Rebirth of the courtyard, the start is 80s

Upon hearing what Wu Zemin said, Zhao Meifen immediately frowned.

"I don't like to hear that. How can it be wrong to call it inappropriate? Xiao Cao is also a child of a worker, not a descendant of a capitalist, and both of them have urban hukou. How can it be wrong for us to be in an inappropriate household?"

Wu Zemin shook his head: "I didn't mean that, I mean, do you think our family is suitable for Cao's family?"

"Why is it inappropriate?" Zhao Meifen said, "We are daughters, so what's the problem?"

"It's a big problem!" Wu Zemin waved his hand.

After taking a deep breath, Wu Zemin, who sat up completely, frowned and said, "This is Cao Zhiqiang, he is young, his parents are both dead, and even though he still has an older sister, that Jia Jia, but in terms of emotion and reason, that Jia Jia is not the same at all." I can't control Cao Zhiqiang.

Cao Zhiqiang, like our daughter, is only 19 years old, so he became famous too early. He is in a high position and has a lot of money in his hands, which is easy to inflate.

We all came from our youth, you should know that young people are uncertain.

If you like this today, you might like that tomorrow.

For ordinary people, if they like one person and then like another person, they are often powerless, and there are various conditions restricting them, so naturally they cannot act arbitrarily.

But Cao Zhiqiang is different.

He is young and promising, rich, powerful and famous, and still lives in the capital, so many temptations and beautiful girls he will encounter in the future.

Our Qinghong is not bad, but to be honest, she is still outstanding among us.

If she came to a big city, she would be nothing more than an ordinary child. "

"How can you talk about your daughter like that." Zhao Meifen frowned, "Also, what exactly do you want to say?"

Wu Zemin shook his head and said, "Of course I'm targeting our Qinghong family. As for what I want to say, I just want to say that Cao Zhiqiang is too tall, and our Qinghong is a bit too tall to climb. If we insist on climbing high, the future may not be good. what."

"You!" Zhao Meifen was about to say something, but when the words reached her mouth, she swallowed them back, and just sat on the side in silence.

Seeing Zhao Meifen's appearance, Wu Zemin nodded: "It seems that you have thought of it too."

After sighing, Wu Zemin continued to analyze: "Meifen, do you still remember Xiaogen?"

"Of course I know." Zhao Meifen nodded.

Wu Zemin continued to sigh: "Actually, that kid Xiao Gen is pretty good, if he wasn't from a rural background, if he wasn't from Shanghai, if I've always wanted Qinghong to return to Shanghai, I wouldn't have to stop them.

But the fact is that they are really not suitable. If Qinghong follows Xiaogen, she will have to stay in that small county for the rest of her life. I don't want Qinghong to live that kind of life. "

"Then Xiao Cao is from the city." Zhao Meifen said, "Although he is not from Shanghai, he is also from the capital. He is no worse than Shanghai. Is it okay?"

"Listen to me!" Wu Zemin shook his head.

After breathing out the alcohol, Wu Zemin continued: "Xiao Cao and Xiao Gen are exactly two extremes.

If Xiao Gen is not good enough for our family Qing Hong, then Xiao Cao is because our family Qing Hong is not good enough for others.

This marriage is not a child's play, let alone a love affair, but daily necessities and sophistication. It is a matter of two families, not just two people. …

You said that if the situation of our two families is not much different, I will not say anything, but the gap between Xiaocao and Qinghong is really too big.

Xiao Cao is rich, powerful and capable, and it is no exaggeration to say that he is talented. I have never seen such an outstanding young man like him.

But we Qinghong, apart from being pretty and obedient, I really can't think of anything else that makes her stand out.

Why did Xiao Cao fall in love with Qinghong in the first place?Isn't it because Qinghong is beautiful?
But the face is easy to age, the girl is beautiful, it's just a matter of more than ten years.

After ten or so years, Qing Hong will be 30 years old, so she is not as young and beautiful as she is now. Can Xiao Cao continue to like Qing Hong?
At that time, Xiao Cao was still in the prime of life, rich and famous, how many young and beautiful girls of eighteen or nineteen were hanging around him?
Can you guarantee that Xiao Cao will not be tempted by that time, will not abandon his wife and son, abandon Qinghong, and find a little girl in menopause? "

Zhao Meifen frowned: "I don't think Xiao Cao is that kind of person."

"But he is a man!" Wu Zemin shook his head, "I am also a man, and I know men best.

Ten men, nine flowers, and one is a fool!

Any good man is bound by the environment.

You are like me, if I dare to hook up with other women behind your back, I will definitely be looked down upon, I will not be able to stay in the factory, my reputation will be rotten, and I will be kicked out by you, and I will really have nothing at that time. "

"Heh!" Zhao Meifen smiled coldly, "So you didn't dare, it's not that you don't want to."

"Yes, of course I don't dare." Wu Zemin admitted generously, "An ordinary man, who wouldn't want to have three wives and four concubines, isn't that not allowed by policy or condition?

Even now, even if the policy does not allow three wives and four concubines, if you are rich, powerful and qualified, how many people can not be tempted and not look for a lover outside?
Don't talk about anything else, let's just talk about the deputy director of my factory. Didn't he just have a close relationship with a young female worker in the factory, and actually took care of her?

And the director of that department in your hospital, isn't he also hiding from his wife, hooking up with an intern nurse?
There are so many other similar things, do you still need me to list them one by one? "

Zhao Meifen frowned slightly: "There are always good ones, and there are also dedicated and capable men. Do you think everyone is like you?"

"Don't compare me, I've never done anything wrong to you." Wu Zemin said, "At least I didn't look for women outside."

"That's why you can't find it." Zhao Meifen said coldly.

"I don't want to look for it!" Wu Zemin said, "I don't have that much fancy, I just want to do it for this family!"

"That's not the case." Zhao Meifen said, "How do you know that Xiao Cao is just a fool?"

"Why don't you understand?" Wu Zemin shook his head.

"We don't spend money, but the most critical factor for us to keep our heart is that we don't have the conditions for Hua Hua.

But that Cao Zhiqiang is different, he has money, status, and talent, he is the type that little girls like.

He can be careless for a day or a week, but what about that year, ten years?Who can guarantee?
I think when Xu Zhimo was young, he loved Zhang Youyi a lot, but what about after that?No matter how virtuous and virtuous Zhang Youyi is, wouldn't it still end in divorce? …

I think this Cao Zhiqiang is not much less talented than Xu Zhimo, and he is young and promising. Can he be willing to live with Qinghong alone in his life?
I don't think so! "

"Not necessarily." Zhao Meifen said, "If there is a day, divorce will be divorced. Anyway, with Xiao Cao's temperament, if you really want to divorce, you will not treat Qinghong badly. At least the material is not far behind. I will definitely eat and drink for the rest of my life. Don't worry."

After sighing, Wu Zemin continued: "You also know Qinghong's character, she is stubborn and accepts death, which is different from ordinary people.

You know about Qinghong and Xiaogen. From my point of view, Qinghong's feelings for Xiaogen are just that, not very deep.

But even so, Qing Hong was ashamed and angrily slit her wrists to commit suicide because she was almost done by Xiao Gen, and she was almost gone.

This Cao Zhiqiang rescued Qinghong twice, eloped with Qinghong, and then gave him what he wanted, and he was talented, young and promising.

I put myself in the shoes of a man, I would have fallen in love with such a man, let alone Qing Hong.

You can see that her attitude towards us is completely different from her attitude towards Cao Zhiqiang, it's like a different person.

Qinghong seems to be really stuck, she likes Cao Zhiqiang and can't help herself.

But I think that Cao Zhiqiang is kind to Qinghong, but he is not particularly enthusiastic, at least he doesn't fall into it, he doesn't seem to be single-minded.

In other words, Qing Hong and that Cao Zhiqiang have different feelings for each other.

Qinghong has given everything, and that Cao Zhiqiang, hehe, if he has half of his feelings for Qinghong, I will be very incensed.

It’s fine if they’re not married. If they do, Cao Zhiqiang will turn his back on him again. Don’t want Qinghong anymore, just rely on Qinghong’s temper, she, if she commits suicide again, when the time comes Who will save her? "

Upon hearing this, Zhao Meifen stopped talking.

After a while, Zhao Meifen finally said: "Then, even if this is the case, there is nothing we can do."

After sighing, Zhao Meifen said: "You just came here, you haven't lived here before, so you don't understand anything. I have lived here for a while before, and I have talked with Qinghong many times.

It's not like I haven't thought about what you're thinking about.

No, I thought of that from the start.

But there is no way, Qinghong is already stuck in it now.

Qing Hong is now, she is completely someone else.

Not only was the body taken away, but the heart was also taken away.

You know, I don't dare to say anything bad about Xiao Cao in front of Qinghong now.

Whenever I say something, such as Xiao Cao's heart is too rough, or such small problems as spending money, Qing Hong will get angry with me, and she won't see me directly, and she will forgive me only if I lick my face to apologize.

You can't even talk about these small problems, let alone big ones.

You have to tell Qinghong that Xiao Cao is easy to mess with women outside, and she may empathize with others, she will definitely not believe it, and will definitely turn against you. "

After sighing again, Zhao Meifen said: "Anyway, I'm looking away now, let's take a step and take a step. When the day comes, Xiao Cao really wants to abandon Qing Hong. At worst, I will kneel in front of Cao Zhiqiang." I just beg him to change his mind, otherwise what else can I do?" …

Wu Zemin silently took out a pack of cigarettes, looked at it, and put it back silently.

Well, little panda, I can't bear to smoke.

After clicking his lips, Wu Zemin suddenly said: "I see, otherwise, as for their affairs, let's not stop them and talk about everything.

Then, Qinghong's pre-examination results are not good now, is it a certainty to enter the university?
That's good, let's just say, don't talk about marriage first, study hard first.

Then after the college entrance examination, if Qing Hong is really admitted to university and her grades are not good, she will go to Guizhou, and if her grades are good, she will go to Shanghai to go to university.

Anyway, you can't let Qinghong come to the capital to go to university, and try to avoid contact between them as much as possible.

As long as the two of them live apart for a long time, if Cao Zhiqiang is really a flirt, he will definitely not be able to hold back, and he will definitely move on during this period and get in love with other women.

At that time, if Qing Hong knew about this situation, she would feel uncomfortable, but as long as she doesn't see anyone and we two are watching, it shouldn't be a big problem.

Qinghong is young now and has little experience.

If she went to university, got older, and had more knowledge, she might not be as reckless and stubborn as she is now.

And there are so many talents in the university, maybe Qinghong will meet a good young man who is well-matched, and she will move on first. "

"That's impossible!" Zhao Meifen said, "I know my child, Qinghong will never empathize with someone else."

"That's not necessarily true." Wu Zemin said, "Didn't Qing Hong secretly fall in love with Xiao Gen before, and what happened in the end, didn't she get better with Cao Zhiqiang soon? It can be seen that this kind of thing is difficult to talk about."

"That's different." Zhao Meifen said, "That's because Xiao Gen hurt Qing Hong first, and broke her heart."

"It's pretty much the same in my opinion." Wu Zemin said, "If Qing Hong finds out that Cao Zhiqiang has a new love, it will be a big deal if she doesn't want her anymore?"

"That's what you said." Zhao Meifen said, "Then what if Cao Zhiqiang just doesn't flirt with others, so he looks for Qinghong?"

Wu Zemin curled his lips: "If we have been separated from each other for four years in college, and during this period Cao Zhiqiang can resist all kinds of temptations and never find other women, it means that this person is really reliable.

Such a capable, reliable and dedicated man, Qing Hong wants to marry him, of course I agree with both hands, and I will definitely not hold back.

But for such a man, how likely do you think this is? "

"Oh." Zhao Meifen sighed.

"There's no need to be so disappointed." Wu Zemin smiled slightly, "Maybe this little Cao is really different, maybe Qinghong really finds a good man."

"It's you if it's okay, it's you if it's not." Zhao Meifen squinted at Wu Zemin, "You said everything."

"I'm not planning for a rainy day!"

Speaking of this, Wu Zemin got up from the bed and walked back and forth in the room.

Suddenly, Wu Zemin stopped and said to Zhao Meifen: "No matter what happens in the future, at least for now, Xiao Cao is really good to Qing Hong.

Just in case, we can't just do nothing.

In this way, taking advantage of Xiao Cao's obedience to Qinghong now, we can ask for a little bit.

For example, this courtyard house, didn't you say that Xiao Cao once said that after Qinghong graduated from university, he would transfer it to Qinghong? …

Discuss with him, don't graduate from college, it's best to transfer it to Qinghong now.

With a house in hand, at least there is a guarantee that even if Qing Hong is kicked by Cao Zhiqiang in the future, it will not be considered a loss.

Also, about our work, since Xiao Cao is so capable, he will transfer us to work in Shanghai.

That's right, if you have to go back to Shanghai, you must not stay in the capital.

We went back to Shanghai, and in case Qinghong gets abandoned in the future, there is still a place to go back.

If you and I were in the capital, after Xiao Cao abandoned Qinghong, if he saw that we were not pleasing to the eye and gave up our jobs, then there would really be no reason to reason.

Besides, when a person is under the eaves, everything depends on his face, which I can't stand.

Or go back to Shanghai, where my family is at least there, and we still have some old relationships, Cao Zhiqiang may not be able to do so absolutely. "

"What nonsense." Zhao Meifen frowned, "I think you want to go back to Shanghai?"

"Yes, I want to go back, but you don't want to go back?" Wu Zemin asked.

"I don't want to." Zhao Meifen shook her head, "Wherever Qinghong is, I will be there. If Qinghong is in the capital, I will be in the capital, at least I have someone to take care of me."

"Hutu!" Wu Zemin said, "You are here, but it makes Qinghong uncomfortable, and we have no reason to let Qinghong go to Shanghai to go to university.

Besides, you don't only have Qinghong as a child, you also have Qingbai, why don't you think about him? "

"Even if it's for Qingbai's sake, why can't you stay in the capital." Zhao Meifen said, "The capital is the capital after all, and it's pretty good here."

"It's good." Wu Zemin said, "The climate, diet, and habits are different everywhere. How can the capital compare with Shanghai?
Don't forget, we are from Shanghai Bank, not from Beijing, and we will go back sooner or later! "

"I'm talking about going back to Shanghai." Zhao Meifen frowned, "In the end, you only think about yourself!"

"Hey, I don't like to hear what you say. Why do I only think about myself?" Wu Zemin said, "Let's go back to Shanghai, anyway, it's a way out, it's better than the whole family in the capital, and it all depends on Cao Zhiqiang's face." Bar?"

"Then I don't have the ability to go to Shanghai by myself." Zhao Meifen said, "Don't let Xiao Cao help you."

Wu Zemin was furious: "He put Qinghong to bed, and I didn't even settle the score with him, what's wrong with asking him to help me with this?"

"Hush!" Zhao Meifen frowned, "Keep down, aren't you afraid of being heard?"

Wu Zemin suppressed the fire, lowered his voice and said:
"You see, this is what happens when people are under the roof!
We are here, and we dare not even speak loudly. If the whole family comes to live here in the future, everything will depend on Cao Zhiqiang's face?
At that time, he will be more confident, and he will not take us Qinghong seriously.

It's better to go back to Shanghai, stay far away, and then Qinghong will also go to Shanghai when she goes to university.

This is also a test, a test of Xiao Cao's character.

If the two places are separated for four years, Xiao Cao can still lose his ambition for Qinghong...

I swear, if they still wanted to be together at that time, I would never stop them! "