better at making money than people with good character, and they can smell things that are beneficial to them, so they move faster.

However, no one is a fool. What kind of plans they have, and the meaning revealed in the words, people can understand at once.

Lin would not be happy to settle with such a family, and Jiang Wenshan obviously would not be happy either.

After such people came to the door a few times, the rumors about Jiang Wenshan being difficult to get in touch with and Jiang's daughter having high eyesight spread widely.

If you want to get married, you will hesitate when you hear such rumors. What if you come to propose marriage by yourself and get rejected?

Where do you put your face?
What if I go to propose a marriage by myself, and others say that I have an evil heart and have taken a fancy to other people's property?

What if Jiang Wenshan is not as capable as she imagined when she gets married?
If you have such an ugly reputation before getting married, what if you marry into the family and cause other troubles in the family?
They want to marry a daughter-in-law, not a troublemaker, and they don't want to live in other people's gossip.

It's not that you can't marry a wife, there are many good girls, why bother with this one?
Therefore, the vast majority of people will give up Jiang Wenshan for various reasons.

After all, in life, how many people can do not care about other people's eyes?They are all people who live in the same place. If you don’t look up and look down, if there is a little trouble, it will be known to everyone...

In fact, they also know that this matter is easy to solve. If their family has a young son of the right age, they can try to find out the news, but there is no son in the family. If there is a son, there are better choices in the family. I've already made a kiss.

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Not to mention the surrounding people, why did they not come to the door for some reason, even if they did come, it may not be successful, because Jiang Wenshan still has requirements for her future husband.

In Jiang Wenshan's original words:
"First, good character. If the character is not good, there will be problems at home. Everything will be pushed on your head, and there is no bottom line. You don't stay at home every day, don't do anything, just want to I don't want to be a hands-off shopkeeper and enjoy the blessing."

Isn't it a good idea to find someone to serve her? Isn't it worth finding someone who can sit back and enjoy the fruits of her labor?
"Second, you can't play cards, gamble, smoke, drink, visit brothels... have other bad habits, not to mention how much money it costs for ordinary people to smoke, and with that money, I don't know how many things can be added to the house, just say that it affects the body , is not a good habit."

She remembered that Jiang Dafu was a smoker, and the family couldn't even get enough to eat. Their sisters worked all day long, so they could only drink porridge. If they had that money, they didn't use it to buy them some food. They just cared about enjoying themselves. What is the use of people coming?He only thinks about himself in everything he does, and doesn't care about the life or death of others. Why should such a person live under the same roof?
As for drinking, it's the same principle. First, it costs money. Second, drinking is not a good habit. If you drink too much, you will be crazy about drinking, beat people at home every day, and the same is true for gambling. You can see the details by looking at the bum.

If this person is like a bum, she would rather be an aunt for the rest of her life.

As for visiting brothels, looking for concubines, and messing with other women, it's even worse.

She is a good person, rich, leisure and capable, why should she live such a life of jealousy with other women?
Not stupid.

"Third, you have to be reasonable when dealing with this matter at home. You can't be filial, and you can't ignore your parents' life and death. Many things are obviously wrong, but because of one or another reason, such as your parents are old, how can you be considerate of them? For example, my daughter-in-law still laughs and is ignorant, so let my parents not worry about it."

Little do they know that many things, because of connivance, have caused very serious consequences.

Anyone who has eyes can see who is at fault, but because of one of them, he is arrogant and entangled, or because of his own selfishness, he favors one of them, causing someone to be wronged all the time.

Commonly known as - unclear.

In a family, if there are one or two people who can't figure it out, they will always violate the principles and break your bottom line when you are going to do things.

If it is a trivial matter, he (she) will say, what does such a simple trivial matter matter?You are so fussy, are you not a person, what about your tolerance?Complaining with parents, husband, wife, children... you are really promising.

If it’s a major event, such a major event has happened to me, you come to tell me this now, shouldn’t you be thinking about how to solve the problem?
In short, if a person is not a bad person, but he can't figure it out, it is a fatal flaw, and living with such a person will be very tiring.

Jiang Wenshan said: "I just want to find someone who can get by and live my life easily in the future, instead of thinking about living my future life as a wild theater."

Every day when you open the door, you look at me and I look at you, as if they are more enemies, wishing each other to die, what's the point of living like this?

"Even if we have different views on some things, we respect each other and can discuss and resolve them, instead of disregarding each other's wishes and insisting on following our own ideas."

(End of this chapter)