I am a super cop

It was also after a bickering that the restaurant returned to normal again.

It was almost 2 o'clock at the moment.

Originally, everyone just wanted to have lunch in a place near the Municipal Public Security Bureau in Haidong City, but an unexpected incident here made everyone a little uneasy.

More specifically, sympathy for what happened to this young woman.

Officer Wang took a sip of water, and said involuntarily, "Sister, why don't we break up? If your boyfriend can't bear the pressure from his parents, no matter how you try to save him, it will be useless."

"In my opinion, instead of this, it's better to be divided."

"But, I have been with Ah Hao for several years." The young woman was also a little reluctant.

Lu Weiwei frowned slightly, and said slowly: "Although saying such things will hurt you a lot, but according to my sister's persuasion, the chances of the two of you being together are very small."

"I know, I know that you are good to me, I will think about it myself, thank you."

The young woman seemed to have great grievances. Before, it was the middle-aged woman who scolded her, but now it is everyone's persuasion.

Although everyone is telling the truth, how can there be any reason to break up the four-year relationship?
The young woman took a sip of water, then stood up, and bowed to everyone: "Thank you everyone for standing up for me, thank you, I need to deal with the future by myself, I will make an appointment with Ah Hao and tell him clear."

"This is the best." Yuan Shasha nodded slightly, and said with relief.

The young woman also thanked again and said: "Then I will leave first, and I am really sorry to delay your meal here."

"It's okay, think about everything for yourself." Lu Weiwei said.

"Yes." The young woman nodded silently, and then said: "Then I will go first, and we will meet later."

"There will be a period later."

Everyone was also in the restaurant, chatting briefly, and the young woman left the restaurant and disappeared around the corner.

It was only after watching the young woman leave that everyone breathed a sigh of relief, as if the tense atmosphere just now hadn't dissipated yet.

"That middle-aged woman is simply too much." Lu Weiwei picked up a glass of drink on the table and immediately drank it down. She also said angrily:
"Who are you talking about? There are still people who discriminate against single-parent families these days. If there is a choice, can they become children of single-parent families?"

"Lu Weiwei, don't be angry, you can't do it because of this kind of person." Officer Wang took a sip of water from his water glass as he spoke.

Yuan Shasha said calmly, "In my opinion, it's that Ah Hao is too useless, and that's why that young girl was wronged."

"Otherwise, his Ahao's mother would not invite her to the restaurant to discuss."

After thinking about it, Yuan Shasha immediately changed her tune: "No, this is not a discussion, it is simply a warning."

"In my opinion, if this Ah Hao misses this girl, I think he will regret it."

"Isn't it?" Officer Wang picked up his chopsticks, put a few pieces of fried beef on the plate and put them in his mouth. After chewing slowly, he said slowly:

"If that Ah Hao listened to his mother's words and missed this girl, I think he will regret it for the rest of his life."

"Sometimes, he may feel that what he misses is a person, but in fact, what he may miss is another life."

Putting down the chopsticks, with a faint sigh, Police Officer Wang said again: "Sometimes we always believe that if the girl we love does not marry us, she will not be happy in this life."

"It may not be until a long time later that I have to admit that she can be very happy marrying another boy."

"That's right, what Old Wang said is reasonable." Seeing that Police Officer Wang would feel the same way, Lu Weiwei said flatly:
"Actually, she doesn't marry you because you are unhappy. She can live happily ever after marrying anyone."

"The so-called fate is ice, if you hold it tightly in your arms, the ice will melt."

"Gradually, I will realize that the fate is gone, and it is time to say goodbye."

"But these are not the problems of the original family. It is the importance of our unsatisfied, and the sense of submission that accompanies us all our lives."

Looking at the people coming and going at the door of the restaurant, Lu Weiwei said again:

"It seems that after that little girl has experienced this turmoil, she is now the beginning of her life, and no one restrains her."

"If she still has some savings and her parents are still healthy, then she can do whatever she wants, eat whatever she wants, and nothing threatens her growing self."

"She can do anything, or not do anything, because the comfort even makes time go faster."

"Living to the fullest, maybe even life becomes more and more like a wilderness. This is the ideal 18-year-old."

Seeing that Lu Weiwei seemed to put herself into the young woman's body, I felt various emotions here.

The proprietress who was cleaning the dining table at the side couldn't help laughing when she heard this.

Yuan Shasha found her, and said with a smile, "Madam Boss, aren't we right?"

"Yes, what you said is correct." The proprietress is a fat middle-aged woman, and she has been paying attention to the conversation between Gu Chen and the couple just now.

Since it's already past the meal time, and there are only Gu Chen and the others left in the restaurant, she wipes her hands with the towel on the dining table, holds a cup of tea, and takes the initiative to walk among the crowd:
"I also heard what the middle-aged woman said just now. It's really too much."

"Isn't it?" Seeing that the proprietress also agrees with this, Police Officer Wang couldn't help but echoed, "It's that kind of stupid at first glance."

"Haha." Shaking her head, the proprietress also smiled and said:
"I don't know if it's brainless or not, but I know very well that that man named Ahao is really not good."

"Now, a lot of mommy boys are really terrible, and they obey their parents in everything. I'm afraid that the man named Ahao will listen to those fucking words and choose to break up with this little girl."

"You said, if this is the case, what should we do?"

"If a girl gets this kind of result, what if she can't think about it? After all, because of emotional problems, I have encountered two incidents of jumping off a building in the end this year alone. They either jumped off a building or jumped into a river."

"Then what happened afterwards?" Gu Chen hurriedly asked after hearing the words.

The chubby proprietress grinned: "The problem was solved by the fire rescue later, and I persuaded it for a long time."

"It was a boy who was going to jump off the building, and a girl was going to jump into the river. Both were emotionally hurt and lost control of their emotions."

"If, I mean if, if the girl just now loved that boy very much."

"Then if the boy chooses not to stand on her side, I think the girl might be disheartened and very likely to do something stupid like jumping off a building to commit suicide."

Sipping a sip of tea, the fat proprietress also shook her head helplessly: "I'm afraid that this kind of thing will come up."

"Maybe he just graduated, and he takes his feelings too seriously." Lu Weiwei said involuntarily as she lay on the seat:

"That little girl is in a single-parent family, and from her conversation with her boyfriend's mother, it can be known that her father is a gambler."

Shaking her head, Lu Weiwei also sighed helplessly: "It's really pitiful to meet this kind of family."

"But it's not her fault. She may have a stronger mental capacity because of her family since she was a child."

"But this kind of person often lacks a sense of security. If she encounters a relationship that can bring her a sense of security, she will desperately want to catch it."

"But even this boyfriend who can bring a sense of security chooses to betray her and abandon her at this time, so maybe she is really desperate?"

"So." As soon as Lu Weiwei finished speaking, the fat proprietress also slapped the table and said involuntarily:
"So at this age, it is best not to touch marriage. This is one of the few life-changing decisions in this life."

"Don't touch marriage?" Officer Wang was also quite interested when he heard it: "It's not that serious, is it?"

"Tsk!" Seeing Police Officer Wang retorting to herself, the fat proprietress shrank back, and couldn't help but uttered a "tsk" retort:

"Why not serious? Like the young girl just now, she is the most unsuitable for marriage now."

"It's more deadly than screwing up anything."

"For her, this marriage is not only extremely expensive to try and make mistakes, but also irreversible. There is no age for marriage, so don't follow the crowd."

"Hmm." Gu Chen could understand the fat proprietress' explanation.

So she nodded slightly, and echoed, "The proprietress means that the girl's current state is not suitable for getting married right away, she needs to take it easy."

After snapping her fingers, the fat proprietress also shook her right index finger at Gu Chen: "This handsome guy is right, that's what I mean."

"Anyway, there are only the minds that should be married, and the feelings that should be married."

"The so-called mature mind is the necessary prerequisite for entering into marriage. Without this prerequisite, it is difficult to control the situation of marriage."

"Let's get married. You don't choose a person, but a relationship. This is the first reality that you must clearly understand."

Putting down the teacup, the fat proprietress also raised her fingers and said with gestures:
"This low-level marriage, in the final analysis, is to continue the incense, and the middle-level marriage is to seek synergy."

"What about high-end marriage?" Yuan Shasha was also very focused when she heard what the fat proprietress said, and asked again immediately.

The fat proprietress smiled: "As for this high-end marriage, it is to choose comrades-in-arms."

"Pfft! Choose a comrade-in-arms? Why did you choose a comrade-in-arms?" Lu Weiwei felt a little overwhelmed when she heard this explanation.

The fat proprietress didn't mind, she just smiled and continued to explain:

"Why don't you choose your comrades-in-arms? You can move forward only when you are in good faith. No matter what kind of relationship you choose? You can't do without a premise."

"That is the prerequisite for managing any relationship well, and it must be a win-win situation."

"It's just that the marriage relationship has been put on the coat of love, causing many people to see the coat but not the inside."

"As for the coat of love, if you wear it for a long time, it will definitely wear out and become desensitized. This is all a genetic decision, not a problem with your marriage. Genes use love to trick you into marriage for the sake of reproduction."

"But once the mission is accomplished, the feeling of love will go away."

"And when the love recedes and the marriage is only a cooperative relationship, it means that there will be no hormonal invasion, and the basic rationality will be restored."

Seeing that everyone was listening with gusto, the fat proprietress immediately got excited and continued to explain:

"The two parties after regaining their rationality, as long as they have no problem with their heads, they will definitely weigh the pros and cons."

"The focus will be on practicality, and rotten marriages start with unequal relationships."

"When one of the parties doesn't see the value in the other, it starts to find fault."

"To put it bluntly, the one who gets picked on will either be wronged or fight back. It's okay to bring up the inequity, but there will be problems in the long run."

With a faint sigh, the proprietress also continued: "So, if you ask me, it's more reliable to marry later."

"The greatest significance of this late marriage is reflected here, so that you have enough time to accumulate value and confidence."

"The premise of this equal cooperation must be equal strength. Don't try to pay a low price to gain high returns."

Looking around, the proprietress continued: "Also, in order to prevent him from misjudging you, you must be sober enough."

"Especially for women, if you take care of your baby at home, you are sacrificing yourself to fulfill your husband."

"The opportunity cost and the willingness cost are all there. Don't let your significant other only measure you by the value of having a baby."

"And to find the other half, you need to find someone with the same frequency. This is the meaning. Everyone can be harmonious but different, and they can be independent."

"However, there should not be too much difference in the consideration of value. This is the premise of mutual understanding and tolerance."

"Look at the background of marriage, and how to find yourself before marriage, and then talk about how to find your partner and reduce the error rate."

"Marriage is a long-term relationship with a signed contract, and long-term relationships have to look at problems from a developmental perspective."

"The meaning is to pay attention to each other, the attributes that are constant rather than variable, personality and native family, life attitude and education, all these things have very stable attributes."

"After marriage, there is a high probability that it will not change, and it will not reverse the path."

"However, whether it is good for you or not is a matter of behavior and will, which will change due to motivation and is not stable."

"So don't get too over the top, just make proper reference."

"The so-called finding a mature person is to improve stability."

After a pause, the fat proprietress said again:
"The second is to focus on what you need, not what the other party has. The other party's career and ambition, no matter what attracts you."

"If you want to live a Buddhist life, you shouldn't get in the way. The two parties whose needs don't match will never be able to walk together in the long run."

"Thirdly, while paying attention to the long board, pay more attention to the short board. You will gradually get used to the long board and gradually make it a standard accessory. All the trivial things after marriage and all the shortcomings of the parents come from the short board that you can't bear for a long time. "

"And people who have little contact with the opposite sex are more prone to wishful thinking."

Listening to the fat proprietress talking endlessly, Lu Weiwei was also taken aback for a while, but couldn't help but interrupted:
"Miss Boss, what did you do before you opened the restaurant? Why do you know so much about these things?"

"A marriage agency." The proprietress said with a smile.

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