People rely on the aid money to live in the courtyard

Chapter 295 You Can't Solve It

Yi Chuanzong had a few drinks, but the third master was still in a daze.

He wasn't in a hurry, and accompanied his wife to the Moscow Hotel this afternoon. The ceremonial atmosphere was very helpful for them to communicate.

You look at me, I look at you, the deep love is like gurgling water, nourishing the soul with ding dong ding dong, and the whole person is wrapped in each other's love from the inside to the outside, and the feeling is naturally very wonderful.

I was watching people and having a little intimate communication in secret all the time. Naturally, I didn't have time to eat, so I barely ate four or five dishes, which was a little padded.

He's not hungry yet, so he'll be nice to the third master, and communicate with his heart, so that the other side can wake up more thoroughly.

After nibbling two pieces of ribs beautifully, Yi Chuanzong wiped his mouth gracefully with toilet paper, and asked softly, "Third Master, are you alright?"

The third master lowered his head and kept shaking, and said in a depressed voice, "I really never thought that the children would treat me like this."

"Ashamed! Ashamed!"

Yi Chuanzong turned his head to look at the appearance of the third master, he raised his eyebrows slightly, he was actually just at the beginning, and it turned out to be like this now, can he still listen to what he said later?

Seeing that the third master was about to drink with the wine cup, Yi Chuanzong quickly reached out to stop him.

The third master said with a look of concern: "Pass down the lineage, let go. The third master is not the kind of person who dare not admit his mistakes. I invite you today. How can I let you drink alone? Let's toast today. Drink, never get drunk!"

After finishing speaking, the third master raised his arm to drink.

Yi Chuanzong quickly reached out to stop him, with a kind smile on his face.

This time, the third master finally heard it, and this is what it looks like, so the rest of the matter will be easy to talk about.

"Third Master, you can't drink now. This wine is indeed a good thing. It can relieve sorrow, relieve fatigue, and temporarily forget troubles."

"However, your current problem has not been solved yet. You just feel uncomfortable, and you can't think about it for a while. You spent a lot of money on this table! You must be full! If you eat at your house, you will be hungry , then I really don’t want to talk, what do you think of me?”

The third master pondered for a moment, he could only put down his wine glass, and said in a low voice: "Chuanzong, I really trouble you to explain this clearly, otherwise I will be kept in the dark. You continue to talk, this third master should listen carefully, if you have No matter how many mistakes I make, I can correct them~"

Yi Chuanzong shook his head and smiled, stretched out his hand to stroke the third master's arm and comforted him: "You can't say that, you, as an old man, didn't let them go hungry, didn't get sick, and were healthy, how big a mistake can you make? This is not possible! When you grow up properly, marry a wife and have children in a serious manner, and marry a husband and have children, isn’t it a good life?”

"It's just that their understanding is too low. They stubbornly think that you are stingy and ignore your efforts. Or are you too young and have too little experience, what do little kids know? After two years of school, you are learned? This person It’s hard to make sense inside!”

"It's poor now, and life is difficult. Didn't you starve them? Your calculations are proof of history. How difficult it will be 20 years ago! What can you do if you don't have money? It will kill people."

"Every generation has its own difficulties. We are just ordinary people. How can there be perfection? It all depends on the form, and they didn't want to understand it! I don't know why you care about it."

"We all follow the trend of the times and don't have much choice. What you have done is good enough! They just don't have your experience, and they don't understand that you are prepared for any danger. They put their own incompetence and grievances on yours. I don’t even know about the money you saved, in case something happens to them, you can get the money without saying a word.”

The third master's small eyes are staring round, yes!What could he be wrong about?

Before, he didn't expect his education for a moment, and he was educated to become like this. He felt like his wife and children were separated. The impact was too great, and he was dizzy.

Now that I think about it, that's right, none of them were hungry, where did all the shit come from, just give them a good beating, the third master wants to beat someone right now!
Yi Chuanzong saw it in his eyes. At this moment, the eyes of the third uncle are very similar to those of the second uncle. He understands this look. Isn't Lou Xiao'e like this?He has almost learned it!

"You have to think twice before you act. The second uncle's trick is very effective, and everyone uses it, but your current situation is really dangerous. If you make trouble with this one, there will be no one behind."

The third master came back to his senses, his small eyes swayed in his sockets, and he said seriously: "Chuanzong, it's my luck to have you here this time! Otherwise, I don't know when I will figure it out!"

"Oh, I'm just talking casually, and I have to thank you for the wine."

Yi Chuanzong replied with a faint smile on his face, but he didn't care about it in his heart.

I want to understand?
The third master is afraid that he can't figure it out.

Later, I may have thought about it a little bit, knowing that what I did was wrong, and I had no face to look for the children, and I also knew that it might be useless to look for it.

This calculation is also used in the right place. Picking up trash and paying for living expenses is stupid. This person is really awake.

But if you want to explain more clearly, I am afraid that it may not be the case. If you want to understand, at least you can take the children back home for the elderly.

How much hatred can a family have?We have lived together for 20 years. If we say we have no feelings, it is impossible to specify. The child of the third uncle's family is not as ruthless as Liu Guangqi, but the lock in his heart is too heavy.Who can feel comfortable being plotted against by one's own parents since childhood?
When the third master is old, if he can go over with his head down like silly Zhu and his father, explain the matter clearly, and let He Yushui rub him, the resentment in the child's heart will come out, and he will make things difficult at most.

How hard can it be for an old lady like a deaf old lady to serve a bite of food?Ignore her, the old lady can sit for a day by herself, and she will be very happy to see the child.

The third master waved his hand and said, "What is a little wine and food? It's hard to buy a thousand dollars to understand." Then thinking of the situation at home, his face darkened, and he asked, "Zhuanzong, what do you say about this kind of thing in my family? solve?"

The words sounded very convincing, not like the third master's style at all.

However, Yi Chuanzong's eyes became strange.

Just now he just looked at the third master and heard it, and his energy was almost enough, and he was afraid that the third master would not be able to listen anymore.

If this problem is not good, if you can’t think about it, and your thoughts get into a dead end, then you can’t get back.If something goes wrong, it's a big deal.

In this case, he returned a wave of blood to the other side and took away some mistakes. As a result, he found that the third master seemed to be too open about this matter, and he felt no pressure, which was not conducive to the subsequent solution.

"It's a bit too early for you to talk about the solution now? We haven't straightened it out yet. If you don't listen to what you say later, you can solve it. If you can't solve it, don't talk about it. Are you good at talking about feelings?"

The third master was taken aback for a single scene. He is really not good at talking about feelings. Now he thinks he is kind, but this is not planting the disaster. If he is old, he will not sell regret medicine.

"Any other questions?"

Yi Chuanzong lowered his eyelids slightly, and said calmly: "Third Master, just now we finished talking about those who have no money in their hands, let's talk about those who have money in their hands now!"

The third master was taken aback for a moment, and said directly: "They don't have any money in their hands!" After he finished speaking, he looked a little hesitant, and said, "Maybe a little bit, so it means that they have more money in their hands."

Yi Chuanzong couldn't help but put his hands on his forehead. This sentence categorically said that they had no money in their hands, which really made people feel distressed.

It might be a little bit, I'm afraid it was deducted from the calculation of the third master, they probably don't have many friends at school, right?

The three children were calculating, but they were not as slippery as Yan Jiecheng, and they couldn't make sense like the third master.

These three children are afraid that they have no friends since they were young, and their hands and hearts are very difficult.

"That's what I just said about you giving them four cents. Just now I just talked about the unfair distribution. Now let me tell you what they think."

"I don't need to think about the fair thing. It's just that the children are not the same height, and the money spent is not the same. Coupled with the perception of age, Yan Jiecheng is now working on his own. They must be different. Might think it fair..."

"It was a good thing for you to spend money on buying things for them, but your financial conditions are not that easy. After all, you can't let them eat all at once. Even if their stomachs are full, their eyes may not be full. If they care about who is more and who is less, It’s uncomfortable to specify in my heart, but it means that you spent money and didn’t buy it in the end.”

The third master's face is very tangled, and now he also admits that there are indeed some relatively big problems in his education, "How do you think this problem will be solved?"

Yi Chuanzong widened his eyes and said, "How do you solve this? You can't solve it."

The third master also widened his eyes and said, "Can't solve it?"

Yi Chuanzong spread his hands and said, "Yes, there is no way to solve it. This is human nature. How do you solve it?"

The third master hesitated for a while and didn't know what to say, "This... this... the lineage, didn't you say you want to straighten it out? Why can't this be solved?"

Yi Chuanzong shrugged and said: "You really can't solve it. You should know that Kong Rong let Li, right? Then when he grows up, he will be recorded as a corrupt official who is selfish, unfaithful and unfilial."

"Who doesn't want more? Who doesn't benefit from being idle? Kong Rong gave pears, as long as he wanted to eat, unless he knew that after he gave up, his father would give him better ones, so he gave pears! Otherwise, it's good If he refuses to eat a pear, is he sick?"

The third master was stunned for a while, he was still thinking about how to be fair, how to appease the children's emotions, and tell them the truth of humility, but they told him that humility is just another conspiracy?

Yi Chuanzong said with a tangled expression: "Third Master, aren't you still thinking about cultivating their noble qualities?"

"It's easy to talk about it, but the reason why being noble is respected is that human nature is selfish, and it is not easy for him to accomplish it! If you can do it, what is noble? You can only be called noble if you are truly admired." .”

"You ask Yan Jiecheng to give Yan Jiefang five yuan to try! He specifically asked you if you were crazy, saying that you were partial! Even if you gave Yan Jiefang five yuan for free, Yan Jiecheng would have to hate him. The one who paid for it! Maybe what you give is his! My younger siblings are also jealous, and I blame you for not giving them."

The third master's face changed for a while, Yan Jiecheng asked him to give his younger brother five dollars a month as pocket money, unless he could give five dollars a dollar.

Yi Chuanzong continued: "I said, Third Master, you are still on the edge of your head. You don't need to solve this matter at all! You have raised them and taught them knowledge. Later, you should also teach them life experience and social life experience."

"The things are given by you, and you can let them divide them themselves. What are you going to do? The easiest thing for you to do is to arrange them to work. Whoever does more, whoever gets more, is not willing to do it, so sorry ,No!"

"Just thinking about the benefits, everything is so easy to get, but you have earned it through hard work, and you can serve them for a lifetime? If you don't pay, just think about harvesting, pie in the sky?"

The third master was taken aback on the spot.

It suddenly dawned on me.

The things are his, and what he gives is to hurt these boys.

What did he do to meddle in these kids' fights.

"Don't meddle with it. They will divide it themselves. Whoever says it is more reasonable will take it. Let them negotiate on their own. They have to learn! Guarantee their own interests to a certain extent, maybe this time you will take it. Next time I will take it, I will give you a big one, and I will take two small ones. If you fight at home, you will have to fight in the future."

"It's the same as we work for the public. I am a seventh-level fitter. My salary is high. Others are not as capable as me. The appointment is because the salary is less. It is more and more difficult for each level. The increase is also slightly higher. What the public can do It is to plan contributions to a certain extent, stipulate the amount of wages, reduce wealth differences, and make society more stable and harmonious.”

"The same is what you can do. They are all brothers and sisters, and they can't eat people. You can just sit on the table and drink tea leisurely. At most, you can mention a few words when their conflict is about to escalate. The two brothers Hard-knocking, there is really no other way, you can give a suggestion in the form of inquiry, let the two brothers choose whether to do this or not."

"Unless both of you don't want it anymore. If you don't want it, you don't want it. You don't have to worry about it. There are other children, he always wants someone. The two brothers don't want to give it to others. When they get angry, the two of them will Once softened, there will be a division after discussion, this is called rules!"

After finishing speaking, Yi Chuanzong also frowned, "Actually, it's easy to deal with this matter, but it's very difficult to tell the children why. We are also surprised, and I have thought about it for a long time."

"Take Yan Jiecheng and Yan Jiefang as an example. They grab a cherry. If you tell them, 'Give it to the boss this time. The boss is the eldest son of the family. You give the boss face, and he will help you in the future.'" Yan Jiecheng was happy, and he couldn't remember to help his brother at all. On the contrary, Yan Jiecheng was thinking about it, to give his brother face, so that his brother can help him in the future."

"But if you say, 'I gave it to the boss last time, let's give it to the second child this time. The second child is the younger brother, and the older brother should be magnanimous. You should give in to the younger brother." When the rumors fell on his ears, he also tacitly agreed to be fair. Yan Jiefang was happy, and he was also thinking about it in his heart, the elder brother should let the younger brother."

While talking, Yi Chuanzong got a headache, and he didn't know what kind of temperament Lou Xiaoe gave birth to.

But since they are two sons, they will inevitably pinch each other in the future.

It is easy for him to deal with the conflict between the two brothers, just catch the two boys and beat them up.

But how to educate them, how to teach them some principles, how to make the two brothers reconcile is difficult.

He has no experience!

In fact, what he hopes most is that the sons born are all idiots, and they don't take it to heart when they suffer a little bit in a daze. How easy is life then?

Don't be too smart.

Why are you so smart?How much do you want to do?How promising can you be?
How much face can you fight for him?

When he gets old, the capable son can't see anyone, but the honest child is by his side, so he can have a good time here.

The main reason is that the child's mother is happy, and he prefers his daughter-in-law to his son.

I thought about it when I had no children, but it was an accident when I had one.

(End of this chapter)