Wear ancient times with a house

Chapter 14 The Night Talk of Two Mothers

Ever since Song Ru returned home, Mrs. Song has been worrying about her future.

Now that she has a good marriage, she desperately wants her daughter to catch her.It's just that as a woman, she needs to be more reserved, so she suppressed her anxiety and repeatedly taught her daughter how to deal with her mother-in-law, elder sister-in-law, and stepson and step-daughter.

"Old lady of the Zhao family, the temperament of eating vegetarian food and reciting Buddha's name is probably not difficult to deal with. At most, it is the commonality of widows and mothers-in-law. If you don't see the close relationship between daughter-in-law and son, you should pay more attention to her. Doesn't she like to recite the Buddha's machine?" , don’t be stingy with the money, prepare the vegetarian food, Buddhist scriptures, and beads for her, and let her get busy, so she won’t have time to stare at you.”

"As for the wife of the Zhao family, it sounds like she is very strong and cares about face, so you can save face for her, don't compete with her, and enjoy yourself at leisure."

Although Mrs. Song did not study much, she has the wisdom of being a daughter-in-law for many years. Even though she has told her daughter countless times, she still has to tell her again:
"Mother Ru, remember, everything else is false, and the truth is that you live a good life. Mother just regrets that you learned so many useless things after listening to your father's old-fashioned words. As for struggling in the Feng family."

Song Ru lowered her head, and sometimes she would think, if she hadn't learned so many precepts, wouldn't she have suffered so much?

But aren't all women like this?Only by enduring and watching will usher in a good life after getting old.

What's more, if it weren't for those teachings, her life in the Feng family would have been even more difficult after she became a widow.

Thinking of this, Song Ru shook her head:
"I know that my parents are doing it for my own good."

"It's useless to say these things, you just remember one thing, learn from your sister-in-law, after you enter the door, you should be low-key first, and when you have a son, you have to learn to plan for the child. As for the mother-in-law, the elder sister-in-law Just live on the surface, don't suffer yourself."

Song Ru and Shen's relationship is not bad. After all, the widowed sister-in-law has lived in her brother-in-law's house for several years, and she can still live freely, thanks to her sister-in-law's kindness.

Therefore, she said good things for her sister-in-law:

"My sister-in-law is very nice. She is very respectful to her mother and considerate to her brother."

The old lady Song glanced at her daughter angrily: "This is a stupid head, the point is sister-in-law, okay?"

"I know, I didn't say that she is so bad. But any mother-in-law with a little brain knows that she can't train her daughter-in-law to be a submissive doormat. How will such a daughter-in-law support the family in the future?"

Saying that, Mrs. Song became angry again, and once again complained about her ex-in-law:
"The couple of the Feng family are idiots. They think about how to torment their daughter-in-law every day, but they don't think about it. Are they old monsters? Can they live forever?"

"Your sister-in-law is a good one, but it's a pity that she didn't meet a good in-laws, let alone a good man. If her son doesn't live up to him, she will have a hard time."

Ever since the Feng family did that thing, Mrs. Song can find a reason to drag them out every now and then to hurt them, and at the same time she highly praises Song Ru's former sister-in-law.

Song Ru also hated the Feng family, and when she was most helpless, she even thought about destroying the Feng family even if she died.

Now that she has returned to her natal family, she has someone she cares about again, and she doesn't want to lose both with the Feng family.As for revenge or other things, that is a matter for the future, she does not have this ability now.

Unable to retaliate, Song Ru didn't want to mention this family more. In order to change the subject, she asked her mother how to get along with the two children.

Old Mrs. Song had a problem. She had never been someone else's stepmother. She beat and scolded her own child, but no one would say anything.The stepmother is not.

To say that I am embarrassed to let my daughter know, it is not that Mrs. Song herself did not point fingers at those step-wives, thinking that they were not good to her stepson and step-daughter.

Now that it has been spread to her own daughter, she realizes how difficult it is to be a stepmother: if the control is strict, people will say that you bully motherless children; if the control is loose, people will say that you deliberately raise them.

What's more, Zhao Yanlin's original spouse's natal family was in Fucheng, and looking for trouble was just a matter of lifting his feet; his own family was in the county town, and it was beyond his reach to support his daughter.

At this moment, she began to hope that Zhao Yanlin's two children would be adopted into the eldest house, not because she was afraid of dividing up the family property, but because she was afraid that they would make life difficult for her daughter.

It's just that, when people marry a daughter-in-law, isn't it just to spread the branches and take care of their children?

She can only comfort her daughter:
"It's nothing difficult to do. I heard that there are many maids and wives in his family, and you don't need to take care of them yourself. You just need to ask more about the situation and make proper arrangements for food, clothing, housing and transportation, and that's enough."

The night gradually deepened with the voices of the mother and daughter, and the whispers of Song Nian and Shen Shi.

At this time, Zhao Yanlin, who had just finished socializing and was slightly drunk, returned to the old house of Zhao's fifth room.

Because he didn't come back, the old lady of the Zhao family didn't go to bed, but waited for her son in the main hall with a pot of strong tea.The mother-in-law was still awake, so the daughter-in-law naturally couldn't rest with peace of mind, and the sister-in-law of the Zhao family also sat beside her, waiting for the uncle to come home.

The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were sitting opposite each other, but neither of them spoke. The atmosphere was cold and stagnant. Even the maid and mother-in-law behind her moved lightly, for fear of offending the masters.

In the end it was Mrs. Zhao who was even more impatient, and said the old saying again:

"As long as you spend a little of your time in housekeeping on Brother Ze's heirs, my son will not be desolate."

Zhao's daughter-in-law, since she married into the Zhao family, has never been tortured by her mother-in-law. Of course, Mrs. Zhao is not willing to go out and make trouble, but it is also because of her confidence: her family background is good, and her father was taught by Zhao Yanze. mentor.

However, when it comes to her children, she also feels a little guilty.Although thinking this way does not meet the current requirements for women's morality, she still does not want to let the concubine's son inherit the family business she has worked so hard to manage.

She is still waiting for an opportunity to allow her daughter to inherit all this in a legitimate way.If not, it would not be too late to adopt the son of my uncle's family.

Therefore, she did not refute her mother-in-law, but she also kept silent and refused to give a letter.

When Zhao Yanlin came back and saw this scene, he was not surprised. Instead, he persuaded his mother to go back to the room, promised to see her later, and then persuaded his sister-in-law to go back to rest.

After the two women left, Zhao Yanlin pinched his forehead with some headaches, and asked the valet to go to the kitchen to order a bowl of hangover soup.

After drinking soup and changing clothes, he went to the main courtyard.

Mrs. Zhao was sitting on the bed, covering her legs with a thick blanket, waiting for her son's arrival.

Zhao Yanlin entered the room and frowned when he saw the thick blanket:

"Mom, your leg hurts again? I told my elder brother that you should stop kneeling and chant scriptures in the future."

Mrs. Zhao was scolded by her son, but she didn't get angry, she replied softly:

"Mother is fine, it's all like this when you're old."

She was afraid that her son would talk about her chanting again, so she hurriedly changed the subject:

"Erlang, the house is pretty well taken care of, and it's ready to entertain guests. When are we going to Song's house?"

　I can't wait to become a tentacle monster and write [-] words quickly.

　　
　
(End of this chapter)