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Chapter 1252 Sorry I fell in love with another girl, when she was like you.

The score of "Warmth Containing Light" on the popular film review website is not particularly high, and it has not reached the height of nine points, but there are many people who leave comments.

"I thought it was a sweet love story, but I didn't expect it to be about breaking up. Fortunately, I was relieved in the end. Since we are in love, even if the other party has many shortcomings, we can tolerate it and change for the other party."

"A person who is used to your existence will not be used to your non-existence! The movie is not about a love story, but a love philosophy, which can be said to be suitable for each of us to substitute into it. We often complain that the things we have are not good enough. , However, when you lose something you already "own", you will cherish it very much, even to the point of turning a blind eye to what is left after the loss."

"Even if the memory is deleted, two people who love each other will still love each other, but what makes people uncomfortable is that even if they love each other, they will still be separated due to similar reasons in the future!"

"Many times, what is lacking between men and women is tolerance. There is no perfect pair. The people who can go to the end are just mutual tolerance and forgiveness, change and restraint."

"Watching a movie with my girlfriend, we just passed the love period, and we had a fight recently, it can be regarded as a break-in period, we sat in the cinema watching this movie, and suddenly we"

"It's not good to look at the whole person, and I always think about whether I and my girlfriend will have that kind of day?"

"Upstairs, I feel the same way. After watching it with my girlfriend last night, she started to become sentimental, worried that we will have the same day, depressed to death!"

"There is a feeling that makes me feel the same, the same personality differences, the same conflicts and quarrels, would you like me to do it again? My answer is yes."

"This movie is so simple, but it digs deep enough into the loneliness of modern people. In the "Wangqing Clinic" that helps people delete painful memories, the staff laughs wildly and is also very numb. Everything is maintained well, even the pain The proportion of happy memories is adjusted to be very correct, and the doctors and staff who live so correctly are paler than loneliness, and they don’t know what they are missing, and they have completed a kind of emptiness.”

"No matter how many sweet memories two people have together, they can't overcome the irreconcilable contradictions found when they separate rationally. Maybe you will fall in love with this person again, but this person is still the wrong person, even if you lie down Looking at the stars together is just meaningless repetition.

So breakup folks, it's time to find a new partner! "

"This movie tells us not to hang on a tree, because even if you don't die once, you will die the second time, so it is better to find more trees!"

"This interpretation is amazing!"

"If one day, the memory between us is deleted, will you still love me as before, as if we never hurt each other?"

Romance films like "Warmth and Light" can be said to make many people feel unbelievable. In the past, romance films could be said to be exclusive to female audiences. Many male audiences, if they watch romance films, most of the time, it is because of their girlfriends. Relationship.

But this time is different, because "Warmth Contains Light" is too different from past romance films.

In terms of film critics, in the past, female film critics preferred romance films, but this time, many male film critics also favored this film.

Zhou Qingquan, the editor-in-chief of "Film Weekly", wrote a review for this movie.

"In the past, romance films had already selected an audience group at the beginning of filming, that is, female audiences, but this time, "Warmth and Light" is, in my opinion, the real way to open a romance film.

It can be said that this is a movie suitable for couples who have entered the running-in period to sit together quietly and watch each other hug and say sorry!
If we can't stand each other, the first things that come to mind are those negative feelings about each other, and the one who hurts you the most is often the person who loves you the most.If we have the opportunity to forget all the memories about him, the easiest thing to forget is those conflicts and contradictions, mutual hurt and embarrassment, and bad words in anger.

In "Warmth Contains Light", the male and female protagonists tell each other what they have buried in their hearts for a long time. If a stranger evaluates you like this, it may not feel too much, but when the person you once loved the most, you become When you become the person who dislikes you the most, those words will stab your heart.

Romantic encounters, wonderful mutual attraction, dopamine rushing into the brain, heartbeat speeding up, after confirming the love, and then getting rid of many scruples, connecting the relationship bridge between the two isolated islands, the freshness at the beginning will be overwhelmed by the real Trivia wears off
Chen Qiao and Jiang Tingting had many romantic encounters like couples. On the seaside in the middle of winter, the silent Chen Qiao was attracted by Jiang Tingting who was walking alone on the beach. The orange coat and green hair were so eye-catching on the clear beach. It's not ridiculous, that kind of vibrant sense of contradiction is something that the taciturn and quiet Chen Qiao doesn't have.

Similarly, such Chen Qiao also attracted Jiang Tingting. They went through the routines that many couples have gone through.

She is just a pessimist who wants to pursue inner peace, even though she looks weird and deviant.

He was gentle and kind, even cowardly, but to her, he seemed to represent the peace she had always longed for.

Let's put Chen Qiao's amnestic deletion process in perspective. The conflict between the two originated from their differences in the definition of intimacy.

Chen Qiao didn't want to reveal herself to Jiang Tingting, she told him everything about herself, and in his eyes, nagging didn't mean love, but he loved her because of her fragility when she revealed herself, and When it comes to himself, compared to her, he is more willing to reveal himself to the diary. I don't mean to criticize Chen Qiao. In fact, most of us are people like Chen Qiao.

For men like the man represented by Chen Qiao, taking the initiative to ask others to say something is an interruption. I cannot guarantee that when you are looking for you, your state is suitable for listening to me, and then continue to chat with me. The party who takes the initiative to contact It must be the one who confides in the beginning, there is no doubt about it.

Most of the time, I can confide in you after listening to your confession, but I will never take the initiative to confide in it. In the eyes of such people, voluntary confiding will appear too fragile and deliberate, so Chen Qiao chooses not to speak, because he is sure that the two There is a connection between people, even Chen Qiao always has doubts about Jiang Tingting, he loves Jiang Tingting who is completely different from him.

But he also suspects her because of this, he can only restrict her to act in his boring and boring life track through the growing desire for control, the desire for control is just a kind of mental abuse in the name of love, love must be exclusive, One of the dependencies of exclusiveness is selfishness, which cannot be overcome.

Also because of such doubts, Chen Qiao did not dare to promise the future with Jiang Tingting, because he did not believe that she would become a good mother. This kind of distrust planted hidden dangers for this relationship from the very beginning.

After the relationship entered a stable period, Chen Qiao began to complain from the bottom of her heart that the relationship between the two of them was like many sad couples in restaurants, who only ate and didn't talk on dates, but this situation was not caused by Jiang Tingting, it was the two of them who had to face it Case

How to keep love when the novelty is gone?
This is also a question that people must go through in a love relationship.

This process of keeping is accompanied by jealousy, jealousy, self-doubt, and self-disclosure.

When Chen Qiao reached the beautiful memories of the two during the deletion process, she began to take Jiang Tingting in her memory to escape into the memory space that he had never shown her.It was so beautiful there, and he never mentioned it to her.

The assistant at the amnestic clinic fell in love with Jiang Tingting at first sight. After her memory was erased, the dove occupied the magpie's nest and used her memory materials to get close to her, but even after copying and imitating all the memory points, the feeling still could not be reproduced.

When she meets Chen Qiao again after her memory is deleted, she will start again without hesitation.

In fact, there are not many fixed routines and traces that can be used repeatedly in the relationship between men and women. First of all, the clumsy tricks that can be seen through at a glance are themselves things that are not conducive to the development of the relationship. Being used is a kind of meaningless repetitive labor. Both parties instinctively go to the next step without thinking, which saves time but is boring.

The sensory experience of love should not be homogenized and nailed to the tombstone of fantasy with some stereotyped adjectives.

Words and language are probably the greatest inventions of human beings. Apart from the complicated summary of their meanings in history books, we can use words to express our inner real feelings or feelings that have been distorted by reason as much as possible, so that we can express our own sense of self-awareness. Meng Hua has a deeper memory, which also aggravates the traces left by the other party in his self-consciousness.

Sometimes I also feel that the so-called love is nothing but the secretion of adrenaline, which then turns into psychological dependence, but this adrenaline cannot be brought by anyone.

At the end, Jiang Tingting and Chen Qiao listened to each other's last recordings, like a public execution. They just met, but someone told you that you will have conflicts and quarrels. Will you continue to go on at this time?

Fortunately, in the end they were brave enough and desperate enough to return to each other after going through hardships.

I believe that if there is another day when the two quarrel, they will also remember the way they first met, and throw themselves into each other's arms without thinking about themselves. At that time, they both had light on them, attracting each other.

But this is always just a fairy-tale ending of a possibility that the movie gives us.

If the two can tolerate each other, then they won't reach that point. Therefore, this ending is always a deception for the audience.

Many people who are very moved by this film will definitely think of their past when they see this story. However, in fact, when we are entangled in whether we can let go or not, we will always forget one thing, why not let ourselves accept this The results of it?Worrying about gains and losses, we are entangled in whether we want to completely delete a person from our minds, but we forget that even if this person does not have an emotional spark with us, he is still a normal person, a person who has appeared in your life.Since it has appeared, why not keep it?

Going back to the movie itself, in order to forget each other and let the other party get out of their lives completely, they chose the most extreme method-delete memory!
And no matter what, even if any memory about each other is emptied, they can always bypass all detours, get to know each other, fall in love with each other, and make a vow of eternal love.

However, everything seems to be doomed, he is boring, sensitive, rigid, and suspicious, while she is impulsive, indulgent, naive, and girlish.

Even if these shortcomings were not leaked in advance due to the recording, they would still end up like this one day.

She can't stand his control and dullness, and he can't stand her indulgence and impulsiveness.

Regarding the ending of the movie, some people feel that whether I have amnesia or not, I should fall in love with you or I will fall in love with you. This praises the great love.

In fact, the film portrays the client as a bystander, examining every relationship between him and her, and witnessing the experiences leading to failure.Paraphrasing to the audience, forgetting really doesn't solve anything.

When a relationship comes to an end, both parties forget the initial liking, and finally choose to forget the pain and quarrel as a last resort.When everything returns to zero, it still cannot change the direction of development, it can only go round and round.

After experiencing three forgettings in the movie, you have the opportunity to face the conflict calmly, and finally break out of the vicious cycle.

Will the reality be so lucky?

Wrong again and again. But I can only let it go on like this, because fate dictates it, and character dictates it.

Delete that part of the memory, starting from the most recent memory until the time when we just met.

The irony is that when I deleted the first time, I began to feel sad and began to recall the good times at the beginning.

In fact, it is just telling us that in the face of time, we will always be defeated.

I can't help but think of the popular poem: If life is just like seeing it at first, what is the autumn wind and the sad painting fan?

Yes, couples in love always hope to go back to the beginning, because at that time, they only see the best side of each other, and what they show each other is also the side that attracts each other the most.

But life is very long, it is impossible to stop at first sight.

In the long-distance race of love, how many people can live together forever?
But in fact, even if it is done, it is only because you have turned love into a habit. It cannot be said that it is not good, but the original feeling is already only in memory. When the romance and excitement are gone, when you put I have explored everything about the other party clearly, but found that it would be better if I didn't know him, the love is actually gone long ago.

In fact, the real world in the movie just gives us an "if", discussing certain inevitable and accidental factors in meeting and falling in love.

And in the later part of the dream: the memories played backwards, let us be moved in the warm memories without falling into thinking, what makes the feeling of being in love disappear?When did it disappear again? "

(End of this chapter)