Rebirth of the courtyard, the start is 80s

Chapter 210 Auntie, times have changed!
As soon as Qinghong's mother finished saying this sentence, Wu Qinghong scolded beside her: "Mom, what are you talking about?"

"Of course it's business!" Qinghong's mother glanced at Wu Qinghong.

"Qing Hong, since you two love each other, I don't want to beat the mandarin duck and be that villain.

However, you are all living together, so you should get married early.

Once you are married and have a status, you will continue to live together, and no one will gossip, right?
And your dad can also have an explanation, so he doesn't have to worry about this and that all day long.

It happens that everyone is here now, so let's talk about it earlier and make a decision about the marriage, isn't that what it should be? "

Wu Qinghong lowered her head and said in a soft voice: "Mom, I, I don't want to get married for the time being."

"Why?" Zhao Meifen frowned, "Don't you like him very much, does he like you too?
If you both like each other, why not get married? "

"This, this, I..." Wu Qinghong blushed, but for a moment she didn't know what to say.

How should I put it, in fact, in Wu Qinghong's heart, she also wanted to marry Cao Zhiqiang earlier.

It's just that she knew that Cao Zhiqiang didn't want to get married, and she didn't want to embarrass Cao Zhiqiang, so she subconsciously defended Cao Zhiqiang and said against her will that she didn't want to get married.

Just asking her to tell the reason for not getting married, she didn't know what to say for a while.

"Auntie!" Cao Zhiqiang said suddenly, "Don't embarrass Qing Hong, let me speak."

"Oh?" Zhao Meifen looked at Cao Zhiqiang, "What do you want to say?"

Cao Zhiqiang first gave Zhao Meifen a simple and kind smile, and then said: "Auntie, to be honest, as far as I am concerned, I really want to marry Qinghong, and I really want to get a marriage certificate with her right away.

However, for the sake of Qinghong, I cannot marry her, at least not now! "

"Why?" Zhao Meifen asked, "Why can't I marry her now?"

"There are many reasons." Cao Zhiqiang said.

"First, there's the age issue.

Auntie, Qinghong and I are both 19 years old now, and Qinghong is a few months older than me.

Although 19 years old is also an adult, but according to the new marriage law, neither of us is under the legal marriage age.

If we are under the legal age, we will not be able to obtain a certificate, so this marriage will have no legal effect. "

"What's the matter?" Cao Jiajia suddenly interjected, "You two can get married first and hold a ceremony, and then wait until you're old enough to apply for a new marriage certificate. We have a lot of them over there."

"Yes, your sister is right." Zhao Meifen also nodded.

"It's easy to talk about the marriage certificate, but the key is the marriage ceremony, that is, holding the wedding ceremony.

As long as the wedding is held and everyone knows that you are married, that's fine, and no one will say anything about you.

After all, the law is the law, but besides the law, there are human feelings, right? "

Cao Zhiqiang smiled and said, "That's right, it's called a de facto marriage, so it's okay, but this involves the second thing I want to say."

"What's next?" Zhao Meifen asked with a frown.

Cao Zhiqiang smiled and said, "Auntie, don't worry, just listen to me speak slowly."

After a pause, Cao Zhiqiang said seriously: "Auntie, that's right, if we are just ordinary people with no pursuits, or if we live in the small county where you used to live, then we will get married when we are under the age. Even if you don't get a certificate, it's no big problem.

The problem is, we don't want to live like this.

Don't talk about me first, just talk about Qinghong.

Qing Hong is currently studying in a high school here, do you know that? "

Zhao Meifen nodded: "Yes, I know, thank you very much."

"What's the matter, it should be done." Cao Zhiqiang smiled.

Immediately afterwards, Cao Zhiqiang said with a serious face: "But Auntie, I have spent so much effort to let Qinghong go to high school. Why? Of course it is to let her go to college!

Letting Qinghong successfully enter the university is something you two hope to see, right? "

Seeing Zhao Meifen nodded, Cao Zhiqiang said again: "But when you go to university, there is a rigid rule, that is, unmarried!
In other words, married people are not allowed to go to college, even if you are admitted.

And this unmarried is not only for legal marriage, but also for de facto marriage!
So, if Qinghong and I are married now and hold a wedding ceremony, then we will have a de facto marriage.

In this way, if Qinghong is admitted to university in the future, she will not be able to go to university. "

"Is there such a rule?" Cao Jiajia frowned, "Isn't it possible? I remember a colleague who got married and went to university after he was admitted to university?"

Cao Zhiqiang smiled: "Sister, you are old Huang Li, and you are talking about the events of [-] and [-], mainly the two years after the resumption of the college entrance examination.

But in fact, as early as 1980, there were new regulations for the college entrance examination, that is, only unmarried people can go to college, and married people cannot go to college.

Therefore, if I marry Qinghong now, even if it is only a de facto marriage without a certificate, it will be the same, neither of us can go to college.

I'm fine, I'm pretty satisfied with my current job, and it doesn't matter if I don't go to college.

But Qinghong can't, she must go to college.

So for the sake of Qinghong and her future, no matter how impatient I am, I have to endure it first. "

Cao Jiajia was stunned for a moment, then turned to look at Zhao Meifen who said nothing, "Meifen, are you really not allowed to get married now that you are in college?"

Zhao Meifen frowned: "I don't know much about this, I haven't asked about it."

Cao Zhiqiang said with a smile: "That's okay, you can inquire about it. It's easy to inquire about this matter, and then you will know whether I have lied or not."

"Mom." Qing Hong said suddenly, "Zhiqiang didn't lie, it's true. Now the college entrance examination, unmarried is a rule, and the university doesn't admit married people, so it's useless even if you pass the test.

Also, if you hide the fact that you are married and get into the university reluctantly, if you are reported after the fact, you will not only be deprived of your status as a college student, but you may even be imprisoned. "

"So serious?" Zhao Meifen asked.

"It's really serious." Qing Hong said, "This is the capital, the capital, and the rules are strict. It's not our small place. You can just find someone to fool you. It's different."

"Okay." Zhao Meifen sighed, "Even so, but you live together indistinctly, without names or distinctions, what does it look like?"

"Auntie, times have changed!" Cao Zhiqiang laughed.

"The old concept, now placed on us young people, no longer works."

"Renovation and opening up is happening everywhere now, and there are new people, new things and new atmosphere everywhere.

What you take for granted today may become a thing of the past when you wake up tomorrow.

The key to being able to be together with Qinghong is that we have a good relationship, not a marriage contract or a wedding.

In other words, whether two people can stay together for a long time depends not on whether they get married, but whether they are willing to be together.

If our relationship is good, even if we don't get married, we will still envy others.

But if our relationship is not good, even if we are married, we can still divorce, right?
So, whether you are married or not, it is a formality.

If you say marriage is important, it is very important, but if you say it is not important, it is really not important.

Just like those educated youths who went to the countryside back then, many of them not only got married in the countryside, but even had children.

But once I heard that I can go back to the city, but my wife and children can’t be taken away, why don’t I leave my wife and children and go back to the city by myself, become a city resident again, and marry a new wife?

So this marriage can't bind people anymore, only feelings and conscience can bind people.

Like me and Qing Hong.

Although Qinghong and I are not officially married, they are better than ordinary couples.

Look at this big house, it's not bad, the location is good, and the furniture and appliances are complete.

Qinghong is with me, except for food and lodging.

I give Qinghong personal pocket money every month, at least 500 yuan!

These days, how many people can get 500 yuan pocket money every month?

Is this not enough to show my love and sincerity?

In addition, I can also make a promise to you here in front of my sister.

When Qinghong is admitted to university, and after graduating from university, regardless of whether I have married Qinghong at that time, I will transfer the ownership of this house to Qinghong immediately.

My love for Qinghong, plus a complete set of furniture and electrical appliances, in a courtyard within the second ring road of the capital, isn't it more reliable than a wedding ceremony? "

(End of this chapter)